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The Honor You Podcast | Practical Tools for High Performance in Life, Careers, & Relationships Without Self-Abandonment

The Honor You Podcast | Practical Tools for High Performance in Life, Careers, & Relationships Without Self-Abandonment

Melissa Coloton | Life Coach & Sales Consultant to High Performers and Businesses || 15+ Years in Corporate || Over $1B in Career Sales || Built Multiple Six-Figure Businesses || Certified Coach || Speaker 75 Episodes Oct 12, 2026

The Honor You Podcast is hosted by Melissa Coloton, a life coach and sales consultant, and focuses on practical tools for high performance in life, careers, and relationships without self-abandonment. Episodes explore how to connect with your soul's desires, honor your true self, and pursue success that feels genuinely fulfilling. Listeners are encouraged to move past societal expectations and design a life of meaning and purpose on their own terms. The show blends personal development, coaching insight, and mindset strategies drawn from the host's corporate and entrepreneurial experience.

Episodes

What If Failure Isn't Failure? Redefining Success and Investing Forward: A Conversation with Candice Van Dertholen
What If Failure Isn't Failure? Redefining Success and Investing Forward: A Conversation with Candice Van Dertholen Oct 12, 2026 4744 What if failure doesn't actually mean you failed? In this episode of the Honor You Podcast, Melissa welcomes back Candice Van Dertholen to talk about the fear of failure, redefining success, and what it means to invest in something before you can see the return. Candice shares the story behind an event she spent nearly $32,000 bringing to life, including the moments when she questioned whether it
FAILURE: What’s It Really Mean? + How To Recover and Still Claim Success
FAILURE: What’s It Really Mean? + How To Recover and Still Claim Success Sep 21, 2026 2153 In this episode, Melissa shares what it feels like to believe you’ve failed, especially when you’ve taken a big risk, bet on yourself, and the outcome doesn’t look anything like you expected. Melissa normalizes moving through emotions such as disappointment, anger, sadness, and a sense of letdown that can happen when things don’t go as planned, and how to begin to see the situation differently. In
Mental Direction vs. Soul Connection: Why This Is So Important to Understand to Change Your Life Completely
Mental Direction vs. Soul Connection: Why This Is So Important to Understand to Change Your Life Completely Aug 31, 2026 1419 In this episode, Melissa unpacks the difference between living from mental direction (letting society, career expectations, and external validation steer your choices) and living from soul connection (making decisions rooted in who you actually are). Drawing from her own experience of losing a corporate job she'd poured years into, Melissa breaks down why so many high performers hit a wall of anxi
Encore Episode: The Major Thing Missing When You're Triggered
Encore Episode: The Major Thing Missing When You're Triggered Aug 2, 2026 1587 In this week’s encore episode of The Honor You Podcast, host Melissa Coloton explores why being triggered is not a setback but a powerful opportunity to honor yourself and grow. Instead of avoiding those uncomfortable moments, she invites you to see them as signals that point to where healing, boundaries, and self honoring are needed. Melissa shares real-life examples from work, relationships, and
How to Accomplish Big Things Without Going Into Hyperdrive and Getting Burned Out
How to Accomplish Big Things Without Going Into Hyperdrive and Getting Burned Out Jul 27, 2026 1616 In this week’s episode, Melissa explores why so many high-achievers confuse stress with success—and how that mindset often leads to burnout. She shares lessons she’s learned and shares five practical shifts that have helped her pursue ambitious goals without sacrificing her well-being. If you've ever felt like you have to stay in "go" mode or “all or nothing” mode to be successful, this conversati
Money Motivation: Why it Works, Why it’s F*ing You Up, and What To Do Instead
Money Motivation: Why it Works, Why it’s F*ing You Up, and What To Do Instead Jul 13, 2026 2259 In this week’s episode, Melissa explores the role of money motivation and why it can be such a powerful driver of success, but also why chasing money alone can leave us feeling exhausted, disconnected, and unfulfilled. Drawing from her own 20-year corporate sales career and her transition into entrepreneurship, Melissa shares how she’s rethinking the relationship between money, purpose, and person
Am I Unsafe or Just Uncomfortable?: A Conversation with April Martini
Am I Unsafe or Just Uncomfortable?: A Conversation with April Martini Jul 6, 2026 2389 In this episode, Melissa sits down with advisor and speaker April Martini for a conversation about authenticity, trauma, resilience, nervous system regulation, and learning to respond differently when life feels overwhelming. April shares her journey from growing up in an abusive home to serving in the Army, leading in corporate America, and ultimately becoming an entrepreneur who helps women navi
Steps to Navigating Your Personal Purpose Journey
Steps to Navigating Your Personal Purpose Journey Jun 29, 2026 1476 In this episode, Melissa discusses how we are overcomplicating the idea of “finding our purpose.” She breaks down why so many of us get stuck, whether we’re in the camp that desperately wants to live a purposeful life or the camp that feels like purpose is some unrealistic luxury. Melissa explores the generational shift happening right now, how old expectations collide with new freedoms, and why s
Is Attachment to the Outcome Getting in the Way of Your Dreams?
Is Attachment to the Outcome Getting in the Way of Your Dreams? Jun 22, 2026 2496 What if the thing standing between you and the life you want isn't a lack of talent, motivation, or opportunity, but your attachment to the outcome itself? In this week’s episode, Melissa shares how deeply wanting something can sometimes create the very resistance that keeps us from fully pursuing it. She unpacks the subtle ways fear of failure, perfectionism, and emotional attachment can show up
Is It Burnout or Is It Trauma?
Is It Burnout or Is It Trauma? Jun 14, 2026 2447 In this episode, Melissa explores a question that shifted the way she understands her own experience after leaving corporate leadership and building her coaching business: Was it really burnout, or was it trauma? After spending years believing she was recovering from burnout, Melissa shares how a recent realization uncovered something deeper. Through personal reflection, self-coaching, and honest
The Major Thing Missing in You Being Able to Reach Your Goals and Why You Need This Particular Skill to Get Anything in Life
The Major Thing Missing in You Being Able to Reach Your Goals and Why You Need This Particular Skill to Get Anything in Life Jun 8, 2026 1965 Podcast Description: In this episode, Melissa explores one of the most overlooked factors in achieving your goals: identifying what you're truly willing—and unwilling—to do to create the life you want. Whether you're building a business, pursuing a personal dream, improving your health, or stepping into a bigger version of yourself, there often comes a point where excitement fades and resistance t
Inner Work, Embodiment, and the Practice of Honoring Yourself: A Conversation with Candice Van Dertholen
Inner Work, Embodiment, and the Practice of Honoring Yourself: A Conversation with Candice Van Dertholen Jun 1, 2026 2999 In this episode, Melissa sits down with Candice Van Dertholen for a conversation on inner work, embodiment, and sustainable success. Together, they explore why we often fall into the cycle of constantly chasing the next goal instead of feeling present with what we’ve already created and are currently experiencing. They unpack the connection between inner work, self-worth, and long-term success, an

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