Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast
Smart Dating Academy helps busy, successful professionals jump-start their dating lives. The podcast presents a results-oriented, fun eight-step process that aims to transform listeners into better daters. It focuses on helping people find 'the one' by putting more love into their lives. The show offers practical guidance and encouragement for modern dating.
Episodes
197: How to Heal Anxious Attachment and Stop Self-Abandoning in Love with Trevor Hanson
What if the biggest relationship you need to repair is the one you have with yourself?On this episode of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast, Bela Gandhi sits down with relationship coach Trevor Hanson to unpack anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, self-abandonment, trust issues, and what it really takes to create secure, healthy relationships.Trevor shares his personal journey from working at T
196: How Your Nervous System Shapes Your Love Life
What if the biggest obstacle to finding love isn't your dating app, your age, or your relationship history, but your nervous system?In this fascinating conversation, Bela Gandhi sits down with nervous system educator and physiotherapist Jessica Maguire to uncover how your body's stress response influences attraction, dating anxiety, emotional availability, and relationship success.If you've ever
195: Why You Know What to Do in Dating But Still Don't Do It: The Secret to Changing Your Patterns and Finding Healthy Love with Masha Kay
You know what to do in dating.So why is it still so hard to do it?In this powerful conversation, Bela Gandhi sits down with nervous system coach Masha Kay to explore why so many successful people stay stuck in familiar dating patterns, even when they know better.If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, struggle with dating anxiety, or can't seem to find he
194: Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Sabrina Bendory on Breaking the Good Girl Pattern to Find Lasting Love | Bela Gandhi
Chemistry feels exciting. Compatibility creates lasting love.Have you ever met someone who gave you instant butterflies, only to discover later that the relationship left you anxious, exhausted, or questioning yourself?In this episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with bestselling author and relationship coach Sabrina Bendory to explore why so many smart, successful people mistake chemistry for compatib
193: How to Be Your Authentic Self in Dating, Love & at Work with Claude Silver | Emotional Intelligence, Self-Worth, and Finding Real Connection
What if the secret to finding love isn’t becoming more impressive, but becoming more you?In this episode, I sit down with Claude Silver, Chief Heart Officer of VaynerX, to talk about authenticity, emotional intelligence, and self-worth in dating.We explore how the way you show up at work mirrors how you show up in love, and why being your real self is the key to finding a healthy, lasting relatio
192: How Your Mind Shapes Your Love Life and It’s Bigger Than You Think with Bela Gandhi and Dr. Caroline Leaf
How Your Mind Shapes Your Love Life and It’s Bigger Than You ThinkWhat if your dating struggles aren’t about timing or luck but your thoughts?In this eye-opening episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with neuroscientist Dr. Caroline Leaf to reveal how your mind is driving your relationship patterns.If you’re dating after divorce, feeling stuck, or ready to find love again, this conversation will change
191: Understanding Men and Finding Love Again: The Power of Curiosity in Dating | Bela Gandhi & Alison Armstrong
What if the key to better dating was simple curiosity?In this episode, Bela Gandhi talks with Alison Armstrong about understanding men, improving communication, and finding love again without frustration.If you are dating after divorce or feeling stuck, this conversation will change how you approach relationships.Apply to work with us:https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contactWebsite:https://www.
190: How Michelle Found Love in Australia through Instagram | Dating After Divorce Success Story
Michelle is a therapist who helped others heal from toxic relationships, but wasn’t sure love was possible for herself.In this episode, she shares how she found love overseas on Instagram and what finally shifted her mindset from doubt to belief.If you’re navigating dating after divorce, struggling with emotional availability, or wondering if love will happen for you, this story will inspire you.
