Bad Queers
This podcast is for people who feel like they came out of the closet and got placed in a box. It’s time to put the u-haul theory to bed, and connect over being Bad Queers. Join Kris and Shana, fellow Bad Queers, to discuss breaking stereotypes, owning your identity and their unpopular queer opinions. Bad Queers will leave you both offended and inspired by the news, stories and advice about the very fluid, very real LGBTQ+ experience.
Episodes
The Cost of Prideteenth | Episode 311
This week, there's a verdict in the killing of O'Shae Sibley, a new analysis questions how The New York Times has covered trans rights, and we're celebrating Black queer excellence from the Native Son Awards to our latest WNBA check-in.In Am I A Bad Queer?, we're talking surviving the honeymoon phase without abandoning your friends, navigating income differences in a relationsh
Joe Rogan Queers | Episode 310
This week, the trashy Freedom 250 event gives new life to an old Michelle Obama conspiracy theory, a Sister Act actress confirms what queer women have known for decades, the SF Giants find themselves in hot water after Pride Night, and Jay-Z's Target partnership. In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking introducing your non-Black partner to your family and what happens when you’re unsure about hav
Early Aughts | Episode 309
The early aughts tangents were stronger than us this week. This week features a proposed federal rule with sweeping implications for transgender people and other protected communities, New York City Hall’s first-ever Pride Ball celebrating ballroom culture, and highlights from this year’s Tony Awards.In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking dating outside your age range, when sleeping with your best fr
What About Your Friends? | Episode 308
This week, Category Is is packed: a major court ruling on transgender troops, new polling shows declining support for same-sex marriage, Karamo Brown breaks his silence on the Queer Eye drama, and Cara Delevingne shares how she realized she’s a lesbian.In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking dating someone with a homophobic past and whether there’s such a thing as a “straight” definition of lesbian se
Yes M.A, No M.A | Episode 307
Happy Pride y’all!This week, Pornhub launches a sapphic site for queer women and nonbinary viewers, Queen Latifah and Colman Domingo share their coming out stories, and we get into the latest WNBA updates.In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking lying about your body count, whether you’ve made your therapist hate your partner, and being jealous that all your friends are in relationships for the summer.
Disaster Lesbian | Episode 306
This week, South Carolina signs an anti-trans bathroom law that could isolate students in porta-potties, a Wisconsin school board bans a Black gay composer’s Marsha P. Johnson tribute, and Kehlani announces a world tour just as we get news of a women’s basketball rom-com.In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking being bad at flirting with women, whether longer hair changes how people read your masc iden
Thank You Bisexuals | Episode 305
This week, the Smithsonian National Museum of African Art opens the first and largest exhibition of LGBTQ+ African art, Isaiah Rashad opens up about accepting his bisexuality, and WNBA opening weekend reactions and overreactions. In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking staying close with your toxic ex’s family, catfishing your friend’s new partner to test their loyalty, and whether it’s ever okay to d
Baddies in the Sky | Episode 304
This week, we discuss the Supreme Court’s Voting Rights Act ruling, Natasha Cloud’s next move, and the 2026 Met Gala.In Am I A Bad Queer?, we talk petty dating app behavior, queer friendship dynamics, and screenshotting relationship arguments. Plus, a Bad Queer Opinions discussion on Dominique Morgan and accountability.Shoutouts:Kris: Queer Love in History - Queer Love in History curates and resea
H.A.G.S. With Us Meg | Episode 303
This week, the Supreme Court is weighing whether faith-based preschools receiving public funding can exclude children with same-sex parents, Meg Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson’s breakup shakes the internet, and Paige Bueckers tells everybody to mind their business when it comes to her and Azzi Fudd.In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking using your ex’s gym membership and wondering if you were someon
