The Erotic Life Podcast
The Erotic Life Podcast features honest conversations with people who bring their erotic self to the forefront. It explores what it means to live with passion, break taboos, and embrace the full spectrum of human desire. Each episode offers candid perspectives on sexuality, intimacy, and erotic identity.
Episodes
06 | Pup Play + Autism w. Dr Liam Wignall
In this episode, we examine the subculture of pup play, what it looks like in practice, and why it offers such effective sensory relief and social connection. We discuss research showing that over half of surveyed pups score above the cut-off for autistic traits, and we explore what this community teaches all of us about explicit communication, boundaries, and intimacy.Joining me to discuss this i
05 | Dark Romance: What It Gets Right. And Wrong. w. @words_are_a_kink
Welcome to this episode featuring researcher and kink practitioner Miriam (@words_are_a_kink). This conversation examines the psychological and physical impacts of Dark Romance literature, social media trends, and AI chat apps.While BDSM practitioners rely on consent, clear boundaries, and aftercare to maintain safety, Dark Romance literature often strips away these protective frameworks. Viral tr
04 | Talking Leather w. @Brodie7571
Welcome to this episode featuring Brody (@brodie7571). If you want to understand how personal expression, gear, and submission intersect in real life, this conversation gives you an honest look inside the community.For a long time, society taught people to feel embarrassed or nervous about their sexual interests. Brody offers a different way forward. He demonstrates how fully embracing leather, la
03 | The Dark Online World Of Pseudo-Findoms: When Healthy Kink Turns Into Real Harm
In this episode, I unpack the rapidly growing online phenomenon of Financial Domination (Findom) and look closely at where healthy BDSM play ends and harm begins.Many men, both gay and straight, who find themselves in distressing, financially straining online cycles believe they are participating in a true Financial Domination/Financial Submissive (FD/FS) dynamic. However, genuine BDSM requires ex
02 | Findom, Straight Men, and Gay Desire w. Dr Joe Kort
The Erotic Currency: Findom, Straight Men, and Gay Desire w. Dr Joe KortThe clinical world and broader culture often panic when sex and money collide, confusing the dynamic with addiction or exploitation. In this episode, I sit down with renowned sex and relationship therapist Dr. Joe Kort to pull back the curtain on the clinical room and explore the hidden world of financial domination (findom).T
01 | BDSM: The Soul Made Manifest w. Dr Douglas Thomas
I am very excited to share my recent discussion with Dr Douglas Thomas, author of The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink.In this episode we discuss his Soul-Centred Approach to BDSM. To do this, we we first examine BDSM through the Historical Lens to understand how past societal views shaped modern perceptions. We then shift to the Person-Centred Lens to look at current psychological views on indivi
The Erotic Life Podcast
Like many psychotherapists, my practice is deeply centred on the concept of integration: the work of bringing the fragmented parts of ourselves together to feel whole. Yet, in that pursuit, we often neglect or suppress the erotic part of our identity.Join therapist Sergio Rebelo, as he meets people who have learned to embrace their erotic selves and bring that authenticity into their daily lives.
