The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Doctor Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Hosted by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, a physician turned intimacy coach, this podcast provides practical advice for couples hoping to deepen connection and passion in their marriages. Each episode explores emotional and sexual intimacy, communication, and the everyday habits that foster a nourishing relationship. Stockwell draws on over two decades of experience to help listeners become more authentic and present with their partners. The show aims to transform routine relationships into satisfying, juicy partnerships.
Episodes
303. How to have Better Orgasms with your Husband
Having stronger, more satisfying orgasms has nothing to do with your age. It’s about understanding your body, your relationship, and what actually works for you now.In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD answers a question from a woman who wants to know how to teach her husband to create the kind of intimacy and orgasms she experienced when she was younger. Her answer goes far beyond what happen
302. What If You Could Have the Best Sex of Your Life at Any Age? | with Dr. Debra Durst
What happens when we stop treating sexual health as something separate from overall health? For many women, sexual vitality, sensation, arousal, and pleasure gradually change with age, yet these experiences rarely receive the attention they deserve in conventional medicine.In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD sits down with Dr. Debra Durst, known as “The SexMD,” to explore the fourth element o
301. The Art of Non-Sexual Physical Touch, and how good it feels
When couples feel disconnected sexually, they often focus on sex itself. But one of the most powerful ways to rebuild closeness is found in a different kind of intimacy: non-sexual physical touch.In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores how intentional physical affection creates safety, connection, and attunement between partners. From holding hands and cuddling to giving a massage or sim
300. What does it take to break generational patterns? | with Rodd Stockwell, MD
None of us gets to choose the family we were raised in. But we do get to decide which patterns we carry forward and which ones end with us.In this special 300th episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD sits down with her husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, for an unusually personal conversation about fatherhood, family, and the choices that shaped their marriage and their childre
299. The most important change begins with you (and how to get started) | with Becky Aste
When you're struggling in your marriage, it's natural to focus on what your partner needs to change. But what happens when you turn your attention inward and begin creating more safety and connection within yourself?In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell, MD welcomes trauma-informed marriage coach and somatic practitioner Becky Aste, who shares the story of taking her own marriage from
298. When you try to fix things but it makes them worse
When something goes wrong, we frequently respond with wanting to do something about it. Fix the problem. Find the solution. Make everything better. And while that can be a wonderful quality, sometimes our urge to fix is actually a way of escaping discomfort.In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores the surprising connection between feeling stressed and our tendency to fix. She explains how
297. The Simple Habit That Keeps Intimacy Alive
This episode isn't really about kissing—it's about the small, repeated moments of connection that create the culture of a marriage. Small moments of connection can have a surprisingly powerful impact on the quality of a marriage. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores the research behind kissing your spouse before leaving for work and reveals why
296. Pleasure Is Part Of Healing, Not The Reward For It | with Dr. Kimberly Pendleton
Many people believe they need to completely heal before they can experience deep intimacy, joy, or desire. But what if waiting until you're "fixed" keeps you from the very experiences that help you heal?In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell, MD welcomes intimacy coach and trauma-informed educator Dr. Kimberly Pendleton for a compassionate discussion about the relationship between
295. What if your best sex is yet to come?
Many of us assume that passion naturally fades with time and that the most exciting years of our sex lives are behind us. But what if that's simply a story we've been told? What if intimacy, pleasure, and desire can continue to grow throughout your marriage?In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell challenges the belief that long-term relationships inevitably become predictable in the bedroom.
294. The strongest move in your marriage is going first | with Dr. Corey Allan
When something feels off in your relationship, it's natural to hope your partner will be the one to change first. But waiting often keeps couples stuck in the same painful patterns. Real transformation begins when someone has the courage to take the first step.In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell sits down with marriage therapist and host of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey Allan, to explore wh