Trust in the Nasty | Episode 302
This week, the fake Christians are trying to whoop KevOnStage into submission (again), Dave Chappelle plays in our faces (again), and Sue Bird and Megan Rapinoe's breakup (fake) rocks the lesbian community just in time for Lesbian Visibility week (happy belated!).In Am I A Bad Queer?, we’re talking future moves with a girlfriend, coming out when everyone reads you as straight, and whether nee
Effing Straggots | Episode 301
This week on Bad Queers, we break down Tennessee’s anti-trans healthcare bill, celebrate some very queer Hall of Fame wins, and get into the biggest WNBA Draft moments. Plus, we answer your Am I a Bad Queer? questions on staying for the rent, needy friend dynamics, and catching feelings for a bi-curious friend, and we have a few words for Caitlyn Jenner.Shoutouts:Kris: Natalie J. Harris - Director
Harriet Studman (w/ Crissle West) | Episode 300
It’s our 300th episode, and we’re celebrating with the iconic Crissle West as we talk podcasting, therapy, dating, her favorite Beyoncé album and songs, and one very necessary Bad Queer Opinion on the overuse of “partner.”Shoutouts:Kris: Trans Masc Studies: is a research project by Ellis Jackson Kroese that looks into the history of trans masculine and trans masculine-adjacent identities and prese
Love & Basketball | Episode 299
We're nominated for a Webby award for Best Indie Podcast! We’d love your vote and support 🖤Vote here: https://vote.webbyawards.com/PublicVoting#/2026/podcasts/features/best-indie-podcastThis week, we break down the IOC’s transphobic new testing policy, the Supreme Court ruling against Colorado’s conversion therapy ban, and more MNBA mess. Plus, the WNBA’s newest romance, our NCAA tourney pick
Love Is Blind Season 10 Recap | Bonus Episode
We’re back with a Love Is Blind Season 10 bonus episode, breaking things down couple by couple, revisiting the reunion, and sharing our final grades on the season.Share your Am I A Bad Queer? hereSupport the showPATREON: patreon.com/BadQueersPodcastSubscribe to our Youtubehttps://www.youtube.com/@BadQueersPodcast The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed
The Oscars go to the CBA! | Episode 298
In da clurb, we all aren't fam.We’re back from our Queerties break with an all-new, Category Is-heavy episode. This week, we recap the Queerties, get into anti-LGBTQ crackdowns across Africa, our reaction to the EJ Johnson interview, Julez Smith playing in our faces, and a major win for the WNBA.Shoutouts: Kris: F.D Signifier - Video essayist and content creator who has a focus in Black movie
The Wired Bra (w/ The Baddie Galore) | Episode 297
This week, we’re joined by The Baddie Galore — digital creator, event curator, and co-host of The Queer Agenda — for a fun conversation on intentional content creation, queer recaps and gossip, dating in D.C., and building community through nightlife and events. Plus, Baddie closes us out with a wildly entertaining Bad Queer Opinion on masc women and the lines she refuses to cross.Shoutouts:Kris:
Too Dick-y | Episode 296
This week, we break down Gallup’s latest data showing LGBTQ+ identification holding at 9% in the U.S., then get into Kansas’ new law voiding updated gender markers on IDs—and why we’re underreacting to how dangerous that is in real life.Plus: BAFTAs fallout, Unrivaled playoff predictions, and Am I a Bad Queer? (cringing at “lesbian,” keeping the strap moment hot, and friends not taking lesbian dat
Hope this helps | Episode 295
This week, we break down the arrest of 25 protesters in D.C. opposing proposed federal rules that would restrict gender-affirming care for trans minors, and we pay tribute to Rev. Jesse Jackson Sr. and his lasting impact on civil rights.Plus, Unrivaled 1:1 results, what we’re watching, and an Am I a Bad Queer? on dating compatibility: a proudly poly listener considers whether choosing monogamy for
Hedda Watch Party (w/ The Strap Down Pod) | Bonus Episode
We linked with our play cousins, Aury and Sheria of The Strap Down podcast, to review Hedda (2025) for this bonus episode. Get into this in-depth and (un)serious review of remade classic starring bicon, Tessa Thompson, and directed by Nia DaCosta. We discuss how this version holds up to the original play, the characters, scene association, and our rating for the movie.As you might expect, our epis
