Home Girls Unite
Home Girls Unite is a podcast and support group for eldest daughters and daughters from immigrant homes. Each week, the hosts discuss topics tied to the unique struggles of eldest daughters who had to grow up before their time and help mother those around them. The show offers shared experience, community, and validation for listeners navigating similar family and cultural expectations.
Episodes
Eldest Daughter Syndrome: Why We Give Everyone Everything But Ourselves
In this episode, Yasin and Kiran explore why so many eldest daughters find it easier to spend money, buy gifts, and provide for others than they do for themselves.From treating family and friends to luxury items, celebrating other people's milestones, and showing love through giving, many eldest daughters have mastered the art of caring for others, but struggle when it comes to receiving that
Confessions of an Eldest Daughter: Dealing with a last-born mother and wanting to be taken care of.
In this week's episode, Yasin and Kiran unpack two eldest daughter confessions that will resonate with so many women navigating responsibility, family expectations, and healing.The first confession comes from an eldest daughter whose mother moved to another country, leaving her to raise and care for her younger siblings. Together, they explore the emotional impact of parentification, the weigh
Financial & Economic Abuse: The Hidden Burden Many Eldest Daughters Carry
This week, we explore financial and economic abuse through the lens of the eldest daughter experience. From being expected to financially support family members, sacrificing personal goals, managing household responsibilities, or carrying the economic burden of an entire family, many eldest daughters experience forms of financial control that are rarely discussed.We unpack what financial and econo
Confessions of an Eldest Daughter: Fixing Family Problems, Setting Boundaries & Finding Joy
This week, Kiran and Yasin explore two confessions. One story unpacks the emotional burden of constantly fixing parents’ problems while receiving little support in return.The second follows an eldest daughter beginning to prioritise her own happiness, set boundaries, and rediscover joy beyond responsibility. A conversation about parentification, emotional labour, healing, and learning to choose yo
Visiting Home After Moving Out, Life in NYC & Unlearning Eldest Daughter Traits
This week, Yasin and Kiran discuss what it’s like visiting home after moving out as an eldest daughter — and the emotional shifts that come with creating distance, independence, and a new life.They also discuss life in NYC, missing home and creating new community and friendships. Lastly, they talk about some of the eldest daughter traits they are working to unlearn. You can watch this episode on
Confessions of an Eldest Daughter: Always taking the blame + dating a fellow eldest daughter
This week, Yasin and Kiran respond to your eldest daughter's confessions, unpacking the emotional weight of boundaries, family expectations, and burnout. We hear from:An eldest daughter dating another eldest daughter, but noticing the difference in how their families respond to boundaries, where one is supported, and the other is labelled “moody” or “rude”An eldest daughter who is constantly t
Why Some Eldest Daughters Miss Out on Extracurriculars
In this weeks episode, Yasin and Kiran explore how immigration, birth order, and family expectations shape the opportunities available to eldest daughters.Kiran reflects on growing up as a second-generation daughter, where she had access to extracurricular activities and creative opportunities. Yasin shares her experience as a first-generation eldest daughter, where the focus was on academia, resp
Confessions of an Eldest Daughter: Dating an Eldest Son + Marriage Regret
In this week's episode, Yasin and Kiran respond to anonymous confessions about dating, marriage regret and family pressure.This episode explores the complex realities many eldest daughters face when it comes to love, duty, and autonomy, especially within cultural and family expectationsYou can watch this episode on Youtube Book a RANT session here.Anonym
Eldest Daughters & Exploitation: The Hidden Risks No One Talks About.
