The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics
The Weekly Hot Spot explores the psychology of intimacy, erotic control, and intentional relationships, hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika. With expert guests and candid conversations, the show covers psychological insights and practical lifestyle advice for modern power exchange. Listeners learn about alternative relationship dynamics in a thoughtful, open environment. New episodes are released every Monday at 1 PM EST.
Episodes
Smart Smut: Why Erotic Fiction Deserves Better (And Where It's Going)
Is erotica "lesser" writing? We don't think so — and neither does our guest, Allison Whaley, CEO of Bothered Stories. We talk about the craft and business of literary erotica: what separates smart smut from mere explicit content and why fiction lives in the imagination in a way video never can. We get into the good stuff: the long tradition of dismissing erotic literature or punishing authors and
From Tech Startups to Smut: Allison Whaley on Building Bothered Stories
What makes a successful tech executive walk away from the startup world to build… an erotica platform? This week, we talked with Allison Whaley, CEO of Bothered Stories, your destination for well-written smut. Allison shares what "taking desire seriously" actually means, and why the smartest smut is the smut that respects your brain as much as your body. Whether you're an entrepreneur, an erotica
BDSM: What it means to wear her collar
In BDSM, being collared is a big deal. Two Femdoms share what collaring really involves: the emotions, the rituals, the commitment and what actually changes once it’s on. If you are a submissive who wants to be collared, this episode answers questions you might not even think to ask.What We Cover:What a collar actually represents — ownership, devotion, or something larger than bothCollaring vs. sc
Listener Q&A: Navigating Power Exchange Together
We love our listeners! In this episode, we share our sessions with two committed couples looking to expand their intimacy. First, we help a long-term married couple transition from educational research to actionable, real-life power exchange. We help them navigate boundaries, mutual respect and aftercare. Then, we explore how a long-distance couple transitioning to living together uses delayed gra
We turned him into a sissy!
This week, Mistress Erika and I are pulling back the curtain on how we create a sissy fantasy or roleplay. It starts with why it’s so hot to you. The transformation? The loss of control? That pink blush of humiliation? What excites you shapes everything that comes next.And because we adore you, we play around with roleplay ideas: the sissy training facility "intake session," the lost bet with doub
The Kink Ledger: Why Some Subs Love Their Numbers
From cum loads to chastity days, some subs are tracking their kink like never before. Discover the fun, psychology, and games behind BDSM data. CumEatingMan is tracking cocks with a goal of a mile of dicks. Michael counts blowjobs, and more. Slut Pie freezes cum. Maxie ruins orgasms for a year. Meet the subs who love tracking their kink and the 2 Femdoms who love to keep track of those numbers.Do
Gooning Fetish: From Edging to Brain Melt
This week, we're talking gooning - the art of losing yourself completely on the edge. The goon state is different from edging and we explain why. Do you crave this full-body surrender of this trance state? Oh and we’ve tucked in some erotic audio samples of us giving you gooning instructions and encouragement.Podcast Blog: The Weekly Hot SpotContact Us formDISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOliviaOlivia@En
Feeling overwhelmed? Makeup Basics for Crossdressers
Listener Q&A today inspired by a sissy who says she has a full femme wardrobe but feels lost and overwhelmed with makeup. The ladies agree, there’s so much information out there, it’s difficult to know where to start. Start here! This episode goes over makeup basics for your transformation from M2F.Send an anonymous comment or question using the CONTACT US form on our blog for this podcast: W
The Art of Feminine Photography: Pageant Posing Guide
This episode will help get you ready for the photos part of the upcoming Sissy Pageant. These photography techniques include essential lighting setups, camera angles, and phone settings that sculpt and elongate your silhouette. Part of your transformation is celebrating your feminine expression with joy and confidence. If you’re nervous or self-conscious, let’s change that feeling to self-celebrat
The Psychology of Desire: Navigating Exploration
Today, we explore what happens when you feel a pull toward alternative dynamics but don’t yet have the vocabulary to articulate exactly what you want. You don’t need to know everything, leave that to us. This episode is in response to a listener who sent in a question using the Contact Us form on the podcast blog. We take you behind the scenes and discuss the art of listening for what isn’t being
The Art of Feminine Ritual & Embodiment
This week, we explore personal transformation from the inside out: how cultivating a feminine physical practice can deepen your sense of identity, softness, and submission. We discuss mindset shifts, somatic awareness, breathwork for pelvic floor health, and how daily routines become rituals of self-discovery. Whether you're new to feminization or refining your practice, this conversation offers p
