NAUGHTY GYM SHOW - Building Stronger Non-Monogamous Relationships
Naughty Gym Show is a podcast about non-monogamy, open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and building strong relationships beyond traditional monogamy. Hosted by Scott and April Shirley, it explores how couples and individuals can create honest, ethical, and emotionally resilient non-monogamous relationships. Episodes cover communication, jealousy, autonomy, intimacy, trust, and personal growth, with relational freedom as a central idea. The show draws on Wild Love Theory and treats relationships as something people can train for.
Episodes
You Want an Open Relationship. So Why Does It Hurt?
When Your Mind Says Yes, But Your Body Says No You love your partner. You genuinely want them to experience freedom, pleasure, and connection with others. You've talked about it, made agreements, and decided you're ready. Then it happens. You see your partner flirting with someone, kissing someone, or enjoying an experience you've already agreed to, and suddenly your stomach drops. Your heart race
The Non-Monogamy Check-In
What if the real question isn’t, “Why can’t I handle non-monogamy?” but instead, “What else am I already carrying?”In this episode, Scott and April get unusually personal about something that has quietly affected their own non-monogamous relationship for years: capacity.Non-monogamy can be emotionally demanding. And when one partner is already overwhelmed by work, family, stress, responsibility, o
Can Psychedelics Make You Better at Non-Monogamy?
Can psychedelics actually make you better at non-monogamy? Jealousy. Fear. Defensiveness. Insecurity. The urge to control what your partner does so you don’t have to feel something uncomfortable. These are some of the hardest parts of opening a relationship, and in this episode, Scott sits down with Dr. Chandra Khalifian and Dr. Kayla Knopp, co-founders of Enamory, to explore whether psychedelic-a
Special Episode: Men Need Male Relationships
What happens when a bunch of men who aren’t particularly interested in going to a men’s retreat actually spend a weekend together? Apparently, something none of us expected. When Mancation Mountain was created, the plan was pretty simple: get a group of guys together in an incredible Smoky Mountain mansion, eat great food, play poker and pickleball, drink, laugh, hang out, and squeeze in about 90
Barcelona Recap & Our Two-Year Transparency Misunderstanding
We’re back from Europe, and somehow we came home with more than great food, unforgettable stories, and a ridiculous amount of sweat. In this episode, we recap our eight-day Naughty Gym/Aya Society trip outside Barcelona with 29 friends, including connection circles, skinny dipping at a 500-year-old villa, late nights in the Gothic Quarter, an unforgettable drag show in Sitges, April watching her g
Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: Invisible Contracts & Unspoken Expectations
What happens when you really click with another person or couple, maybe even have great sex, and then find yourself hurt or jealous when they connect with someone else?In Episode 83, April and Scott talk about the invisible agreements we sometimes create in non-monogamy without ever discussing them.Maybe you’ve played together before and assumed it would happen again. Maybe you went to an event to
Menopause Unfiltered: Pelvic Health, Better Sex & the Power of Women’s Community
Perimenopause and menopause can affect far more than your cycle—they can reshape your sleep, strength, confidence, sexuality, and relationships. In this candid episode, April and co-host Catherine of Expansive Connection explore how women can move through this transition feeling informed, empowered, and fully connected to their bodies.Pelvic-floor specialist Cara explains why common symptoms shoul
We’re Getting Divorced… to Celebrate Our Love? Our Biggest Announcement Yet
After six years, Naughty Gym is becoming Aya Society.In this episode, we share why we’re making the biggest change our business has ever seen, what the new name means, and why this feels like the next chapter of everything we’ve been building.We also announce the upcoming release of Wild Love Theory, our new book about building relationships that are rooted in freedom, authenticity, and intentiona
Naughty Gym Invades X-Club: Inside A Lifestyle Weekend In Toronto
We just got home from hosting our first Naughty Gym weekend at X Club, and we are telling the whole story.In this episode, Scott, April, and Andy recap four days at one of the most impressive lifestyle clubs they have visited. They share what surprised them about X Club, why it felt welcoming for both first-timers and longtime lifestyle people, how the club separates partying from play, and why th
Dealing With Fears & Insecurities in Non-Monogamy
Fear, jealousy, and insecurity are some of the most common struggles couples face in the lifestyle, swinging, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy. But what should you actually do when those feelings show up?In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott talk about the normal fears that come up in the lifestyle, including body comparison, fear of being replaced, anxiety around te
The Bad Prophet: You’re Probably Not as Good at Reading People as You Think
How good are you really at reading people?Most of us like to believe we are above average at detecting lies, sensing energy, reading body language, picking up on vibes, and knowing what someone “really means.” But the research tells a very different story. In this episode, April and Scott unpack one of the most quietly destructive patterns in relationships: the confidence we place in our own inter
The Opportunity: Investing In A Lifestyle Resort & The Power Of Why In Non-Monogamy
Yes, we’re part of a new lifestyle resort project in Florida, and in this episode we bring on Jimmy Thorpe to talk about the vision, the opportunity, and what could become one of the most exciting lifestyle destinations in the United States.But the real story is bigger than the property.This conversation is about where non monogamy is headed. For a long time, a lot of lifestyle spaces have been bu
Wild Love Retreat - What Really Happens When You Live This?
