Feminine as F*ck
Monica Yates delivers straight-talking advice on love, relationships, career, health, and manifestation. She helps listeners overcome emotional and energetic blocks to become their best selves. The podcast covers topics like period problems, trauma, and business growth.
Episodes
493: Rich, Happy & Healthy Series | Part 3: How to Have Your Dream Life Without Burning Out to Get It
On creating alignment so it feels easy (not exhausting) || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/LOezmk20KC4 In the third and final part of the Rich, Happy & Healthy Series (go back and catch up on parts 1 and 2 if you missed them—linked below!), Monica covers what being in alignment actually looks and feels like in your body, your work, and your love life. She also explains why focusing on min
492: Hear It From My Husband: How to Get Your Man to Lead When He Has ADHD
ADHD isn't an excuse; stop using it as one. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/gvNhF8uBabQ In this juicy little nugget episode, Monica is joined by her husband, Hal, to call out one of the most common excuses she hears from women about why their men aren’t leading: ADHD. Hal is clinically diagnosed and has never used it as a reason he can’t lead, and he knows the same can be true for your m
491: Rich, Happy & Healthy Series | Part 2: When Productivity Is a Trauma Response (And How to Tell the Difference)
Why you’re stuck in a loop of goal → feeling nothing → hurry onto the next || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/VrzhtodJ14o In part two of the Rich, Happy & Healthy Series (go back and catch up on part 1 if you missed it—linked below!), Monica covers why chronic productivity is blocking the dream life you’re working so hard for, and what has to shift within YOU before manifestation, AI tool
490: Rich, Happy & Healthy Series | Part 1: Why High-Achieving Women Feel Empty (Even When They "Have It All")
"Are you building your dream life, or someone else's?" ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/eA3uo9_aQU4 This is part one of the Rich, Happy & Healthy SERIES–yep, that means this is just the beginning! If you’ve been constantly chasing the next goal or achievement, and you’re still feeling hollow when you get there, Monica’s got some juicy nuggets for you in this episode. She dive
489: Nobody Warns You About the Motherhood Identity Crisis (Here's What I Learned So You Don't Have To)
So lost, yet so clear.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/c5cc6d9gOw8 Monica vulnerably shares her story of the identity shift she’s been moving through since becoming a mum, including months of nothing feeling right; grieving her signature program, Queen Alchemy, and her highly successful 3-day event, The Immersion; and how she stayed in the discomfort of the unknown instead of hurrying to figur
488: You're Burnt Out & It Has Nothing to Do With How Hard You're Working
Spoiler Alert: Burnout actually doesn’t have to do with how much you work. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/3OJWronjhG4 Today, Monica sets the record straight on what burnout actually is, and why it has nothing to do with how hard you’re working. She’s diving deep into what’s really draining your life force energy, why healing burnout isn’t about just doing less, and what the research says abo
487: We Were Never Meant To Do Motherhood Alone: Postpartum Identity, Mum Guilt & Building a Business After Baby with Founder Natalie Ellis
Including the postpartum systems nobody tells you about 🔥 || Monica sits down with founder and NYT bestselling author Natalie Ellis—mum of two and the woman behind the multi-million dollar brand, Bossbabe—for an honest conversation about her recent book launch, the identity shift nobody warns you about postpartum, and what it actually looks like to be the female breadwinner in her marriage. ⇢ WATC
486: You Are the C**kblock to Your Dream Life & Here's What to Do About It
You are the cock block to your own life ||⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/UjUL_zLk49w Monica breaks down why staying in your hypermasculine is costing you your health, your relationship, and your income, and what you need to do to stop carrying it all and start receiving instead. This episode is pulled straight from Monica's recent From Roommates to Ravished Masterclass, and it's one
485: Is Personal Development Making You More of an A**hole?
