Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda
We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It's our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We'll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20's and 30's!
Episodes
Episode 378: Tough Enough: Calling Men Higher | feat. Trey Tucker
This week JP and Kathy sit down with therapist and author Trey Tucker to talk about the two traps most young men fall into — chasing achievement to outrun insecurity, or staying passive to avoid failing at all. Trey shares wisdom from his book Tough Enough on building a "team," getting comfortable with silence, and using what God gave you for others instead of yourself. He also tells the wild, tru
Episode 377: Priorities, Big Rocks & Beating Busyness | Live at Beso Live
As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include prioritizing the big rocks of life, why your phone is the biggest threat to intimacy with God, learning to say no, and what it actually takes to live a life leveraged for the kingdom.
Episode 376: Modesty, Dating Standards & Motive | Live at Beso Live
As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include modesty and what the Bible actually says about it, how culture shapes our standards, dating with discernment, and why God cares more about why you wear what you wear than what you wear.
Episode 375: Q&A with JP Part 2 | Live at Beso Live
We are back for Part 2 of the Q&A with JP as he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include storing up treasures in heaven, the purpose of prayer, grief and loss, discipleship, insecurity, legalism, and how to know if you're truly saved.
Episode 374: Finding Hope in Suffering | feat. Kirby Kelly
In this episode we talk to author Kirby Kelly about her new book The Fabric of Hope. Life is full of seasons that leave us asking "why God?" — but what if those same seasons are exactly how He builds our faith? We talk with Kirby about how God weaves redemption into suffering and why bringing Him your honest pain is the key to finding real hope!
Episode 373: Q&A with JP Part 1 | Live at Beso Live
As an extension of JP’s Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Becoming Something Live! Topics include feeling like you’re not doing enough for God, the Holy Spirit, dating and marriage, eschatology, spiritual success, Israel, and self-defense.
Episode 372: Guarding Your Heart | Live at Beso Live
As we continue our BESO Live series, we start by answering a question about hearing God’s voice through dreams and how to discern what’s from Him. Then we dive into a conversation about staying pure and faithful through every stage of relationships—dating, waiting, and marriage.
Episode 371: How to hear God’s voice | Live at Beso Live
In our first episode from BeSo Live, we answer the question that our attendees most wanted answered. They asked, “How do you hear God’s voice from your own thoughts?” If you want to grow in your understanding of God’s voice, this episode is for you!
Episode 370: Blessed are the Spiraling (feat. Levi Lusko)
In this episode we get to talk to pastor and author, Levi Lusko, about his new book “Blessed are the Spiraling”. He shares with us about how God used a uniquely difficult season in his life. Many times God does His best work in the hardest times!
Episode 369: Becoming Like Jesus (feat. Matt Chandler)
In this episode we talk to pastor and author, Matt Chandler, about his new book "Becoming Like Jesus". The path to holiness is oftentimes not a straight line. We talk with Matt about how God uses the ups and downs of life to shape us into the likeness of His Son!
Episode 368: You Are Not Your Job Title
While our jobs are important, they are not our identity. How do we balance a desire to succeed in our job, without being obsessed with our job? We do our best to help you develop a healthy work ethic in this episode!
Episode 367: Eyeing the Impossible (feat. Shannon Bream)
Fox News host and author, Shanon Bream, has just released a new book called “Nothing is Impossible with God”. She shares about how the stories in the Bible help give us faith today. Shanon even shares her own stories of God doing the impossible!
Episode 366: Revival in Iran (feat. David Nasser)
David Nasser is a leader in the American church, but he was born in Iran. He gives us an inside look into where Iran has been, where it is now, and where he hopes it goes in the future. You’re going to be moved by this episode!
Episode 365: Modeling Faithfulness (feat. former top model Jon Passavant)
In this episode we talk to former top model, Jon Passavant, about how to navigate faithfulness in a difficult workplace. When you’re surrounded by people not following Jesus, how do you keep your standards? You won’t want to miss his stories!
Episode 364: The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe (feat. Jennie Allen)
In this episode we get to speak with best selling author and speaker, Jennie Allen. Her new book “The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe” will help you identify where the enemy has deceived you. Satan has been a liar from the beginning, don’t let his voice win in your life!
Episode 363: Gender Roles in the Church (feat. Preston Sprinkle)
In this episode we talk to author, Preston Sprinkle, about his new book “From Genesis to Junia”. Across denominations, there are varying perspectives on what the Bible says about gender roles. Through years of study, Preston gives us insight into what his perspective has become!
Episode 362: How to handle the news (feat. Jason Woodruff)
In this episode we talk to Jason Woodruff, founder and editor in chief of The Pour Over, about how to handle the news. Some of us probably consume too much news, while others too little. How do we live informed, but not always outraged. This is an important episode for everyone!
