MissJudged Podcast
The MissJudged Podcast is a dating and relationship comedy podcast hosted by Alyssa Pettinato. It offers funny, unfiltered, and honest conversations about modern love and relationships, covering topics like dating apps, red flags, commitment issues, breakups, sex, and situationships. The show blends entertainment with relatable stories and real talk about contemporary dating.
Episodes
Should Relationships Be 50/50? Dating, Marriage, Money & Gender Roles Ft. @AnnaMorgenstern
We are finally tackling the highly debated topic of 50/50!!!! On this episode of Missjudged, Alyssa sits down with matchmaker Anna Morgenstern to debate one of the most controversial questions in modern dating and marriage: should relationships be 50/50 in all the ways?Anna is in a successful 50/50 marriage. Alyssa thinks 50/50 is basically a beautifully marketed scam against women. So na
Why You’re Emotionally Unavailable: Dating, Health & Self-Sabotage Ft. @HealthwithHunter
What is emotional unavailability, really — are they actually unavailable… or did they just not like you? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Hunter Stoler to break down emotional unavailability in dating, what it looks like in real life, and why it is not always as simple as blaming avoidant attachment or calling everyone a narcissist.We get into the real signs of an emotio
Is Your Family Ruining Your Relationship? Family Boundaries & Dating ft. @CandiceGuardino
You don't just date them—you date their entire family system. In this savage-but-true episode, Alyssa sits down with @CandiceGuardino to tackle the #1 source of relationship stress: in-laws and family boundaries. We break down the hilarious and horrifying reality of family meddling: from the people who only need parental approval, not a partner, to those who are recreating their chaotic c
Why You’re Not Getting a Second Date -Brutal Truths (Alyssa Solo)
Ever leave a first date thinking “that went amazing”… and then get hit with silence, a slow fade, or the classic “you’re great but…”? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa Pettinato in her solo era answers the age-old question: why didn’t it progress to a second date? And yes—she’s brutally honest about it (with sisterly, comedic energy so it doesn’t feel like a personal attack).We get in
Softboy vs F*ckboy: Mixed Signals, Situationships & Dating Your Friend’s Ex ft. @Yourpalrick
Are softboys actually worse than fuckboys? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by @yourpalrick (Ricky Liorti), for a brutally honest, hilarious conversation about modern dating, situationships, red flags, rebounds, and the men who disguise chaos as emotional depth. From the rise of the softboy to why situationships can be more emotionally devastating than real relationships, t
Are Men Intimidated by Strong Women? Alpha Women, Insecurity & Modern Dating Ft. @StefiCohen
In this powerful episode of MissJudged, Alyssa sits down with professional boxer and world-record powerlifter @StefiCohen for a conversation that goes way beyond dating. Stefi FINALLY opens up about what it’s like to be a public figure when things go wrong, how quickly the media and public opinion can turn, and she shares her side of what really happened during the arrests and the very pu
Moving on Post Breakup (Subscriber only)- TRAILER ONLY
Head over to Youtube or Patreon for this one guys!!! IYKYK. (@missjudgedpodcast)Welcome to Alyssa’s first subscriber-only solo episode of Missjudged — and she did not hold back. In this brutally honest, funny, and feral deep dive into modern dating, breakups, emotional unavailability, toxic relationship patterns, heartbreak, and healing, Alyssa gets real about the kind of relationship beh
How to Break Up: When to Leave, What to Say, and How to Detach (Short + Long-Term) Ft. @SabrinaBendory
Breaking up is hard—especially when you’re stuck in the “should I stay or should I go?” spiral. In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Sabrina Bendory, author of Detached, to share a no-fluff, step-by-step breakup guide for short-term relationships and long-term relationships—including how to break up when you live together.We cover the biggest signs it’s time to end things, h
Dating Body Language: Signs They’re Into You (or Not) Ft. @LindaClemons
