Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda
We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It's our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We'll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20's and 30's!
Episodes
Episode 389: Pretending God Is Real — Until He Wasn't | feat. Brian Guan
This week we sit down with Brian Guan, a content creator from New York City who went viral for going around pretending to be a Christian — and ended up actually becoming one. Just 12 days into his faith, Brian joins us live to talk about what happened when an experiment became real, the convictions he's already wrestling with, and what it looks like to follow Jesus when you're starting from scratc
Episode 388: Are You Actually a Christian? | feat. Granger Smith
This week we sit down with country music artist turned pastor and author Granger Smith to talk about his new book Poison the Well — and the question he asks almost every single day: are you actually a Christian, or have you just checked the box? Granger shares how his own faith unraveled and was rebuilt from the ground up, why he's passionate about sharing the gospel with Christians, and what it r
Episode 387: How to Make the Most of Your Singleness
In this episode, a listener calls in with a question a lot of single Christians are quietly asking — am I supposed to be spending this season preparing for marriage, or is that missing the point entirely? JP, Kathy, and Nate unpack what it actually looks like to embrace singleness as a daughter of God rather than just a waiting room for a relationship. If you're single and trying to figure out wha
Episode 386: Raised in the Woods, Survived a Serial Killer & Finding Hope | feat. Kelsey Vandermyde
This week we sit down with Kelsey, who grew up deep in the mountains of Montana with no electricity, no running water, and a father convinced the world was ending. From polygamy and mountain lions to a serial killer staying in their cabin, Kelsey's story is one of the wildest you'll ever hear. JP and the crew don't see eye to eye with Kelsey on everything when it comes to faith — but that's exactl
Episode 385: What's Next?
In this episode JP, Kathy, and Nate get honest about where the next generation is headed and what the church needs to do about it. They dig into phone addiction, the hunger for real community, and why revival might already be happening right in front of us. Don't miss this one!
Episode 384: Reckless Love, Church Hurt & Outsinging the Angels | feat. Cory Asbury
This week we sit down with worship artist Cory Asbury — live from the tour bus — to talk about his journey through church hurt, online criticism, and what it looks like to come out the other side still singing. Cory opens up about the story behind "Reckless Love," his new song Prodigal God, and why he's done being cautious with his faith. If you've ever felt beaten up by the church or beaten down
Episode 383: Selling Out Arenas & Staying Surrendered | feat. Forrest Frank
This week we sit down with Christian artist Forrest Frank — live from the tour bus — to talk about what it looks like to steward massive success while keeping your heart fully surrendered to God. Forrest opens up about eight years of grinding before his breakthrough, how he stopped sneaking Jesus into his music and started giving him every breath, and why the surrendered life is available to every
Episode 382: Nike, Kobe & Pointing Your Life Toward What Matters | feat. John Olinger
This week we sit down with John Olinger — former global brand director for Kobe Bryant at Nike and author of Worthy Wins — to talk about what it looks like to point your life toward what actually matters most. John opens up about losing both parents, a season of unexpected career upheaval, and how God used every chapter of his story to prepare him for something he never saw coming. If you've ever
Episode 381: The Happiness Crisis: Why Hard Things Lead to Joy | feat. Jon Eckert
This week we sit down with author and educator Jon Eckert to talk about his new book The Happiness Crisis and why the pursuit of happiness is actually keeping people from finding it. Jon breaks down how adversity, belonging, and curiosity are the real building blocks of a joyful life — and why Gen Z may be the generation that finally gets it right. Send this one to every parent, teacher, and young
Episode 380: Who Are You Becoming in College? | feat. Josh Rutledge
In this episode we sit down with Josh Rutledge from Liberty University to talk about what spiritual formation actually looks like in the college years — and why the decisions you make at 19 can shape who you are for decades. JP opens up about his own first nine days of college and the fork in the road that followed, and Josh shares why this generation of students may be more spiritually hungry tha
Episode 379: Faith, Fear & Fighting for Your Family | feat. Christian Huff
This week JP, Nate and Kathy sit down with Christian Huff, husband of Sadie Robertson, to talk about what it really looks like to lead your family through fear, anger, and hard seasons. Christian opens up about a terrifying medical scare with his daughter, wrestling with anger toward God, and what it means to step into spiritual strength as a husband and father. If you've ever found yourself blami
Episode 378: Tough Enough: Calling Men Higher | feat. Trey Tucker
This week JP and Kathy sit down with therapist and author Trey Tucker to talk about the two traps most young men fall into — chasing achievement to outrun insecurity, or staying passive to avoid failing at all. Trey shares wisdom from his book Tough Enough on building a "team," getting comfortable with silence, and using what God gave you for others instead of yourself. He also tells the wild, tru
Episode 377: Priorities, Big Rocks & Beating Busyness | Live at Beso Live
As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include prioritizing the big rocks of life, why your phone is the biggest threat to intimacy with God, learning to say no, and what it actually takes to live a life leveraged for the kingdom.