Doing the work isn't the goal. Coming home to yourself is. || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBBTohmEUSo Monica's been a leader in the trauma healing and feminine/masculine embodiment industry for 10 years now, and in that time, she’s watched so many people get stuck on the hamster wheel of personal development. In this episode, she calls out the harm caused by this ne
484: The Reason You Keep Getting Sick (And It's Not What You Think)
The real cost of not resting || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_JjHVxnR9Dk This is a clip from a recent podcast episode Monica did (full episode linked below). In this clip, she’s explaining why waiting until you’re sick to rest isn’t helping your productivity at all, but rather, it’s dimming your creativity, your intuition, and your life force energy. +++++ As Mentioned In T
483: "Cry It Out," Co-Sleeping & How I Survived Sleep Deprivation Without Losing My Mind
What nobody tells you about baby sleep, mom guilt, or your postpartum body || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2R1q3RqAa5g You’ve been asking for an update on Monica’s life as a new mum, so here it is, unfiltered! In this episode, she shares exactly how she approached transitioning her 11-month-old son away from co-sleeping, how sleep deprivation forced a major shift in how she
482: The Real Reason You're Exhausted (It's Not Your Workload)
The burnout no one talks about, and the feminine way out of it || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndGIGCNhtdI If you're a high-achieving woman who leads teams, runs a business, or carries the mental load at home (or all three), leadership and visibility fatigue are likely draining you. Monica dives into how to operate like a woman instead of like a man, and how doing so wil
481: What Men Really Want From You—My Husband’s Unfiltered Answer
What he's not telling you, but desperately needs you to know || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYQmN89ary8 We talk a lot about what being in your feminine does for us, but what does it actually give our men? In this episode, Monica dives into the biological, hormonal, and emotional impact your feminine energy has on him and shares real messages from her husband on what it’
480: Getting Hotter Postpartum, Out-Earning My Husband & Trusting Your Intuition with Jacqui Kingswell
Hotter after baby than before—and exactly how she did it. || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1muLPn83INw In this episode, Monica sits down with Jacqui Kingswell, a former professional dancer turned co-founder of The Pilates Class and The Birthing Class, a leading voice in modern wellness, and a mum of two, to unpack what it really takes to feel like yourself again after having
479: Your 34-Step Morning Routine (And Being a Control Freak) Is Ruining Your Life
Control got you here, but it's also what's keeping you stuck. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbENttKi0Jg In this episode, Monica breaks down why control has been your biggest asset AND your biggest block, what it’s actually costing you, and how to start releasing it without feeling like your whole life is going to fall apart. She talks about: 🪞 How control is a trauma
478: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Part 2: Fighting Is a Green Flag & Hallmarks of Healthy Love
Part two of this juicy convo is here, and Monica’s diving straight in. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/19sNR5gwNVUIf you haven't listened to Part One yet, go back and do that first. These two episodes together are basically a whole masterclass on healthy vs. unhealthy relationships, and that foundation will help this land so much better.In Part Two, Monica is cutting through the fear-mongeri
477: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Part 1: Is It a Red Flag or Is It Just Human?