293. Turning Her On: What if better sex starts long before the bedroom?
Many couples believe the key to a more satisfying sex life is finding the right technique or creating the perfect mood. But often, the most meaningful intimacy begins with something much simpler: feeling deeply seen, understood, and emotionally connected.In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell responds to a thoughtful listener's question about maintaining intimacy after nearly five decades of mar
292. Can conflict actually bring you closer? | with Devon & Nico Hase
Most of us grow up believing that healthy relationships have very little conflict. But what if the goal isn't avoiding conflict at all? What if the real opportunity lies in how we repair, reconnect, and grow together afterward?In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell is joined by meditation teachers and authors Devon and Nico Hase to explore the beautiful, messy reality of long-term partnersh
291. Do you have enough fun in your marriage?
When we think about creating a more intimate marriage, it's easy to focus on communication, conflict, or even sex. But what if one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your relationship is also one of the simplest?In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell explores what she calls our modern-day "fun recession" and why so many couples have unintentionally stopped prioritizing joy togethe
290. What to Do When Your Partner Won't Do the Work
When you’re the only one invested in improving your marriage, it’s easy to feel lonely, frustrated, and discouraged. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell responds to a listener’s heartfelt question about what happens when one partner is eager to grow while the other seems resistant. She explores the “teenager attitude” that can emerge in relationships, explains
289. How to Reignite Desire After Having Children | with Cordelia Kent
When children become the center of family life, it's easy for intimacy to fade into the background. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Cordelia Kent share a heartfelt conversation about how to reignite desire, deepen emotional connection, and return to one another as loving partners. About Cordelia KentCordelia Kent writes evocative love stories where
288. Marriage Communication That Builds Intimacy | Text Like Lovers, Not Roommates
Marriage communication is shaped by the small moments you create every day, including the texts you send. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares simple, heartfelt ways to bring more playfulness, intimacy, and authentic relationship communication into your messages so you can nurture a marriage that feels warm, connected, and fully alive.Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
287. How Small Moments Build Extraordinary Marriages | 30 Years of Choosing Intimacy
Intimacy in marriage is not something you find. It's something you create through everyday moments of connection, vulnerability, and care. In this live talk, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares the simple yet powerful practice of choosing emotional intimacy, deepening communication, and creating a passionate, fulfilling relationship that grows stronger with time. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage
286. The Male Loneliness Epidemic: What It Means for Relationships and Connection | Sean Harvey
Male loneliness affects more than just men. Join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Sean Harvey for a compassionate conversation about why so many men struggle with loneliness, disconnection, and belonging, and how a deeper understanding of men's inner lives strengthens intimacy, communication, and connection in your relationship.About Sean HarveySean Harvey is a men's engagement strategist and f
285. Why Most Couples Never Reach Their Sexual Potential
Most couples are accessing only a small fraction of what is possible in their sexual intimacy. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the difference between impact-oriented sex and sensually authentic sex, and why understanding that distinction deepens sexual intimacy, awakens erotic vitality, and creates a more nourishing and fulfilling experience of ma
284. The Important Investment You Should Make in Your Marriage
Marriage retreats offer couples the chance to slow down, step away from the responsibilities of daily life, and reconnect in ways that feel deeply nourishing and alive. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how intentional time together deepens emotional intimacy, rekindles passion, strengthens communication, and helps you and your spouse feel more connected, playful, and inspired in you
288. Marriage Communication That Builds Intimacy | Text Like Lovers, Not Roommates
Marriage communication is shaped by the small moments you create every day, including the texts you send. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares simple, heartfelt ways to bring more playfulness, intimacy, and authentic relationship communication into your messages so you can nurture a marriage that feels warm, connected, and fully alive.