In this episode, April, Scott, and therapist Catherine from Expansive Connection unpack the raw, surprising, and powerful reality of the very first Wild Love Theory retreat. They share what shocked them most, what couples struggled with, what breakthroughs happened in real time, and why the weekend felt deeper than any of them expected.From vulnerable men opening up, to hard conversations about fr
April On The Non-Monogamy Hot Seat: Questions To Argue About
In this episode of the Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott pull back the curtain on one of the biggest shifts in their relationship so far: removing boundaries, testing freedom in real life, and learning what trust actually looks like when it is no longer theoretical.They talk openly about a major miscommunication that turned into a powerful experiment in non-monogamy, what happened when April gave
Rewriting Our Relationship Rules: Rethinking Boundaries Together
In this raw and deeply personal episode of The Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott pull back the curtain on one of the hardest parts of open relationships and relational freedom: how couples actually revisit rules, boundaries, jealousy, and emotional capacity in real time.Using a powerful tool from their upcoming Wild Love Theory book and workbook, they walk through the exact process they use to ide
Starting Non-Monogamy - A Real Couple's Experience
Before we jump into today’s conversation, we share a major announcement: after months of quiet work behind the scenes, we reveal that we’ve been involved with a group that is under contract to acquire what many consider one of the premier lifestyle resorts in Florida. Because of SEC rules, we have to be careful about what we say publicly, but we’re excited to share the project, the vision, and the
Angry Feminist Era Activated: Unlearning Purity Culture & Defensive Masculinity
This week on The Naughty Gym Show, April takes the wheel for a real-time life update that starts with a chaotic wine-night incident (yes—April fell down 13 of 15 stairs in plush slippers… and Scott’s first response was to laugh 🙃) and turns into one of your most honest conversations yet.From there, you unpack what’s been swirling behind the scenes: launching your Patreon (with tiers starting at $3
The Spectrum of Compersion: From Neutrality to Joy, Without Toxic Positivity, w/Dr. Marie Thouin
What if the goal is not to erase jealousy, but to stop letting it drive the car? Dr. Marie Thouin joins April and Scott to define compersion in clear, grounded terms, and to explain why it can show up as an emotion, an attitude, or even simple supportive neutrality. They talk about the spectrum from “I can handle this” to genuine joy, the “second arrow” of self-inflicted suffering, and the conditi
Reframing Jealousy: Why The Word "Reclaiming" Gives Us The Ick
Jealousy isn’t always about fear of losing your partner. Sometimes it’s about losing yourself. In this episode, April and Scott share a real, recent story from their open-relationship journey that completely reframed what jealousy can mean—and it leads to a breakthrough concept they call “imposed burdens.”After Scott goes on a separate date (with April’s full consent and clear emotional parameters
Two Keynotes LIVE From Hedonism Resort: Luna Matatas & Ashley Manta
In this live event recording, sex educator Luna Matatas breaks down why kink can feel so electrifying by exploring the psychology of power, risk, and taboo and how “eroticism” is really the felt sense of being lit up in mind and body. She offers a practical way to translate fantasy into real life by focusing less on props and more on the feelings and “flavors” you want to create, building a clear
BBBB 2026 Recap At Hedonism Resort: Doctor Strange, Gum Hair, & A Coma In The Hot Tub!