Social media is flooding women's feeds with content telling them their man is dangerous, their relationship is toxic, and every uncomfortable moment is a red flag. And it's doing real damage. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Z5UaiSM1nYE In this episode, Monica breaks down the actual difference between an unhealthy relationship and a real, human one. This is the nuanced, no-BS conversa
476: Q&A: Baby Sleep, Female Breadwinners, Polarity and Why Men Want You More When You Set Boundaries
Monica sits down to answer the juicy questions you left her on Instagram!⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Q7JhDbZSiYsFrom baby sleep advice to maintaining polarity, healing trauma, getting started as an entrepreneur, cycle tracking after having a baby, and more, she really goes there with each question, as she always does.Questions answered:💛 How is your baby’s sleep going? Could you share tip
475: Why Your Inner Control Freak Is Ruining Your Life and Relationships (And How to Finally Let Go)
Learn why you can't let go of control, how controlling behavior blocks your intuition and destroys the polarity in your relationship, and the path back to trusting yourself again.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kG5NTlO3kHsHere’s what Monica gets into…🍯 The importance of trusting yourself over anything outside of you🍯 How your need for control blocks the connection to your i
474: NUGGET: Navigating Ego Death & Feminine Intuition: Letting Go of the Program That Made Me Millions (The Queen Alchemy Era Is Over)
In this episode, Monica vulnerably shares about the major ego death she’s moving through in her business, feminine intuition, letting go of your business identity, and why she ended her signature program, Queen Alchemy, after 7 years, 16 rounds, hundreds of lives changed, and thousands of glowing testimonials. This is the program that built her empire and that made her millions—and she’s letting i
473: The L.O.V.E.R. Method™: 5 Shifts to Stop Emasculating Him and Start Inspiring His Masculine Leadership
Learn practical steps to balance your masculine and feminine energy and transform your relationship dynamics. ||High-performing women often find themselves exhausted from leading in every aspect of life, including their relationships. In this episode, Monica introduces her transformative “The L.O.V.E.R. Method™” designed to help women reconnect with their feminine power and create deeper, more ful
472: The 5 Wealth Embodiment Secrets Every Woman Must Know (That Goes Beyond Money Mindset) with Shamina Taylor
Unlock the secret to embodying true wealth beyond just “having money.” This is about fully trusting that more is always coming. ||In this powerful conversation, Monica is joined by Shamina Taylor, former attorney turned Wealth Consciousness Mentor and bestselling author of the book Unlocking The Quantum Woman. Together, they’ll reveal how shifting your internal belief system and mastering the art
471: Why Most Business & Career Advice Fails Mothers (And What Actually Works)
Practical tips for balancing a successful career or business and motherhood without burnout.If you’re a high-achieving woman who wants it all, and who wants to be a mother (or already is), Monica will share with you what’s actually possible when you have aligned support and tools.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/SE5b5lqpOic?si=wnoOXqUlnPrFNlvqShe gets into…💛 The biggest differences between bei
470: Men and Money: How Your Love Life Impacts Your Success, Income & Magnetism
If you’re a high-performing woman who wants more money without doing more, this episode reveals why your love life is the missing piece AND your greatest business asset.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/gBiPJKKtvxA?si=jIZk9ENGFRplVQODMonica’s unpacking the connection between money mindset, feminine leadership, nervous system regulation, and your ability to receive.Here’s a peek at what else she
469: The Physical Symptoms of Trauma: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You
From bloating and lower back pain to insomnia, self-sabotage, procrastination and anxiety, and dating/relationship patterns… here’s what your symptoms may actually be telling you.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYm9JHRYIEQIn this episode, Monica discusses the most common physical, emotional, and behavioral symptoms of unresolved trauma—and why so many high-achieving women uncon
468: Mother Energy vs Lover Energy: The Subtle Dynamics Killing Your Polarity (And How to Change It)
Many high-performing women say they want their man to lead, but their day-to-day behaviors and actions are actually (unknowingly) c*ckblocking his leadership…and it’s time to fix that.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/KscvKIrBlOk?si=jsUBzZ6aUOrIDPzSIn this episode, Monica’s gifting you a FULL-ON MASTERCLASS on the subtle ways women unintentionally emasculate their partners (and how to stop). Yo
467: Why High-Performing Women Struggle to Ask for and Receive Help (And Feel Guilty Resting)
How this relates to motherhood, growth, success, and slowing down || So many high-performing women are burnt out, resenting their partners, feeling disconnected sexually, and struggling with infertility, rough pregnancies, and/or postpartum depression—all while wearing the phrase, “I don’t need help,” like a badge of honour. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/QqLmAvQqokY?si=zL8v0lTyqBX6V5QX In
466: This Is Why You Don’t Get Sustainable Results After Events (Plus, Immersion 2026 Tickets Are Open!)