Be Like Billy Porter | Episode 294
It’s all Category Is and Bad Queer Opinions this week.We break down the 2026 Grammy Awards — from Durand Bernarr dedicating his win to butch queens, to Kehlani and Bad Bunny using their moments to say fuck ICE, plus big nights for Lady Gaga, Cynthia Erivo, Doechii, and more, including the In Memoriam tributes.Then we get into the latest Trump fuckery after a racist video depicting Barack and Miche
January was Awful | Episode 293
January gave us 31 straight days of heavy headlines, complicated feelings, and very little rest.This week, we unpack the aftermath of Alex Pretti’s killing, talk through Kanye West’s latest apology (and what’s conveniently happening next), and discuss Brittney Griner’s new documentary debuting at Sundance Film Festival.Plus, Am I A Bad Queer? gets into choosing white queer spaces over straight Bla
Come Home P-Valley | Episode 292
Y'all. Bad Queers was just nominated for a Queerties award for Best Podcast. Our first nomination!We'd love your support, vote for our podcast daily until 2/17! https://www.queerty.com/queerties/vote/?category_id=2609-----This week we dive into Angel Reese joining The Hunting Wives, Karamo Brown has had enough of his toxic Queer Eye cast mates and Unrivaled updates.Plus, Am I A Bad Queer
ABCDEFUCKICE | Episode 291
It’s one of those weeks. We’re all Category Is this episode, covering escalating ICE violence, Supreme Court arguments on trans sports bans, a Golden Globes recap, a tale of two gospel legends (Yolanda Adams and Donnie McClurkin), Ezee’s fatphobic ragebait skit, and Matt Rogers needing to keep Jasmine Crockett’s name out his mouth. We wrap it all up with our Bad Queer Opinions.Shoutouts:Kris: Ther
Lesbianville | Episode 290
We’re back with our first new episode of the year. We reflect on the five-year anniversary of the J6 insurrection, unpack a troubling California court ruling impacting LGBTQ+ students, and break down the latest Tyler Perry lawsuit. We also recap the action-packed opening of Unrivaled, take a quick detour into WNBA mess, and get into Am I A Bad Queer? with hooking up with a friend's fresh ex,
White First (w/Aury and Sheria of The Strap Down Pod) | Episode 289
We close out our winter break run with nonstop laughs, joined by Aury and Sheria of The Strap Down Podcast. We get into their origin story, queer journeys, life as Black queer comedians in NYC, why Druski’s stud obsession is deeply weird, and—casually—solve racism along the way.Shoutouts:Kris: dom + bomb - Black-woman and queer-woman owned inclusive-size fashion brand with headquarters in Spokane,
We're a Christian Podcast (w/ Anna DeShawn) - 2025 Recap Pt. 2 | Episode 288
We’re back with Anna DeShawn to break down the back half of the year — from the WNBA championship and CBA negotiations to Snoop’s Lightyear comments, renewed attacks on trans athletes, and a much better Election Day than last year. We close out with our year-end Bad Queer opinions, shoutouts, and podcast wins as we wrap 2025.And if you're reading this, we're a Christian podcast.Follow an
Niecy Nash Year (w/ Anna DeShawn) - 2025 Recap Pt. 1 | Episode 287
For our third in a row, we're joined by our dear friend and E3 Radio founder, Anna DeShawn, to recap the year. For part 1, we share our top stories from January through June and end the episode with our favorite social trends and queerest moments of the year. Follow and support Anna belowE3 Radio Youtube: @E3RadioIG: @annadeshawnEpisode notes:1:02 - Queer Urban Dictionary3:55 - Guest intro5:3
Documentary Diss Track | Episode 286
Can a documentary tell the truth when the person behind it hasn’t told theirs? This week, we unpack the Netflix Diddy doc and dive into politics, sports, and queer culture — from Jasmine Crockett’s Senate run to A’ja Wilson’s historic season, a new celebrity romance, and the fight over Pride at the 2026 World Cup. Plus, Am I A Bad Queer? and some side-eye at online queer singles callout threads.Sh
The Nays Have It | Episode 285