Episode 376: Modesty, Dating Standards & Motive | Live at Beso Live
As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include modesty and what the Bible actually says about it, how culture shapes our standards, dating with discernment, and why God cares more about why you wear what you wear than what you wear.
Episode 375: Q&A with JP Part 2 | Live at Beso Live
We are back for Part 2 of the Q&A with JP as he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include storing up treasures in heaven, the purpose of prayer, grief and loss, discipleship, insecurity, legalism, and how to know if you're truly saved.
Episode 374: Finding Hope in Suffering | feat. Kirby Kelly
In this episode we talk to author Kirby Kelly about her new book The Fabric of Hope. Life is full of seasons that leave us asking "why God?" — but what if those same seasons are exactly how He builds our faith? We talk with Kirby about how God weaves redemption into suffering and why bringing Him your honest pain is the key to finding real hope!
Episode 373: Q&A with JP Part 1 | Live at Beso Live
As an extension of JP’s Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Becoming Something Live! Topics include feeling like you’re not doing enough for God, the Holy Spirit, dating and marriage, eschatology, spiritual success, Israel, and self-defense.
Episode 372: Guarding Your Heart | Live at Beso Live
As we continue our BESO Live series, we start by answering a question about hearing God’s voice through dreams and how to discern what’s from Him. Then we dive into a conversation about staying pure and faithful through every stage of relationships—dating, waiting, and marriage.
Episode 371: How to hear God’s voice | Live at Beso Live
In our first episode from BeSo Live, we answer the question that our attendees most wanted answered. They asked, “How do you hear God’s voice from your own thoughts?” If you want to grow in your understanding of God’s voice, this episode is for you!
Episode 370: Blessed are the Spiraling (feat. Levi Lusko)
In this episode we get to talk to pastor and author, Levi Lusko, about his new book “Blessed are the Spiraling”. He shares with us about how God used a uniquely difficult season in his life. Many times God does His best work in the hardest times!
Episode 369: Becoming Like Jesus (feat. Matt Chandler)
In this episode we talk to pastor and author, Matt Chandler, about his new book "Becoming Like Jesus". The path to holiness is oftentimes not a straight line. We talk with Matt about how God uses the ups and downs of life to shape us into the likeness of His Son!
Episode 368: You Are Not Your Job Title
While our jobs are important, they are not our identity. How do we balance a desire to succeed in our job, without being obsessed with our job? We do our best to help you develop a healthy work ethic in this episode!
Episode 367: Eyeing the Impossible (feat. Shannon Bream)
Fox News host and author, Shanon Bream, has just released a new book called “Nothing is Impossible with God”. She shares about how the stories in the Bible help give us faith today. Shanon even shares her own stories of God doing the impossible!
Episode 366: Revival in Iran (feat. David Nasser)
David Nasser is a leader in the American church, but he was born in Iran. He gives us an inside look into where Iran has been, where it is now, and where he hopes it goes in the future. You’re going to be moved by this episode!
Episode 365: Modeling Faithfulness (feat. former top model Jon Passavant)
In this episode we talk to former top model, Jon Passavant, about how to navigate faithfulness in a difficult workplace. When you’re surrounded by people not following Jesus, how do you keep your standards? You won’t want to miss his stories!
