Young, Hot & Divorced
Tori Gottlieb is young, hot, and divorced twice, and she turns that experience into a candid podcast. The show explores what happens when a fairytale ends before 30, mixing healing with humor. Episodes cover calling off engagements, co-parenting chaos, deleting wedding photos, and returning to dating apps. It offers unfiltered real talk about love, loss, shame, growth, and finding yourself again. Whether you're single, divorced, situationshipped, or spiraling, it aims to be a relatable space.
Episodes
Butterflies or Anxiety? How to Tell What You’re Really Feeling in Dating
Are those butterflies because you really like someone… or because you’re anxious and unsure where you stand?In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, I’m talking about one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in dating: excitement doesn’t always equal compatibility.We’re getting into the difference between butterflies and relationship anxiety, why inconsistency can sometimes feel like intense a
Divorce 5 Years Later, A Big Faith Update & Why I’m Done Having Kids
Five years after my divorce, I’m getting honest about what starting over has actually looked like — the parts that got easier, the parts that didn’t, and how I feel about it all now. Plus, a big update on my faith journey and why I’m not moving forward with converting right now, deciding I’m done having more kids, relationship updates, and a new project I’ve been quietly working on.It’s a very rea
Rebuilding My Finances as a Single Mom: Debt, Budgeting & Starting Over
Rebuilding your finances is hard. Rebuilding them while raising two children as a single mom is an entirely different challenge.In this episode, Tori gets honest about financial dependence, debt, budgeting mistakes, rebuilding her credit, selling her car, and learning how to create a more stable future from the ground up.She shares the real steps she is taking right now, including using ChatGPT to
Irish Twin Mom: Two Boys, 11 Months Apart
Being an Irish twin mom is beautiful, chaotic, exhausting, and honestly… a little insane.In this episode, I’m opening up about what it was really like having my two boys just 11 months apart — the sleepless nights, the matching outfits, the constant “are they twins?” questions, the milestone comparisons, and the unexpected bond that formed between them from the very beginning.I’m sharing the parts
Life Update: Dating, Healing & Starting Over
In this episode, Tori shares a real and unfiltered life update—covering dating after divorce, co-parenting, financial growth, and everything in between.From funny and awkward dating stories to deeper reflections on healing and starting over, this episode captures what it actually looks like to rebuild your life while figuring it out in real time.Topics include:Post-divorce dating experiencesSituat
We Had Millions… So Why Did I End Up With Nothing? | Divorce, Money & Starting Over
In this episode, Victoria shares her personal story of going from a luxury lifestyle to navigating financial uncertainty after divorce.She opens up about trust, hidden finances, and the emotional reality of rebuilding life as a single mom. This is an honest conversation about what happens when everything changes — and how you find your way back.
Preparing for Your First Baby: Pregnancy, Labor Fears & What No One Tells You
Preparing for your first baby is exciting—but it can also be terrifying.In this episode, Tori sits down with her lifelong best friend Lexi, who is preparing for motherhood for the very first time. From labor fears to planning her epidural strategy, Lexi shares the honest reality of pregnancy and preparing for childbirth in New York City.The two also reflect on growing up together and how friendshi
I Dated an Alcoholic
I dated an alcoholic.And I stayed anyway.In this episode, I share the full story — how we met, why I was drawn to him, what addiction really looks like inside a relationship, and the emotional toll of loving someone who won’t help themselves.We talk about:• Addiction as an illness• Falling for someone’s potential• Supporting someone through recovery• Emotional exhaustion• Self-care and boundaries•
Single on Valentine’s Day: Situationships, Breakups & Self-Care
Valentine’s Day can bring up a lot—especially when you’re single, healing, or stuck in a situationship.In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori opens up about what Valentine’s Day feels like as a single mom navigating breakups, uncertain relationships, and personal growth. She reflects on the grief that can surface around love-centered holidays, the confusion that situationships create,
Divorce Role Models: Miley Cyrus, Ariana Grande & Kelsea Ballerini on Heartbreak, Healing & Reinvention
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori opens up about navigating divorce at a young age — at a time when there were few real-life role models openly going through the same experience.As she reflects on resilience, personal growth, and rebuilding life after heartbreak, Tori shares why women like Miley Cyrus, Ariana Grande, and Kelsea Ballerini have become unexpected divorce role models
Breakups in the Public Eye: Choosing What to Share, Dating After Divorce & Starting Over
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Victoria Gottlieb shares what it’s like navigating a breakup in the public eye — and the emotional work that happens quietly behind the scenes.Tori opens up about her first breakup since her second divorce, dating again after marriage, and the process of untangling a relationship while protecting her children, her peace, and her privacy. She reflects o