We’re back with an all-new episode, catching up on the week’s news — from the heartbreaking loss of Girlalala, to Porsha Williams soft-launching her new romance, to the latest in WNBA contract drama and the SCORE Act mess. We get into the serious, the petty, and the queer of it all — and of course, a new round of Am I A Bad Queer?Shoutouts:Kris: Style is Freedom — A Tomboi lifestyle brand from des
Flavor of Love (w/ Mal Wright) | Episode 284
Mal Wright has been on our wishlist for a minute, and shooting our shot finally paid off. We get into her background, her time in ATL, how she earned her nickname, all things The Ultimatum: Queer Love, and what life was looking like post-show — including who was in her DMs and who she still keeps up with. We also talk the future of queer representation, her For Them/Autostraddle era, relationships
Loretta Devine was a stud (w/ BFF: Black, Fat, Femme Pod) | Episode 283
We’re happy to be joined by Jonathan Higgins and Jordan “JoHo” Daniels of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme. We talk origin story, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan’s book Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself, a surprise Loretta Devine stud reveal, their Bad Queer Opinions, and the nastiness online they
You play 2k? | Episode 282
This week, the Supreme Court tells Kim Davis to get a life, the 2026 Grammy noms are in, and studs are making moves — 2K style.Shoutouts:Kris: DeAndré Upshaw - Content creator and producer. His Y2K and pop culture content is some of the best online. “Follow if you miss flip phones and TRL”. You can support him on IG @deandretheegiantShana: WAGS of Women’s Sports - Celebrating the wives, girlfrien
Android Pay | Episode 281
Election week came in swinging — and the Category is: Democrats came to collect! From major wins in New York, Virginia, and California to historic firsts across the map, we break down what these results mean for 2026. Plus, Kehlani’s first-ever Top 10 hit and a public romance that’s got the internet folded in half.Then in Am I A Bad Queer?, we dig into some messy dating dilemmas — from the ongoing
And We're Back | Episode 280
After a little maternity leave (and a lot of life), Shana and Kris are finally back! This week, we catch up on new babies, new businesses, and the queer chaos we missed. From honoring Miss Major Griffin-Gracy to Snoop Dogg’s unexpected LGBTQ+ pivot, Trump’s latest shutdown mess, and why the WNBA deserves better — we’re jumping right back in. Plus: new Queer Urban Dictionary terms and some soft stu
[Patreon Exclusive - Preview] Heart Life Vol. 3 I Episode 279
[The full episode is a Patreon Exclusive] We’re back with Heart Life Vol. 3: Summer of Unavailability - aka that season where everyone’s crushing, but no one is available.Kris and Shana catch up on Shana's dating adventures, ghosters spinning the block, and therapy holding up a mirror we didn’t ask for. We talk play parties, expanding who we date, and the fine line between being open and just
Heaux Church (w/Brandon Kyle Goodman) I Episode 278
We've got company! This week we’re joined by Brandon Kyle Goodman — writer, actor, and the mind behind Heaux Church, Tell Me Something Messy, and Big Mouth’s own Walter the Lovebug!We talk queer sex education, non-monogamy, writing, love, and what it means to find freedom in your “mess.” Brandon shares how being Black, queer, and nonbinary has shaped their relationship with intimacy and joy —
Foreplay All Day (w/Vagina Based Collective) I Episode 277
We’ve got company!! This week on Bad Queers, we get a little steamy and a lot educational with The Vagina Based Collective, lead by Feignix and Papi, known as “The Sinners” behind a movement that’s redefining shameless living, especially in the bedroom. We talk queer sex education, how intimacy evolves in long-term relationships, and what it really means to unlearn shame while exploring kink, toys
Lesbians Aren't Cool (w/Tribble) I Episode 276
This week in Queer Urban Dictionary, Kris explains the gender-inclusive pronoun per, while Shana celebrates the “ace of hearts.” Then we’re joined by comedian, host, producer, and professional catfish Tribble (Ellis Ever After, Ask Tribble Inc.) We get into the wild world of queer relationships, accountability panels, and why women need to chill when it comes to “dabbling in the dark arts" (a
I did that (w/Autumn Breon) I Episode 275