From Listener to Caller: Your First Private Audio or Text Session, Demystified
Thinking about taking the leap from listening to the show to booking a personalized, one-on-one audio consultation or private text session? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on exactly what happens when you connect with us privately — and we mean exactly.We start fast: the difference between public community chat and private sessions, how real-time availability works, and what you actually
Ms Erika Crosses the Line: A Sensual First
After years of playful teasing and more than a bit of curiosity, Ms Erika finally crosses the line from safe friendship into the unknown of intimate surrender. Ms Becky joins us for this highly anticipated episode. Discover the psychology of trust and sensation. The conditions are perfect for a new kind of closeness and you get to hear all about it.This podcast offers an unscripted exploration of
First time jitters: same-sex intimacy and Ms Erika
What happens when two experienced hosts navigate uncharted intimacy together? Join Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for a candid exploration of performance anxiety, queer curiosity, and the psychology of first-time same-sex connection. Discover how communication dissolves nerves when expectations are left at the door.[00:00] Introduction: Ms Erika Takes the Hot Seat[02:00] The Listener Question: Did Y
Listener Q&A: The Psychology of Feminization Rituals
Today, we focus on a listener question about how to transition from private fantasies to structured feminine identity training. We examine the psychological impact of intimate apparel and show how we do guided personal transformation. Discover how rituals performed under female authority can lead to shifts in behavior and confidence.Episode Timestamps00:00 Introduction and listener letter overview
My wife isn’t interested in kink; what do I do?
How do you navigate a relationship when one partner loves alternative intimacy and the other prefers things vanilla? In this listener Q&A, we explore how to communicate your desires honestly without pressuring your partner. Discover practical advice on bridging the lifestyle gap, managing expectations, and finding common ground.EPISODE TIMESTAMPS[00:00] – Introduction and reading today's liste
Mistress, can I be a genuine sissy girl if I am hairy?
Today, we tackle a reoccuring question from lots of people in a feminization journey or sissy training program. It’s about body hair. There are various ways to say it but this seems to sum it up: “Mistress, can I be a genuine sissy girl if I’m hairy?”Mistress Erika noticed something online that inspired the episode. Several of our girls posted photos in pantyhose. They looked stunning. Then they a
How Pure Are you? Femdom Purity test results and more!
How pure are you, really? This week the results are in. We’re talking about the Rice Purity Test results, filthy confessions, and exactly how to use a silly internet quiz to unlock a new kind of sexual intimacy.Here is how the game works. You begin at one hundred. Every dirty, delicious thing you have done strips one point away. The closer to one hundred, the more "pure" you supposedly are. But we
Femdom Facesitting & Queening: From Pussy Worship to Sensual Domination
In the vanilla world, facesitting is oral sex but add in BDSM and Queening becomes part of the power exchange between a Femdom and her submissive. In this episode:The crucial difference between vanilla oral sex and BDSM power dynamics (hint: it’s about breath control, not just tongue control)How we use facesitting within rituals, protocols, and transformational training to propel a submissive deep
Should all sissies take a pussy free pledge?
What happens when a Femdom makes a sissy give up the last vestiges of masculine sexual entitlement? Today’s episode is all about the concept of taking a pussy free pledge for your Mistress.First, we’ll talk about the definition of being pussy free. The term pussy free pledge seems to originate from Reddit threads. Today, it’s a popular feminization protocol when used for sissy training and humilia
Remarkable cum eating stories that actually shock a Femdom
This week, we unload (pun intended) stories of several cum eaters who have some truly impressive numbers. Check out these cum junkies:Michael: who keeps track of various categories including cum loads and blow jobs. If you had to guess, how many cum loads do you think he has saved up? Betcha you’re not even close!The Cum Eating Man: Ms Erika created a spreadsheet to track all the metrics of her su
Cum take the Purity Test challenge with your Favorite Femdoms
How ‘pure’ are you? That’s today’s topic as Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the Rice Purity Test. This is a lighthearted look at the concept of being sexually pure.Test questions start in a delicate manner with things like kissing, dancing, grinding while clothed and then move to the hot stuff. The “less pure” questions involve oral, anal, orgies and even being arrested! The cop questions inspir
Your remarkable Feminization roleplay that you need!