Body language expert and total badass Linda Clemons joins Alyssa on MissJudged to explain why 93% of communication is nonverbal and how people size you up in the first 7 seconds. You for sure want to listen AND watch this one! We will go over what your posture, eye contact, and nervous habits are silently giving away in dating, friendships, business, and beyond.Think you were playing it c
Are You Toxic or Just Tired? How Sleep Affects Your Relationships Ft. Todd Anderson
Are you actually toxic… or are you just chronically exhausted? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa Pettinato sits down with sleep expert Todd Anderson—who wastes absolutely no time roasting her for proudly running on six hours of sleep and believing she’s “thriving” because her Oura Ring told her so. (Todd would like everyone to know: that’s not thriving.)Together, they break down how
Friendship Breakups, Villain Energy and Letting Go Ft. @LindseySimcik
Starting 2026 with a reminder to refresh more then just your closet. Friendship breakups don’t get enough airtime — and somehow they still manage to hurt more than romantic ones. In this episode, Alyssa is joined by Lindsey Simcik, (one half of the Almost 30 Podcast), for an honest, funny, and soulful conversation about what happens when friendships start to feel misaligned… and how to le
Debunking Influencer Wellness and Crazy ER Stories Ft. @DocJudComedy
Is wellness actually making us healthier… or just wasting our money and time? In this episode, we’re joined by @DocJudComedy to officially separate medical facts from Instagram fiction. From mouth taping and cold plunges to hyperbaric chambers and Ozempic, we break down the viral wellness trends everyone is obsessing over—and ask the question no influencer wants to answer: is this actuall
HAPPY F***ING New Year- Learn How to Screen Your Dates (A SOLO episode!)
To ring in the new year we are kicking off with some honesty. Y’all don’t know how to screen your dates. At least, that’s the verdict from Alyssa in this solo episode of the MissJudged podcast... She’s tackling the elephant in the room: most people have no idea how to properly screen for dating, and it’s why so many end up in bad matches, situationships, or just wasting their own time.Aly
Why Are We Paying for The Sins of The Ex? Ft. @Bennyinc
Alyssa and Benny Hart are back — and this week we’re dragging one of the most toxic dating habits of all time: making your new partner pay for your old partner’s crimes.Because let’s be honest… Just because your ex cheated doesn’t mean a three-hour text delay means your new boyfriend is also a cheater. Just because your ex ghosted, breadcrumbed, love-bombed, or weaponized “I’m busy” doesn
Three Rings Later: From Breakups to a Main Character Glow Up Ft. @TheRealSahd
This week on Missjudged, Alyssa sits down with the iconic, stunning and sweet Roma Abdessalam (@TheRealSahd) — influencer, entrepreneur, and certified comeback queen — for a hilarious and unfiltered deep dive into her three engagements, dating rules, and the ultimate glow-up era.Roma opens up about her dating history and her engagements, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and how e
They’re Not the Problem- Your Mindset is Ft. @Madisonmalloy
This week on the Missjudged Podcast, Alyssa and @MadisonMalloy deliver a much-needed reality check for anyone who’s ever said, “All the good ones are taken.” Spoiler: they’re not. You just might be dating with a terrible mindset, babe.If you’re tired of ghosting, red flags, and your friends telling you to “just manifest him,” this episode breaks down what’s actually getting in your way —
Sliding Into Chaos: DMs, Double Taps & Digital Drama Ft. @Gomezcomedy
Welcome to the digital jungle — where romance begins with a “hey” and ends with a screenshot. In this episode of Missjudged, Alyssa and comedian Luis J. Gomez (@GomezComedy) take a brutally honest (and hysterical) deep dive into the modern dating minefield known as the DMs.From unsolicited “good morning” pics to messages that read like Craigslist ads for emotional damage, nothing is off-l
Till Debt Do Us Part - The Truth About Prenups & Postnups w/ Celebrity Attorney @Robertwallack"
Love is blind… but your lawyer shouldn’t be. In this no-fluff, all-facts episode, Alyssa sits down with celebrity divorce attorney @RobertWallack to talk all things prenups, postnups, and what it actually means to protect your heart, your money, and your assets.Whether you’re wildly in love, newly engaged, or just future-planning with someone who still hasn’t deleted their Bumble—you need