If you’re a high-performing woman who has “tried everything,” but still feel stuck in the same patterns, this episode is for you. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/JLfV4d1slV8?si=jyZ6t4p7_0vU203I Monica breaks down why most typical healing practices and events leave women feeling overwhelmed and unintegrated, and why trauma healing (that lasts) requires embodiment and nervous system rewiring, n
465: The Trauma Cycle Explained: Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns
Exploring the ways trauma is secretly running your life (even if you had a “good” childhood) || “Trauma” has become a buzzword, especially in the personal development space, but most women still don’t *actually* understand what it is or how it’s running their lives. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/LlFIWVEhvo0?si=T0pejO0LLXw5EeX3 In this episode, Monica explains what trauma really is, how the
464: Is Polyamory a Trauma Response? What No One’s Saying About ‘Woke’ Relationships
And why women crave commitment (even if they think they don’t) || In today’s episode, Monica poses the question: What if what’s being marketed as “spiritual evolution” in relationships is actually nervous system dysregulation in disguise?She’s talking about what’s really going on with polyamory, open relationships, and the fear of commitment—especially for women who are ultimately craving safety,
463: You Can Manifest Money, But Can You Actually Hold It?
And why money mindset isn’t getting you closer to your money goals…⇢ Watch the episode on YouTube now: https://youtu.be/G6CvmLTwLiY?si=4FNAMXZiVXwfwJIu In this episode, Monica breaks down the crucial difference between calling money in and having the nervous system capacity to keep it, grow it, and actually feel safe with it. If money keeps coming in and “disappearing”, you’re looping in an over
462: Overthinking Is a Trauma Response: Why High-Achieving Women Still Don’t Trust Themselves
Breaking down the psychology and somatics behind why AND how to actually change it || In today’s episode, Monica’s talking about why overthinking develops, how it impacts decision-making, leadership, relationships, and why high-achieving women are especially prone to it. You’ll also learn how overthinking is linked to perfectionism, people-pleasing, fear of failure, the fear of being seen, and a l
461: Why High-Achieving Women Struggle to Surrender in Sex, Love, and Relationships with Allana Pratt
Power, polarity, and being ravished… and what feminine leadership actually requires. In this powerful conversation, Monica is joined by author, speaker, and intimacy expert Allana Pratt for an honest and deeply healing exploration of motherhood, sexuality, and what it really takes to be safe in your body as a self-led woman. They talk power, polarity, orgasm, trauma healing, feminine rage, and how
460: This Is the Last Year You’ll See My Business Like This (Behind-The-Scenes of an Identity Shift After Motherhood)
𝘚𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦-𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘥, 𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴𝘵 (𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘦𝘥) 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘐’𝘷𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 10 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴. In this very real, behind-the-scenes, and heartfelt episode, Monica shares how she’s navigating the weird, floaty, emotional in-between where something that’s always worked suddenly “isn’t it anymore.” This isn’t about “finding bal
459: What to Do When You Don’t Get What You Manifested in 2025 + the Step You’re Missing When Looking Ahead Into 2026 (A Masterclass)
If your 2025 didn’t go as planned (and the things you 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 you were manifesting still haven’t shown up), this one’s for you! Today’s episode is a full-on masterclass on the real reason you’re not seeing results and how to actually shift things in 2026. Hot tip: You’re not lacking clarity… you’re actually lacking structure. And without masculine systems behind your vision, the Year of the Fire
458: Why You’re Still Waiting to Say YES to the Life You Want
As a high-achieving and self-led woman, it's time to stop using your nervous system, your to-do list, or your calendar as an excuse for why you’re not living the life you say you want. In this quick and powerful episode, Monica calls out the real reason high-achieving women don’t say yes to their next level—and how HER Year isn’t “another program,” but the space where you build the internal an