April and Scott recap Be Better at Being Bad 2026 at Hedonism—day by day—covering the themes, the workshops, the connection circles, and the parties that made this year’s week feel like the best yet. From Rave Bingo and fundraising for the Hedo Foundation to the Glow Party, foam party chaos, and the Superheroes & Villains night where “Professor X” somehow became “Doctor Strange,” they share th
LIVE From Hedonism (2/2): THE FREEDOM MANDATE - Scott's Keynote BBBB 2026
This week’s second special episode is Scott’s opening keynote from Be Better At Being Bad 2026 at Hedonism II Resort: The Freedom Mandate: The Ethical Case for Relational Freedom.Scott unpacks Wild Love Theory’s seven-word thesis, “Maximum relational happiness requires maximum relational freedom,” and asks the question that can feel both inspiring and terrifying: If your partner’s happiness matter
LIVE from Hedonism (1/2): What Do You Want? How Desire Becomes Your Revolution - April's Keynote BBBB 2026
In this opening keynote from Naughty Gym's Be Better At Being Bad Takeover at Hedonism Resort, Coach April invites you into a deeply honest exploration of desire, identity, and self trust. Through personal stories and lived experience, she challenges the roles, labels, and expectations that shape what we think we should want and asks a more powerful question: what do you actually want? This talk i
She Chose Herself: April's First Date And The Night Autonomy Became Real
2025 was a LOT… and we’re ending the year with one of the biggest growth moments in our relationship.In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we tell the full story of April’s first real autonomous solo date—the nerves, the ugly Christmas sweater plan, the chemistry, the decision-making in the moment, and what it was like for Scott to sit at home and feel the “flutter” (aka jealousy/activation)… w
Sexy Santa Surprise: April Agrees to a Dinner Date (After 1 Year of “Wild Love Theory”)
April and Scott recap a wild (and unexpectedly meaningful) night out: a sexy Santa & Mrs. Claus gig at an LGBTQ-friendly Christmas party that turns into a real-time relationship test. By the end of the night, April, who historically hasn’t felt fully comfortable claiming that kind of freedom, finds herself laughing, connecting, and eventually agreeing to a dinner date with a newly divorced sin
Recap Of Our Men's & Women's Retreats, & Details On Our New Wild Love Theory Retreat
Welcome back to The Naughty Gym Show! In this episode, April and Scott catch you up on everything that’s been happening behind the scenes — from finishing their Wild Love Theory book to launching a stacked calendar of retreats for 2025 and beyond.They start with updates on Be Better at Being Bad at Hedonism II and their new “Fuck Melissa” fundraiser shirt supporting the Hedo Cares Foundation after
Smoky Mountain Holidaze: Our Recap From Dirty Santa to Dueling Pianos
April and Scott are back from the Smoky Mountains and very well-rested… because they slept for 3 days. In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, April & Scott share details about their upcoming gig as sexy Mr. & Mrs. Claus at Sapphire Starlington’s Christmas party in Huntsville before diving into a day-by-day recap of their Naughty Holidaze retreat.You’ll hear how 14 adventurous couples (pl
Throuples: The Good & The Bad, w/Dr. Rachael Meir
Today we go deep on throuples—what makes a three-person relationship (triad) work in real life. Our guest is Dr. Rachael Meir, a Stanford-trained psychologist, sex & relationship coach, author of 50 Questions to Ask Before Opening Your Relationship, and host of retreats designed specifically for throuples.In this episode (throuple-forward): • Shapes of throuples: V vs. closed triad, the “every
Cupcakes, Cunnilingus, & Cuddles: Luna Matatas & Handling Rejection
Rejection happens in the lifestyle. What do you do with the sting. April and Scott sit down with pleasure educator Luna Matatas to unpack expectations, etiquette, and empathy when play does not line up for all four people. They dig into clear asks, enthusiastic consent, and how to set goals that are sexual, sensual, and social so the night still feels like a win. Luna shares her worst threesome, h