Episode 361: Can I be Friends with my Ex?
Break-ups are hard! In this episode we talk about how to handle all of the next steps. Should you reach out to your ex, or ignore them? All of that and more on this episode!
Episode 360: Heal Your Hurting Mind (feat. Craig Groeschel)
We talk with pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about his own journey to get a healthy mind. Craig experienced work burnout, but found some ways to heal his hurting mind. His insights will help you no matter what season you’re in!
Episode 359: The Way We Date Isn’t Working
In this episode we talk through the major issues young adults have in dating. Are our standards too high? Not high enough? We talk through why things aren’t working and how to fix it!
Episode 358: Preparing for Marriage (feat. Christian Bevere)
In this episode we get to talk to author, Christian Bevere, about how to wait well for marriage. In your singleness, how can you pray for your spouse while also being content in your current season?
Episode 357: How to Be Yourself
Many of us are so prone to changing who we are based on who we’re around. In this episode we talk about how we can stop pretending, and to be who God created us to be!
Episode 356: You Can Love the Bible! (feat. Amanda Bible Williams)
In this episode we talk to Amanda Bible Williams, one of the founders of She Reads Truth. They have put together a fantastic new resource called “The Bible is for You” that will help everyone love their Bible more. To learn to love the Word of God more, check out this episode!
Episode 355: What Happens When We Sing (feat. Shane & Shane)
Shane and Shane have been writing songs for the church for years, and they’ve gotten to see how songs impact us. They’re convinced that we were made for worship! Their new daily devotional has helped thousands follow Jesus. To hear more, check out this episode!
Episode 354: Can I Have Non-Christian Friends?
How do you handle friendships with people that don’t follow Jesus? How close can those people be to you? For help with your friendships, you won’t want to miss this episode!
Episode 353: The Pressure to Perform (feat. Josiah Queen)
Josiah Queen is an artist that has found success at an early age. With songs like “The Prodigal” and “Dusty Bibles” he’s already selling out arenas in his young 20’s. We talk with him about what his journey has been like and how to stay grounded in God through all of it!
Episode 352: Sex by Design Part 2 (feat. Juli Slattery)
We continue our conversation with clinical psychologist, author, and speaker Juli Slattery about sex. She answers some of the most asked questions on the topic of sex. Don’t miss this really helpful discussion!
Episode 351: Sex by Design Part 1 (feat. Juli Slattery)
We get to speak to clinical psychologist, author, and speaker Juli Slattery about all things sex. She brings a wealth of knowledge to this subject and will help you wherever you’re at! Don’t miss this episode!
Episode 350: Is Sarcasm a Sin?
How far is too far when it comes to joking around with friends? Are jokes and sarcasm ever ok, or it is a sin? For more, check out this episode!
Episode 349: The Proof for Christmas (feat. Lee Strobel)
We continue our conversation with Lee Strobel about his book “The Case for Christmas”. He uses his investigative mindset to prove that Jesus really was born in a manger. However, he also sheds light on parts of the story you may not previously know!
Episode 348: Seeing the Supernatural (feat. Lee Strobel)
We have a conversation with Lee Strobel about the evidence for supernatural things. God will work to bring joy to the angry heart, and even visions of Heaven to the dying. God is living and active and there is proof for it!
Episode 347: Sleep, Alcohol, Food, and Your Brain (feat. Dr. Amen)
In this episode we talk with world renown Brain expert, Dr. Amen. He gives insights on how to live in a way that your brain will like! Healthy brains lead to healthier lives!
Episode 346: Am I Doing Enough for God?
In this episode we talk about the pressure of doing all of the right things in our relationship with God. How do we know if we are praying or reading the Bible enough? If you struggle with feeling guilt, this episode is for you!
Episode 345: Creating Real Community
What happens if you have friends, but may not really feel like you have genuine community? In this episode we talk about how to create deep relationships with the people around you. It may be simpler than you realize!
Episode 344: Hearing and Obeying the Voice of God (feat. Jamie Winship)
In this episode, we conclude our conversation with Jamie Winship. He shares about how he has learned to follow the voice of God in his life. If you’re eager to be challenged in your faith this episode is for you!
Episode 343: Who are you, really? (Feat. Jamie Winship)
In this episode we talk to Jamie Winship about finding our true identity. Many of us have lived for decades without actually understanding who God says we are. We are all unique creations of God and He has a special role for each of us!
Episode 342: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?
Is there a way to celebrate Halloween in a way that honors God? Or are we overthinking it entirely? Check out this episode for more!
Episode 341: Should Christians Listen to Taylor Swift?
When it comes to movies, music and media, what are some boundaries that Christians should put up? Are we free to listen to whatever? What are the impacts if we do? We talk all that and more in this episode!
