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The Balance Theory

The Balance Theory

Erika De Pellegrin 365 Episodes Aug 23, 2026

The Balance Theory is a self-development podcast hosted by Erika De Pellegrin, a lawyer who overcame burnout. It offers actionable strategies to build confidence, achieve goals, and transform your mindset without guilt or stress. The show features interviews with guests like Kayla Itsines and Kelsey Wells, and covers topics such as productivity, self-growth, and life balance.

Episodes

Slowing Down Feels Like Falling Behind, But It's Actually the Opposite
Slowing Down Feels Like Falling Behind, But It's Actually the Opposite Aug 23, 2026 3634 Your ambition has not gone anywhere. Life just pulled the handbrake. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Nicki Bedford, founder of Founders Official and former Head of Asia Pacific at BuzzFeed, for one of the most honest conversations about what ambition actually looks like when life forces you to slow down. This is not a conversation about giving up or settling. It is a
Coming Back to Yourself When You Feel Completely Scattered and Lost | Naila
Coming Back to Yourself When You Feel Completely Scattered and Lost | Naila Aug 16, 2026 3933 You are not falling apart. You are just in the messy middle. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with her best friend Naila, content creator and host of the Untempered podcast, for one of the most honest and unfiltered conversations the show has ever had. This is not an expert interview. It is two women sitting in the messy middle together, naming something the self-developme
Start HERE If Your Life Looks 'Right' But Something Feels Missing | Saina Baibee
Start HERE If Your Life Looks 'Right' But Something Feels Missing | Saina Baibee Aug 9, 2026 3648  What if your life looks good from the outside but still doesn't feel fully yours? This episode is for anyone who has achieved everything they were supposed to achieve and found themselves quietly asking: why do I still feel like something is missing? Erika sits down with Saina Babaee, VP at Siemens, founder of her own fashion label, and mother of twins. Someone who followed the prescribed
Being the "Independent Woman" Is Costing You THIS | Ghizlan Guenez
Being the "Independent Woman" Is Costing You THIS | Ghizlan Guenez Aug 2, 2026 2904 She has built the life. The career. The reputation for having it together. And somewhere along the way, doing it all herself stopped being a choice and became the only way she knew how to operate. This episode is not about learning to be less independent. It is about what that independence has quietly been costing her and the one shift that changes everything about what she is able to receive.
Mo Gawdat: The 30 Minute Saturday Practice That COMPLETELY Empties Your Mind
Mo Gawdat: The 30 Minute Saturday Practice That COMPLETELY Empties Your Mind Jul 26, 2026 786   If your brain won't stop, if you lie awake at night, spiral through the same thoughts, and feel like you can never fully switch off, this is going to change the way you think about that completely. Mo Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer at Google X and one of the most compelling minds on human happiness, doesn't just talk about training the brain. He's been doing it for decades. In
Not Everyone Is Supposed to Like You (Here's the Rule That Explains It)
Not Everyone Is Supposed to Like You (Here's the Rule That Explains It) Jul 19, 2026 554   If you ever find yourself holding back in conversations, softening your opinions, or leaving an interaction feeling like you didn't quite show up as yourself, this is for you. Most people don't realise they're doing it. But the desire to be liked is quietly running the show in almost every conversation you have. It's shaping what you say, how you say it, and how much of yourself you a
MANIFESTATION EXPERT: The 20 Second Exercise That Changes Your Reality
MANIFESTATION EXPERT: The 20 Second Exercise That Changes Your Reality Jul 12, 2026 431 If you've tried vision boards, affirmations, and positive thinking and nothing has changed, this clip is why. Regan Hillyer, one of the world's leading manifestation experts, breaks down the real reason your reality isn't shifting: you're unconsciously copy pasting your past into your future and calling it life. In this insight clip (from our full podcast with Regan), she explains why wishful t
#1 HYPNOTHERAPIST: Reclaim the Confidence You Were Born With in 9 Minutes
#1 HYPNOTHERAPIST: Reclaim the Confidence You Were Born With in 9 Minutes Jul 5, 2026 643 You weren't born with low self-esteem, you were actually born really confident. You learned low self-esteem. And the confidence you've been waiting to feel? You were born with that too - life just made you forget it. In this clip, therapist and bestselling author Marisa Peer breaks down exactly where low self-esteem comes from, why it isn't who you are, and why chasing other people's approval is
Aimee Smale Was Shy, Had No Plan and Built a Million Dollar Brand. The Reason Will Surprise You.
Aimee Smale Was Shy, Had No Plan and Built a Million Dollar Brand. The Reason Will Surprise You. Jun 28, 2026 3545 You do not need to be the obvious person to build something real. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Aimee Smale, founder of Odd Muse and 29 year old millionaire, to unpack the story nobody tells about building something from nothing. Not the strategy, not the business plan, not the perfect moment. The quiet, unassuming journey of someone who was never supposed to do this
STOP Introducing Yourself With Your Job Title (Say THIS Instead)
STOP Introducing Yourself With Your Job Title (Say THIS Instead) Jun 21, 2026 4201 You already know what you do. But do you know who you are? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Rahaf Kobeissi, mental health and mindset expert, published author, and keynote speaker, to unpack one of the most quietly common experiences of high achieving people, building a life that looks right on paper and still feeling like something essential is missing. This isn't an
The Conversation Your Parents Never Had With Themselves (And Yours Is Overdue) | Dr Shefali
The Conversation Your Parents Never Had With Themselves (And Yours Is Overdue) | Dr Shefali Jun 14, 2026 2887 Today Dr Shefali, a NYT bestselling author and the world's leading conscious parenting psychologist, joins Erika to unpack the childhood patterns running your adult life, and how to stop them here. This isn't another conversation about how to be a better parent. It's about understanding the difference between who you became by default and who you actually want to be. If you've ever caught yoursel
You're 55 Minutes Away From NEVER Feeling Behind With Money Again (Money Expert REVEALS All!)
You're 55 Minutes Away From NEVER Feeling Behind With Money Again (Money Expert REVEALS All!) Jun 7, 2026 3353 You're not bad with money. It's just that nobody ever taught you how to actually relate to it, and this conversation changes that. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Carol Glynn, award-winning Finance Coach & Mentor, Chartered Accountant (FCA) and founder of Conscious Finance Coaching, to unpack why so many women feel stuck with money, not because they're doing it wrong,

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