189: Dating After Divorce: How to Heal, Rebuild Confidence, and Find Love Again with Michelle Dempsey-Multack
Dating after divorce can feel overwhelming but it can also be your greatest opportunity for growth and real love.In this episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with divorce and co-parenting expert Michelle Dempsey-Multack to talk about how to heal, rebuild confidence, and date with intention.You’ll learn how to know if you’re ready, how to avoid common dating mistakes, and how to create healthy, emotiona
188: How to Find Emotionally Available Love After Heartbreak with Stephan Labossiere
If you keep attracting the wrong people, this episode will change everything.Bela Gandhi sits down with Stephan Labossiere of Stephan Speaks to talk about emotional availability, healing patterns, and how to finally find healthy love after heartbreak or divorce.You’ll learn:
Why you repeat relationship patterns
How to spot emotionally unavailable partners
What it really takes to build a healthy r
187: The New Rules of Dating and Negotiation: How to Get What You Deserve in Love and Relationships
What if dating success had less to do with luck… and more to do with negotiation?In this episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with negotiation expert Kristen Prinz to reveal how understanding your needs, setting boundaries, and advocating for yourself can transform your love life.Whether you're dating after divorce, feeling stuck, or ready to find love again, this conversation will help you stop settli
186: What if dating success had less to do with luck… and more to do with negotiation?
What if dating success had less to do with luck… and more to do with negotiation?In this episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with negotiation expert Kristen Prinz to reveal how understanding your needs, setting boundaries, and advocating for yourself can transform your love life.Whether you're dating after divorce, feeling stuck, or ready to find love again, this conversation will help you stop settli
185: Are you giving too much in dating and getting too little in return?
In this eye-opening episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with relationship expert Terri Cole to talk about boundaries, self-worth, and why high-achievers often struggle to find love.If you are dating after divorce, feeling burned out, or wondering why you keep attracting the wrong people, this episode will shift everything.You will learn how to stop overgiving, raise your standards, and finally create
184: Ready to find love again without repeating old patterns?
In this heartfelt episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with relationship expert Robin Ducharme to talk about forgiveness, emotional availability, and how to break free from toxic relationship cycles.You will learn:• How to heal after unhealthy relationships• Why forgiveness unlocks emotional freedom• The power of saying “I’m sorry” in love• How to stop over-functioning in dating• What it means to be an
183: Dating Over 50: Why Your Best Relationship Might Still Be Ahead
Dating after 50 can feel intimidating — especially if you’ve been out of the dating world for years.Maybe you're divorced.Maybe you're widowed.Maybe dating apps feel overwhelming.But here’s the truth: some of the healthiest and happiest relationships actually begin in midlife.In this episode, Smart Dating Academy founder Bela Gandhi shares the mindset shifts and strategies that help singles succe
182: The Hidden Self-Worth Patterns Sabotaging Your Love Life | Dating After Divorce, Emotional Availability, and Finding Healthy Love with Dr. Amanda Hanson & Bela Gandhi
Are hidden self-worth patterns quietly sabotaging your love life?In this powerful episode, Bela Gandhi and Dr. Amanda Hanson explore how childhood conditioning, emotional availability, and nervous system patterns impact dating, relationships, and finding healthy love.If you are dating after divorce, feeling stuck in unhealthy attraction cycles, or ready to find love again without settling, this c
181: Dating Anxiety Decoded: How to Calm Your Nervous System and Find Love Again with Bela Gandhi | Smart Dating Academy
Feeling anxious about dating? You are not alone.In this episode of The Smart Dating Academy Podcast, Bela Gandhi sits down with therapist Kevin Mimms to unpack dating anxiety, emotional availability, and how to calm your nervous system so you can find love again.If you are dating after divorce, newly single, or simply exhausted by modern dating, this episode gives you practical tools to feel conf
180: What does science really say about sex, monogamy, and lasting love?