This week on Bad Queers, we've got company! Welcome Autumn Breon, multidisciplinary artist, abolitionist, and all-around visionary. Autumn uses performance, sculpture, and installation to explore Black queer feminist liberation, Diasporic memory, and the systems we’re ready to leave behind.In this episode we discuss:- Autumn’s journey from studying aeronautics at Stanford to becoming a queer
Anti-Ellie (w/Amber Abundance) I Episode 274
This week on Bad Queers, Kris teaches us “H&H” (high and horny) while Shana breaks down “homo fomo.” Then we’re joined by storyteller, filmmaker, and writer Amber J. Phillips known as Amber Abundance — aka your fave fat Black queer femme auntie from the Midwest. We catch up with Amber on everything from launching her Substack Toxic Femininity (yes, it’s giving Black femme scripture) to buildin
Match My Intellectual Freak w/ The Astro Stud
We got company! This week we’re joined by astrophysicist and content creator Kihana Wilson, aka Astro Stud. She shares her journey through science, building community, and bringing unapologetic representation to her field—plus why she thinks astrology is a little… lazy.Shoutouts:Shana: Black Trans Masc Collective - Rooted in resilience and building meaningful community, built for a wide variety of
Black & Queer Ultimatum (w/AJ & Britney) | Episode 272
AJ Blount and Britney Thompson from Netflix’s The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 join us for an unfiltered conversation about their time on the hit reality series. They reveal what was left on the cutting room floor, what scenes were over-edited, and how they feel about their on-screen portrayal. Whether you’ve rewatched every episode or just tuned in for the finale, this episode is your backstage
Millennial Hater I Episode 271
This week in Queer Urban Dictionary, Kris breaks down the definition of “+” in LGBTQ+ , and Shana teaches us about the Jack and Jill Party (not today's Jack and Jill party).Then we dive into Gloria Gaynor donating to Republicans (girl, really?), Snoop being “scared” of a gay kiss in Lightyear, and the most recent update on Lil Nas X.We have a long standing update on Women's Sports. The W
Vulva Hands I Episode 270
This week Kris breaks down fictosexuality (yes, being attracted to fictional characters is a whole identity), while Shana takes us back to the 80s with the iconic lesbian gesture known as vulva hands - because we continue to try and find a signal to show we are queer.In Category Is, we’re talking about Trump’s new “Safe Roads” stunt that’s really just an excuse to erase rainbow crosswalks - includ
Hunting Wives I Episode 269
This week on Bad Queers, Kris breaks down the Kinsey Scale while Shana explains the infamous “urge to merge” in Queer Urban Dictionary. We unpack the latest attempt to challenge marriage equality at the Supreme Court (and why it’s not time to panic), and discuss Sha’Carri Richardson’s domestic violence arrest and public apology. Shana also dives into the sapphic chaos of The Hunting Wives (Brittan
[Crossover w/Lez Hang Out Podcast] Inside Out 2 w/Kia Barnes
While Shana and Kris are away, they wanted to make sure you had a podcast to check out. Our friends over at Lez Hangout Podcast are here and queer with a conversation with Kia Barnes (Kia Comedy!) who has also been on Bad Queers Podcast. We hope you enjoy, and we will see you next week! Welcome back to Lez Hang Out, the podcast that’s just a big vault full of gay thoughts locked deep in your brain
Bad Queers x Hung Up Podcast: Reclaiming OUR time!
This week, we had the pleasure of guesting on Hung Up Podcast with host Eric Cole.We unpacked what it means to reclaim culture as Black queer folks — from how we show up in mainstream media to how we navigate the messiness of pop culture. The conversation covered everything from Tyler Perry discourse to online dating, bathhouses, and poppers. Yes, all of it. And we meant every word.Show some love
[PATREON UNLOCKED] - Heart Life Vol. 1
In this previously Patreon-only episode from December 2024, Kris checked in with Shana about her love life — what’s changed, what’s stayed the same, and what she’s still figuring out.Share your Am I A Bad Queer? hereSupport the showPATREON: patreon.com/BadQueersPodcastSubscribe to our Youtubehttps://www.youtube.com/@BadQueersPodcast The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in
Matching Tattoos is Sex | Episode 268
