Uncut with Jeff
Join your favorite internet disaster, Jeff Perla, for your weekly laugh about life. A relatable gay navigating day-to-day adventures with the help of fellow influencers, reality TV stars, trailblazers, and iconic members of the gay community.
Episodes
ARFID Andrew & ARFID Jeff
Jeff Perla is joined by social media friend ARFID Andrew. The boys talk about their eating struggles and how it has affected their lives.
Human evolution with Eric Turner
Jeff Perla and Eric Turner go through the various chapters of their life and how much they have changed and grown. Do you believe you’ve changed every 4 years?
Extended Priest Interview!
You wanted the full interview with Priest Zack Nyein so here it is. If you are interested in visiting him he is the priest at St Barts Church in NYC! @Zackattacknyc
Life updates with Jeff & Chris
Jeff Perla is joined by good friend Chris Pitsicalis to catch up and fill you in on some life updates
No time with Bruno Alcantara
Jeff Perla and Bruno Alcantara from the pit crew of Rupauls Drag Race wanted to give you a little something.
Cons to being “well endowed”
Jeff Perla invites on 2 above average men; Micah & Demetri to talk about the flaws of being well endowed. Everyone claims to want a big you know what, but what happens when you’re fetishized or it’s too much to take everyday?
The Algorithm Behind Dating Apps
Jeff Perla is joined by Rodrigo Reyes, Director or marketing for a popular gay dating app. Are our prospects filtered out by our looks? Can they see our private albums on the back end? I was fascinated
For My Trans Fans
Jeff Perla is joined by long time friend, Corey Rae, trans activist sharing her experience transitioning. From education, therapy, hormone blockers, we run through it all. Hopefully this helps answer some of your questions. If you are seeking further information please reach out to @imcoreyrae
Wtf are we doing with Jeff & Elliott
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris overshare in this weeks episode with a lot of laughs. Hear about the real story behind Antarctica, Mardi Gras, and Elliott’s personal life.
Northerners vs Southerners
Jeff Perla is joined by drag race favorite Plasma where they banter between their northern and southern upbringings
Are Gay People Forced To Think The Same? With Lukas Thimm
Join Jeff Perla & Lukas Thimm go back and forth on hot topics. Should all gay people think the same?
Gaymers, Anime, & Skye Walker
Jeff Perla is joined by Skye Walker, local NYC gaymer. The boys attempt to talk games in the queer community and derail..
My Gay Valentine with Spencer Hoddeson
Join Jeff and Spencer on this Valentines Day episode!
How Do Gays Afford To Travel?
Sion Walton Guest joins Jeff Perla to share their experience traveling the globe one social post at a time. After an 8 year online friendship, and one casual meetup in Mykonos, the boys catch up in NYC for this juicy episode!
Can you be Gay and Religious? With Zak Zakar
Jeff Perla is joined by Zak Zakar @zakartwins to share what it’s like growing up in a religious household. Can you be gay and religious?
Gay Guys Need Therapy with Joe Nucci
Jeff Perla is joined by Psychotherapist Joe Nucci. Is it just in our DNA to have a type? Does our type have to do with our first time or does your type from trauma!
Drag him with Yuhua Hamasaki
Jeff Perla is joined by Yuhua Hamasaki from Rupaul’s Drag Race. From straight fetishes to hookup culture amongst the queens this episode gives it all.
Celebrate or Criticize with Tony Morrison
Jeff Perla is joined by Tony Morrison, the senior communications director at GLAAD. What people and brands should we be supporting and who needs to be dumped.
2025 manifestation with Alex & Max
Jeff Perla is joined by his 2 besties Alex Van Gurp and Max Rut as they look back at the highs and lows of 2024 and what’s to come in 2025. Between Alex’s attitude and Max’s silliness, here is your dose of comedic relief!
Is this a midlife crisis?
Jeff Perla is joined by Ryan Fuller to share some important news. Ryan shares what his diagnosis means and the boys bond over a midlife crisis!
Who is hosting? Jeff or Lamar?
Jeff is joined by Lamar Dawson host of Sirius XM Tik Tok Radio sharing their favorite and least favorite guests. 2 hosts in a room they might…
Escort Confessions
Join Jeff Perla on a journey as he interviews a high end escort about the industry
Wrap it up with Jeff & Elliott
Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris share what’s next for them in the coming weeks.
Whose banana is bigger? With Eric Turner
Jeff Perla is joined by Eric Turner straight off the Runyon trail. The boys showed one another their underwear and ended this episode deep throating banana’s . The boys are hot but this episode shared a lot of depth. Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Noah Davis wants to get stuffed
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Noah Davis for a gay journey. The boys share their goals and how being sexual on the internet has made them successful. Should Jeff, Elliott, and Noah drop a Christmas song?