283. How Women Can Ask for What They Want in Marriage and Sex | with Kevin Anthony
Marriage and sex flourish when you feel safe expressing what you truly want and need with the person you love. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Certified Sexologist Kevin Anthony explore how honest communication deepens emotional intimacy, reduces resentment, and creates more connection, understanding and pleasure in your marriage, in and out of the bed
282. How To Rekindle Desire
Female desire is not selfish, irrational, or something to push aside. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell invites you to reconnect with your desires so you can experience deeper intimacy, more emotional connection, and a more nourishing relationship with both yourself and your partner.Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:Apple Podcast | Yo
281. Inside a BDSM Marriage Part 2: When Submission Felt More Healing Than Staying in Control
In Part 2 of this intimate two-part conversation, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and her special guest focus on the relational impact of BDSM marriage dynamics. They discuss sexual aftercare, trauma healing, mindfulness, and the connection between surrender, trust, and personal transformation. They describe how conscious submission reshaped her relationship, emotional wellbeing, and capacity for intimacy
281. Inside a BDSM Marriage Part 1: Why High-Achieving Women Crave Surrender in Relationships
BDSM marriage dynamics open unexpected pathways to trust, emotional intimacy, surrender, and deeper connection. In Part 1 of this thoughtful, intimate, two-part conversation, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and her special guest explore feminine surrender, power dynamics, conscious BDSM, and how learning to let go of control transformed her marriage, informed her healing journey, and expanded her relation
280. The Truth About Intimacy: What Most Couples Get Wrong
Intimacy is often misunderstood, a misunderstanding which quietly limits the depth of connection available in your relationship. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and honest communication create the kind of connection that makes love and sex feel deeply fulfilling and alive.Dr. Alexandra’s book Uncompromising Intimacy offers practical ways to br
279. The Intimacy Secret Lady Gaga Swears By
When you move beyond surface-level connection and allow yourself to be real, intimacy in relationships grows–even in the smallest interactions. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares words of wisdom from Lady Gaga; it’s an invitation to soften, connect more deeply, and create a marriage where you both feel genuinely seen and understood. Subscribe To The I
278. What To Do When You’re Outgrowing Your Partner
When your partner isn’t into personal growth, it can feel lonely and frustrating–this episode shows you how to navigate discrepancies in personal growth, create deeper emotional intimacy, and rekindle passion–without sacrificing connection in your relationship. Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shows you how to inspire closeness, recognize the difference between an unskilled partner vs a toxic one, and how
277. BDSM for Couples: Playing with Power Dynamics is Hot | with Emily Anne
If you’ve been curious about exploring BDSM as a couple, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and BDSM coach and kink educator Emily Anne invite you into a thoughtful conversation on deepening intimacy, trust, and desire through conscious power dynamics and honest communication. This episode describes ways to honor your relationship and values, while exploring new terrain and engaging in unexpected adventures.
276. Why Being Your Partner’s Biggest Fan Improves Your Marriage
Do you offer your partner encouragement that expands them, or criticism that quietly diminishes them? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares powerful marriage advice on how your presence can strengthen confidence, deepen intimacy, and support lasting connection.Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexan
275. How A Woman Finds Her Pleasure | with Pleasurelit Patricia
When a woman loses access to her pleasure and feels relatively numb, it often has less to do with her desire and more to do with her feeling disconnected–to herself and to her partner. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Pleasurelit Patricia unpack how survival patterns, trauma, and nervous system shutdown affect female pleasure and how embodied practices help a woman reconnect with her b
274. The Marriage Standards You Need For A Fantastic Marriage
Your marriage standards shape the culture of your relationship–this is true whether you have consciously chosen your standards or not. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell describes how healthy communication, an intentional marital culture, and well chosen relationship standards help couples deepen emotional intimacy, strengthen connection, and create a truly thriving marriage. Subscribe To
273 Reactivity vs Responsiveness: Emotional Triggers in Marriage and How to Handle Them
Emotional triggers in marriage, though inevitable, do not have to run your relationship. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell unpacks the difference between reactivity and responsiveness, showing you how to shift from automatic emotional reactions to conscious communication so you can break painful patterns, rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and create the kind of connected, passionate marriage
272. Surprising Lessons From 30 Years Of Marriage | with Dr. Rodd Stockwell
In honor of their 30th wedding anniversary, Drs. Alexandra and Rodd Stockwell share the surprising lessons they have learned, individually and together. They share what works to transform conflicts into connection and how to deepen emotional intimacy, because communication in marriage will make or break you. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, you'll gain practical relationship advic
271. Why A Man Needs To Do His Own Personal Growth Work (And His Woman Can Not Do It for Him) | with G.S. Youngblood