457: How Embodied Feminine Leadership Changed My Relationship, Career, and Confidence
A personal, living case study on becoming the woman I always talk about helping others become || We’re flipping the script today and sharing an interview where the beautiful Louise of the “Healing Honeys” podcast hosted Monica to hear all about HER personal healing, business journey, and feminine embodiment path—not just the highlight reel of how she got to where she is today, but the real nitty
456: 2026 Industry Predictions, Feminine Leadership, Community as an Expander and HER Year Is Closing Soon for 2026
If 2025 was not what you expected, this is your reminder that 2026 gets to feel different. In this episode, Monica breaks down her predictions for the coaching industry, what women are actually craving in the age of AI, and why feminine leadership, embodiment, and community are absolutely non-negotiables for expansion this year. INSIDE THE EPISODE:👑 2026 energy forecast (and what to prioritize)👑
455: Are You Your Own Bottleneck? The Real Reason You’re Not Expanding (Yet)
The part your nervous system plays in getting the "more" you say you want || In this nugget episode, Monica asks one of the most important and powerful questions you’ll face on your feminine leadership journey: “How am I being my own bottleneck?” ... aka how am I holding myself back from what I want? If you’re feeling any sort of resistance in your business, your healing, your relationsh
454: Merry Christmas! (How to Create Your Own Dream Holiday)
Plus, a reminder about committing to your desires before the year ends. If you’re having the Christmas of your dreams, amazing. And if you’re not—this is your loving reminder that you still get to show up for yourself and create the holiday you actually want. INSIDE THIS NUGGET:🎄 What to do if you're spending Christmas alone or if this time of year feels especially hard for you🎄 What it means
453: How to Know You’ve Done “Enough” Healing Work (And Why Expansion Doesn’t Have to Wait for Perfect)
Spoiler Alert: You don’t have to be fully healed to manifest what you want. In this episode, Monica breaks down one of the most asked questions she gets: “How do I know if I’ve done 'enough' healing to call in more—love, money, confidence, ease?” And, quite frankly, the personal development obsession with “fixing yourself forever” is keeping so many women stuck in a perpetual sense of not-
452: Self-Discipline for Women: How to Lead Yourself Without Losing Your Feminine
Why “go with the flow” feminine energy is making you more anxious (not less) || If you keep swinging between hyper-productive and totally checked out, this episode unpacks the real reason behind your procrastination, emotional overwhelm, and why typical productivity hacks don’t work for women—especially those trying to stay in their feminine. Inside the episode:🪞 The real difference between mascu
451: Why One in Four Women Are on Antidepressants: What No One’s Telling You with Dr. Kelly Brogan
In this episode, Monica sits down with holistic psychiatrist, NYT bestselling author, and mum of two daughters, Dr. Kelly Brogan, to unpack why so many successful women feel numb, disconnected, anxious, and unfulfilled—even after “achieving the dream life.” They talk about the secret cost of being “high-functioning,” the trauma of over-mothering and over-performing, the truth about antidepressants
450: Why Women Secretly Crave to Be Claimed, Dominated, and Desired (And Why Men Aren’t Stepping Up)
The conversation most people are too scared to have, especially in today’s world… You’re not crazy for wanting to be claimed. You’re not broken for craving to be pushed up against a wall, devoured, and told “𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦” (by a safe man). And today’s episode will explain the fact that you’re definitely not alone in these desires—there’s biology, research, polarity, and lived experience that help ex
449: Feminine vs Masculine Communication: Why He Can’t Hear You (and How to Fix It)
Ever feel like no matter how much you try to communicate your needs, your partner just doesn’t “get you?” In today’s episode, Monica dives into what really happens when two people love each other deeply but still can’t seem to meet each other’s emotional needs. Breaking down what causes couples to drift into resentment, the truth about the “50/50” mindset, and how communication rooted in masculine
448: Masculine Maturity, Healthy Risk, Raising Sons, and Why Men Struggle in Love Today with Connor Beaton