Whose Bigger Celebrity Edition with Demetre Durham
Jeff Perla is joined by Demetre Durham kicking off this episode ranking celebrities packages from online forums. A game of F*ck, Marry, Kill food edition and some personal information dropped in this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Splitting Bills, Getting Jumped, Katy Perry, & Real Estate
Welll there’s a lot to unbox in this episode as Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel Milstein to discuss dating in your 30’s, celebrity real estate, and why you shouldn’t wear designer items out. Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Can We Stop The Dangling Earring Trend? With Todd Masterson
Jeff Perla is joined by Todd Masterson everyone’s gay fat friend to talk shit about you. What’s a gay fashion trend we’re sick of? From steroids to ozempic what’s the end game here? Enjoy the laughs on this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Wanna collab? With Taylor Stilson
While Elliott is away Jeff Perla is joined by Taylor Stilson sharing his thoughts on hooking up with straight friends. Does an enlarged prostate make it more pleasurable? Take a shot every time Taylor asks Jeff to collab.
I F*cked A Murderer
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Elliott’s bestie Sasha. Who f*cked a murderer? What dirty talk in bed can the boys just not get behind? All this and more on this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Men Are Trash
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris sit down with comedy queen Taylor Jackson. Are straight men more trash than gay men? When do men actually gain emotional intelligence? Enjoy the laughs on this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Are you over or under 7IN?
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Nick Norcia. The boys play an array of games including over/ under where they make some confessions. What does clean cut actually mean? Can you be friends with someone who has different political views than you? Listen in on this episode of Lost Nuggs!
From Camila Cabello’s Ratty Weave to Ice Spice Farts
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris catch up after their few weeks apart. From farting on the air to Camila Cabellos ratty blonde hair this episode will have you laughing from start to finish.
Blue Balled At The Sauna
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris decide to record this episode at 7AM after being blue balled in a gay sauna. The boys are wasted and this is why we make them film with a producer ... Tune into this VERY unfiltered episode of Lost Nuggs!
Don't Fall In Love On Vacation
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by their travel bestie Alex Van Gurp! The boys discuss their week in Portugal, Jeff's crash and burn Euro relationship... Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Gay trauma from Psychotherapist Joe Nucci
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by psychotherapist Joe Nucci! What are gay men commonly diagnosed with? Is being in an open relationship associated with trauma? Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Gym class hero’s with Andrew Muscarella
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Andrew Muscarella, a "Good Child" turned gay fitness instructor. What was it like growing up for these 3 closet cases? Elliott and Andrew bond over their weight loss. Does being bigger as a kid make you nicer as an adult? Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
A Hot "New Gay" Has Entered The Villa with Luke Matthews
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Luke Matthews, a "new" gay in the community. What does coming out look like for Gen z-ers, FMK Gaymer edition, Will Jeff and Luke date? Maybe Elliott and Luke have a better connection? Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
3 Twinks & A Red Head with Grant Gibbs
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Grant Gibbs, sharing hot takes from Disney Gays, Ireland, Chain Restaurants, and a game of F*uck, Marry, K*ll that didn't age well. Get ready for a laugh on this episode of Lost Nuggs!
Gays Don't Want To F*CK a Personality with John Duff
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by John Duff, to talk all things music, blackmail, and "success". These boys had some hot takes on Upstate New York as well as what the gays in our community are really looking for. Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
The Gays Of Traitors Season 3
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Courtney Revolution, reality TV guru to reminisce on iconic shows from the past and bash the ones they were on. Jeff & Courtney may have overshared, but lets see how this goes!
Psychic Readings with Roy Tomko
Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Roy Tomko, psychic medium in hopes of getting a look into their future. Roy shares what is in store for Jeff & Elliott this next year. Elliott is joined by a spirit looking for closure.. Listen to this episode to hear this in real time!
Cheesecake Factory Underwear with Austin Show
Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Austin Show. Why don't you wear your good underwear to the Cheesecake Factory? Who chills naked together? Between Austin, Jeff, & Elliott what is the obsession with twinks?
Who joined the mile high club?
Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Chris Pitsicalis. Who offended Jojo Siwa's bestie? Is it normal to ask someone if they are autistic on a date? Sounds Iike Jeff & Elliott have had a week..lets unpack this...
Who is the bigger h0e Jeff or Elliott?
Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris launch their new venture "Lost Nuggs" sharing their ins and outs navigating life behind the scenes. Catch up on their dating life. Is Elliott on Ozempic? Who has the higher body count between Jeff & Elliott? Well lets find out...
Casting All Homos with Mike Rose
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by casting agent Mike Rose (@MikeRoseLA) giving you the tips and tricks to make it on TV. How do you audition? What are casting directors looking for? If someone in a position of power makes a move on you for a gig what do you do?!