We love when YOU inspire our podcasts. This episode is inspired by a wickedly creative email from Kristi and Davina this week. We both talk with Kristi and love her creativity and enthuastic joie de vivre. This particular feminization roleplay starts as a movie night and ends as a captive transformation.Picture it: Friday night, the three of us scrolling for a film. Kristi settles between us as we
Stroke-a-Thon Secrets — How 15 Mistresses Break Your Control (Part 2)
In Part 1, we pulled back the curtain on our most explosive group event—the legendary Stroke-a-Thon returning Saturday, May 23rd at 8pm Eastern on our private Discord server. Today? We're going deeper into the psychology of surrender with three of the fifteen Mistresses: Ms Harper, Ms Kat and Ms Charlotte.Some women collect art. Mistress Harper plans on collecting cum shots, saying, "They're like
The Stroke-a-thon Returns: Four Femdom Guests with Secrets to Edging Survival
We have a challenge for you if you are UP to the task. We’re doing a Stroke-a-thon! This is an interactive, multi-Mistress cock teasing event. It’s our most popular jerk off challenge because 15 sexy women try to make you cum, while you desperately try not to. The last cock standing get a FREE 60 minute session with one of the participating ladies. 2nd and third place finishers also get prizes and
Your PENIS: size, sensitivity and secrets of a Femdom
Question: How much do YOU think about your penis? Ms Erika realized we haven’t done an episode ON da dick – oh sure, we talk a lot about what we (and you) DO with a penis but not the organ itself. So, today’s episode is all about your cock.DOES PENIS SIZE REALLY MATTER?Hear the Femdom answer to questions about penis size. Our comments might surprise you.Other questions we answer include:Will she l
A Year of Ruined Orgasms
Imagine surrendering your pleasure completely—not through denial, but through a ruined orgasm. Now, imagine a full year of this feeling. That’s what happened to a treasured submissive and you’ll hear all about Maxxie in this episode.Mistress Erika decided she wanted to try out a year of ruined orgasms and volunteered her treasured pet Maxxie Petunia. In this episode you’ll find out:What a ruined o
Are Kinky People Happier? The Psychology of Power Exchange
Are kinky people genuinely happier than their vanilla counterparts? It’s a provocative question we’re diving into on this week’s episode.Recent research suggests that practitioners of consensual BDSM often report higher emotional stability and relationship satisfaction than the general population. But here’s the fascinating nuance we explore: is this correlation or causation? Are we drawn to power
The Invisible Collar: How Daily Life Control Transforms a Man into a Sissy
What if the most powerful collar you’ll ever wear is the one no one else can see? In this episode, we introduce you to something we call the invisible collar. While this episode is primarily aimed at sissies and those into feminization, some of the concepts work for anyone who is submissive and yearning to keep in touch with that side.Topics include:What is an invisible collar?Do you have to be a
Revealing Mistress's dirty little secrets about BDSM and kink
We answer YOUR questions today focusing on your questions about us - as a Femdom Mistress, sex worker, Pro Domme, woman, and human. Here are the questions:"Do you really like all the kinks you engage in?""What kind of session is challenging for you?""What have we coerced people into IRL vs phone?”“Do Dominants ever keep parts of their personal lives or personalities separate from their dominant pe
Where to meet Dominant women: real world dating for sissies (and everyone seeking power exchange)
This episode is for kinky people looking for face-to-face romantic connection with a Dominant Woman. Our conversation with our guest, Goddess Demi, was inspired by a question from a sissy but we think anyone looking for power exchange can find this useful.Have you tried to find kinky dating connections and gotten very discouraged? You’re not alone. We’re here to remind you that the work and growth
Sissy dating: listener wants help with a new relationship with Goddess Demi
Navigating dating is challenging. It can be even more difficult if someone is kinky. Today’s episode is inspired by a sissy dating question brought to us by Goddess Demi. Ms Demi, joins the podcast to explore this and add her advice.Here’s the inspiration and the question from a sissy who just got out of a long term marriage. Sissy has met a wonderful woman who is willing to explore being with a s
Female-led Relationship Coaching
Today we discuss some of the most common questions about female-led relationships. What is FLR? How do you help your partner to embrace being dominant? Where do you find women that might want to be in charge? As Femdoms, both hosts embrace FLR personally and give solid suggestions for submissive men that want to move from fantasy to daily reality.Topics include:Defining FLR - what it is, what it i
Spring Sissy Sale: limited-time SALE of Femdom assignments and audios
Despite the huge snowstorm on the east coast, spring will be here eventually and we want you to Spring into Submission with our limited-time sissy sale and feminization intensive.For years, we’ve heard from listeners who’ve explored feminization fantasies in private but felt unsure about taking the next step. You want to do something, yet private sessions feel too intense or you don’t have privacy
Your Cuckold Personality Quiz! Which one fits you?