In this episode, Yasin and Kiran explore a rarely discussed but critical topic: how being an eldest daughter can increase vulnerability to exploitation, including human trafficking for sexual exploitation.Through reflection and research, they unpack how parentification, family pressure, and cultural expectations can shape eldest daughters into being highly responsible, self-sacrificing, and condit
Confessions of an Eldest Daughter: As an eldest daughter, moving out feels like a crime
In this episode, Yasin and Kiran respond to confessions from eldest daughters — opening up to honest conversations about guilt, family pressure, and emotional responsibility.We hear from: An eldest daughter who feels guilty about moving away from her family An eldest daughter who feels stuck in the middle of her parents’ issuesMany eldest daughters grow up being the mediator, the fixer, and the em
Struggling to Make Friends? The Eldest Daughter Experience
In this episode , we explore how being an eldest or parentified daughter shapes the way we show up in friendships, from always being the “strong one” to struggling with vulnerability, boundaries, and asking for support.Many eldest daughters grow up prioritising others, managing emotions, and taking on responsibility early. But in adulthood, this can make it harder to build balanced, reciprocal fri
Confessions of an Eldest Daughter: “I told my parents I never want to have kids”
What do you do when your parents demand grandchildren, but they are the reason you don't want any? This week, we tackle the reality of eldest daughters who are burnt out from raising their own parents and siblings. We also explore a confession about the hidden stress of having a pet when you are already responsible for everyone else.You can watch this episode on Youtube Book a RANT session
The Pressure of Being an Eldest Daughter | Founder Life, Burnout & Fear of Failure
Why do so many eldest daughters become high achievers, and why does it often lead to burnout?In this episode, Kiran and Yasin explore the unique pressure placed on eldest daughters and parentified daughters to succeed, be responsible, and hold their families together. Many eldest daughters grow up being the reliable one, the helper, the role model, the emotional support system. Over time, this res
Confessions Of An Eldest Daughter: "Secretly Working for 4 Years"
Are you the family ATM? 💸 This week, we go through some eldest daughter confessions. We discuss how to handle toxic family dynamics, especially when you are forced to take on financial responsibility for your parents. We share stories from listeners, including one who secretly worked for four years to save money to run away. We also provide a resource pack and database for eldest daughters who wa
The Eldest Daughter Guilt
If you grew up feeling like the "third parent" in your house, this episode is for you.We sat down to talk about the heavy burden placed on eldest daughters—especially in immigrant families. We discuss why setting boundaries feels like a crime, why being called "selfish" should actually be a compliment , and how to finally stop throwing yourself under the bus just to keep the pe
Eldest daughters are stepping in for absent fathers
This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions from eldest daughters. They discuss the importance of standing up for yourself as an eldest daughter. How to deal with misogynistic parents and siblings, and also the importance of calling people out who mistreat you Book a RANT session here.Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions hereFind us
CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Xenia and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters. Book a RANT session here.Anonymously send your eldest daughter confessions hereFind us on Twitter, Instagram and TikTokEmail us: hello@homegirlsunite.com
As an eldest daughter, Lynette shouldn't have married Tom: A dive into Desperate Housewives
Yasin and Kiran are back after a well-deserved hiatus! In this episode, they dive into the world of Desperate Housewives, unpacking the dynamic between Lynette and Tom and how it reflects the struggles of eldest daughters everywhere. From managing responsibilities to navigating relationships, they explore why eldest daughters often carry the emotional and mental load—both on screen and in real lif
Maintaining Your Freedom After Moving Back Home ft. Ayushi
This week, we’re joined by Ayushi to explore the highs and lows of moving back home after experiencing the freedom of university life. We delve into the challenges of navigating life under your parents’ roof again and share insights on maintaining healthy friendships, especially when the responsibilities of being an eldest daughter come into play.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters.
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Eldest Daughters and Resentment + CONFESSION ft. Yasmin
In this episode, Yasin and Yasmin discuss resentment and how it manifests in different relationships—whether with siblings, friends, or even in the workplace. The discussion centres around how unresolved tensions, unspoken frustrations, and unfairness can build up over time, often leading to a deep-seated resentment.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters.
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The therapist told my mum "you can learn a thing or two from Zoha’s parenting style"
CONTENT WARNING: TALK OF SUICIDE
This week, Zoha joined us to share her PhD journey, the challenges she faced, and the key realizations along the way. We also delved into family dynamics, including her brother's struggles with disability, mental health, and a suicide attempt. Lastly, we explored her experience of supporting her mum through therapy and being there for her sisters.
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"As an eldest daughter, my family doesn't always show up for me"
We're sorry we've been away. This week, Yasin and Kiran discuss Yasin's new role as a married eldest daughter. The girls also discuss how family can dismiss your needs and often fail to support you when needed. Finally, we discuss how our upbringing has impacted our emotions as eldest daughters.
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Eldest Daughters x Life Update
This week, Yasin and Kiran speak about their different life events and what this means for Home Girls in the future.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters.