Episode 340: In Sickness and in Health (Dating Thoughts from the Hospital)
JP’s stay in the hospital has brought increased clarity as to who you should be dating. With candor and clarity he talks about how sickness helps you know what to look for in a spouse!
Episode 339: Dare to Be True (feat. Madi Prewett Troutt)
What does it look like to build identity on Christ before anything else? Madi Prewett Trout opens up about her journey into marriage, the pressure to perform, and how faith anchors true intimacy. Whether you’re engaged, married, dating, or still waiting — this conversation will encourage you to become who God’s calling you to be. https://a.co/d/2JYpgqS
Episode 338: JP Health Update
In this special bonus episode we have a conversation with JP from the hospital. We cover how he’s processing this past week, why God doesn’t always heal, and how to serve someone who is hurting.
Episode 337: How to Get Over Yourself
Pride and selfishness are silent killers in our relationship with others, and even with God. In this episode we talk about practical steps you can take to get over yourself!
Episode 336: I’ve Lost My Passion for Jesus
Maybe you’ve been in a season where your fire for the Lord has fallen away. Your faith doesn’t have to stay that way! In this episode we talk about how to get your passion back and why it matters.
Episode 335: The Roots of Revival (Feat. Tonya Prewett)
We get to have a conversation with author and visionary behind the Unite movement, Tonya Prewett. She shared with us about where this movement of God came from how prayer had the power to change everything. Pick up her new book, “Roses to Revival” here: https://a.co/d/eyMJJf4
Episode 334: Can Ambition Honor God? (Feat. Ruslan KD)
We talk with Ruslan KD about his new book “Godly Ambition”. He’s a creative thinker and entrepreneur and has a lot to share about ambition. Is it a selfish thing? Or a God glorifying thing? For more check out his new book here: https://a.co/d/1xdGWx2
Episode 333: Don’t Waste Your Waiting
When you don’t yet have what you hope God will provide, what should you do? We talk about how to make sure your waiting season isn’t a wasted season!
Episode 332: Christians and ChatGPT
Is there anything that Christians should be worried about with AI? Is it all good? All bad? Somewhere in between? All of that and more in this episode!
Episode 331: Over-Involved Parents
What should boundaries look like with our parents once we become adults? Do we have to answer the phone every time they call? If you are wondering how to honor your parents while also maintaining your individuality this is for you!
Episode 330: A Fresh Move of God (feat. Christine and Nick Caine)
In this episode we talk with Christine and Nick Caine, founders of A21. Christine Caine has been on the front lines to what God has been doing for decades, but they share what new things have been happening now. If you want to be inspired to live with faith, check out this episode!
Episode 329: Spiritual Boundaries in Dating?
You may have heard that you need to establish spiritual boundaries while you date. Is that real or not? We talk about what you should and shouldn’t do as you date!
Episode 328: Charismatic or Crazy? (Feat. Matt Chandler)
This week we talk with Pastor Matt Chandler about the sign gifts of the spirit. Are they still real? Should we even care? All of that and more in this episode!
Episode 327: Should I Really Share THAT??
This week’s episode we talk all things authenticity. What should you share? Who should you share it with? Why share at all?
Episode 326: You Have a Calling! (feat. John Bevere)
Every single one of us has been called. In this episode we talk to author and speaker, John Bevere, about what that calling is. We also have a conversation about the return of Jesus! Buy his new book “You are Called” here: https://a.co/d/a4vte3M
Episode 325: When Fun Feels Forbidden
When you follow Jesus, it can seem like everyone else gets to have all the fun. Why would he keep us from things that would be exciting? Do His rules ever allow us to have fun?
Episode 324: Change is Possible (feat. Girls Gone Bible)
We get to talk with the hosts of Girls Gone Bible about how Jesus has changed their life. They share just how much better life with Him is. Pick up their new devotional “Out of the wilderness” here: https://a.co/d/c5CaXUS
Episode 323: Is Birth Control Biblical?
Does the Bible have anything to say about birth control and IVF? We talk about how to think through such important and timely issues!
Episode 322: Following Jesus in the NBA (feat. Jonathan Isaac)
Jonathan Isaac is an NBA player, but more importantly he’s a courageous follower of Jesus. While he lives in a culture that doesn’t promote holiness, he chooses to live differently. We talk about difficult decisions he’s had to make and how they have impacted his life!
Episode 321: How Much Money Can I Keep? (from BeSo Live)
How do we align what Jesus said do with our finances versus what is actually practical? Do we need to sell everything? Give 10%? How can we be faithful with our finances?
Episode 320: How to Love Someone Identifying as LGBTQ (from BeSo Live)
How do you love someone who you may disagree with? In this episode we talk about how to live like Jesus to anyone and everyone in your life!