In this episode, Bela Gandhi is joined by Dr. Justin Garcia, Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute and author of The Intimate Animal, for a fascinating conversation on modern dating, emotional availability, and healthy relationships.They explore why humans crave both intimacy and novelty, how sex influences connection, why dating apps feel overwhelming, and what actually helps high achieving
179: Heal Your Past to Transform Your Love Life: Laura Day on Prism and Emotional Clarity
Healing your past changes how you show up in love.In this episode, Bela Gandhi talks with Laura Day, NYT bestselling author of Prism and celebrity 'intuitive': Seven Steps to Heal Your Past and Transform Your Future, about emotional patterns, intuition, and why awareness is the key to healthier relationships.They explore how unresolved experiences shape dating choices and how real transformation
178: Love Will Come in an Unexpected Package
What if love does not look the way you imagined, but feels better than you ever expected?In this Smart Dating Academy Podcast episode, Bela Gandhi shares Elayne’s inspiring journey from dating confusion to a healthy, committed relationship.This conversation explores:
Dating tips for professionals
Emotional availability in real relationships
Why unexpected love is not settling
How to find love wit
177: How Monica Broke Her Dating Patterns & Found Real Love (Using the Smart Dating Method)
How Monica Broke Her Dating Patterns & Found Real LoveIn this inspiring episode, Bela talks with Smart Dating Academy client Monica Campbell, who shares how she moved from dating the wrong people to attracting a healthy, emotionally available partner.You’ll hear the shifts that changed everything, from breaking old patterns to using the Dating Funnel to date with clarity, confidence, and joy.
176: Dating After Divorce: How Jeannette Found Confidence, Adventure, and Love Again with Smart Dating Academy
Dating again after a long marriage can feel overwhelming.In this inspiring conversation, Bela talks with Jeannette, a Smart Dating Academy client who rebuilt her life after divorce.She shares how she healed, learned confidence, and by working with SDA, found a healthy relationship later in life.If you want hope and practical wisdom about dating after divorce, this episode is for you.👉 Work with ou
174: She Rented 12 Billboards to Find Love: Lisa Catalano’s Bold Leap That Went Viral
What happens when you’ve tried everything to find love and decide to go big?In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, Bela Gandhi talks with Lisa Catalano, the woman who rented 12 billboards in San Francisco to find her husband. They explore what inspired her to take such a bold step, how the world reacted, and what she has already learned about confidence, courage, and connection!✨ Whether you’
173: 🌟 How to Date Authentically and Build Real Love with Dr. Jeanne Michele
Let’s be real: dating in today’s swipe-right world can feel like a game you didn’t sign up for. Between ghosting, mixed signals, and second-guessing your own needs, it’s easy to wonder: Am I doing this right?In this empowering episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeanne Michele — relationship specialist, psychologist, and author of The Infidelity Cure — to talk about what it really means to date and love
172: Insider's Secrets -- How to Overcome Dating Fatigue: Expert Tips from Smart Dating Academy!
ating fatigue is something almost every single one of us has felt at some point. Maybe you've been dating for what feels like a century -- maybe you're exhausted by the dating apps (which can feel like "Human EBay"), endless small talk, or the emotional ups and downs of trying to find “your person"; if so this episode is for you! Bela Gandhi sits down with Smart Dating Academy coach Ilene Collins
171: Make Dating FUN Again! with Bela Gandhi & Kathy Citera
Dating doesn’t have to feel like the awkward lunchroom of middle school — and in this episode, we’re showing you exactly how to leave that behind. I’m joined by our very own Smart Dating Academy coach, Kathy Citera, who brings her trademark humor, wisdom, and lived experience to the table.Kathy knows firsthand what it’s like to re-enter the dating world — she candidly shares her journey from post-
170: ✨ How to Attract the Love You Deserve!
What if the love you’ve been waiting for isn’t about luck, but about alignment?In this episode of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast, I’m joined by therapist Jaime Bronstein. With over 20 years of experience, Jaime has helped countless singles heal and grow!We break down why manifesting love is not about magical thinking—it’s about shifting your mindset, trusting your intuition, and clearing out the
169: ✨ The ONE CHANGE Colleen Made to Find Love that YOU can do TODAY!