Retreats, Rules & Real Love: A 15-Year Journey Beyond Monogamy
What happens when a longtime marriage says “yes” to curiosity? In this candid convo, Freddy and Andi share how a flirt turned into a slow, consent-first path to non-monogamy and how they “accidentally” became poly. We dig into the real stuff: jealousy and the fear of being replaced, what “check-ins” actually mean (hint: eye contact isn’t enough), and why emotional regulation beats willpower when t
Celibate Swingers: Why Some People Need More Than Sex
In this playful and thought-provoking episode, Scott and April explore one of the most surprising dynamics in the lifestyle: choosing connection over sex. With their friends Dave and Andi, hosts of Tales of The Lastborns, they discuss topics as varied as “blue-ball moments” at full resort takeovers to the deeper reasons why some swingers deliberately opt for fewer play sessions, at least for a sea
Love On The Spectrum: Neurodivergence in Non-Monogamy
In this raw and hilarious episode, April and Scott sit down with their dear friend Roderick — filmmaker of Open: A Journey Through Love — to explore the intersections of neurodivergence and non-monogamy. From awkward flirting misfires to the surprising superpowers of direct communication, the three share personal stories about autism, sensory overwhelm, compersion, and why neurodivergent lovers mi
Naughty Gym Goes To Portland: Recapping Our First Lifestyle Meetup at Sauvie Island & Club Privata
What happens when Naughty Gym hands over the reins for the very first time? In this episode, Scott (“The Coyote Whisperer”) and April sit down with coaches Matt & Cara to unpack the very first PNW Naughty Gym meetup in Portland, Oregon.The day started at Sauvie Island’s clothing optional beach and ended with a packed Naughty Gym takeover at Club Pravada — one of Portland’s most iconic lifestyl
Who Do You Think You Aren't - Boundaries, Self-Trust, & The Power Of The Non-Monogamous Pause
In this powerful episode, April and Scott open up about two months of unexpected personal chaos—and the tools that got them through it. From setting firm family boundaries to rebuilding self-trust after betrayal, they explore how to protect your peace without shutting down or giving up. April shares the story behind a life-changing letter she wrote to her brothers, the surprising fallout, and why
Scott Debates Scott: Can Love & Commitment Survive Radical Freedom?
Can a relationship thrive without rules?Or does lasting love require some limits?In this candid and thought-provoking episode, Scott sits down with one of his personal training clients (also named Scott) for a deep dive into one of the most uncomfortable questions in modern relationship philosophy: Are some imposed boundaries necessary to preserve long-term commitment?Centering mostly around Wild
Affairs, Empathy, and the Morality Police: Why People Cheat and What No One Talks About
When a viral kiss-cam moment exposed a workplace affair, the internet exploded with judgment, doxing, and moral outrage. In this raw and honest episode, April and Scott—who know a thing or two about public scandal—open up about their own affair-turned-marriage, the cultural obsession with punishing cheaters, and why so many people feel stuck in unhappy relationships.They unpack the real reasons pe
I Don’t Know What I Want (And Neither Do You) - Desire, Doubt & Discovery in Non-Monogamy and Real Life
Why is it so damn hard to know what we really want? In this vulnerable and unfiltered episode, April and Scott get real about the psychological and emotional roadblocks that make naming our desires feel confusing, overwhelming, and even scary—especially in non-monogamy. They explore: • Why childhood and culture train us to want what’s safe—not what’s true • The difference between relief and real d
Rage, Hormones, And Vaginal Dryness: The Real Talk You've Never Heard About Menopause.