A profound conversation we rarely have about men || In today’s episode, we’re joined (for a second time!) by Connor Beaton—founder of ManTalks, author, facilitator, and father of two—to talk about why so many men feel stuck, what most women get wrong about masculinity, and the real reason your partner might not be initiating sex. Whether you’re raising boys, dating one, or married to one, this is
447: Burnout Is Not a Badge of Honour: How Hyper-Successful Women Are Blocking Their Man’s Leadership
Why your success, control, and mental load are killing polarity (and what to do about it) || In this episode, Monica unpacks the root causes of burnout in hyper-successful women—not just the exhaustion, but the nervous system patterns that drive it. She unpacks how chronic over-achieving, mental load, and a refusal to ask for help become blocks that impact your health, your business, and your rela
446: The Juggle of Business and Motherhood: What’s Actually Working For Me
In this episode, Monica gives you the real truth about coming back to work post-baby, navigating mum life, and why her business feels more on fire than ever. If you’re a high-achieving woman who wants to be a mother (or already is) without losing herself, this will show you what’s actually possible when you’re prepared, supported, and resourced from inside out. What she goes inside the episode:☀️
445: Feminine Energy, Modern Dating & the Death of Polarity with Cristina Cataman
AKA the high-achieving woman’s dilemma in our modern world || In this episode, Monica is joined by Cristina Cataman—digital creator, spicy truth-teller, and host of the Catamania podcast—for a rich and honest conversation about traditional values, cultural clashes, relationship dynamics, and dealing with cancel culture while protecting your energy and staying true to yourself. More on what they ta
444: October Theory: How to Quantum Leap and Become HER by the End of the Year
Get ready to have a FIRE lit under your booty to end the year strong!! If you’re in the mood to collapse time, embody the version of you that already has what she wants, and step into a new level of results before the year ends—heck, even before the week ends—this episode is for you! Monica is peeling back the layers of a super juicy voice message she sent to a 1:1 client recently on how to shift
443: How to Make Aligned, Nourishing Friendships as an Adult
Ooooof, making friends as an adult can feel HARD. If you’re tired of surface friendships, you’re craving deeper connections, and/or you’re secretly judging yourself for not having found “your people” yet... you’re going to seriously love this one. Let’s just say that this episode is essentially a masterclass on *how to* make aligned friendships as an adult and tangible tips to grow your community.
442: Why You Stay in Unhealthy Relationships And What It *Actually* Takes to Break Free
With October being Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Monica unpacks the trauma-driven dynamics and layered complexities of unhealthy relationships—because violence isn’t always physical. It can also be emotional and mental, and its subtle patterns can chip away at your self-worth, intuition, and power over time. And we all deserve a relationship that actually feels like peace. Here’s what she’s g
441: How to Hold Both Motherhood *and* Ambition as a CEO Raising Babies with Cait Scudder
The complexities of balancing ambition and motherhood… a hot topic in today’s world! There’s still this unspoken fear (and guilt) that you have to choose between business and babies, the mission and motherhood, the million-dollar months and the slow mornings snuggled up with your babies. In this conversation, Monica, joined by Cait Scudder from The Millionaire Mother, goes deep on what it actually
440: Birth Q&A: All Things Home Birth, Pain Relief, Practitioners, and Preparing Your Man
Monica sits down to answer your juicyquestions on alllllll things birth! From choosing health practitioners,how much home birth costs, handling family reactions, tearing during birth, ifthey ended up doing the deep throat technique (yes, obviously, someone asked,and Monica naturally answered with zero filter, lol), and more. This one will paint an honest pictureabout what women’s bodies are actual
439: My Birth Story: A Positive Unmedicated Home Birth
And just like that… the podcast returns with the full birth story you’ve all been waiting for!! From the first contractions to the moment she pulled him onto her chest—this is the real, unfiltered version. No sugar-coating, no drama. Just Monica sharing her experience of what it looks like to give birth when your nervous system feels safe, your body knows what todo, and your man is holding it down