Do you ever feel you're carrying the emotional weight of the relationship, wishing your man would step up? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell sits down with G.S. Youngblood, author of The Masculine in Relationship and The Art of Embodiment for Men, to explore how men's work, masculine leadership, emotional safety, and energetic polarity influence intimacy, trust, and connection—and why a man
270. When You've Married Someone Smarter Than You | Lessons from George Clooney
What happens when you marry someone smarter than you? Do you resist their expertise, or realize this challenge can lead to a wonderful form of intimacy? Inspired by George Clooney and Amal Clooney's marriage, as described to Stephen Colbert, this episode reveals how intellectual partnership, emotional maturity, and true collaboration dissolves power struggles and creates deeper intimacy. For per
269. 3 Tips To Avoid the Pitfalls of Valentine's Day Expectations
Valentine's Day expectations promise romance but for many it just delivers disappointment. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how to navigate expectations, express what you truly want, and use Valentine's Day (and everyday!) to create real connection and intimacy in your marriage. If you want additional guidance, sign up for Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's
268. Initiating Sex: Emotional Strength and Presence Make Men More Attractive
Emotional strength and grounded presence are essential when initiating sex, in the context of long term relationships. In today's episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell discusses how boys are raised and how that upbringing sets them up for failure as men. This shifts when men become more comfortable with vulnerability and presence; in the process attraction increases and relational connection deepens, a
267. How to Initiate Sex With Confidence (Most Men Have Terrible Role Models)
Initiating sex successfully isn't about having the right words, it's about creating the right feeling. Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares a grounded, compassionate approach to masculine confidence, helping men create deeper intimacy, stronger connection, and a more fulfilling sexual relationship without pressure or performance. If this resonates with you, join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's online program,
266. The Key to More Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
Emotional and sexual intimacy in marriage depends less on chemistry and more on how partners choose to interact one moment to the next. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explains how mastering daily transitions creates deeper emotional connection and more fulfilling intimacy. If you want to learn how to transition into having sex successfully, join Dr. Alexandra's exclusive masterclass fo
265. How To Successfully Initiate Sex (Without Pressure Or Rejection)
Learn to initiate sex without pressure by understanding what truly drives desire in long-term relationships. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how emotional safety, personal energy, and learnable intimacy skills help men navigate mismatched libido–reducing rejection, and increasing connection with their wives. If you want to learn more, join Dr. Alexandra's exclusive live mastercla
264. How Men Build Deeper Intimacy, And Last Longer In Bed | With Melissa Louise
Do you wish intimacy felt easier and more satisfying? Do you wish your man would last longer in bed? Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and pleasure advocate Melissa Louise explore sexual confidence, energy awareness, and emotional connection to help couples deepen intimacy and feel closer without pressure or shame. About The Guest: Melissa Louise Is your Leading Pleasure Advocate , Erotic Blueprint, Sex,
263. Make 2026 The Year Your Marriage Grows Stronger
Make 2026 the year your marriage grows stronger! In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how setting intentions for your relationship will deepen intimacy, spark curiosity, and help couples create lasting emotional connection. She shares practical tools for marriage growth, including increased self-awareness and modern relationship coaching. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connecti
262. Avoiding Holiday Burnout: Relationship Tips For Every Couple | with Dr. Rodd Stockwell
Drs. Alexandra and Rodd Stockwell share their best relationship tips for the holidays, revealing how simple, intentional choices nourish your marriage, even during the holidays. If you want to stay close while juggling family demands and holiday responsibilities, this episode will set you up to create a calm, connected experience, together. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connection this h
261. My Partner Doesn't Feel Loved: How To Help Him Feel Seen, Needed, and Desired
My partner doesn't feel loved—Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why this happens and how to help him feel emotionally seen and cared for without losing yourself in the process. Dr. Alexandra offers a calm, grounded path toward rebuilding desire, understanding, and connection. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connection this holiday season. 💞 Start building more intimacy today with Dr. Alexan
260. Why Divorce Spikes In January And How To Keep Your Marriage Strong
The January divorce spike shows how disconnected couples can feel during and after the holidays, but it doesn't have to be that way! In this episode, you'll learn how clear expectations, thoughtful communication, and shared intentions will keep your marriage steady, loving, and deeply connected—despite holiday stressors. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connection this holiday season. 💞 Sta
259. Nice Guy Syndrome Explained: Why It Ruins Attraction and How Men Can Break Free | with Dr. Robert Glover
Nice Guy Syndrome influences your relationship more than you may realize, and in this conversation Dr. Robert Glover joins Dr. Alexandra Stockwell to break down why it kills attraction and what men can do to show up with authenticity, confidence, and real connection. If you want a relationship that feels alive, honest, and deeply intimate, this episode gives you the tools to shift old patterns an