Episode 364: The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe (feat. Jennie Allen)
In this episode we get to speak with best selling author and speaker, Jennie Allen. Her new book “The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe” will help you identify where the enemy has deceived you. Satan has been a liar from the beginning, don’t let his voice win in your life!
Episode 363: Gender Roles in the Church (feat. Preston Sprinkle)
In this episode we talk to author, Preston Sprinkle, about his new book “From Genesis to Junia”. Across denominations, there are varying perspectives on what the Bible says about gender roles. Through years of study, Preston gives us insight into what his perspective has become!
Episode 362: How to handle the news (feat. Jason Woodruff)
In this episode we talk to Jason Woodruff, founder and editor in chief of The Pour Over, about how to handle the news. Some of us probably consume too much news, while others too little. How do we live informed, but not always outraged. This is an important episode for everyone!
Episode 361: Can I be Friends with my Ex?
Break-ups are hard! In this episode we talk about how to handle all of the next steps. Should you reach out to your ex, or ignore them? All of that and more on this episode!
Episode 360: Heal Your Hurting Mind (feat. Craig Groeschel)
We talk with pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about his own journey to get a healthy mind. Craig experienced work burnout, but found some ways to heal his hurting mind. His insights will help you no matter what season you’re in!
Episode 359: The Way We Date Isn’t Working
In this episode we talk through the major issues young adults have in dating. Are our standards too high? Not high enough? We talk through why things aren’t working and how to fix it!
Episode 358: Preparing for Marriage (feat. Christian Bevere)
In this episode we get to talk to author, Christian Bevere, about how to wait well for marriage. In your singleness, how can you pray for your spouse while also being content in your current season?
Episode 357: How to Be Yourself
Many of us are so prone to changing who we are based on who we’re around. In this episode we talk about how we can stop pretending, and to be who God created us to be!
Episode 356: You Can Love the Bible! (feat. Amanda Bible Williams)
In this episode we talk to Amanda Bible Williams, one of the founders of She Reads Truth. They have put together a fantastic new resource called “The Bible is for You” that will help everyone love their Bible more. To learn to love the Word of God more, check out this episode!
Episode 355: What Happens When We Sing (feat. Shane & Shane)
Shane and Shane have been writing songs for the church for years, and they’ve gotten to see how songs impact us. They’re convinced that we were made for worship! Their new daily devotional has helped thousands follow Jesus. To hear more, check out this episode!
Episode 354: Can I Have Non-Christian Friends?
How do you handle friendships with people that don’t follow Jesus? How close can those people be to you? For help with your friendships, you won’t want to miss this episode!
Episode 353: The Pressure to Perform (feat. Josiah Queen)
Josiah Queen is an artist that has found success at an early age. With songs like “The Prodigal” and “Dusty Bibles” he’s already selling out arenas in his young 20’s. We talk with him about what his journey has been like and how to stay grounded in God through all of it!
Episode 352: Sex by Design Part 2 (feat. Juli Slattery)
We continue our conversation with clinical psychologist, author, and speaker Juli Slattery about sex. She answers some of the most asked questions on the topic of sex. Don’t miss this really helpful discussion!
Episode 351: Sex by Design Part 1 (feat. Juli Slattery)
We get to speak to clinical psychologist, author, and speaker Juli Slattery about all things sex. She brings a wealth of knowledge to this subject and will help you wherever you’re at! Don’t miss this episode!
Episode 350: Is Sarcasm a Sin?
How far is too far when it comes to joking around with friends? Are jokes and sarcasm ever ok, or it is a sin? For more, check out this episode!
Episode 349: The Proof for Christmas (feat. Lee Strobel)
We continue our conversation with Lee Strobel about his book “The Case for Christmas”. He uses his investigative mindset to prove that Jesus really was born in a manger. However, he also sheds light on parts of the story you may not previously know!
Episode 348: Seeing the Supernatural (feat. Lee Strobel)
We have a conversation with Lee Strobel about the evidence for supernatural things. God will work to bring joy to the angry heart, and even visions of Heaven to the dying. God is living and active and there is proof for it!
Episode 347: Sleep, Alcohol, Food, and Your Brain (feat. Dr. Amen)
In this episode we talk with world renown Brain expert, Dr. Amen. He gives insights on how to live in a way that your brain will like! Healthy brains lead to healthier lives!
