CCsCloset
Life through the lens of a twenty-something-year-old. The podcast covers life changes as an adult, pop culture, and ongoing social discourse and issues. Each episode features 30 minutes of casual conversation and reflection.
Episodes
Why do people cheat?
In today’s longer episode we answer the age-old question: Why do people cheat? We start off discussing the inspiration of the episode; recent news of Klay Thompson cheating on Megan Thee Stallion. Then, we go over an article depicting why 8 individuals who were interviewed cheated on their partners. Lastly, we go over questions and stereotypes regarding cheating.Tune in for a lot of yapping and an
The Let Them Theory
The ‘Let Them Theory’ was popularized by author Mel Robbins and centers around releasing control and allowing people to show up as themselves in relationships.Tune in as we discuss what it means to Let Them in our self discovery and growth journeys.
Second Chances
In today’s episode we talk second chances. Are they worth giving? Do people who have hurt, disappointed , or mistreated you deserve a second chance? Plus we discuss how self perception plays a role in who we allow in our close circle.Tune in for another episode. If you are interested in being on the podcast or know of someone in the Twin cities area who would, reach out to me at csoumare20@gmail.c
The Lost Art of Yearning
Do you believe in love at first sight? In today’s episode we discuss the lost art of yearning by diving into social media and dating apps’s impacts on our perceptions of love, dating, and each other. With some advice on how to approach dating more intentionally for the hopeless romantics.
You Are The Master of Your Own Universe
“The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts,”-Marcus Aurelius In today’s episode we discuss the importance of mindset in self regulation, healing, and achieving happiness. Tune in for an unscripted episode.Ps: Sorry for the audio 😣
New Year, Better Me
In today’s episode we discuss new year resolutions, and how to actually set goals you will remain consistent with. This episode heavily references ‘Atomic Habits’ by James Clear. From intention implementation, to habit stacking, I discuss the best ways to stick with those New Year resolutions. Check out the book herehttps://a.co/d/2Tt2R1r
The Male Loneliness Epidemic
Welcome to another episode. Today we discuss the self-proclaimed “male loneliness epidemic,” a topic that’s been trending in the social discourse for the past several months. I share my own recent dating nightmares, and talk about dating struggles and what I believe to be causing this epidemic. Tune in for 30 minutes of laughs, rants, and hopefully lessons.
Life lessons and ramblings of an almost 23 year old
Back with an unscripted raw and uncut episode. Today I share my story, the lessons I’ve learned, and some shifting mindsets as I approach a new age and chapter in my life. Plus some excerpts and advice from Brianna Wiest’s ‘The Mountain is you’https://books.google.com/books/about/The_Mountain_Is_You.html?id=3WFfEQAAQBAJ&source=kp_book_description
Demystifying “DV”
Today’s episode is inspired by the recent surge in DV cases being reported on social media. I think it’s important to dig deeper, define DV and Intimate partner violence, debunk some common myths, discuss “justice” and what it can look like for different people + more. Tune in for another packed episode. And yes , it does involve you. Sources:For help and resources :https://www.thehotline.org/DV a
Oppression Olympics: How to practice self-awareness
In today’s more educational episode we discuss oppression and privilege. Plus tips on how to practice self-awareness and become an ally to marginalized communities.Links to check out for more information:Video: https://youtu.be/xzDCUF6Z3Eo?si=QX9aF4n7qrT6D-gqAuthoritarianism: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/AuthoritarianismOppression definition: https://connect.springerpub.com/content/book/978-0-8
You are the love of your life.
In today’s episode we discuss SELF LOVE. We talk self love v vanity, and go over tips on how to build self love. Tune in for another advice session.Send me your questions @ csoumare20@gmail.com
Dating in your early 20’s ( For the girlies)
In today’s episode we discuss casually dating as a girl: maneuvering dating apps, knowing your worth, and playing the field. Plus a mini storytime from me ;)Hope y’all enjoy.Reach out to me at csoumare20@gmail.com for business inquiries, personal advice, or just to say hi !
Stop befriending your “opps”
In today’s longer episode we discuss adult friendships; the difficulties making them, unhealthy friendships , and how to choose friends as an adult. Plus a mini Storytime on how my 8+ year friendship ended this year and what it taught me about friendship and compatibility.Ps: Try and count how many times I say umm in this episode.
