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For Better Or For Worse

Marathon Handbook 19 Episodes Oct 6, 2026

For Better or for Worse is a running podcast hosted by Alexis D'Souza and Alex Cyr, an engaged couple with very different running backgrounds. Alexis is a beginner runner, while Alex is an experienced runner, writer, and 63-minute half-marathoner. They document their training, racing, and relationship as they balance ambition with everyday life. The show mixes humor and honesty as they try to survive the demands of the sport together.

Episodes

Should You PR in Training? Our "Prove It" Workouts Before Race Day
Should You PR in Training? Our "Prove It" Workouts Before Race Day Oct 6, 2026 3418 Episode 20 of For Better or For Worse! Alex and Alexis mark the milestone with a game of Two Truths and a Lie. In training updates, Alex goes way too hard in his "Prove It" workout three weeks before the Valencia Half Marathon. He runs an unofficial 10K personal best of 28:56 in practice, and the two of them debate whether you should ever PR in a workout. Alexis looks back on her 7:09 Blo
I Raced My First Ever Mile (It Didn't Go to Plan)
I Raced My First Ever Mile (It Didn't Go to Plan) Sep 29, 2026 3445 Alexis has finally raced. Just 26 hours after the first-ever Bloor Street Mile in Toronto, Alexis D'Souza Cyr and Alex Cyr go through her first race, from start to finish: the race-morning nerves, the porta-potty standoff, the imposter syndrome at the start line, and Alex's pacing job (he admits it was bad), which sent her through the first 400m about 20 seconds too fast. She still ran a
A 14:13 5k for Alex, Alexis Chooses Her 5k Race Pace
A 14:13 5k for Alex, Alexis Chooses Her 5k Race Pace Sep 22, 2026 3977 On Episode 18 of For Better or For Worse, Alex and Alexis kick things off with the ultimate runner's hypothetical: 300 meters from the finish line, in the lead, and your body betrays you... do you hold the line or take the L?Then it's training-update time: Alex breaks down his Yorkville 5K (14:13, just off the podium) and gets brutally honest about whether his competitiveness has turned i
Should Your Partner Have to Attend Your Races?
Should Your Partner Have to Attend Your Races? Sep 15, 2026 3253 On this episode of For Better or For Worse, Alex and Alexis kick things off with a truly disgusting round of "worst first impressions" (snot rockets, projectile vomit, and a barrata tomato incident) before rehashing the real story of their own disastrous first date. Then it's into the training: Alexis tackles a 5x4-minute threshold workout with Alex coaching from the e-bike, followed by a
A 97-Mile Week, a Bee Sting, and Should Marathons Have Time Limits?
A 97-Mile Week, a Bee Sting, and Should Marathons Have Time Limits? Sep 8, 2026 3846 Alex is coming off the biggest mileage week of his life (97 miles / 154K!) and just signed Alexis up for a surprise race, while Alexis is nursing a bee sting and celebrating a new 5K race-pace PB. Then we get into the big one: should marathons have stricter time cutoffs, or should courses stay open all day for anyone who wants to finish? We debate both sides: city logistics, injuries and
We Ranked All 7 World Marathon Majors (Alex Is Back From Sydney)
We Ranked All 7 World Marathon Majors (Alex Is Back From Sydney) Sep 2, 2026 4116 Alex just landed back in Toronto after covering the Sydney Marathon, and Alexis has news of her own: she signed herself up for her very first race ever, without telling Alex first. They break down what actually makes a marathon a "major," the six-star (now seven-star) finisher medal, Boston's brutal qualifying standards, and then go head-to-head ranking every major from worst to best, wit
We Play "Kiss, Marry, Kill" (Long Runs vs Workouts vs Easy Runs)
We Play "Kiss, Marry, Kill" (Long Runs vs Workouts vs Easy Runs) Aug 25, 2026 3599 Today, we're playing Kiss, Marry, Kill... running edition. Alex and Alexis each pick which type of run (long run, workout, or easy run) they'd keep forever, marry for life, and never do again. Along the way: Alexis completes her first full week of real training for her October 5K, the two debate whether ultra running is more impressive than a fast 5K, and things get surprisingly sweet whe
I DNF'd My World Championships Qualifier... Here's What I Learned
I DNF'd My World Championships Qualifier... Here's What I Learned Aug 18, 2026 3554 Alex heads to Edmonton for the Canadian Half Marathon Championships with one goal: run fast enough to punch his ticket to the World Road Running Championships in Copenhagen. What actually happens is a start-line scare over recording gear, a rough patch at 5K, and a DNF at 6K after throwing up twice on the course.In this episode, Alex gives Alexis (and you) the full, unfiltered "word vomit
Building a Sub-27 5K Plan: Can a Husband Coach His Wife?
Building a Sub-27 5K Plan: Can a Husband Coach His Wife? Aug 11, 2026 3624 In this episode of For Better or For Worse, Alex walks Alexis (and you) through the 10-week beginner 5K training plan he built her from scratch, easy pace vs. threshold pace vs. race pace, how many days a week she should actually run, strength training, warm-ups, heart rate zones vs. running by feel, and why a 5K plan somehow includes a 10K long run. Alexis pushes back on almost all of it
Her First 5K Time Trial Shocked Us Both | For Better or For Worse
Her First 5K Time Trial Shocked Us Both | For Better or For Worse Aug 4, 2026 2895 Alexis just ran her first-ever 5K time trial and blew past everyone's predictions with a 28:53. In this episode of For Better or For Worse, Alex and Alexis break down the splits, the pre-race chaos (forgotten cameras, a Diet Pepsi "fueling strategy," and a rookie pacing mistake), and what it revealed about how hard Alexis can actually push.Then the big reveal... Alexis is officially racin
How to Pace Your First 5K Time Trial
How to Pace Your First 5K Time Trial Jul 28, 2026 4239 Alexis is running her first-ever 5K time trial and the whole Marathon Handbook crew is showing up to document it.In this episode of For Better or For Worse, Alex and Alexis break down exactly how a beginner runner should prepare for a race-pace effort: pre-race fueling, sleep, shoe choice, and a full pacing strategy to chase a sub-30-minute (and maybe sub-29!) 5K. Plus: weird interactions
Post-Wedding Running Motivation & Our Fall Half Marathon Plans!
Post-Wedding Running Motivation & Our Fall Half Marathon Plans! Jul 21, 2026 3060 What happens to your running motivation after a huge life event? We got married a few weeks ago, and while Alex went straight back into his toughest training block ever, Alexis hit a full week of "bride blues" and zero desire to run. We break down why that split happened, whether running couples should target the same race season, and what's next for both of us.Chapters:0:00 Cold Open0:51

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