What happens when you stop putting pressure on every date and start living like “Vacation You”? For Colleen, it changed everything.In this episode of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast, I sit down with Colleen Sarihan, whose journey is a reminder that love can show up when you least expect it—and often in the most magical ways.Colleen first heard me speak at a women’s networking event (hosted by my
168: Is Love in the Stars for Me? – Carol Allen on Love, Compatibility & Dating Insights
Ready to finally understand the cosmic blueprint of your love life? In this episode of The Smart Dating Academy Podcast, Bela sits down with celebrity Vedic astrologer and relationship coach Carol Allen to reveal how ancient astrology meets modern relationship science—helping you find (and keep) the love you deserve. Blending the ancient wisdom of Vedic astrology with modern relationship researc
167: 🔮 Dating With Intuition: Nikki Novo on Soulmates, Signs & Trusting Your Inner Voice
Have you ever had that gut feeling about someone—but ignored it? Or maybe you felt a deep soul pull toward someone who later broke your heart? If so, this episode is for you.In this soulful and eye-opening conversation, Bela sits down with Nikki Novo, a bestselling author, proud Cuban-American, and master intuitive who’s known for helping people create purpose-driven lives by reconnecting with the
166: 🎧 3rd Time’s the Charm: How Shari Found Remarkable Love After Divorce
I’m so excited to share this week’s powerful story, featuring a journey of resilience, radical self-growth, and finding remarkable love later in life. In this unforgettable episode, you’ll meet our client Shari—a vibrant, creative powerhouse who, after divorce and two breakups with the same man, rewrote her love story at 64.Yes, you read that right. Three chapters. One love. Two rounds with Smart
165: 📖 The Love Thief -- A Tale of Heartbreak to True Love with Arielle Ford
We’ve all been there—betrayed, blindsided, or just broken open by love gone wrong. But what if your biggest heartbreak could lead you to your biggest breakthrough?In this rich, soul-stirring conversation, Bela sits down with Arielle Ford—bestselling author, spiritual teacher, and modern-day love alchemist—to talk about her first novel, The Love Thief. Part spiritual romance, part thriller, this st
164: 💌 Ghosting, Modern Dating & Advice You Actually Need with Meredith Goldstein
💌 Ghosting, Modern Dating & Advice You Actually Need with Meredith GoldsteinLet’s face it—dating in the digital age is a wild ride. One minute you’re vibing in the DMs, the next… they vanish into thin air. If you’ve ever wished for a wise older sister (with a killer sense of humor) to decode modern love for you, this episode is it.In this honest, hilarious, and totally validating convo, I sit
163: Get your FLIRT ON: Dating Smarter, Bolder, and with More Fun Than Ever
What if flirting wasn’t awkward, dating didn’t feel like a second job, and attracting love could be playful and powerful?In this episode of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast, I sit down with the dazzling Lauren Frances, and let me tell you—she brings the magic. From the moment she opens her mouth, you’ll understand why she’s been dubbed The Flirt Fairy by Victoria’s Secret and The Doctor of Love by
162: 🧠 Conscious Dating: How Inner Work, Self-Worth & Energy Shape the Love You Attract with Angela Nicole Holton
If you’re done with surface-level situationships and ready for soul-stirring, conscious connection—this one’s for you. ✨In this episode, I sit down with internationally recognized dating and relationship coach Angela Nicole Holton for a heart-opening, no-fluff conversation about what it really takes to attract lasting, authentic love.Angela was named one of Yahoo’s Top 10 Relationship Coaches of 2
161: First Date Magic: How to Get the Conversation Flowing Like a Pro 🗣️
Let’s face it—first dates can be awkward. You’re sitting across from someone new, trying to figure out if there’s a spark… while also wondering what the heck to say next. Sound familiar?In this juicy episode of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Dr. Jess Carbino—often dubbed “the Dr. Ruth of the Swipe Right generation.” With a resume that includes time as the in-house
160: Part 2 - The BEST Questions and How to be the BEST Date
Let’s be real—dating at any phase can feel like walking a conversational tightrope. How much is too much? What’s not enough? When should I ask? What do I say if they ask me about something that I don't want to talk about? And how do you strike that magical balance between showing up as your radiant, authentic self and still being curious, fun, and engaging?In Part 2 of our juicy conversation, I
159: The BEST Questions and How to be the BEST Date - Part 1!