What if menopause wasn’t something to dread, but a wake-up call, a shift, a powerful evolution?In this raw and empowering episode, April is joined by her friend and retreat co-host Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching to break down the messy, misunderstood truth about menopause. They get honest about perimenopause, HRT, sex, sleep, relationships, brain fog, identity, body image, and why so
Unveiling Majesty: Drag, Backlash, and the Fight for Dignity in Alabama
What happens when a beloved teacher and drag performer in Alabama becomes the target of a national smear campaign? In this powerful Pride Month episode, we sit down with Majesty Divine—former middle school math teacher turned drag icon—to hear the raw, unfiltered truth behind the viral headlines, hateful threats, FBI involvement, and the beauty and heartbreak of staying visible in the South. This
🎙️ Fitness Without Fences: Building Inclusive Spaces for the LGBTQ+ Community with Cara Turnquist
In this powerful Pride Month episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we sit down with advocate and fitness coach Cara Turnquist to tackle one of the fitness industry’s lingering blind spots: true inclusivity for LGBTQ+ individuals.👉 Why do so many gyms remain unwelcoming—even if they don’t explicitly exclude?👉 What are the invisible barriers LGBTQ+ folks face just walking into a fitness space?👉 And why d
Bisexuality in the Lifestyle: Myths, Truths, & Allyship
In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to be openly bisexual in swinger and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) spaces, and why it’s time to break the stigma, especially around male bisexuality. As a bisexual married couple, we’re often assumed to be straight. But bisexuality doesn’t disappear just because you’re in a “hetero-presenting” relationship. We’re sharing our personal experienc
Weight Bias, Toxic Masculinity & Being Seen: A Raw Conversation with Ashley Manta
In this powerful and deeply honest episode, we sit down with sex educator, writer, and CannaSexual® Ashley Manta for a raw conversation about body image, weight stigma, and what it really means to be seen.Ashley opens up about her personal journey with GLP-1 medication, navigating public perception, and the grief that comes with being treated better only when you're smaller. We also explore how bo
Our El Salvador Recap - Deep Connection, Volcano Hikes, Tropical Parties… and a Stomach Bug!
In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re giving you the full, unfiltered recap of our unforgettable retreat in El Salvador! 🌋🌴From volcano hikes and hidden waterfalls to epic parties and intimate connection circles, this retreat had it all—including a surprise plot twist: a stomach bug that made its way through most of the group. 😅But even that couldn’t kill the vibe.We’re sharing: • What ma
30 Days At Hedonism - What We Learned About Ourselves & the Resort
We spent 30 days at Hedonism Resort coaching fitness classes and playing host for close to 2000 people over that period. This episode is an overview of the whole month, what we learned about ourselves, and some tips we picked up that may help you better enjoy a vacation at this iconic adult playground. Upcoming Events:El Salvador Retreat at Mizata- May 7-12, 2025 - [SOLD OUT] https://www.naughtygy
Unpacking childhood trauma through Wild Love Theory: April's most vulnerable episode yet
This episode is unlike any we’ve ever recorded.For the first time, April opens up about some of the deepest wounds from her past—stories she’s rarely shared in public. Like so many women, she endured sexual abuse as a young girl, a trauma that shaped her journey but never defined her. Through years of personal work, she’s fought to reclaim her power, her body, and her voice—emerging as the strong,
DTF? What is it and is it you?