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Can work be an escape for eldest daughters? + CONFESSIONS ft. Sahra
This week, Yasin is joined by her Co-director, Sahra. They delve into their experiences running Home Girls. The discussion shifts to the delicate act of balancing work and personal life. Looking at the unique pressures on eldest daughters in the workplace. They offer practical tips and personal anecdotes on managing responsibilities at home and in the workplace. They also discuss a confession of a
My partner is healing my eldest daughter trauma ft. Kafayat
This week, Yasin is joined by Kafayat. They discuss how moving out has become a gateway to gaining respect from family members and helping them realize how much you do for them.
They also delve into the importance of standing your ground and embracing a rebellious spirit. Finally, they talk about her parents moving back to Nigeria and how that might impact her role as the eldest daughter.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Xenia and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters.
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I struggle with celebrating myself ft. Dr Isha
This week, we are joined by Isha, the latest PhD grad in town. We speak about her 12-year journey to getting her PhD and how she balanced it with being an eldest daughter and a mother of 2.
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Eldest Daughters obligation to celebrate fathers day even if your dad isn't worthy
This week, Yasin and Xenia discuss fathers day, the importance of therapy and having grace for our freinds who are on the journey of mohterhood.
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“I’m one of those people who’s glad they lost a parent” ft. Lydia
This week, we are joined by Lydia, who talks about how her eldest daughter's life has been 2 years after she first came on the podcast.
We speak about the loss of her mum and how that has changed her sibling dynamic. We also discuss her journey to rediscovering herself. You can listen to Lydia’s new podcast, The Reforming Pessimist, here
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters.
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Apply For Our Young Women's Leadership Programme
We are now accepting applications for our 2024 TuWezeshe Akina Dada young women’s leadership programme! We have Sumayyah, who is a fellow from the latest cohort, to tell us about her experince.
If you're interested in applying or would like to learn more, head over here for more details.
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"I consult everyone before making decisions"
This week, Yasin and Xenia discuss decision-making and how it impacts the eldest daughters. They also discuss how they might have thought strict parenting was their parents protecting them from outside harm.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Kiran and Yasin look at some confessions sent in by eldest daughters.
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Our Parents Community Wasn’t a Safe Space
This week, we talk about how sisterhood and community have been a safe space for eldest daughters. We speak about third spaces, the importance of creating safe communities and how different generations value different types of communities.
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"I was essentially one of their first bullies growing up because I was bullied" ft. Zita
This week, we are delighted to welcome Zita as our guest. In this episode, Zita delves into the less-explored aspects of the eldest daughter role, specifically addressing the challenges of mistreating siblings—an experience many of us share but seldom discuss openly. She candidly shares her journey of acknowledging the difficulties in her sibling relationships, taking accountability, and actively
Media Club: "That show was banned in our house"
We are so excited to launch our media club for eldest daughters officially. We want to use this opportunity to talk about the things we enjoy the most: books, films, theatre, TV shows and more.We will be running a book club and a monthly bonus podcast episode speaking about our favourite hot topics that relate to our eldest daughter life. Be it our favourite childhood film, Matilda, or the Kim vs
Eldest daughters, do we break or follow the rules?
This week, the girls discussed rule-breaking and how being the eldest daughter doesn’t often give you the luxury of breaking the rules like your younger siblings may be free to do. They also talked about how being pressured to follow the rules can lead to consequences of substance abuse after we gain some freedom.
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“Media and Medicine a constant battle in my life” ft. MoChunks
This week, we have a conversation with MoChunks. MoChunks is a Media Mogulette in the making. We speak about her eldest daughter role and how she juggles many other roles in her life. We discuss careers, education, burnouts and breakthroughs.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Xenia and Yasin look at a confession sent in by an eldest daughter.
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Dealing with the holiday season as an eldest daughter
This week, Xenia and Yasin speak about some of the stresses that come with being an eldest daughter during the holiday, especially when you are spending time with family emembrs that trigger you. They also give some tips on how to manage these streses, how to prepare yourself to be around family members, self-care tips and creating your own traditions.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, Xenia and Yasin look at a confession sent in by an eldest daughter.
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"Invite eldest daughters, even if they can't make it" - Eldest Daughters x Friendships
This week, Xenia and Yasin talk about all things friendships. Looking at how the eldest daughter role impacted their friendships and how we overcame it. They also discuss friendship break-ups, how to not take on most of the responsibilities in your friendships and finally, the effects of parents not encouraging friendships from a young age.
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Meet Xenia, our new co-host
Join us today as we get to know one of our second co-hosts, Xenia.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, we look at two daughter confessions
and come up with possible solutions
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What do eldest daughters experience on their wedding day?