Ever wonder what makes a truly great date, and what are the best questions to ask (and how)? In this must-listen episode (part 1 of 2), the brilliant and longstanding Smart Dating Academy coach Lindsay Anderson and I sit down to break down the art of dating with confidence, ease, and authenticity. If you’ve ever felt awkward on a date, struggled with what to say or what to ask, or worried about ma
158: Why We Ignore Red Flags: Facing the Truth in Love & Dating
Ever ignored a red flag 🚩, hoping it would go away? Or felt blindsided by betrayal? You’re not alone—and it’s time to get real about why we sometimes lie to ourselves in relationships.In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jane Greer, a renowned marriage and family therapist, psychotherapist, and author of Am I Lying to Myself? How to Overcome Denial and See the Truth. With decades of experience hel
157: How to Set Boundaries & Build Healthier Relationships with Dr. Henry Cloud
Ever feel like you're giving too much in relationships—and getting little in return? Or struggling to communicate what you truly need? You’re not alone.In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud, a world-renowned clinical psychologist, leadership expert, and New York Times bestselling author of Boundaries—a book that has transformed the way millions navigate relationships. With over 20 milli
156: How to Build Your Dating Confidence & Make a Great First Impression
What if you could transform your dating life with just a few mindset shifts and practical strategies?In this episode, I sit down with Nichole Farrow, a renowned relationship coach with over a decade of experience helping singles and couples navigate love with confidence. As a resident expert on BBC 5 Live, Nichole has guided countless people in strengthening their relationships—starting with the m
155: Finding Love After Heartbreak: Expert Date Coaching Tips to Rebuild, Attract, and Thrive
In this heart-opening episode, I sit down with the incredible Shelley J Whitehead—a highly sought-after relationship coach who has spent decades helping people heal from heartbreak, refine their relationship skills, and build the love lives they truly deserve.We talked about:
How to move forward after heartbreak—the key mindset shifts that will help you heal and open your heart again.
Breaking f
154: Improve Your Dating Confidence, Etiquette and First Impressions
In this captivating episode, I sit down with the incredible Sara Jane Ho—an international etiquette expert, Emmy-nominated host of Netflix’s Mind Your Manners, and author of the book of the same name. From her early days in Hong Kong to earning degrees from Exeter, Georgetown, and Harvard Business School, Sara brings a wealth of wisdom and charm to the table. Together, we dive into the art of dati
153: Unlocking Authentic Confidence for Dating and Beyond with Alison Fragale
In this electrifying episode, I sit down with the brilliant Alison Fragale—a professor, distinguished scholar of organizational behavior at UNC Chapel Hill, and the powerhouse author behind the transformative book Likable Badass. Alison brings her sharp insights and relatable wisdom to help us understand the delicate balance between being liked and being respected, and how we can do BOTH to maximi
152: From Heartbreak to Happily Ever After: Lauren’s Inspiring Love Story and Dating Success Tips
Welcome to this week's episode, where we dive into the love story of all love stories! When it comes to finding love, everyone’s journey is unique—but they often share the same ups and downs. This week, I’m thrilled to introduce Lauren, an inspiring woman who went from feeling stuck in her love life to meeting her dream partner. With insights from our coaching team, including the extraordinary Ile
151: Transform Your Mindset for Smart Dating Success with Dr. Jenny Taitz
In this enlightening episode, I welcome the brilliant Dr. Jenny Taitz—a clinical psychologist, UCLA faculty member, and author of the transformative book Stress Reset. Together, we dive into actionable strategies for managing stress, staying grounded, and transforming your mindset for success in dating and beyond. She's also the author of one of my favorite books, "How to Be Single and Happy!"