Why Ban Drag Shows? with Britney Banks & Justine Van De Blair
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by drag artists Britney Banks (@thebritneybanks) & Justine Van De Blair (@justinequeenqueen) to share everything that is going on with the new legislation that just passed in Tennessee. Jeff explains what you can expect in this new "Gays in the Wild" journey!
The End with Nancy Rodriguez
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Netflix's Love Is Blind star Nancy Rodriguez (@thenancyrodriguez) to share their most recent relationship highs, lows, and what ultimately led to their breakups. Nancy shares why her and Bartise were never meant to be (5:02) Jeff asks Nancy the most inappropriate question (22:20) Jeff dives in the why him and Alex ended (25:30)! Grab a glass of wine and keep u
Is 30 Really The Gay Death?
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by life coach Alex Alberti (@albertidevelopment) to talk about the joys and sorrows of turning 30? Why is turning 30 known as gay death? Learn how to age like a bad b*tch! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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Forcing Relationships with Connor Shennan
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined his streaming bestie Connor Shennan (@ShennanConnor) to laugh about their experiences on a dating show. Do you think you can force a relationship? Have you ever felt fucked up that you knew someone liked you and they were a good fit for you but you just couldn't get there? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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Nascar, Homos & Fissures with Devon Rouse
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Devon Rouse (@Devon__Rouse) to share what it's like being the first Nascar driver to come out in 20 years!. Devon opens up about what his coming out journey has been like & how the Nascar community has responded. Did coming out effect his career? How many closet cases are in the Nascar community? Who just got an anal fissure?... Oh just kidding... Grab a g
Astrology Gays with the Astro Twins
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp) are joined by Ophira Edut (@Astrotwins) to discuss their birth charts. Ophi is an Astrologer for Elle Magazine as well as one of the masterminds behind Amazon Prime Video's latest show Cosmic Love. Are the stars aligned for Jeff & Alex? What zodiac signs make the best matches? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode o
'Uncoupled' & Immigration with Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente
Jeff Perla is joined by Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente (@Gonzalo_Aburto) from 'Uncoupled' now streaming on Netflix. Gonzalo shares his experiences on set working with Darren Star & NPH. How difficult has it been immigrating to the US from Mexico City? Jeff & Gonzalo give some life advice to 2 guys navigating a bump in their relationships. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of B
Anthony Spills The Tea with Anthony Wright
Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Anthony Wright (@Antsinyapantzz) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys dive deep into each cast member, their relationships, and what really went down at the pool party. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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Relationship Status, Monkey Pox, & More
Jeff Perla is joined by Alex Van Gurp (@AlexVanGurp) to discuss their relationship pending the show. You all submitted questions you wanted to know. What was it like transitioning back into the real world? When did we tell our friends? What was it like filming the bedroom scene on camera?
The second half of this podcast Jeff is joined by Gabe, (@GabrielBoyers) to share his experience battling Monk
Nomads, Bums, & Joe
Jeff Perla is joined by Joe Santini (@SavageSantini) travel host for nomads. Joe explains how so many gays have found time to travel and yet make a living. Is there a difference between your relationship standards and your hookup standards? Is it weird to use Grindr to network? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
You can follow Joe Here
Does Dylan In Fact Have BDE? The One That Got Away
Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Dylan Palladino (@DylanJpalladino) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys reminisce on their experience filming the show and answer on going questions. Does Dylan's BDE match the reality? Who stirred the pot the most in the house? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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Confessions Of A Call Boy with Kyle
Jeff Perla is joined by Kyle Langan (@kylejlangan) author & social media consultant. The boys share their own experiences through the narrative of Kyle's new book "Confessions Of A Call Boy". This fictional novel explores the life of a call boy and his journey with self acceptance, self identity, suicide, sex work all wrapped into a murder plot. Hear the boys answers as they share some persona
What I'd Tell My Younger Self with Josh Van Sant
Jeff Perla is joined by Josh Van Sant (@JoshVanSant) "an older gay" who is notorious for offering advice to younger gays. Most famously for his videos on TikTok, the 2 get personal on what they think they need to work on about themselves and what they think they've got all figured out. What are your top 3 attributes you're seeking in a partner? If any of those are physical, you'll be in an unhappy
Sex Drive & Testosterone
Jeff Perla is joined by Vlad Radoi (@RadoiVlad) a Biochemist with a PHD in Medical Science. The boys discuss how your sex drive works and the difference between your libido and hormones. Just because your testosterone levels decrease does that mean your sex drive should decrease? Well guess again. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Short King Spring with Elliott & Alex
Jeff Perla is joined by Elliott Norris (@Elliottnorris) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp), sharing their heights and experiences with taller or shorter men. Does height matter? The boys have been in Curacao for one week. Hear about the trip, our peak and pits, and all the drama in between! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Checking Boxes with Rob & David
Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bu
Toxic Men with Tiger Redz
Jeff Perla is joined by Tiger Redz (@Tiger.Redz), a femme creator sharing their opinions on toxic masculinity! Is there a difference between internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity? What are the traits of a toxic male? How many of them do these 2 have? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
The Future Urologist
Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
Twitter Kings and Daddies with Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry)
Jeff Perla is joined by Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry) to reminisce on their sugar daddies! What is the worst situation they've put themselves in with a daddy? How did Christian start on Twitter? What is the most awkward sex video to film of yourself? We talked about a lot more than we cared to share on this but hope you enjoy!