438: I’m on Maternity Leave: All the Details & How to Get Support Whilst I’m Away (Podcast Will Return Sept 24)
And just like that… the Feminine As F*ck podcast is officially on break whilst Monica’s away on maternity leave. ***You can expect fresh, new weekly episodes to return Wednesday, September 24, 2025.*** INSIDE THIS EPISODE: 💕 All the ways you can stay supported whilst Monica’s away💕 Where to plug in + what to catch up on to make the most of this time💕 How our team here at MYH is prepped to take th
437: How I’m Preparing for Motherhood (Physically, Emotionally, and in Business)
In this very special episode, Monica takes you behind the scenes of how she’s been preparing for this next season of her life as she gets ready to meet her baby—not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, somatically, and spiritually. She’s opening up about how she’s used pregnancy as a nine-month portal of energetic attunement: a sacred season of identity recalibration, nervous system expansi
436: Not Everything Needs to Be Said: The Energetics of Unsolicited Advice
You’ve been told to “speak your truth.” But what if that truth-telling… is actually pushing people away? In this fiery mini-sode, I’m unpacking the energetics and trauma patterns behind unsolicited advice, oversharing, and feeling the need to "educate" someone we don't agree with—and how it’s not always as loving or helpful as we think it is. INSIDE THE EPISODE:🌶️ The subtle (but pow
435: The Feminine Way to Have It All (Without Burnout or Guilt) with Jen Szpigiel
The (feminine) formula for success without sacrifice. In this expansive AF episode, Monica is joined by powerhouse entrepreneur and mother of four, Jen Szpigiel. Together, they dive into the nuanced candor of true feminine leadership, motherhood, and building a multi-faceted life without sacrificing your identity. Whether you're a high-achieving woman, a future mum, scaling your empire—or BOTH
434: “If She Doesn’t Want to Work, I Don’t Want Her To”—Why Chris Griffin's Viral Reel Isn’t Misogyny, It’s Biology
This episode is going to ruffle some feathers—and that’s exactly the point. SOMEONE HAS TO SAY IT 👀 After a now-viral Instagram reel by Chris Griffin sent the internet into a frenzy, Monica had a wiiiiild amount of DMs asking for her take. So here it is: unfiltered, research-backed, and FULL of juicy nuggets that will melt shame, rewire your desires, and help you finally feel safe craving masculin
433: Inside the Book Launch That Nearly Broke Me (But Made Me a New York Times Bestseller) With Hal & Olivia
The moment you decide to create something meaningful… you’ll be initiated by it. If writing a book is on your heart or you're in the thick of birthing any big vision, this is the episode you didn’t know you needed. Monica is joined by her husband Hal and her right-hand hype woman Olivia to DISH ALL on the breakdowns, breakthroughs, and behind-the-scenes moves that got Becoming HER to New York
432: The Real Reason You Can’t Figure Out Your Purpose (and What to Do Instead)
The feminine shift required to “find your purpose” || If you’ve been overthinking your next move, doubting your path, or waiting for a loud intuitive “yes” that never comes—you’re welcome for this one!! Listen to find out why Monica calls BS on the “purpose pressure” women face and then breaks down the real energetics behind discovering work that lights you up. This episode reveals why the femini
431: The Energetics of Expansion and How to Discern the Difference Between Your Intuition & Fear
Clarity, embodiment, and next-level action—aka a full-on masterclass on expansion. If you’re feeling the stretch between where you are and where you know you’re meant to be, this episode is for you. Monica's breaking down the real energetics of expansion—not just the copy/paste mindset hacks, but the somatic, nervous-system-level shifts required to actually hold your next level. If you’ve been
430: From Overthinking to Embodied: The Feminine Healing You Didn’t Know You Needed
Feminine embodiment, somatic healing, and nervous system regulation decoded. This is the conversation your healing has been craving. 💋 Monica is pulling back the velvet curtain and invites you inside the most potent portal of transformation: her high-touch 3-Day Immersion. This isn’t a rehearsed sales pitch — it’s a roundtable of real women who lived it. From sacred rage to sobbing releases, from
429: What It *Actually* Takes to Embody Your Feminine Energy (and Finally Let Him Lead With Ease)