DTF, otherwise know as "Down To F^@%," is an acronym that some use disparagingly and others wear as a badge of honor. But what does it mean to be DTF? And why do people label others as DTF much more often than anyone adopts it for themselves? Do we all define DTF the same? Or differently? Listen in on this episode as we try to get some clarity on what it means to be DTF. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygy
Improved Erections, Physiques, Sex life, and Mental Health - with the Hacking Love Podcast
We interview the creators of the Hacking Love podcast, Anna & Aiden. They have a tremendous podcast focused on deepening commitment through open relationships. Anna is also an expert coach in sexual and hormonal health and can be reached for coaching services at annaaiden@gmx.com. In this episode we discuss all the various ways our lifestyle choices, nutrition, and hormone imbalances can negat
Wild Love Theory - A Controversial Model of Maximal Relational Happiness
This episode is a video of Coach Scott's LIVE Keynote address, including the Q&A session, at BBBB 2025 at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica. The keynote is followed up with April and Scott discussing more details of Wild Love Theory, it's implications, and the difficulties of implementation. Wild Love Theory can work with monogamous as well as non-monogamous relationships, hierarchical or
Recap of BBBB 2025 at Hedonism Resort, 2025
This episode is our full recap of Be Better At Being Bad, our full resort takeover of Hedonism II Resort, in Negril Jamaica. It took place Jan 4-11th, 2025. We cover some of things that really stood out to us, the progress we've continued to make in our lifestyle journey and the ways we both pushed past some of our comfort zones. This event takes nearly a year of planning, a BBBB team of 30 volunt
April's BBBB Keynote: Unmask Your Inner Badass And Overcome Imposter Syndrome
Did you miss BBBB week at Hedonism II? Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered! In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re bringing you the full recording of April’s keynote speech, Unmask Your Inner Badass: Crushing Imposter Syndrome, Owning Your Goals & Being Unapologetically You. This speech was recorded live inside the famous Piano Bar!April’s dives into breaking free from self-doubt, owning
2024 & 2025 - Highlights, Lowlights, Goals, & Resolutions
In our last episode of the year we cover our favorite personal, professional, and relational moments of 2024. Then we go in depth about our goals (April hates the word resolution) for 2025. It is a great way to end the old year and look forward to the new. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com to join our community! 👈🏼 Upcoming Events:Be Better At Being Bad Week - Jan 4-11, 2025 https://www.naughtygym.c
April Gets Her Stocking Stuffed Early
In this episode Scott surprises April with a gift he's been emotionally working towards for months and months. It's his theory, called Wild Love Theory, and he's implementing it with April despite his fears and insecurities and her hesitancy in actually using the gift.Wild Love Theory is Scott's keynote address at 2025's Be Better At Being Bad event at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. The theory sta
What Is So Naughty About Naughty Gym?
This episode covers everything you've ever wanted to know about Naughty Gym, including...How Naughty Gym startedWhy we started itWhy we don't post butthole pics :)The 3 primary parts of Naughty Gym, fitness membership, events, and the podcast, and why we created each.The future of Naughty Gym and mine and April's passion projectsThe big tease of upcoming new Lifestyle resorts in America that will
The Art Of The Orgy, w/Dan & Lacy from The Swing Nation
We talk about all things Orgies with Dan & Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast. We work through the pros and cons, mindset approaches, how to avoid potential issues. The 4 of us live very close to each other but don’t get to visit very often so we take full advantage of the opportunity to have a fun conversation. Listen in as we discuss serious topics like how women can best use their voice whe
Tit For Tat - Should Equality Be Your Swinging Goal? w/the Flirty Swingers
In this episode we bring in special guests, The Flirty Swingers, to discuss the idea of equality in non-monogamous relationships.We tackle questions like...Is equality a reasonable goal in non-monogamy?Should each partner be willing to work toward accepting and bringing to fruition the desires and fantasies of their partner?Is it okay to dig in your heels and tell your partner "no" to certain scen
Swinging, Catching Feelings & Falling In Love
Are feelings something you should avoid at all costs when swinging? Are we all just a bunch of cyborgs having fun with our emotions turned off? What happens if your partner says they are developing feelings for someone?Even worse, what if they fall in love? How bad can it be? How do we handle it if it happens?We discuss all of these topics in this episode of The Naughty Gym Show. 👉🏼 Check out www.
Breaking Down Barriers: The OUT Foundation’s Impact on LGBTQ+ Health & Wellness
In this episode we talk with OUT Foundation Vice President Paul Raker about their mission in the LGBTQ+ community and their partnership with Naughty Gym to create a fundraising effort called PrideFlex. We discuss a range of fitness issues within the LGBTQ+ community, the shared struggles with non-monogamy, and how PrideFlex can help.REGISTER FOR PRIDEFLEX HERE!