150: Dating and Thriving After Divorce: Expert Insights with Marilyn Chinitz
This week, I had the privilege of sitting down with the incredible Marilyn Chinitz—a powerhouse attorney with over 40 years of expertise in family law and divorce. Her wisdom, wit, and compassionate approach to navigating life’s trickiest transitions are unparalleled. Whether you're curious about protecting your assets, healing after heartbreak, or setting yourself up for a thriving relationship,
149: From Heartbreak to Happily Ever After: How Smart Dating Academy Transformed Teresa's Love Life
I’m so excited to share this week’s powerful story, featuring a journey of resilience, hope, and finding love again against the odds. In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the incredible experience of one of our listeners who, at 48, faced a life-changing loss: the sudden passing of her husband from a heart attack. Grieving and single for over a decade, she never imagined herself dating again, l
148: Uncovering the Secrets to Authentic Connection: Building Lasting Relationships
I’m thrilled to bring you a special guest this week, Coach and Conscious Relationship Teacher Veronika Amaya. Veronika is a relationship expert with a unique global perspective on dating and connection, and in this episode she will help us uncover the “missing pieces” that can keep us from forming genuine bonds. Veronika has a wealth of knowledge on the emotional nuances that make relationships th
147: Heather's Journey to Self-Love and Self Discovery - What I Learned at Smart Dating Academy
Heather's Journey to Self-Love and Self Discovery - What I Learned at Smart Dating AcademyFor more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contactFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/
146: I Was Married to the "Wolf of Wall Street" - Breaking Trauma Bonds and Thriving with Dr. Nadine Macaluso
I’m beyond thrilled to have Dr. Nadine Macaluso (Dr. Nae, as I call her!). on today’s episode! Dr. Nae’s story is nothing short of jaw-dropping — she was married to The Wolf of Wall Street himself, Jordan Belfort. But this conversation isn’t just about her past; it’s about her incredible journey of survival, healing, and growth. Dr. Nae has taken what she’s learned from that chapter of her life an
145: Love Story! How Attorney Tara Found True Love after Divorce
In this heartwarming love story episode, I sit down with our beloved client Tara, an accomplished attorney from Chicago, who shares her incredible journey of love and self-discovery. Tara's story begins in a traditional household, where arranged marriages were the norm, and she herself entered one that didn't quite work out. However, through her resilience, career-focused mindset, and our Smart Da
144: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for TODAY with Dr. John Gray
Title: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for TODAY with Dr. John GrayI couldn't be more excited to have Dr. John Gray, who wrote one of the most well-known and trusted relationship books of all time: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (the #1 bestselling book of its decade). We had such a good chat that you're going to love; John lost his loving partner of decades and has found lo
143: How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind!
I am super excited to have Todd Baratz as a guest on the podcast. Todd is a renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist whose innovative approaches to mental health and relationships have established him as a leading figure. We talked about:
His new book "How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind"
Reframing how we approach relationship issues
How to deal with breakups
The difference between cu
142: Can you Find Love After a 24 Year Marriage?
Guest: Jill Foos, National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach (NBHWC) with a rich background in psychology and functional medicine health coaching.This week, we come to you with one of your favorite things to hear because it's HOPEFUL, a Smart Dating Academy real-life love story. Jill was a coaching client who found the lid to her pod and started her own business. Jill met her husband at a
141: How to Have Better Relationships, Everywhere!
This week on the podcast, I have the absolute pleasure to interview Elizabeth Earnshaw, a renowned Gottman therapist and bestselling author (she has a new book coming out in September!) who is the owner of a thriving family and marriage therapy practice. She is known for her popular Instagram account @lizlistens and has been featured in the New York Times, USA Today, The Washington Post, and more.
140: People Pleasing and HOW to Say NO the Right Way!