This week, we break down the political mess around the Epstein files, celebrate this year’s Emmy noms (shoutout to Natasha Rothwell!), and run through our current watchlists—from Ironheart to Netflix's Trainwreck series. In Am I A Bad Queer?, we talk group chat burnout, queer TikTok fatigue, and leaving your homophobic husband. Plus, The Ultimatum wants to know: what is lesbian sex—and did M
Terms & Conditions | Episode 267
This week, we acknowledge the passing of Jewel Thais-Williams and her lasting legacy, break down the tragic airstrike on a trans prison ward in Iran, and run through the WNBA All-Star lineup. Plus, your Bad Queer questions bring the heat—from identity coaching fatigue to situationships gone emotional.Shoutouts:Kris: The Culture Decides podcast - Black queer podcast with music reviews, interviews,
The Queer Ultimatum Season 2 Recap Episodes 8-10 | Bonus
Netflix sure rushed this season out huh? Watch our recap of episodes 8-10, including the reunion, and final grades for season 2 of The Ultimatum: Queer Love.We're talking brussels sprouts, grandparent die-offs and how Kyle's mom is the real winner of this season. Recap Notes:2:25 - Intro3:20 - Episode 814:25 - Episode 925:54 - Reunion/Episode 1048:28 - Final gradesShare your Am I A Bad Q
Trigger Warning | Episode 266
Billionaires are having quite a week at our collective expense. The Big Bogus Bill and the Diddy trial verdict lead a bad news heavy "Category Is" segment. In "Am I A Bad Queer?", we advocate for not remaining in a relationship with someone who wants kids and letting your friend have their hot queer summer.Our "Bad Queer Opinions" this week lay the blame of the recent
The Queer Ultimatum Season 2 Recap Episodes 1-7 I Bonus
Welcome to Bad Queers Review, where Kris and Shana break down episodes 1-7 of The Queer Ultimatum Season 2. This season is pure mess, from tattoos and playlists to coming out on TV and hooking up. Tune in to hear what it’s like when Kris and Shana watch the chaos unfold together. Episode Notes: 4:01 - The Queer Ultimatum Concept5:20 - Cast breakdown 13:24 - Episode 1 24:54 - Episode 2 32:24 - Epis
The Queer Mayor I Episode 265
This week on Bad Queers, we define platinum star gay and fat rabbit in Queer Urban Dictionary before diving into SCOTUS’s ruling on gender-affirming care bans for trans youth. We share our initial thoughts on The Queer Ultimatum S2 , break down WNBA news and the Rubiales assault verdict, and discuss why anti-trans activists should focus on real Title IX issues. In Am I A Bad Queer?, we answer ques
I'm more than a strap (w/Mandii B from Decisions, Decisions) I Episode 264
This week we've got company! Welcome Mandii B, podcast queen behind WHOREible Decisions and Decisions, Decisions for an unfiltered convo on their new book "No Holes Barred". We cover sexual freedom, queer identity, and building an audio empire. From hooking up with service tops to being a proud bisexual to shooting your shot (corny lines encouraged), this episode is all about breaki
Validation Circle Jerk I Episode 263
This week on Bad Queers, we define pansexuality and explore the queer history of 18th-century molly-houses in Queer Urban Dictionary. In "Category Is," we get into Simone Biles vs. Riley Gaines and the ongoing fight for trans inclusion in sports, TS Madison educating NeNe Leakes on trans dating, and Doechii’s powerful moment at the BET Awards. Plus, we answer your "Am I A Bad Queer?
I Hired You w/ Shylo & Chelsea of EMVP Podcast | Episode 262
This week, we’re joined by Shylo and Chelsea of the EMVP Podcast—a show for emotionally mature, vulnerable people navigating the highs and lows of life as Black queer women. We get into their journey from friend breakups to building a podcast, the reality of LA life as transplants, and Shylo’s reflections on her breakout role on Twenties. Shoutouts:Shana: Spark Social House: A third place for the
Don’t Sign That Lease | Episode 261
This week we share first impressions of The Queer Ultimatum Season 2, recap Week 1 of the WNBA (the WNBA scriptwriters are so back), and spotlight the protest to reclaim the historic site of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot. We also talk about a new interfaith Pride campaign urging faith leaders to show up for LGBTQ+ folks this June.In Am I a Bad Queer?, we get into summer dating fatigue and how to ex