Undefined & Complicated: Breaking Down Situationships Ft. @Bennyinc
Ah, the situationship—that magical gray area where you’re basically dating… but not really. On this episode of Missjudged, Alyssa and guest Dating Expert Ben Hart (@bennyinc) get real about why we keep falling into these undefined “almost-relationships” and how to tell if you’re thriving… or just wasting your prime years waiting for someone who “doesn’t like labels.”We break down the many
AI vs. The Matchmaker - Which Is Best For You!? w/ @Annamorgenstern
Buckle up, lovebugs—this one’s a ride. Dating coach and professional matchmaker Anna Morgenstern (@Annamorgenstern) joins Alyssa on the MissJudged Podcast to spill the messy, hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking truth about modern dating. From ghosting to catfishing, we’re exposing why swiping culture has us all exhausted—and whether matchmaking is the real cure to dating app burnout.An
Red Flags vs. Real Potential: The Dating Balancing Act w/ @Chrstinamavrones
YEP, this one is for the men AND the women. Alyssa is joined by the always insightful (and hilarious) @chrstinamavrones for a no-holds-barred conversation about the fine line between spotting real red flags… and sabotaging something that might actually have potential.We’re talking about the dating tightrope: when to run, when to stay, and when to admit that maybe TikTok isn’t your therapi
Slack Messages and Side Eyes: Can Couples Work Together? w/ @Wildandroam.co
What happens when your romantic partner becomes your business partner? Spoiler: it’s not always #PowerCoupleGoals.This week on MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Dryden and Emily—founders of the lifestyle brand @wildandroam.co—for a raw, hilarious, and deeply real convo about what it actually takes to run a business (especially in the highly emotional wedding industry!) with your spouse with
Why Are We All So Afraid of Commitment? w/ @Bennyinc
Why are so many men and women out here treating commitment like it’s life or death? In this episode, I sit down with the king of dating advice- Ben Hart (@Bennyinc), for a brutally honest and wildly entertaining conversation about why men and women are terrified to define the relationship—especially in their 30s and 40s.We talk ghosting, “not ready” red flags, emotional unavailability dre
Gym Etiquette, Red Flags & Tripod Tammys w/ Celebrity Trainer Daniel McKenna (@Theirish_yank)
Welcome back to MissJudged—Season 2 is here, and we’re coming in hot.In this special kickoff episode, Alyssa returns as your brand-new solo host and wastes no time diving into the chaotic world of gym culture with none other than celebrity trainer Daniel McKenna, a.k.a. @theirish_yank. You might know him from Equinox or his viral Irish wit—but today, he's joining us to call out the absolu
Being a Boss- How to Succeed and Survive w/ @Drjenandjuice
Being a boss as a woman isn’t just about power suits and fancy titles—it’s about owning your space, making bold moves, and shutting down the doubters. This week, Alyssa and Teresa sit down with @drjenandjuice to talk about what it really means to be a female boss, the challenges of running a company in this society, and why being in charge isn’t just a flex—it’s a whole lifestyle. Bonus
Single vs Partnered - Who Is Winning?!
Single and thriving or cuffed and compromising—who’s really winning here? This week, Teresa and Alyssa break down the pros and cons of single vs. partnered life and settle the debate once and for all. Is being single all about freedom, or just endless bad dates? Does having a partner mean built-in happiness, or just someone to fight over takeout with? No matter what side you’re on, we’ve
Do We Care About Love Languages??
Love languages—do we actually care, or is this just another trend people use to justify being needy? This week, Alyssa and Teresa break down the real deal behind love languages. Do they actually matter in relationships, or are we all just overcomplicating things? Whether you're fluent in Words of Affirmation or just wondering why your partner won't stop sending "acts of service" your way
Why Are We All People Pleasing?!