Coping with anger: A post-election rant
In today’s episode we discuss the emotional reactions to the election results. Namely, negative reactions such as anger which can become productive and empowering when processed appropriately. Tune in to another rant style episode. Ps: Mentions of election results from a liberal standpoint. Edit: Roe v Wade was not overturned during Trump’s presidency, but the appointments he made in the Supreme C
2024 has been a mess: Let’s Talk
Taking a break from my little hiatus to talk about some things I’ve been noticing lately. In today’s more uncut episode, we discuss a range of topics from the downfall of celebrity culture and glamorization, to how the industry allows predators like P Diddy and Hugh Hefner to use their power and wealth to perpetrate abuse and oppression, to the odd obsession some people have for murderers and seri
Is Body Positivity Toxic?
In today’s episode I refer to Jubilee’s video ‘Fit v Fat’, addressing negative connotations and misconceptions of people that do not abide by the typical standard of beauty. Additionally we dive into body positivity, how it has been used as a tool by some celebrities to benefit and garner support, and lastly how we should deviate from the media’s narrative surrounding body positivity , and create
You deserve better ( dating guides)
In today’s episode we go over some dating guides for those struggling to leave relationships that are not serving them anymore. We discuss low self esteem and the fear of being alone, and how those two factors tie into reluctance to leave bad relationships and allow mistreatment. Tune in for some scolding, and hopefully some useful advice ;)
You’re not mature, your were G(r)oomed
In today’s episode we tackle the intricacies of grooming, particularly in the young adult age group—a precarious and delicate time. I go over tactics of groomers, how to avoid potentially being groomed, as well as validation for the victims of this crime. Tune in! ( My business email if you want to write in and share your story with me: csoumare20@gmail.com)
Skinny is back? ( Overcoming the trends)
In today’s episode we discuss a new trend in Hollywood that I’ve noticed; the return of skinny. I discuss social discourse around the topic, as well as certain controversy around celebrities that have been known to alter their looks/ bodies. Lastly, how to overcome the desire to conform to trends. All in today’s episode. Tune in!
6/ Facing your Trauma
As young adults, we may realize once we leave our childhood homes, or the environment we grew up in that we may have experienced trauma. How can you go about coping with this, facing it, and eventually healing from it? I go over Self-Improvement v Therapy, the notion of Trauma dumping and how to avoid trauma dump-ers, and lastly Culture and Trauma ( Breaking the chain of Generational Trauma).
5/ Hookup Culture ( Good or Bad?)
In today’s episode, we discuss hookup culture, a notion commonly associated with recent generations, and more widely adapted with the use of social media and dating apps. Additionally, we talk women’s place in hookup culture. Is it possible for women to truly hold autonomy over their sexuality in a male dominated and patriarchal society? Lastly, we go over “pros” and cons of hookup culture, and ho
4/ Grind culture is toxic
In a fast pace generation, we place so much emphasis on the “grind”; making money, being disciplined, exercising a lot , eating healthy, and don’t forget waking up at the crack of down to get this all done. In this episode, I talk about the downsides of religiously following this “one-size-fits all” mold and how it can be toxic and even detrimental to one. Additionally, we talk self care vs self c
3/ Roomates
Anxious about living with your first college roommate? Or did you just move out to your first apartment and are gonna have to share with a roommate (s), tune in to get tips on how to coexist peacefully with a roommate, how to be a good roommate , and even how to move in with a friend and still salvage your friendship.
2/ Why I quit social media.
A year ago I left Instagram and Snapchat and I haven’t looked back since. Come join me as I discuss the illusion of social media, how we create standards we struggle to uphold ourselves, how to stop relying on social media’s external validation and mistaking it as internal, as well as tips on how to shift mindsets and feel more empowered and in control of your self-esteem.
1/ Moving out
Did you just graduate high school? Getting ready to move out, start college, or just start a new life in general? Unsure on how to transition smoothly and how to deal with challenges and obstacles you’ve never faced before? Today I go over my experience moving out at the age of 16, some things I experienced in my four years of undergrad, and how you can deal with homesickness, your social life as