General Outing | Episode 260
This week we discuss week 1 of Diddy's federal trial, Halle Bailey’s restraining order against DDG and Tory Lanez prison/legal updates. We also give our long awaited White Lotus S3 recap and spotlight a 21-year study showing donor-conceived adults raised by lesbian moms are thriving.In Am I a Bad Queer?, how to call out your queer friends biphobia, the best way to avoid being friends with you
Black WFH Dandy I Episode 259
This week on the podcast, we revive the iconic acronym “TWID” (The Woman I’m Dating) and dig into the reclaimed ballroom term “Bricks,” honoring its complex roots and modern meaning. In 'Category is', we react to the Supreme Court’s frustrating move to uphold the trans military ban, recognize our Hunger Games transition by discussing the Black dandyism theme of the 2025 Met Gala, and tal
(Not) Hot & Bothered w/Jared Robinson from JUDYS I Episode 258
This week we’re joined by Jared Robinson—creator of JUDYS, a love letter to Black and brown queer friendship. We dive into small-town beginnings, fashion-to-film transitions, what makes a Good Judy, and why perfect gays are boring. Plus: Queer Urban Dictionary terms Mx. and Good Judy, behind-the-scenes tea, and Bad Queer Opinions on gay men and queer women friendships, queer characters and Issa Ra
5 Years of Bad Queers I Episode 257
Five years later and we’re still standing on business. We’re celebrating with Queer Urban Dictionary lessons (Gender Cues + Ponk), in Category is we discuss then vs. now moments, the moments that made us and discussing our queer hair experiences in Hair-apy. Of course, we share your messy Am I A Bad Queer? dilemmas, and take a stroll down Bad Queer Opinions memory lane. Cheers to 5 years of Bad Qu
Pearl to Peach I Episode 256
This week, we’re breaking down AIAB in Queer Urban Dictionary and giving you the sapphic position you didn’t know you needed (shoutout to Pearl to Peach). In Category Is, we unpack Montana’s surprise block on an anti-trans bill, the ongoing attack on queer books, and our latest TV obsessions—from 911 Lone Star to White Lotus S3. Plus, advice on dodging your ex, opening up your relationship, and pl
Allergies & Tariffs I Episode 255
From Sapphic Visibility Day to NFL allyship (and mess), we’ve got range. This week: AGAB vs. gender narratives, Khalen Saunders’ queer-friendly football camp, Ts Madison’s new reentry house, WNBA draft talk, and the messy return to your ex’s kickball league. We close with Bad Queer Opinions: You don’t owe anyone a redemption arc—and Beyoncé’s done more for the LGBTQ+ community than most. Chicago P
Good Trouble I Episode 254
Come celebrate 5 years of Bad Queers! We’re throwing down all month long with virtual events and an in-person celebration in Chicago. Don’t miss the chance to connect and toast to five years of this podcast. This week, we unpack major headlines—from the CDC’s sudden shutdown of key HIV prevention initiatives to Cory Booker’s record-breaking filibuster speech. Plus, a win for the LGBTQ+ community:
DUI Hire Group Chat | Episode 253
March Madness indeed. This week, we discuss Signal-gate, Janelle Monáe's upcoming graphic novel, and recap the latest in march madness results. In Am I A Bad Queer? we share ways to navigate the priority shifts of coupled up friends and walking away from things that don't serve you. In Bad Queer Opinion, are we too dismissive of hyperfemme lesbian experiences? Shoutouts:Kris: The Culture
Jordan’s in Church (w/Jenn M. Jackson) | Episode 252
This week, we’re joined by award-winning professor, writer, and abolitionist Jenn M. Jackson for a conversation that’s as insightful as it is hella sapphic. We dive into their latest book, Black Women Taught Us, and explore their journey growing up queer in the Bay, marriage and parenthood, and, of course, our Bad Queer Opinions.Shoutouts:Shana: The Podcast Salon - Hosted by Anna DeShawn, it’s a
Heart Life Vol. 2 | Episode 251
And we're back.We're picking up right where we left off with a quick circle back to Shana's South Africa trip, her adventures in dating so far, and getting deeper into lovers and friends. Watch the full video on Patreon here.Catch up with Heart Life Vol. 1 here. Share your Am I A Bad Queer? hereSupport the showPATREON: patreon.com/BadQueersPodcastSubscribe to our Youtubehttps://www.