Episode 346: Am I Doing Enough for God?
In this episode we talk about the pressure of doing all of the right things in our relationship with God. How do we know if we are praying or reading the Bible enough? If you struggle with feeling guilt, this episode is for you!
Episode 345: Creating Real Community
What happens if you have friends, but may not really feel like you have genuine community? In this episode we talk about how to create deep relationships with the people around you. It may be simpler than you realize!
Episode 344: Hearing and Obeying the Voice of God (feat. Jamie Winship)
In this episode, we conclude our conversation with Jamie Winship. He shares about how he has learned to follow the voice of God in his life. If you’re eager to be challenged in your faith this episode is for you!
Episode 343: Who are you, really? (Feat. Jamie Winship)
In this episode we talk to Jamie Winship about finding our true identity. Many of us have lived for decades without actually understanding who God says we are. We are all unique creations of God and He has a special role for each of us!
Episode 342: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?
Is there a way to celebrate Halloween in a way that honors God? Or are we overthinking it entirely? Check out this episode for more!
Episode 341: Should Christians Listen to Taylor Swift?
When it comes to movies, music and media, what are some boundaries that Christians should put up? Are we free to listen to whatever? What are the impacts if we do? We talk all that and more in this episode!
Episode 340: In Sickness and in Health (Dating Thoughts from the Hospital)
JP’s stay in the hospital has brought increased clarity as to who you should be dating. With candor and clarity he talks about how sickness helps you know what to look for in a spouse!
Episode 339: Dare to Be True (feat. Madi Prewett Troutt)
What does it look like to build identity on Christ before anything else? Madi Prewett Trout opens up about her journey into marriage, the pressure to perform, and how faith anchors true intimacy. Whether you’re engaged, married, dating, or still waiting — this conversation will encourage you to become who God’s calling you to be. https://a.co/d/2JYpgqS
Episode 338: JP Health Update
In this special bonus episode we have a conversation with JP from the hospital. We cover how he’s processing this past week, why God doesn’t always heal, and how to serve someone who is hurting.
Episode 337: How to Get Over Yourself
Pride and selfishness are silent killers in our relationship with others, and even with God. In this episode we talk about practical steps you can take to get over yourself!
Episode 336: I’ve Lost My Passion for Jesus
Maybe you’ve been in a season where your fire for the Lord has fallen away. Your faith doesn’t have to stay that way! In this episode we talk about how to get your passion back and why it matters.
Episode 335: The Roots of Revival (Feat. Tonya Prewett)
We get to have a conversation with author and visionary behind the Unite movement, Tonya Prewett. She shared with us about where this movement of God came from how prayer had the power to change everything. Pick up her new book, “Roses to Revival” here: https://a.co/d/eyMJJf4
Episode 334: Can Ambition Honor God? (Feat. Ruslan KD)
We talk with Ruslan KD about his new book “Godly Ambition”. He’s a creative thinker and entrepreneur and has a lot to share about ambition. Is it a selfish thing? Or a God glorifying thing? For more check out his new book here: https://a.co/d/1xdGWx2
Episode 333: Don’t Waste Your Waiting
When you don’t yet have what you hope God will provide, what should you do? We talk about how to make sure your waiting season isn’t a wasted season!
Episode 332: Christians and ChatGPT
Is there anything that Christians should be worried about with AI? Is it all good? All bad? Somewhere in between? All of that and more in this episode!
Episode 331: Over-Involved Parents
What should boundaries look like with our parents once we become adults? Do we have to answer the phone every time they call? If you are wondering how to honor your parents while also maintaining your individuality this is for you!
Episode 330: A Fresh Move of God (feat. Christine and Nick Caine)
In this episode we talk with Christine and Nick Caine, founders of A21. Christine Caine has been on the front lines to what God has been doing for decades, but they share what new things have been happening now. If you want to be inspired to live with faith, check out this episode!
Episode 329: Spiritual Boundaries in Dating?
You may have heard that you need to establish spiritual boundaries while you date. Is that real or not? We talk about what you should and shouldn’t do as you date!