This week, I welcome Natalie Lue to the Smart Dating Academy podcast. She is a boundaries and relationship coach and the creator of one of the longest running self-help blogs in the world, BaggageReclaim.com. Natalie helps people understand how their emotional baggage is interfering with their ability to live their lives happily and authentically.We talk about:
The impact emotional baggage has on
139: How to Become “UNREJECTABLE!”
This week, I'm so excited to introduce my friend and former client, Stacy Katz to the podcast. Stacy is a sought after mindset coach who helps women create more Relaxation and Power with her R.E.L.A.X Mindset Method. Her approach is rooted in real-world experience, making it bothrelatable and actionable. She has over two decades of experience in mindset and peak performance. She has guided C-level
138: How to Identify & Heal Your Origin Wounds (we all have them)
I had the absolute pleasure to have a conversation with the amazing Vienna Pharaon about how breaking family patterns can liberate the way we live and love.Vienna Pharaon is a licensed marriage and family therapist and one of New York City’s most sought after relationship therapists. She has practiced therapy for over fifteen years and is the founder and owner of the group practice, Mindful Marria
137: How to Create Boundaries in Dating
Bela has a wonderful conversation with Relationship Maven Dr. Abby Medcalf. She is a psychologist, author, podcast host and TEDx speaker who has helped thousands of people think differently so they can create connection, ease and joy in their relationships (especially the one with yourself)!With over 35 years of experience, Abby is a recognized authority and sought-after speaker at organizations s
136: Spotting a Toxic Relationship
This week we welcome Dr. Heidi Brocke to the podcast and you will LOVE the gems that she will drop on us! Dr. Heidi Brocke is a Toxic Relationship Awareness & Healing Specialist. After spending 14 years in an extremely emotionally and narcissistically abusive relationship she broke the chains and turned her past into her passion. She’s an international keynote speaker, recipient of Empowering
135: HOW to Break Up With Someone
This episode will take the mystery out of the BEST and most humane way to break up with someone that you've been dating for any extended amount of time, and is with Natalia Juarez. Natalia is a seasoned relationship coach specializing in heartbreak. Following a broken engagement at the age 29, she redefined heartbreak as an opportunity for transformation. In 2014, she started helping individuals i
134: Navigate Change WITH EASE and Create the Life You WANT!
This week I welcome my esteemed colleague and great friend Jenny Stevens to the podcast. Jenny is a licensed clinical counselor turned personal/ professional/divorce coach. She is known as 'The Champion for Change' having gone through her own share of difficult life changes.We talk about:
How working with SDA has helped her find the lid to her pot
The difficult changes that Jenny had to navigate t
133: Healing and Moving On From Breakups
This week we welcome the wonderful Kendra Allen to our podcast. Kendra is a breakup coach, host of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast, author of The Breakup Workbook, and founder of Break Up Bestie. She shares how she saw a huge gap online for practical and healthy heartbreak advice, after going through a series of painful breakups. So, she set out to fill it in.We talk about:
The first steps to tak
132: Secrets to Lasting Love!
This week on the podcast I chatted with the amazing Sharon Pope about the secrets to keeping a relationship healthy.Sharon Pope is a certified Master Life Coach and Relationship Expert helping women and men get the tools they need to improve, heal, or release their struggling marriages. She is a seven-time international best-selling author and has appeared in numerous media outlets and online publ
131: How to Talk to Men & The Secret to Happiness!
This conversation covers AMAZING gems, including:--3 Myths About Men (these are awesome, and have to do with 'the chase', sex, and feelings)--The differences between men's & women's brains (I about passed out when I learned this - it makes COMPLETE sense)--The AWESOME four communication archetypes (are you a lioness, puppy, koala bear or scorpion)?--How to get men to HEAR you (and it doesn't
130: She almost didn't message him back...Megan's love story
Megan's love story with Nick is wonderful, and you will hear yourself in her story. She wasn't comfortable around boys growing up, and started dating after college (side note, Bela and Megan were college friends who had lost touch for many years). Megan knew a few things: she knew she wanted lasting love, wasn't picking the right people, and that she wasn't getting the results she wanted. A
129: The NEWEST Way to Break Relationship Trauma (and it's not legal everywhere, yet)....