258. How Clutter Creates Conflict in Marriage (and How to Fix It)
Clutter in marriage can spark conflict–it's much more impactful than most people realize. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell describes how to clear emotional and physical clutter, improve communication, and bring more ease, teamwork, and intimacy into your day-to-day life. Download the Intimate Connection app by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and start building a more fulfilling, intimate marriag
257. These Small Things Make or Break Your Marriage
Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares powerful marriage advice on building deeper intimacy, connection, and joy—one intentional step at a time. Download the Intimate Connection app by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and start building a more fulfilling, intimate marriage today. 💞 👉studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy. Get 20% off from Nov 18–28! Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTu
256. How Martial Arts Can Teach You to Be a Better Husband, with Quentin Hafner
Is mastering marriage like mastering a martial art? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks with Quentin Hafner, marriage therapist and author of Black Belt Husbands, about how to be a better husband through discipline, self-awareness, and vulnerability. Drawing from his background in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Quentin shares how the principles of humility, emot
255. Sexy and Silly: How Playfulness Enhances Erotic Intimacy
Are you ready to bring more laughter, curiosity, and connection into your bedroom? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell invites you to rediscover the joy of being playful with your partner—because sensuality thrives when you stop taking it all so seriously! Dr. Alexandra shares how playfulness enhances erotic intimacy, reignites passion, fosters emotional safet
254. How High-Achieving Women Can Thrive in Love and Leadership | with Amy Evans
Are you a high-achieving woman who thrives in your career but longs for more depth and connection in your marriage? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell joins Amy Evans — host of Women In Sales Leadership podcast to explore how professional success and emotional intimacy can beautifully coexist. These powerful women discuss how to move beyond compromise, embrace vulnerability, and build a co
253. Tired of Parenting Your Partner? Here's How to Get Past That Dynamic, with Rodd Stockwell, MD
Do you sometimes parent your partner instead of standing side by side as equals? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and husband Dr. Rodd Stockwell, explore how to move from passive patterns to conscious partnership—where both people show up as active participants in love, marriage, and life. Through open conversation and personal reflection, Drs. Alexandra and Rodd reveal how taking respons
252. Why Talking After Intimacy Will Skyrocket Your Experience in the Bedroom
What if talking after intimacy is the key to unlocking deeper passion and lasting connection? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell reveals how open, heartfelt conversations after intimacy transform your bond, increase desire, and bring more harmony into your bedroom activities. Discover how to make these moments feel safe, so you and your partner can speak honestly; you'll find yourselves grow
251. How Women Evolve From Feeling Disappointed to Enjoying Fulfilling Relationships
Are you ready to move beyond disappointment and create a truly fulfilling relationship? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell uncovers how unspoken disappointment shapes women's emotional lives, and erodes intimacy. Dr. Alexandra explains why acknowledging this often-ignored feeling is the key to deeper connection, greater joy, and authentic love. Drawing from h
250. Marital Pleasure for Women (All About Dr. Alexandra's New Program)
Are you ready to experience true marital pleasure and deeper intimacy in your marriage? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how women can awaken to more love, connection, and fulfillment through her six-week program Marital Pleasure for Women. With a compelling story of a client who transformed her marriage by first transforming herself, Alexandra sho
249. How the Nine Expressions of Love Will Divorce-Proof Your Marriage | with Kenya K Stevens
What if you could divorce-proof your marriage by expanding your understanding of love? In this episode of the The Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks with relationship expert Kenya K. Stevens to explore the Nine Expressions of Love and how they open the door to lasting, authentic connection. Drawing on indigenous wisdom, personal training, and more, they describe how communit
248. Four Gateways to Female Orgasm and Lasting Pleasure | with Melissa Louise
What does female orgasm reveal about intimacy, and lasting pleasure? In this episode, intimacy experts Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Melissa Louise explore the four gateways to orgasm, revealing how emotional and spiritual health enrich pleasure. Together they share insights to help you reconnect with your body, elevate desire, and experience more joy and connection in your relationships. Join the c
247. How To Spark Desire and Enjoy Make-Up Sex (Without Fighting First)
Have you ever noticed that desire intensifies during challenging moments in your relationship? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell reveals how emotional intensity—even in the midst of complication—can serve as a catalyst for passion and deeper connection. Through personal insights and stories from the couples she's guided, Dr. Alexandra shows how vulnerability opens the door to profound intim
246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm
Are you ready for a new perspective on intimacy with your partner? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how true connection flourishes when couples focus on the journey, not the destination. With stories drawn from decades of marriage and metaphors ranging from mountain biking to fine dining, you'll discover how embracing the richness of each moment de