Reconciling Religion & Non-Monogamy
Do you experience religious shame or guilt because you choose to live a consensually non-monogamous lifestyle? Are you trying to find a way to reconcile these 2 different aspects of your personhood?In this episode we talk with Mitch & Cyndee, experts on the reconciliation of religion and non-monogamy. They give some phenomenal advice on carving a path forward that allows you to live this beaut
Are You Good In Bed, w/Ashley Manta
In Episode 30 we talk with Ashley Manta about how we can know whether or not we are good in bed. We all (well, mostly guys) think we are good in bed. But how do you really know? Can we be living under the illusion that we are good when in reality we ain't that great? Are there signs we can look for? Are women often faking it? Are guys typically over confident? Is it a turn off when guys brag about
April Learns To Be A Femdom with Luna Matatas
In Episode 27 we reviewed April's first separate date with a man who wants to be her submissive. The first date was dinner and drinks mostly for April to learn more about his submissive kink and what he hopes to get out of their relationship. In this episode, Luna Matatas, femdom extraordinaire, gives April an on-air lesson in how to prepare for her upcoming 1st big femdom session with her new boy
Hedonism II Resort: Behind the Scenes with Hedonism Management
In this episode we interview 4 of the most important members of Hedonism II Resort's management team to get the inside scoop and ask questions about the day to day logistics of running the world's most iconic adult playground. We interview: Diane Lange, Executive Director Winston Barkley, Entertainment Director Tatiana Answer, Director of Sales and Marketing Diana Field, Groups Manager If you are
April's 1st Date - the Recap
After exploring the possibility of separate dating for about a year, one of us finally gets to do it. April went on her date and we recap it live on the podcast only 10 hours after the date was over. Somehow we managed not to discuss it until we turned on the mics and started talking the next morning. You'll get to hear us process the whole thing in real time. Additionally we made separate small a
Aggressive Dieting & Jealousy Kinks with Martin MacDonald
Famed UK clinical nutrition scientist, philosopher, and April's apparent new boyfriend, Martin MacDonald is back on the show. This time we are going into detail about his evidence based Aggressive Diet Program to talk about how he is using science to prove you can lose a LOT of fat in a relatively short period of time. In the process of nerding out about nutrition we get sidetracked several times
Non-Monogamy: The Art of Saying "No" To Play
In this episode we tackle the difficult topic of saying "No" when someone propositions you with play when you aren't interested. It is always tough to hurt someone's feelings but it is unavoidable in consensual non-monogamy. Learning to be direct while simultaneously being polite is difficult but doable. In this episode we discuss when to say "no," how to say "no," and how to receive a "no." Most
The Heavy Weight Of Expectations
In episode 24 we try to break down the issue of expectations in consensual non-monogamy.It is all too common for one partner to have different (or no) expectations about events or non-monogamous life in general. These differences can too often be the source of bumps along the journey into more sexually open relationships.We attempt to define expectations, explain why the are usually not a benefit,
April Off The Cuff
This episode was going to be April flying solo but she quickly calls Scott in when the wheels fall off. We discuss a few things that have been swirling around in that beautiful brain of hers. Everything from starting a non-monogamous commune to getting led to Jesus on the pickleball courts.👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be Better At Be
Fitness, Fluidity, and Freedom: Gabrielle Kassel on CrossFit, ENM and Gender Diversity
We interview journalist, sex coach, and CrossFit coach, Gabrielle Kassel. She has written extensively for major publications about sex, fitness, and the intersection of the two.We cover topics like her career, whether she's faced backlash for her personal life, non-monogamy, trans athletes, and more. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com for all of your health & fitness needs! 👈🏼Upcoming Events:Be B
Care & Feeding Of Unicorns
We talk with Coach Cara about the ins and outs of the illusive unicorn. When a couple decides to open up their relationship one of the most common initial fantasies is to bring in a 3rd female... often called a unicorn. In this podcast, three experienced consensual non-monogamists discuss the realities and difficulties of making this happen and how to handle it if it does.
Here's the questio
The 1st Matchmaker For Open Relationships
We interview Victoria and her husband Ryan about their new venture, Birds Of A Feather Matchmaking. This is the industries 1st matchmaking service (as far as we know) for people in various forms of open relationships.
Is this for you?