This week, we discuss how eldest daughters are often referred to as party poopers. We delve into why many of us struggle with relaxing and having fun at parties. We also discuss how eldest daughters may feel on their wedding day. Will everyone let them have the day of their dreams, or will eldest daughters continue being planners and making sure everyone is fine?
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, we look at two daughter confessions and come up with possible solutions.
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Do eldest daughters see themselves as an extension of their parents
This week, we talk about the guilt that comes with accepting things from your parents (gifts, money, etc.) and how we can overcome this. We also speak about why eldest daughters communicate differently from their younger siblings.
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CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER
This week, we look at an daughter confession.
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Eldest daughters should do less, because "when we’re not there, they figure it out"
When did you first realise that your eldest daughter role dominated your life? This week, we speak about how the eldest daughter role dominates our lives. We discuss the guilt that comes with deciding to put yourself first and how to work around that guilt. We also look into the types of roles eldest daughters go into and how to manage a good work/life balance.
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Meet Kiran, the new co-host
WE ARE BACK!! With two new co-hosts. Join us today as we get to know one of our new co-hosts, Kiran.
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“I decided to estrange myself from my birth parents” ft. Holly
This week, we are joined by Holly. Holly talks us through a step-by-step process of being estranged from her family. We speak about estrangement from both parents and some siblings, the rationale behind her choices and how it has helped her currently. We also discuss aspects of her life when she experienced abuse and financial mistreatment. Finally, we talk about all things self-care and how to pr
Why are eldest daughters lonely?
This week, I look at how loneliness impacts the lives of eldest daughter and how they can work to overcome it. If you need to speak with someone, please book a rant session with us.
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"I don't want to be the bigger person all the time" ft. Praise
This week, we are joined by Praise. We speak about gendered parenting and how she moved away without feeling guilty.
We also speak about careers and how her eldest daughter role helped her in this role.
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“Am I trying to be the eldest daughter for my community?” Ft. Nicole
This week Nicole joins us. We discuss dating and moving in with a boy without your parents’ approval. We also discuss the work that goes into ending
people-pleasing tendencies. Finally, we discuss her career, how she ran for CONGRESS, and her parent’s disapproval of this decision.
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Biologically I’m a sister but I haven’t experienced it ft Usna
This week, we joined Usna, the eldest daughter of six. We discuss how her eldest daughter role has infiltrated many parts of her life, including her relationship with her siblings and how she has never felt like a sister, but a parent, dating life, the guilt of eldest daughter life and more, even after moving out.
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In a long-distance relationship with my family ft. Cellia
This week, I am joined by Cellia. We discuss being in a long-distance relationship with her family after moving abroad. We also discuss the resentment that comes with the eldest daughter role, the differences in treatment between her and her siblings, career choices and going into the creative sector. Finally, we speak about conversing with your parents about your eldest daughter experiences and t
“My parents didn’t respect my education, I’m now doing a PhD" ft Zoha
This week, we are joined by Zoha. We discuss life in an abusive household and how education helped her escape. We also discuss how she supported her mother with English classes and eventually helped her secure a job.
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Sacrificing Friendships, Education & Dating Ft. Naomi
This week we are joined by Naomi. We speak about how she had to pause her life to look after her younger siblings. How difficult friendships and dating is and also how her eldest daughter role has affected her education.
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Caring for my sick Sister ft Ridwan
This week, we are joined by Ridwan. We speak about all things moving out, friendships, and supporting your family. We also discuss how her eldest daughter role changed after her sister was diagnosed with Leukaemia, caring for her and making sure she also prioritised her own needs.
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Eldest Daughters & Missing Out - January Twitter Space
After some well-needed break, we are backkkk!!
This week, we are on Twitter spaces having some good conversations about missing out on things and how to deal with them. We also discuss how patriarchy plays such a huge part in how our mothers raised us and let their sons be free.
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Eldest Daughters Guide To Financial Savviness ft. Yvan
This week, we are joined by Yvan, creator of BudgetingBred. An online platform about Yvan's personal finance journey. We discuss how eldest daughters can save, spend money without feeling guilty, and work through the idea of being their parent's retirement plans.
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Losing Both Parents As An Eldest Daughter ft Jo
This week we are joined by Jo. We discuss eldest daughter life from a generational perspective. Both she and her mother rejected the role and chose to put their education first. We also discuss life dealing with a high-functioning alcoholic father and how all this affected her education. Finally, speak about having to be there for her siblings when her parents both passed away.