245. Money Dates: Replace Stress and Avoidance with Fun!
Is there a way to talk about finances that isn't stressful or disconnecting? Yes — start having regular money dates! In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how couples can turn financial conversations into intimate, collaborative, and even playful experiences. Inspired by a conversation with her newlywed daughter, Dr. Alexandra offers a simple, flexible framework for celebrating wins, rev
244. Why Successful Couples Struggle with Intimacy—and How to Fix It
As a successful couple, do you ever wonder why your relationship doesn't feel as good as it looks? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how competence and shame—two complex forces—can quietly shape your intimate life. Through real client stories and expert insights, Dr. Alexandra reveals why emotional intimacy is the key to lasting passion. Learn how
243. Popular Marriage Myths That Aren't True | with Monica Tanner
Are marriage myths quietly sabotaging your relationship? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell sits down with returning guest Monica Tanner to challenge the most common (and misleading) advice couples are told. From "happy wife, happy life" to "compromise is key," they unpack why these popular sayings fall short—and what to do instead. If you're ready to trade
242. An Easy Way to Improve Your Sex Life: More Sleep
Did you know better sleep can significantly enhance your sex life? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell delves into the often-overlooked link between rest, desire, and emotional intimacy. You'll hear how just one extra hour of sleep can increase libido by 14%—and why prioritizing rest is essential for sustaining passion, vitality, and deep connection in your re
241. Why It's Hard To Initiate Intimacy —And What to Do About It
You may think that after years of marriage, intimacy should get easier. After all, you know one another better than anyone, you have a routine. So why is it that for so many couples, sexual intimacy becomes more complicated with time? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why initiating sexual intimacy isn't always intuitive—even in long-term relationships—and what you can do about it.