What kind of cuckold are you? Take the Cuckold Quiz to find out what your answers say about you. Both Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika are experienced in all kinds of cuckold fantasies, including their lived experience. In this episode, they explore everything from the Visual Voyeur with the hotwife to the Sissy Cuckold husband … and everything in between. There are 12 questions to the quiz, and
The Psychology of Sissy Bondage Wear
Have you ever considered that the silk against your skin might be doing more than just making you pretty? That those tight laces aren't merely decorative—they're a bridge between your body and your submission? That’s the topic of this week’s episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Sissy Bondage Wear.Clothing has always been a tool of control. From Victorian tight-lacing to modern locking corsets, what we
Long distance Femdom Tasks for cock control, submissive men and sissies
Today, Ms Olivia and Ms Erika explore the psychology behind power exchange and erotic control — not just physical dominance, but the power of ritual, obedience, and mental submission. Whether you're craving structure in your submission, training under a strict sissy regime, or locked in chastity this conversation will shift how you think about distance domination.We share real, actionable tasks —
The Sissy Switch: Unlocking the girly girl within
Can a dominant woman rewire a man’s identity? Today, the two Femdom hosts talk about their experiences with what they call a sissy switch – an often invisible switch that flips “maybe” into something like “make me your cum slut sissy princess.”As you likely know, we never hand you a tidy definition; instead we’re all about using a definition as a starting point and then exploring various nuances.
The Art of the Good Sub Orgasm: When you’ve earned your release
Have you ever thought about why some orgasms feel better than others? Today, we talk about those submissives who love to please Mistress and then earn a good sub orgasm. Topics include:Why does it feel so good to beg for an orgasm?What’s the difference between a regular orgasm and a good sub orgasm?BDSM, power exchange and how Mistress flips the script on your regular masturbation routine.What doe
The year of the sissy: How intentional feminization becomes self-care
Today’s episode explores a new way to think about New Year’s resolutions and your feminization or sissy training. We never want to ignore the sex and sluttiness but what if there’s ‘more’ available?There’s a common myth that all sissy play (and a lot of feminization experiences) need to have lots of humiliation and submission. Oh sure, that IS often part of it (and a very fun aspect of sissy train
Power exchange dynamics: Femdom guide to using BDSM for personal growth.
Happy New Year, to all our kinky friends! Welcome to the first episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for 2026. We’re kicking off the year with a topic close to both our hearts: using BDSM and power exchange as powerful tools for personal growth.We explore how the structure, control, and conscious practice inherent in Femdom dynamics create a unique framework for transformation. For example, have you ever
Humor is the ultimate power play for Femdom Mistresses with playful, dirty minds.
Have you ever laughed while you were being punished? What if humor wasn’t a distraction from power exchange — but the sharpest tool in a Mistress’s arsenal?In this final episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for the year, we have a conversation that’s equal parts kink, wit, and wisdom as your Femdom hosts dive into one of the most underestimated forces in Femdom: a playful, dirty, delightfully twisted se
BDSM Trends for 2026
What does the future of kink look like? Your Femdom hosts have some thoughts (of course we do!). Today, we explore how technology, psychology and a growing desire for authentic connection are reshaping the landscape of Distance Domination, phone sex, and personal power exchange.The conversation kicks off with the elephant in the room: Artificial Intelligence. While AI is transforming adult content
The Psychology of Advanced Devotion: Testing Your Limits in Power Exchange
What if the ultimate test of your submission wasn't just about surrendering control, but about consumption? In this episode, we explore the intricate psychology behind fluid devotion, advanced obedience rituals, and task-based conditioning. We examine how to bridge the gap between fantasy and physical reality, reframing intense tasting boundaries not as a hurdle, but as a part of behavioral discip
5 Cliches about being submissive
We’ve all heard them—the recycled lines, the oversimplified tropes, the porn-ified fantasy of what submission “should” look like. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika tear down the most persistent clichés about being submissive. No ball-busting today. Just myth-busting. From the fantasy of total surrender to the myth that all subs crave pain, humiliation or degredati
The Secret Thrill of Humiliation: Why Surrender Feels So Good
Have you ever wondered why being put down turns you on? Why a Domme’s laugh, a sharp comment, or a teasing jab about your size leaves you harder than ever? You’re not alone — today we do a dive deep into one of kink’s most misunderstood, yet profoundly powerful dynamics: erotic humiliation.We explore:How something that sounds painful — even shameful — becomes a gateway to ecstasy. How we, as Femdo
Sissy secrets:The Fear of Being Found Out – Keeping Your Kink Private
Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You’re not alone. Today we take a dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely spoken about — fears in the kink and sissy communities: the terror of being discovered. Whether it’s a partner stumbling on your secret drawer, a family member finding your messages, or simply the crushing weig
Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire with Dr. Jaime Grant
What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer?In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jaime Grant – researcher, LGBTQ+ advocate, and author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire – for a conversation that dismantles shame, celebrates pleasure, and redefin
Kink for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant
Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’re far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink.Dr. Gran
When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy
Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink. Listener questions drive this episode and you’re likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don’t have to be kinky to benefit from these
Ethical Sluts & Radical Ecstasy: Desire, Consent, and Coming Into Power with Janet Hardy
What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just
Wired to Obey? How a Submissive Sissy Finds Power in Pleasing a Femdom Mistress
Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy.Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation.It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress.Have you ever asked yourself:“Why do I feel drawn to this role?”“Is
Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistress
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes.First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN. This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public. We give some specif
The FILTHY MILFS return to talk blow jobs, sexy lingerie, having great sex and exploring BDSM
Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck.This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about:Blow JobsHow to make cum taste goodReact
Meet the FILTHY MILFS, stars of a new podcast of the same name.