Episode 328: Charismatic or Crazy? (Feat. Matt Chandler)
This week we talk with Pastor Matt Chandler about the sign gifts of the spirit. Are they still real? Should we even care? All of that and more in this episode!
Episode 327: Should I Really Share THAT??
This week’s episode we talk all things authenticity. What should you share? Who should you share it with? Why share at all?
Episode 326: You Have a Calling! (feat. John Bevere)
Every single one of us has been called. In this episode we talk to author and speaker, John Bevere, about what that calling is. We also have a conversation about the return of Jesus! Buy his new book “You are Called” here: https://a.co/d/a4vte3M
Episode 325: When Fun Feels Forbidden
When you follow Jesus, it can seem like everyone else gets to have all the fun. Why would he keep us from things that would be exciting? Do His rules ever allow us to have fun?
Episode 324: Change is Possible (feat. Girls Gone Bible)
We get to talk with the hosts of Girls Gone Bible about how Jesus has changed their life. They share just how much better life with Him is. Pick up their new devotional “Out of the wilderness” here: https://a.co/d/c5CaXUS
Episode 323: Is Birth Control Biblical?
Does the Bible have anything to say about birth control and IVF? We talk about how to think through such important and timely issues!
Episode 322: Following Jesus in the NBA (feat. Jonathan Isaac)
Jonathan Isaac is an NBA player, but more importantly he’s a courageous follower of Jesus. While he lives in a culture that doesn’t promote holiness, he chooses to live differently. We talk about difficult decisions he’s had to make and how they have impacted his life!
Episode 321: How Much Money Can I Keep? (from BeSo Live)
How do we align what Jesus said do with our finances versus what is actually practical? Do we need to sell everything? Give 10%? How can we be faithful with our finances?
Episode 320: How to Love Someone Identifying as LGBTQ (from BeSo Live)
How do you love someone who you may disagree with? In this episode we talk about how to live like Jesus to anyone and everyone in your life!
Episode 319: Q&A with JP (from BeSo Live)
JP answers questions on the spot from attendees of BeSo Live. It’s a wide ranging conversation so you’ll want to listen to all of it!
Episode 318: Top Questions From Young Adults (from BeSo Live)
We rapid fire answer the top questions asked at BeSo Live. Things like, how do I honor those in authority? And, what can go wrong in marriage? Those and many more in this episode!
Episode 317: Would Jesus Flip Tables Today? (from BeSo Live)
What would Jesus flip tables over in church's today? We talk about all of this and more in the second recording from BeSo Live 2025.
Episode 316: Taking Care of Your Body (from BeSo Live)
How important is our physical health? And when can it become an obsession about appearance? We talk about all of that and more in this first recording from BeSo Live 2025!
Episode 315: The Fight for Marriage (feat. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons)
Since there is no perfect person, there is no perfect marriage. There are plenty of ways for division to arise in a marriage, but fighting for unity is possible. On this episode we talk to Gabe and Rebekah Lyons about their new book “The Fight for Us”. Pick it up here: https://a.co/d/fJhSeD5
Episode 314: Experiencing Jesus (feat. John Eldredge)
You can really have a vibrant relationship with Jesus! A stale religion can be replaced with an intimate knowledge of who Jesus is. Buy John’s new book “Experience Jesus. Really” here: https://a.co/d/iT62iFJ
Episode 313: I Want their Approval!
It’s so easy to live for the approval of people, but it’s an exhausting life! In this episode we talk about how you can find freedom from people pleasing.
Episode 312: What If I’m Not Attracted?
What do you do if you’ve found someone you want to date, but you’re not physically attracted to them? In this episode we talk about the importance of physical attraction in dating and marriage. If you’re looking for who to marry, this episode is for you!
Episode 311: Have I Missed God’s calling?
Making big decisions can be stressful because we don’t want to disobey what God’s plan for our life may be. In this episode we talk about God’s call for our life and if it’s possible to miss it.
Episode 310: Are Catholics Christians?
Many of us know people who are Catholics, but aren’t sure what they believe. What are the differences and similarities between Protestants and Catholics? Are both groups Christians?
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