Why THE HELL are we all out here saying “yes” when we really mean “f*** no”? This week, Alyssa and Teresa dive into the people-pleasing epidemic—why we do it, how it’s lowkey ruining our lives, our jobs, our relationships- and most importantly, how to stop. If you’ve ever agreed to plans you immediately regretted or apologized for something that wasn’t your fault, this episode is for you.
Can Men and Women Be Platonic Friends? w/ @iamralphsutton
Can men and women actually be just friends, or is someone always catching feelings? This week, Teresa and Alyssa sit down with Ralph Sutton @iamralphsutton to break down the age-old debate. Are platonic friendships real, or is there always some unspoken tension? We’re sharing personal stories, hot takes, and maybe even exposing some lies along the way. Buckle up—this one’s spicy. We’ve al
What Happens When You Find Your Person?? w/ @Themharrington
So you’re in a serious relationship… now what? This week, Alyssa and Teresa sit down with @themharrington to talk about how relationships evolve—from dating to marriage and everything beyond. How do you know when it’s time to take the next step? What challenges come up after the honeymoon phase? And how do you keep growing together instead of growing apart? Whether you’re single, engaged,
Body Image - We are all F*ucked!
Body image—we’re all f*cked, aren’t we? Alyssa and Teresa get real about their own struggles with body image, the insane standards we’re all trying to keep up with, and why literally no one is immune to it. It’s raw, it’s relatable, and yes, it’s kinda funny—because if we don’t laugh, we might just cry. Raise your hand if you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, WTF is going on here?
How to Be a Masculine Man and End a Relationship w/ Jim Curtis
Being a good partner when staying in or ending a relationship is HARD. This week, Alyssa and Teresa sit down with @jimcurtis1 to talk about how to be a masculine man in a relationship- especially when it comes to walking away. We will cover allllll the things about signs of an ending relationship, how to communicate and also how to walk away maturely! Why do so many men struggle with ope
Does the Bro Code Really Exist!? w/ @ChristosComedy
Does the Bro Code actually exist, or is it just something guys say to avoid accountability? This week, Alyssa and Teresa are joined by @christoscomedy to break it all down—what it really means, who actually follows it, and whether women have their own version. Get ready for hot takes, hilarious debates, and some serious truths about friendship, loyalty, and dating.We’ve all heard of the B
#1 House Rule- Keep. It. Cute.
Our number #1 rule in any relationship? KEEP. IT. CUTE. Spoiler alert- There is mention of a black toilet and lets be real- nothing kills love and romance faster. We are not just talking about dirty dishes- we break down how to keep the romance alive once you get INTO the relationship and how to keep that spark going because some people have been living the single life far too long!That
Intervention Time- How to Plan and Have a First A First Date
First date flop? Not on our watch! Alyssa and Teresa are here to stage an intervention for all the clueless daters out there. From picking the right place to avoiding awkward small talk, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to nailing that first date. Listen up—your love life depends on it! To elaborate, let’s be real—too many of you are ruining first dates before they even start. Whether
Meet the HBIC's and Let's Learn How to Friend
The wait is over—welcome to the MissJudged Podcast! Meet your no-BS, tell-it-like-it-is hosts, meet Alyssa and Teresa, as we kick off this wild ride of a podcast made for both men and women.In this debut episode, we spill the tea on how Miss-Judged came to life, what you can expect (hint: zero sugar coating), and our take on what makes a good friend—because some of y’all need a refresher.
Men and Women-Fix Your Dating Apps!
Dating apps are a mess—so we’re here to fix them for both sexes! In this episode, Alyssa and Teresa break down the biggest mistakes men and women make on their profiles, what actually works, and how to stop sabotaging your own dating life. If you’re swiping, you need this episode.Let's be real som of you are really in your own way OR you just do not know what people will and won't respond
MissJudged Podcast Trailer
Welcome to Miss Judged where our colorfully blunt hosts Alyssa and Teresa dive into the highs, lows, and unexpected twists millennials deal with. Using comedy, heart, and a whole lot of very real talk, they will walk you through navigating career shifts, relationships, health, and the pursuit of happiness. We will explore the big questions and the small moments that shape this chapter. No
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