Episode 319: Q&A with JP (from BeSo Live)
JP answers questions on the spot from attendees of BeSo Live. It’s a wide ranging conversation so you’ll want to listen to all of it!
Episode 318: Top Questions From Young Adults (from BeSo Live)
We rapid fire answer the top questions asked at BeSo Live. Things like, how do I honor those in authority? And, what can go wrong in marriage? Those and many more in this episode!
Episode 317: Would Jesus Flip Tables Today? (from BeSo Live)
What would Jesus flip tables over in church's today? We talk about all of this and more in the second recording from BeSo Live 2025.
Episode 316: Taking Care of Your Body (from BeSo Live)
How important is our physical health? And when can it become an obsession about appearance? We talk about all of that and more in this first recording from BeSo Live 2025!
Episode 315: The Fight for Marriage (feat. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons)
Since there is no perfect person, there is no perfect marriage. There are plenty of ways for division to arise in a marriage, but fighting for unity is possible. On this episode we talk to Gabe and Rebekah Lyons about their new book “The Fight for Us”. Pick it up here: https://a.co/d/fJhSeD5
Episode 314: Experiencing Jesus (feat. John Eldredge)
You can really have a vibrant relationship with Jesus! A stale religion can be replaced with an intimate knowledge of who Jesus is. Buy John’s new book “Experience Jesus. Really” here: https://a.co/d/iT62iFJ
Episode 313: I Want their Approval!
It’s so easy to live for the approval of people, but it’s an exhausting life! In this episode we talk about how you can find freedom from people pleasing.
Episode 312: What If I’m Not Attracted?
What do you do if you’ve found someone you want to date, but you’re not physically attracted to them? In this episode we talk about the importance of physical attraction in dating and marriage. If you’re looking for who to marry, this episode is for you!
Episode 311: Have I Missed God’s calling?
Making big decisions can be stressful because we don’t want to disobey what God’s plan for our life may be. In this episode we talk about God’s call for our life and if it’s possible to miss it.
Episode 310: Are Catholics Christians?
Many of us know people who are Catholics, but aren’t sure what they believe. What are the differences and similarities between Protestants and Catholics? Are both groups Christians?
Episode 309: Does God Always Hear My Prayers?
Is God always listening and responding when I’m praying? The answer may surprise you! If you want to know what happens when you pray, this episode is for you!
Episode 308: Contrary Convictions
How can two Christians be convicted about different things? Would the Holy Spirit be telling them two different things? We address that and more on this episode!
Episode 307: How To Be a Better Friend
If you’re looking for better friendships, the first step is to be a better friend! In this episode we talk about maintaining and sustaining relationships. Rather than just looking for other people to be better friends, you should take the first step!
Episode 306: The Benefit of Doubt (feat. Craig Groeschel)
What should we do when we doubt an aspect of God? Is it even ok to admit that we have doubts? In this episode we talk to pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about how our doubts can bring us closer to God! Check out more by purchasing his new book here: https://a.co/d/diJBWJ9
Episode 305: The Greatest Threat to Your Faith
Our phones are costing us. They provide a constant distraction that will interrupt and interfere with our relationship with Jesus. Don’t let your addiction to your phone keep you from an intimate relationship with God!
Episode 304: How Dating Has Changed (feat. Ben Stuart)
This week we get to talk with Ben Stuart about the updated version of his book “Single, Dating, Engaged, Married”. He has helpful teaching on whatever relationship status you find yourself in. We also talk about his has added material on how to break up! Get his book here: https://a.co/d/2ZaUPZo
Episode 303: Spiritual Warfare
In this episode we get to talk to JP about his brand new book, “Your Story Has a Villain”! Scripture says we have an enemy that wants to steal, kill, and destroy. How can we fight back against Satan’s attacks? To buy JP’s book follow this link: https://a.co/d/15OaDXo
Episode 302: Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?
Why does God allow bad things to happen to seemingly good people? It doesn’t seem fair that some people have an easy life, while others have a lot of difficulties. How can we trust a God that allows hurt and pain?
Episode 301: Afraid of the Future?
In this week’s episode we talk about how to handle your fears and anxieties about the future. Is it ok to be afraid, or does that mean you lack faith? Anxiety isn’t a sin, but what you do with it can be. Check out this episode for how to handle your fears!
Episode 300: Had Sex. Now What?
What should you do after you’ve crossed sexual boundaries in a dating relationship? Once you’ve crossed lines, is there any use in going back? Should you break up? We talk about all of that and more in this week’s episode!
Episode 299: Am I Called to anything?
In this week’s episode we talk about what a calling is and what it means for us, as Christians. Do only certain people have callings from God, or is it everyone? If you’re looking for more purpose in your life check out this episode!
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