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What Would You Do For $1?
Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel (@NKD_Dan) to laugh about the odd requests they've been receiving? What would you send out for money? What is something that just no amount of money can get? Who sent out their c*m rag for $200? Oh god... Enjoy
If you want to follow Dan @NKD_Dan
So What Happened This Past Month?!
Jeff's back with his good friend Josh Oram (@ooshj) to catch you up on everything you missed? Why was the account disabled? What is The Travelin Bum allowed to post? Do you think "meta" is homophobic? There's a lot to unbox here so we hope this insight into Jeff's life the past month helps answer any of your pondering questions.
If you want to follow Josh @ooshj
On The Run with Bash
Sebastian (@BashDeltas) joins Jeff Perla (@JeffPerlaa) to talk about what it's like going back to the place you grew up for the holidays. What do you do when you see a family member you don't get along with? Is it normal to get anxious going back home. Why is it so common to leave home and move to a big city? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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What's An Influencer Trip Like?
I'm sure you're all sick of our Puerto Rico content by now, yet here is our recap. Come join Elliot (@ElliottNorris), Spencer (@HoddSuspenders), Barry (@BarryBartlett_) and I (@JeffPerlaa) as we share our peak and pit, first impressions of one another, and all the inappropriate juicy questions you guys asked. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
If you're pla
Wouldn't You Like To Know
You guys ask a lot of questions and I can't send lengthy responses so I let Alex VanGurp (@AlexVanGurp) pick out 15 of your questions that I was forced to answer. Not going to give any hints to what these were but I think you'll like it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Stretch Marks, Loose Skin, & Self Love with Kendrick Leon Val
Kendrick (@KendrickLeonVal) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his weight loss journey and self love. Have you noticed a difference in attention from gay men post weight loss journey? Has your "type" changed at all? What aspects of your mental health have grown throughout the process. This episode takes a lot of twist and turns. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this epis
Du Du with Jimmy & Jessa
Jimmy (@JimmyPezzino) & Jessa (@TheeJessa) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their new douche @discover_DU. How often do you douche? Is it just me or do you view douching as like arghhh I'm a hungry bottom lets fuck... Here's the Du's and Dunt's on douching. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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Circle Message ... with Daniel Cusimano
Daniel Cusimano (@Daniel_Cusimano) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his Virginity, Gay Culture, and his time on The Circle. Has Daniel had his first kiss now? Why is he holding on to his virginity for so long? Who was his best friend and not so favorite person from the show? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
Mental Health, Suicide, & Prevention
With September right around the corner, Tony Santilli (@TonyJoeSantilli) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss National Suicide Awareness Month. The Boys dive in on their own mental health journeys. Have they ever contemplated suicide? Men who post shirtless selfies non-stop, are they more narcissistic than others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behin
Truvada, Descovy, Pep What's The Difference?
Joey Gentile (@Joey.Gentile) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about Truvada, Descovy, & Pep. What's the difference between Truvada and Descovy? How many people actually take Prep? Do you need insurance to get Prep? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
I think my most asked question is "How can I get Prep with or without insurance"? You can
Jeff & Corey Unhinged & Unedited
Corey Rae (@ImCoreyRae) and host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) share their experiences dating around. Are you a serial killer if you go on a weekend date? Do you know what you want in a relationship? Is it ok to compare new and old relationships? This conversation is a great representation of what it's like to be in my head. Aka unedited and all over the place. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with
The Gay Virgin
Kevin (@Hoosagoodboy) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share his thoughts on sex before marriage. What is it like to be 53 and never have had penetrative sex yet? Would you be scared to take a guys virginity? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
My Wife Found Out I Was Gay
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests, David, Josh, & Britt who are all men who were once married to women. At what point did they know they were gay? Why go through with a marriage if you knew you were gay? How one wife went through his phone and discovered ... well grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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Should I Become A Dad?
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 2 guests, Casey & James who are fathers VIA adoption & surrogacy. What's easier adoption or surrogacy? Is it possible to jerk off into a cup and get a female pregnant turkey baster style? Listen as we hear how these men did it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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Can You Sit On A Pierced D*ck?
Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests who have unique piercings and tattoos in their genital areas. Would you bottom for a guy who had a pierced dick? Listen as we break down what is safe or not safe. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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