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The Outspoken Eldest Daughter ft. Sevil
This week, I am joined by Sevil, we spoke about her eldest daughter journey and how what it is like to be the outspoken one in the family. How her mother has been supportive of her outspokenness and why it is important to do it for her sister. To read Sevil's blog, here's the link.
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HGU X You Press ft Ridwan
This week, I am joined by Ridwan. Eldest daughter and Operations Manager at You Press. We speak about You Press, her role within the organisation and what eldest daughter life is like for her.
You Press is an award-winning social enterprise based in London. Our projects empower young people (between 16-30 years old) and underrepresented communities to find their voice and be heard. This invo
Culture Clashes: Queerness vs African-ness ft Akos
This week I am joined by Akos, and we speak about having a co-dependent mother from the age of 5. We also discuss the cultural clashes of being a Ghanaian American and how that impacted her upbringing. Finally, we speak about her queerness and how it clashed with her African-ness, her mother's reaction to it and her eventual support of identity.
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"My Mother Tried to Drown Me" ft Rena
****TRIGGER WARNING - CHILD ABUSE / LOSING PARENTS ****
This week, I speak to Rena about her childhood with an abusive Mother who was violent towards her. We speak about how she has gotten through it with therapy and moving out. Lastly, we discuss life without her parents who both passed away.
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Narcissistic Mothers & Fathers who Enable them ft Muna
This week, I am joined by Muna. Muna inherited the eldest daughter's role when her sister left home. We speak about what it is like to grow up with a narcissistic Mother and a Father that enables it, how to identify the traits and how to live with such parents. We also talk about her process of moving out of the family home and how she had a conversation with her parents.
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Moving Out ft Nadiya - “I didn’t speak to my parents for 4 months”
This week, I am joined by Nadiya. An eldest daughter who has done what many of us are hoping to do - MOVE OUT. We speak about life as an eldest daughter who moved out and how she did not speak to her parents for around four months.
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"You're riding out for cultural conventions & you're not riding out for me" ft Raha
This week I am joined by Raha; we talk about when your parents choose cultural needs over your needs. The pressures of living with parents that do not want you to be an adult and the consequences that come with doing what's best for you as the eldest daughter.
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The Eldest Daughter Guilt ft Monica
This week, I am joined by Home Girl Monica. We discuss eldest daughter life, looking at themes of the double standard, being a second parent, being alienated from your peers and the guilt that comes with putting yourself first.
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Cost of Living & Escaping Abusive Households
The cost of living crisis and financial abuse has made it hard for many eldest daughters to move out of abusive homes. Here are some resources on how they can help you in the journey to move out. To read more on the available support, head over to Surviving Economic Abuse.
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Being an eldest daughter in two continents ft. Kinneh and Mariama
This week I was joined by Kinneh and Mariama, and we spoke about life as the eldest daughter in the UK and Gambia and the cultural differences that come with that! We speak about siblings, financiers, our mothers and their eldest daughter roles and more.
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Navigating Difficult Relationships with Parents
This week, we look at a an eldest daughter's confession on the difficult relationship that she is having with her parents. We walk about how she can go about improving her relationship.
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How to start rejecting the eldest daughter role!
This week, we wanted to look at how to we can remove ourselves from the eldest daughter role that we have been condition and policed into.
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Eldest Daughters & ADHD with Saami
This week i am joined by eldest daughter Saami. We discuss her ADHD diagnosis and the difficulties getting an diagnosis. We also discuss how it effects her as an eldest daughter, her academic career and family life.
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HGU X Clean Break X Meet the Writer Ambreen Razia
This week we talk all things Favour. Favour is a touching and hopeful family drama that tackles duty, addiction and the battle of putting yourself back together. Writer of Diary of a Hounslow Girl Ambreen Razia’s remarkable new play, a new Bush Theatre and Clean Break co-commission, tells a strikingly frank story of a working-class Muslim family in a way you’ve never seen before on stage. Out now!
Caring for my mother since I was 13 (HGU X YUCAN)
This week is Carers Week (6th - 12th June). We are joined by Sanyu, the founder of YUCAN. An organisation that works towards creating a space and workshops that addresses the well-being of young carers around the UK. We speak about her experience as a young carer and the lived experience of caring for her mother.
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