This episode will blow your mind (no pun intended) - we are talking about using Psilocybin (mushrooms) in a regulated, facilitated environment to remove traumas! I welcome back the awesome Dr. Michelle Roberts as a guest on SDA. Michelle is a Pulitzer winning journalist, professor, and psychotherapist who specializes in working with women who have complex trauma disorders (or have experienced nar
128: Ruth Finds Love in the Most Unexpected Way and Time in her 70s
Smart Dating Academy client love stories are YOUR favorites (and ours too) - these stories are from people just like you who started our process with a healthy dose of excitement and nervousness! I am so excited to have Ruth tell you one of the most unique, awesome, and unexpected love stories in this week's podcast. Ruth is an amazing high level executive client who is full of life. After her b
127: Divorce Doesn’t Have to Suck!
I am excited to have Wendy Sloane as my guest.Wendy is a former TV producer for The Phil Donahue Show and The Geraldo Rivera Show. During her career in broadcasting, she covered some of the biggest news stories of our time, including the O.J. Simpson and JonBenet Ramsey murders. She was also the host of the popular radio show "What's Up with Wendy" and started her popular podcast "Divorce Doesn't
126: OXYTOCIN & RELATIONSHIPS with Dr. Anna Cabeca
Get ready to dive deep into the world of hormones with the charismatic Dr. Anna Cabeca! She is known nationally as The Girlfriend Doctor and is host of The Girlfriend Doctor Show. Dr. Anna is triple-board certified and a fellow of gynecology and obstetrics, integrative medicine, and anti-aging and regenerative medicine.From testosterone to estrogen, progesterone to dopamine, each hormone has its o
125: Love with Tamsen Fadal ❤️
I couldn't be more excited to have a conversation with the fabulous Tamsen Fadal - I met Tamsen while doing dozens of love segments on her TV Show in NYC on PIX11. Tamsen is an award-winning journalist (she won 13 Emmy awards!), speaker, author, podcast host and menopause advocate. She is dedicated to championing women’s stories being bold in midlife and beyond and shares advice and education on m
124: Bianca, the Chemist, Finds Love in her 30s in Canada!
This week we are bringing to you your favorite kind of episode: another love story from one of our dear clients who will inspire you with her self-awareness, action, and authenticity at a young age. Bianca is a 36-year-old Chemist who lives in Ontario, Canada. Bianca describes herself as a late bloomer and an introverted, independent woman by nature. By her mid-twenties nearly everyone she knew w
123: The Science of Love
This week, Dr. Wendy Walsh joins me to talk about the science of love. Known as America's Relationship Expert, Dr. Wendy Walsh is an award-winning television journalist, a Radio Host & Podcaster, the author of three books on relationships & thousands of print and digital articles.Dr. Wendy shares with us how she got to where she is today and how she went from news anchor to relationship ex
122: How to Be CONFIDENT During Dates!
In this week's episode, I'm having a conversation with the lovely Dr. Sheva Assar about how we can amp up our confidence, especially in the dating world. Dr. Sheva is a clinical psychologist and she has a specific interest in the areas of self confidence, establishing and maintaining healthy, fulfilling relationships, and living authentic, value-oriented lives. Dr. Sheva believes that the relation
121: Does Exclusivity Mean They're Your Boyfriend/ Girlfriend?
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121: Will Dating a Friend Ruin the Friendship?
WIll dating a friend ruin the friendship? The answer to this question, as you might expect, is complicated, and there isn't a firm yes or no. It's going to depend on you, and the person. Before you get into the relationship, look at this person crucially. Listen to this amazing podcast where Bela explains the eight crucial things to consider before jumping into a relationship with a friend
121: Why Butterflies are BAD in Dating!
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121: The BEST Way to Say What's Bothering You!
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121: 4 Sentences That Will Bring You More Love, INSTANTLY
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