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Good Inside with Dr. Becky

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

kju 116 Episodes Oct 13, 2026

Good Inside with Dr. Becky is a weekly parenting podcast hosted by clinical psychologist and mother of three Dr. Becky Kennedy. In short episodes, she tackles difficult parenting questions and offers practical, actionable guidance. Her approach helps listeners become more comfortable with discomfort, make repairs after mistakes, and see the good inside themselves and their children. Parents gain tools to balance authority with connection and to support their child’s long-term development.

Episodes

Stop Asking Your Kid Who Their Best Friend Is, with Adam Grant
Stop Asking Your Kid Who Their Best Friend Is, with Adam Grant Oct 13, 2026 2929 Every parent asks their kid some version of the same question: “Who's your best friend?” Adam Grant thinks that's the wrong thing to be asking, at any age.His new book Vibe breaks friendship into four types: pals, allies, companions, and associates. Most of us assume we need one person who's all four. Grant's research says that's a setup for disappointment, and that kids who are genuinely well-lik
What Really Matters When Raising Boys: Consent, Peer Pressure & Doing the Right Thing
What Really Matters When Raising Boys: Consent, Peer Pressure & Doing the Right Thing Oct 8, 2026 2659 We spend too much time making sure our boys know the right answer, and not enough time helping them build the emotional skills to act on it when the stakes are high.“Should you respect someone’s no?” Yes.“Should you speak up when something bad is happening?” Yes.Our kids can ace that test.Now add rejection. Add wanting to belong. Add: “If I say something, my friends might turn on me.”Knowing the r
The 10,000 Paper Cuts That Teach Women Not to Trust Themselves, with Melinda French Gates
The 10,000 Paper Cuts That Teach Women Not to Trust Themselves, with Melinda French Gates Oct 6, 2026 2869 Melinda French Gates has run some of the most powerful rooms in the world. She co-founded and co-chaired the Gates Foundation. She's sat across from heads of state. And in her 40s, at the top of her career, she started doubting herself in meetings she'd run a hundred times before.She talks to Dr. Becky about why: chronic insomnia; undiagnosed perimenopause; a body that had learned, years earlier,
Stop Trying to Make Your Kid Feel Good About Themselves
Stop Trying to Make Your Kid Feel Good About Themselves Sep 29, 2026 1160 Two parents came to Dr. Becky on the same day, both worried about their kid's confidence. One had a kid who wouldn't join the group. The other had a teenager who wouldn't leave the group. Dr. Becky says: maybe confidence isn’t what we think it is. She breaks down what confidence actually means, then she names three things well-meaning parents do that quietly work against building that kind of conf
Resentment, Joy, and Why Moms Don't Believe They're Allowed Either
Resentment, Joy, and Why Moms Don't Believe They're Allowed Either Sep 22, 2026 2232 Was today a good day? Did my kid seem happy? If the answer is no, even a little, it can feel like the whole day failed, like you failed.Dr. Becky sits down with Kate Bowler, a professor at Duke University, to make the case that happiness might be the wrong thing to optimize for in the first place. Happiness, Kate argues, is really just ease: a hundred small circumstances lining up so nothing feels
Stop Asking "Why" - What an FBI Negotiator Teaches Parents Instead
Stop Asking "Why" - What an FBI Negotiator Teaches Parents Instead Sep 15, 2026 3584 Chris Voss is a former FBI lead kidnapping negotiator, bestselling author of Never Split The Difference, and founder and CEO of The Black Swan Group; a negotiation, training, coaching, and consulting organization that teaches people how to achieve better outcomes in high-stakes conversations. Today, he teaches some of these same skills to parents - and it turns out the thing that gets a hostage-ta
How Misty Copeland Turned Instability Into Ballet
How Misty Copeland Turned Instability Into Ballet Sep 8, 2026 2646 Misty Copeland grew up sleeping on a motel floor with five siblings, unsure where the next meal was coming from. At 13, she walked into her first ballet class and felt something she'd never felt before: safe. Dr. Becky talks with the first Black woman to become a principal dancer at American Ballet Theatre about the years she was asked to paint her skin to match the rest of the corps, the mentors
A Different Take on Screen Time - Revisit
A Different Take on Screen Time - Revisit Sep 1, 2026 2729 We all know too much screen time isn’t good for kids—and our instinct as parents is to protect them from it. But when fear shapes how we manage screens at home, it can quickly turn into shame the moment they pick one up. In today’s world, where screens are woven into so much of daily life, the real challenge is to face that reality with thoughtfulness – and to make choices guided by our values, no
The Second Cutting of the Cord: What Actually Happens When You Go Back to Work
The Second Cutting of the Cord: What Actually Happens When You Go Back to Work Aug 25, 2026 2757 Twelve weeks of parental leave. Then you're back at your desk, wondering why it feels so hard. Today we’re posting an episode from Rattled, our podcast for parents of newborns and babies, because it’s about something everybody experiences. It’s the final part of our three-part series with Care.com on finding care for your baby, and it's about a transition nobody preps you for: going back to work.
When Our Nervous Systems Hijack Our Parenting - Revisit
When Our Nervous Systems Hijack Our Parenting - Revisit Aug 18, 2026 1592 If you’ve yelled at your kid, you’re not a bad parent. You’re a good parent with an overwhelmed nervous system. In today’s revisit from the Good Inside archives, Dr. Becky breaks down the science behind yelling, snapping, and shutting down. She explains why our bodies react before our brains can catch up – and how understanding this will help you pause, reset, and reconnect. * Thank you to our par
Why Am I Always on the Edge?
Why Am I Always on the Edge? Aug 11, 2026 2234 Your kid hits. Melts down the second you leave the house. Argues about everything, all day, every single day. You've tried the time-outs, the consequences, the calm-down corner. Nothing works. Why are we always at that cliff? Dr. Becky spent two hours in a Reddit thread literally called "Nothing Works" and pulled three real posts to build this episode. Her answer: you're intervening at the cliff,
When Depression Doesn't Look Like Depression
When Depression Doesn't Look Like Depression Aug 4, 2026 2713 What does depression look like? It’s not always… sadness. It can be anger. Irritability. Picking fights. Checking out. Taking risks that don't make sense. It can look, to everyone around you — including you — like a character problem, not a medical condition. Christopher Choukalas is an ICU physician at UCSF. Six months after his twin daughters were born, he had every symptom on the paternal postp

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