240. How to Ask for Sex, Successfully
Want to learn how to reliably ask for sex in a way that leads to connection instead of rejection? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores this often-overlooked skill. She speaks directly to high-achieving men who struggle with initiating sex and offers a grounded, compassionate approach rooted in respect and emotional intimacy. Once you learn how to ask for sex well, it will transform yo
239. From Roommates to In Love again: How Coaching Transformed our Marriage – with Sebastian Smelko
Feeling more like roommates than romantic partners? Learn how igniting your marriage through relationship coaching enhances everything in life. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell interviews her client Sebastian Smelko—an accomplished lawyer, and a devoted husband and father—about how relationship coaching helped him and his wife turn their "roommate-style" ma
238. How Power Couples Amplify Intimacy, with Sierra Sullivan & Rono Smith
Ever wonder what power couples do differently to thrive in life, and love? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks with Rono Smith and Sierra Sullivan—relationship coaches and visionary partners—about the secrets that transformed their business partnership into a deeply connected marriage. You'll learn about their Epic Date Formula, how intimacy fuels purp
237. My Top Tip to Access Deeper Intimacy
What if deeper intimacy begins by facing the emotions you've been avoiding? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why avoiding emotional pain is blocking you from true pleasure. Discover how emotional numbness doesn't just protect you from hurt—it also dulls your capacity for joy, passion, and connection. Learn what it really means to embrace Uncomprom
236. Why Long-Term Marriages Require Reinvention
Is it possible for a long-term marriage to become more fulfilling over time, better than the early years of dating and the newlywed phase? (We're talking all aspects of marriage, including sex!) In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Drs. Alexandra and Rodd Stockwell share their real-life journey through many phases of their marriage—from tending small children, to the early years of de
235. The Joy of Being Different: Playful, Intentional Love with Ling and Lamb
Intentional love isn't just a goal—it's a daily practice. Ling and Lamb, married content creators, beloved influencers, and authors, exemplify this through their blend of playful pranks and honest conversations. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell chats with Ling and Lamb about how they've mastered the art of blending humor, culture, extreme differences in up
234. Reclaiming Presence: Tips to Deepen Intimacy in our Distracted World
Craving more presence, passion, and real connection in your relationship? This episode is your gentle nudge to slow down, truly show up, and deepen intimacy in a meaningful way. In today's episode, Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the issue of modern technology and other common distractions that pull us away from meaningful moments—and shares simple but powerful tools like deep br
233. Communicate With Your Spouse The Way You Communicate With AI–It Works!
AI offers surprising insights on a whole range of topics, and in this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell describes how to use the principles of AI to improve communication and connection in your marriage. Dr. Alexandra suggests that talking to your partner the way you need to in order to get the best results from AI—with clarity, specificity, and enough details to m
232. Understand Libido Mismatch, Reignite Your Sexual Intimacy, with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA
What happens when a couple navigates libido mismatch—and how can they reconnect without feeling broken or disconnected? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell talks with somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor, MA about overcoming desire differences and reigniting sexual intimacy in marriage. Drawing from her own suffering in a sexless marriage, Susan shares how emotional awareness, communicat
231. The Secret to a Fulfilling Marriage
Whose needs should you prioritize for a lasting marriage—yours or your spouse's? What if there's a "third" that matters even more? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares personal reflections on the occasion of her daughter's wedding, while detailing the powerful concept of "the third"—viewing the marriage itself as a living entity, distinct from each person in it. By prioritizing the rela
230. How Altered States & Sexual Energetics Drive Success, with Dave Asprey
Is altering your state of mind the key to deeper connection and high performance? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell talks with the "Father of Biohacking" and Founder of Bulletproof Coffee, Dave Asprey, about how meditation, biohacking, and consciousness boost personal growth and improve relationships. Drawing from his new book Heavily Meditated, Dave shares tools like the "reset process" to
229. Beyond Climax: How to Improve Sexual Fulfillment
Are you experiencing true sexual fulfillment—or are you just rushing to the finish line? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell teaches you to slow down and savor each moment, in order to enjoy more pleasure and connection during intimacy. Using the analogy of enjoying delicious chocolate cake, she explores the power of anticipation, mindfulness, and prolonged arousal. Dr. Alexandra shares acti
228. Sex & Porn Addiction in High Performers with Roland Cochrun: What You Need to Know
Porn addiction among high-performing men is more common—and more misunderstood—than most people realize. In this eye-opening episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell welcomes back expert Roland Cochrun to discuss his new book, 'The High Achiever's Guide to Sex Addiction Recovery'. Known for his groundbreaking insights into sex and porn addiction, Roland breaks down the cr
227. All About "Intimacy Dates" (Which Can Save Your Relationship)
Are you and your partner drifting apart, despite loving each other deeply? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how planning and scheduling "intimacy dates" can save your relationship (and totally uplevel it!) by fostering deeper connection and closeness, especially for busy couples juggling work, family, and other responsibilities. Emphasizing that in
226. Feeling Like a Third Wheel to Your Wife And Kids
Do you ever feel like a third wheel in your marriage, after the birth of your children? You are not alone. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the common phenomenon where fathers, sometimes mothers, struggle with the change in relationship dynamics that occur when parental responsibilities take center stage; she sheds light on how to navigate these ch
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