Raising Boys With Faith as a Single Mom | Teaching Values, Prayer & Gratitude While You’re Still Learning
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori shares an honest conversation about raising boys with faith while she’s still figuring it out herself. As a single mom, she opens up about how she teaches values, prayer, gratitude, and spirituality in everyday moments — without pressure, perfection, or rigid rules.Rather than presenting faith as a strict checklist, Tori explains how she introduce
I Met My Ex’s Girlfriend… Then Took Her to Church
I met my ex’s girlfriend — and then I took her to church.Yes, really.In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, I’m sharing a real-life moment I never thought I’d experience and definitely never thought I’d talk about publicly. What could’ve been awkward, messy, or dramatic turned into something unexpectedly grounding.We talk about divorce, co-parenting, boundaries, faith, and what growth actua
Mamala Mom Chat: Postpartum Nutrition, Mental Health & Building a Sisterhood for Mothers
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, we’re having a Mamala mom chat with the founders of Mamala, a brand redefining how women are supported during the postpartum years and beyond.Mamala—meaning “little mama” in Yiddish—was created to address a massive gap in women’s health: postpartum nutrition and mental health support. The founders share how postpartum is not just a few months after bir
Why I Chose to Convert: My Journey from Judaism to Catholicism
In this deeply personal episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori opens up about her decision to convert from Judaism to Catholicism — a journey rooted in faith, motherhood, and spiritual alignment.She shares what led her to Catholicism, how the decision impacted her family, and why faith has become a grounding force in her daily life. Tori also walks listeners through her morning routine of Bibl
Hot Takes: Instagram Voted on Dating Red Flags, Trust & Relationship Rules
In this Hot Takes episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, I let Instagram decide. I asked my followers some of the most controversial relationship questions — and the answers did not disappoint.We’re talking dating red flags, trust, cheating, boundaries, double standards, and the relationship rules people secretly believe but don’t always say out loud. From “Is it ever okay to go through your partne
Finding Peace While You’re Still Waiting: Letting Go of Anxiety When the Answer Hasn’t Come Yet
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Victoria Gottlieb explores one of the hardest emotional seasons to navigate: waiting.Whether you’re waiting on clarity in a divorce, a relationship, custody decisions, or any life outcome beyond your control, this episode offers reassurance and perspective for managing anxiety during uncertainty. Victoria shares honest insights on releasing fear of wha
Rebuilding After Divorce: Single Mom Strength, Co-Parenting & Starting Over
Single moms, entrepreneurship, co-parenting, dating after divorce — this episode has it all.Tori sits down with her longtime friend Nicole Spoelma, a fellow single mom and the creator of a thriving children’s boutique, to talk about rebuilding life after divorce, navigating legal challenges, and finding strength through intentional parenting.Nicole opens up about the reality behind launching her b
Navigating Life as a Young Single Mom: Faith, Healing & Starting Over
In this raw and grounded episode, Tori pulls back the curtain on her biggest reset yet. After navigating two marriages, single motherhood, and a cross-country move, she shares the deeply personal shifts she’s making in her faith, health, finances, and everyday habits.Tori opens up about a major milestone in her seizure journey, the reality check of moving back to New York, and the spiritual clarit
Co-Parenting During the Holidays: The Hard Truth About Sharing Time as a Single Mom
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori Gottlieb opens up about the reality of co-parenting during the holidays as a single mom in New York. From balancing family traditions to navigating time-sharing with her ex, Tori shares the emotional highs and lows of making the season special for her kids—no matter what the custody schedule says.She also dives into real-life mom updates, includin
My Closet Was Basically a Relationship Graveyard: Emotional Decluttering After Divorce
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori shares her journey of personal growth, emotional cleansing, and the challenges of parenting. She reflects on her past relationships and the importance of letting go of physical items that no longer serve her. Tori discusses her financial struggles and how selling these items is a way to fund her future. She also reevaluates her values in relations
Different Paths in Our 30s: Single, Married, Divorced & Figuring It Out
In this week’s episode, Tori dives into the reality of being in your 30s—when your best friends might be getting married, having babies, or signing divorce papers. She talks about navigating friendships across totally different life stages, learning to celebrate others’ milestones without comparing timelines, and finding peace in your own path. Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, or somewhere
Protecting My Peace: Good Vibes Only
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori explores what it really means to protect your peace and keep your energy in check. From setting healthy boundaries to creating daily self-care rituals, she shares how simple practices like singing, dancing, journaling, and grounding in nature can shift your mindset. Tori opens up about lifestyle changes, the struggle to stay consistent with wellne