They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horny ladies.” What a fun conversation!Topics include:The power of female sexualityEmbracing the SLUT labelSocial standards for the sexual behavior of womenSelf empowerment that comes with
Pleasure And Pain: the Femdom Guide To Rough Kink
What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex? Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM.Topics include:What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play?How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM?Who gets to define it?What are some of the items used in rough
Behind the scenes with famous trans porn star Eva Maxim
Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career.Topics include:Why being a porn star used to be more glamorous.The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry.How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to conn
Meet one of today's most popular porn stars, Eva Maxim.
Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes.Today’s episode talks about:Adult industry awardsThe business side of pleasureWhy and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry.Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than
All about threesomes!
Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice.Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more.The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions. How often does a threesome “just happen”?How can you spot someone ask
All about BLOW JOBS with Lainie Speiser
Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser. How do women feel about giving blow jobs?What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job?Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera?How do porn stars give great blow jobs?Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs.Tips for l
His wife knows he’s a crossdresser. Now what?
Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side? Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive,
Why do my sissy urges go away after I cum?
A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress.Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing?Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie?How important is submission to a Dominant Woman?Is dressing en femme always about sex?Is
The Art of Erotic Restraint: New Frameworks for Power Exchange
Are you curious about incorporating physical restraint and denial rituals into your dynamic? In this episode, we answer listener questions about why partners choose to surrender control, what women truly think about managing these dynamics, and how to find the right lifestyle tools for your goals. Explore how giving up physical control can lead to mental freedom, refocused energy, and deeper submi
Sissy Pageant: Finding self-acceptance with Femdom Feminization
Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.Other comments touch on:Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine s
Behind the scenes of the porn industry with adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser.
Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. Today, Lainie answers your questions:Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do?Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star?Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues?Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks.Are an
Men in panties
Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include:How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?Is it always about sex or kink?Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?Does wearing panties mean you’r
Are you turned on by smart, sexy women?
Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior.Is phone sex always about sex?Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm?Why does so
What if all your edging ends in a ruined orgasm?
Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.In this episode you’ll hear:The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm
He said no to BDSM pain play but got this surprise!
Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of s
Did you know about these interesting sex facts?
How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones.Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun?Are sex dreams only f
We’re having a Sissy Pageant and you’re invited!
When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky.This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, ti
You need the ultimate sissy resume!
Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume.Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about t
What does Femdom Mistress discipline really mean to you?
Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.” That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the su
Feminization: What’s the origin story of your sissy name?
Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent.Topics include:Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name?How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name fo
Everything you always wanted to know about Femdom Mistress Masturbation
Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh! In this episode we answer questions like:What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to? Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Swi
Femdom Approved Tips: Have A Sissygasm For Masturbation May 2025
Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme:What is a sissygasm?How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one?Topics include:Subspace aka femme-spaceRole of submission in your feminine journeyMistress guid
Inspiring Tips For Masturbation Month From Your Amazing Femdom Podcast Hosts
Are you ready for Masturbation May? It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love. Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo. Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits: Are there studies?How much do people masturbate?What is
Do you need cock control? We think you do!
What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof). But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is muc
BDSM: Are you a switch? Miss Eden joins the conversation.
BDSM: Are you a switch? Are you a switch?In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch? What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom. A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode. Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss Ede
Are you nervous about being transformed into a sissy?
In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun.(( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. ))Today’s points include:What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s no