Do you need help making connections? Are you too busy to scroll through dating apps and want to outsource this part of your love life? Or how about some coachi
Ideal Play Partners - We Tell All
We sit down with Casual Swingers Podcast creators, Mickey and Mallory, while we are together in Nashville, to discuss our ideal play partners. Each of us answers a series of questions, very candidly, about what characteristics our perfect play partner would have. We tackle age, weight, height, hair, grooming, occupation, religious and political leanings, play styles, play scenarios, relations
Martin MacDonald, Nutrition Scientist
Nutrition Scientist (and philosopher according to April), Martin MacDonald, joins the Naughty Gym Show to discuss the intersection of nutrition, fitness, sex, and the occassional foray into religion. Scott and Martin low key form a bromance and April gets mad when Martin comes to Scott's defense about Diet Dr. Pepper. This was such a fun episode and it lasts about 90 minutes. But we talk
Rebooting 2024 Goals - Naughty Gym's Top 5 Tips
It's the time of year where we start to see those New Year's resolutions failing. This episode is our 5 best tips to try and keep those resolutions on track and keep you marching toward those goals for 2024! We talk fitness, nutrition, sleep, and lifestyle changes. There's something in this episode for everyone!
Part 2, BBBB Recap - The Personal Stuff
We continue our discussion about our takeover week at Hedonism, Be Better At Being Bad Week.
This episode we talk exclusively about the most personal and impactful stuff that happened to us while we were there.
In the previous episode we spent the whole time discussing the big overview of everything that happened from a top down viewpoint of BBBB. This time we talk from the heart about
Recap of Be Better At Being Bad, our Takeover of Hedonism
In this 1st of a 2 part series, we recap the big picture overview of our inaugural new event, Be Better At Being Bad, a complete takeover of the Hedonsim II Resort.
This episode focuses on each days events and what we found most interesting throughout the week.
In the next episode we will discuss the week's events through a more personal lense.
We've Got The Meat
In this episode we discuss the difficulties of making connections with other couples, how to handle imbalances in yours or the other couple's flirt game, and how, most importantly, not to lose to a piece of meat. We've invited our friends and fitness trainers Cara and Matt on the show to discuss how these things can sometimes go wrong, why it isn't always easy and how to deal with your emotio
Male Bisexuality - The Double Standard
In the first half of this episode, April interviews Scott about his bisexuality and the double standard we sometimes see in the world of Consensual Non-Monogamy toward bisexual men. They further discuss some struggles Scott has faced in coming out in the South and how at 51 years old he’s beginning to embrace his sexuality with pride and intellectual aggression.
In the second half the
Hedonism Resort and a preview of our full takeover, Be Better At Being Bad
In the first half of the episode we give an overview of a what a typical day at Hedonism II Resort is like. We break down the general daily itinerary, how groups impact the dynamic on the resort, available activities, theme nights, pool parties, etc.
The last half of the episode is spent talking about our full takeover of the resort in January of 2024 and how we think this is the perfect exp
Finally, The Documentary the Lifestyle Needs!
April and Scott interview Roderick Stevens about his upcoming documentary, "Open, A Journey Through Love." We talk about why Roderick is the right filmaker for the job, how this look into consensual non-monogamy will tell the story the way it needs to be told, and the process required to get it produced released to the public!
So You Want To Be A Swinger, Part 2 of 10, Setting Boundaries w/Monogamish Marriage
Our 10th podcast episode is the 2nd in a 10 part series "So You Want To Be A Swinger?"
This series is designed for anyone curious about opening their relationship and exploring some form of consensual or ethical non-monogamy. We interview experts from around the world to gather all the information we think you will need and/or find helpful when considering venturing into this changing lands
Flirting in the Lifestyle
In this episode April and Scott discuss what qualifies as flirting, their evolving boundaries, and the research on improving your flirt game.
Naughty Gym Links:
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2. Be Better At Being Bad, takeover of Hedonism Resort: https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad
3. Twitter: https://twitter.com/NaughtyGym
4. Instagram: https://instagram.com/naughty_gym?igsh
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