Virtual Co-Parenting, Ex-In-Laws, Learning to Let Go
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori opens up about the realities of virtual co-parenting, navigating the ups and downs of staying connected while raising kids across households. She dives into the often complicated relationships with ex in-laws, sharing how these family ties can both challenge and strengthen the parenting journey.Tori also reflects on stepping into a new romantic re
Single Parenting Struggles & The Secret I’ve Been Keeping
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori gets brutally honest about the chaos of solo mom life—forgotten snacks, unpacked boxes, and the nonstop pressure of being both mom and dad. From kindergarten struggles to the weight of doing it all alone, she shares the messy, unfiltered truth of single parenting.But stay tuned, because there’s a plot twist. After a year and a half of being single
Back to School: A New Chapter Begins
Back-to-school season hits differently when you’re a single mom of "twins". In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori opens up about the rollercoaster of sending her boys off to kindergarten. From the mountain of school supplies (seriously, their backpacks weigh more than they do) to navigating co-parenting on milestone days, she shares the messy, emotional, and unexpectedly swe
Dating Married Men?! My New Rules & Storytime
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori gets real about her new dating rules, life updates, and the wild stories that come with single mom dating. From married men hitting on her at her go-to restaurant, to navigating the gray area of dating dads who aren’t quite divorced yet, to accidental outdoor hookups (oops!)—nothing is off limits.Tori shares how her move back to Long Island booste
Postpartum Realities: Nutrition, Body Image & Self-Care with Amanda Pargament
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, host Tori Gottlieb sits down with her longtime friend Amanda Pargament—a certified integrative nutrition health coach and brand-new mom—to get real about the postpartum journey. From navigating the physical changes after birth to managing emotional eating, Amanda opens up about her own pregnancy, recovery, and the ongoing balance between motherhood and
My Lawyer Hates Me: The Legal Process of Divorce & the Emotional Toll
Divorce isn’t just paperwork — it’s an emotional rollercoaster. 💔In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori takes you inside the legal process of divorce, sharing unfiltered stories from her two divorces — from getting served while juggling parenting duties to learning the hard way why handshake deals don’t cut it.She opens up about the emotional toll divorce can take, especially as a sing
Rebounding in Paris: My First Post-Divorce Romance with a Frenchman
In this episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori Gottlieb spills all the tea on her first post-divorce romance — a whirlwind rebound with a gorgeous Frenchman. From late-night beach dates in Miami to champagne and heartbreak in Paris, Tori shares the red flags, the butterflies, and the very real moment she realized she caught feelings.If you've ever jumped back into dating too soon — or too hot
Dating Older Men & Single Dads: Sex, Red Flags, and Real Talk
In this episode of 'Young, Hot and Divorced', Tori Gottlieb shares her experiences as a single mom, providing life updates and insights into her dating life, particularly focusing on dating older men and single dads. She shares humorous anecdotes from her dating experiences, discusses the challenges and joys of being a single parent, and emphasizes the importance of community and connection in her
Q&A: Pregnancy, Infertility, My Hysterectomy & NICU Experience
In this personal Q&A episode of Young, Hot & Divorced, Tori answers your most raw and real questions about her journey through pregnancy, miscarriage, and life as a NICU mom.From the shocking differences between her first and second pregnancies, to surviving hyperemesis, dealing with stretch marks and body changes, navigating the heartbreak of infertility and hysterectomy, and the rollerco
Trying to Conceive After Trauma: The TTC Struggles No One Talks About
In this heartfelt episode of "Young, Hot & Divorced," host Tori Gottlieb opens up about her deeply personal journey through relationships, pregnancy, and the unexpected challenges of trying to conceive. From the excitement of early pregnancy to the heartbreak of miscarriage and the complexities of navigating motherhood during a pandemic, Tori shares her story with raw honesty and vulnerability
Dating After Divorce: Red Flags, Rebounds, and Feeling Hot Again
In this episode of "Young, Hot and Divorced," host Tori Gottlieb dives into the complexities of dating after divorce, sharing personal stories and insights on building a supportive community. Tori candidly discusses the courage it takes to leave a relationship and the journey of self-discovery that follows. Whether you're navigating a breakup or simply curious about life post-divorce, this episode
Starting Over at 30: Divorce, Healing, and Putting Yourself First
Welcome to the first episode of Young, Hot, and Divorced ! I’m Tori Gottlieb—twice married, twice divorced, mom of two, and clearly not one to keep quiet about it. No scripts. No oversharing. No ex-bashing. Just me showing up messy and honest—hoping it gives you permission to do the same. Let's get into it!
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