White Noise | Episode 250
Harmful and harmless trash best characterizes this week's news. We react to Trump's 99 min address to Congress and the ways the Democrats "resisted". Shana (bravely) recaps Love is Blind and we discuss Cynthia Ervio's night at the Oscars as well as her being named a headliner for World Pride.Later in the show, we explain when it's ok to avoid coming out to a family me
Conception Begins at Erection I Episode 249
After the last few weeks of mess in the news, we are bringing positive stories to your eyes and ears. We breakdown the 'Conception Begins at Erection' Bill, Amber Ruffin shares accountability in not coming out sooner and share our favorite highlights from the NAACP Image Awards. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?' we break down the essence of the 'delivered' queer person, being sk
10% Bisexual I Episode 248
Trigger warnings, politics and culture. Hate to start the episode this way, but we are 30+ days into the Trump Administration, and it's just mess. RIP to Sam Nordquist, the violence against the Trans community needs to end. Then we review Love is Blind season 8, A'Ja Wilson's shoe line, Super Bowl Halftime Show, and Shana attends Unrivaled. In AIABQ? Shana and Kris fight to keep it
[Crossover Episode] The Best LGBTQ+ Movie I've Ever Seen w/Closeted History LGBTQ+ Stories of the Past
In this episode, Shana and Kris from Bad Queers Podcast join Destiny from Closeted History LGBTQ+ Stories of the Past to discuss the incredible LGBTQ+ film, Pariah (2011). Starring Adepero Oduye, Kim Wayans and Aasha Davis. It has won many awards and accolades including the 2012 GLAAD Media Award and a Cinematography Award at the Sundance Festival in 2011. Episode Notes: 0:01 - Introduction of Par
Welcome to Black History Month I Episode 247
Welcome to Black History Month! We’re kicking things off by asking the real questions—did we actually enjoy the Grammys? Did Beyoncé’s tour announcement revive us? Plus, we break down key headlines impacting the LGBTQ+ community and news to pay attention to. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?', Kris and Shana share advice on astrology ruling your relationship, unproblematic white queers, and the art
Buds & Studs (w/AmbersCloset) | Episode 246
This week, we sit down with legendary content creator, Amber Whittington—aka AmbersCloset—to talk about her journey from YouTube pioneer to TV and her next big move… politics? 👀 We get into the real challenges of staying authentic in the public eye, dating as a creator, friendship breakups, and the real LA.Plus, Amber weighs in on the bisexual studs debate for this week’s Bad Queer Opinion.Shoutou
Gays 4 Trump | Episode 245
Last week was possibly the longest short week ever. The Trump administration started as chaotically as expected with the signing of countless Cheesecake Factory–menu–looking executive orders attacking everything from DEI to undocumented immigrants.In other news, the inaugural season of Unrivaled basketball kicked off with a bang and the GLAAD Media Awards were announced and included some of our fa
Ti(c)k To(c)k | Episode 244
Hard launch January continues with the (mostly) predictable fate of Tiktok dominating the news week along with LA wildfires aftermath, and The House passing an amendment to Title 9 to ban trans students from women's sports. Lawbrey "Drake" Graham reaching new heights of Karen with his federal defamation suit against UMG over "Not Like Us". In Am I A Bad Queer? we discuss
Queer Women are Beautiful | Episode 243
We're officially back from holiday break in our first new, new, episode of 2025. In Category Is, we discuss the arrest of Jaia Cruz, Meta's decision to end fact-checking on its platforms, and the latest studies confirming gender-affirming care is rare for teens. Of course we have to discuss Beyoncè Bowl and Shana's predictions for Bey's Jan. 14 announcement. In our Bad Queer
American vs. Canadian Travelers (w/Queer Queens Travel) I Episode 242
Happy New Year, Bad Queers! We welcome back our favorite travelers, Neicy and Noiry from Queer Queens Travel (QQT). To get you motivated to travel in the New Year, we reflect on the trips QQT took in 2024, including Shana joining in South Africa, what it's really like to travel with a Black, queer travel group and getting studs to travel in more places than Mexico. As well as the intentionali
The Lies of the Year (w/Anna DeShawn) I Episode 241
Third times a charm! We welcome back Anna DeShawn, host of Queer News Podcast and founder of the podcast network 'The Qube' joins us for the third year to do our end of year review. In this episode we pick our top stories and headlines from each month to discuss, laugh and break down even further what's been happening in the mess that was 2024. Shoutouts: Anna: All the supporters! I
F*ck 'Em (w/AJ Hikes) I Episode 240
We’re so excited to welcome back AJ Hikes, Deputy Executive Director for Strategy & Culture at the ACLU. AJ is a powerhouse social justice advocate, community organizer, TED Talk speaker, and all-around badass.In this episode, we catch up on AJ’s journey, from coming out later in life to navigating top surgery and embracing life as their authentic self. AJ also shares insights from their work
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