(Hint: It’s Not What You Might Think…) Today, Monica’s setting the record straight on what true feminine embodiment actually looks and feels like — and she’s diving deep into what is blocking women from stepping into their natural magnetism, softness, and power. Whether you're a high-achieving woman ready to heal your relationship with control, surrender into deeper intimacy, or manifest effor
428: Is Feminism Making Dating Harder? (And What to Do About It)
Modern feminism handed us independence — so why are so many women burned out, bitter, and battling in love? Ooooh this one’s spicy and honest — just the way you like it!! 😉😮💨🌶️ In this solo episode, Monica’s dismantling the hidden pressure behind the “strong woman” narrative and she’s inviting you into a juicier, softer, more supported way of being. It’s not about going backwards, ladies. It’s ab
427: What if Motherhood Is *The Secret* to Success? With Cait Scudder
What if the thing you’re afraid will slow you down… is actually the portal to your next level? In this raw and truth-soaked episode, Monica is joined by TEDx speaker and multi-7-figure mentor Cait Scudder for a no-BS conversation on motherhood, business, and becoming. This isn’t an advice-style episode or giving you more rules to follow — it’s a permission slip to evolve, soften, and let life stre
426: NUGGET: What You’ve Been Getting Wrong About Nervous System Regulation
If you think nervous system regulation means staying “zen” 24/7, this nugget episode is about to shake up your whole perspective (in the best way). Monica’s breaking down what everyone is getting wrong about this topic in the trauma-healing and somatic space — and this could very well be your missing link to finally letting yourself HEAL and be free. She’s walking you through what nervous system r
425: Your Fear of Being Seen Is Making Your Life Surface-Level
Plus Why Your Rage Is Powerful || If the fear of being truly seen has ever made you shrink, self-sabotage, or shut down when you wanted to speak up—this episode will crack your heart wide open. This is your permission slip to stop dimming your light, reclaim your voice, and come home to your raw, radiant truth. Whether you're a healer, coach, entrepreneur, career woman, or just a woman who kno
424: Ditch the Hustle: The Secret to Relaxed Money & Overflowing Wealth with Kate Northrup
Healing your relationship with money in a way that LASTS ||Ladies, this is one of the most empowering and FREEING conversations that will totally shift the way you think (and feel) about money, success, rest, and overall personal growth!Monica is joined by Kate Northrup—Bestselling Author, Nervous System Alchemist, & Money Empowerment OG—as they unpack the truth behind embodied financial welln
423: How Your Nervous System Influences Your Sex, Pleasure & Money (And How to Give It an Upgrade)
The real reason you’re stuck in cycles of burnout and/or meh bedroom experiences ||Buckle up, ladies, because today’s episode is about to crack wide open the direct connection between your nervous system, s*x, pleasure, and MONEY. Yep, they’re all intertwined, and if you’ve been wondering why your affirmations aren’t quite hitting or why you keep blocking abundance (in the bedroom and your bank ac
422: Pregnancy Q&A: Spirit Babies, Nutrition, Birth, Daycare, Gentle Parenting, and More
You asked, Monica answered: ALL THINGS PREGNANCY EDITION!!! If you've been dying for answers to your burning questions, this is the episode you’ve been waiting for. It’s raw, it’s honest, and she doesn’t hold anything back.QUESTIONS SHE ANSWERS:[Please note: Timestamps are for the YouTube video, so they may need to be adjusted slightly for the audio podcast]01:24 What does it really mean to en
421: What Female Breadwinners and “Power Couples” Struggle With the Most (and How to Fix It) With Alex Cattoni
Ambitious, high-achieving, money-making ladies — this one’s for YOU. In this juicy episode, Monica sits down with Alex Cattoni, founder of Copy Posse, to explore the multifaceted challenges faced by ambitious women, particularly in the context of relationships and the dynamics of being a female breadwinner. Together, they’re spilling the real tea on success, relationships, and being a power couple
420: The Full “Tell-All” of My New Book and Becoming an Author
Friends, the big day is finallyyyyyy here...Monica’s book, Becoming HER, is OFFICIALLY available for pre-order worldwide!! 🎉 GET IT HERE NOW: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ Tune into today’s emotional and long-awaited show as Monica goes back down memory lane and shares the highs, lows (and what almost broke her), unexpected wins, and what her new book is all about. PLUS, she’s giving the inside
419: She Makes the Money, but Who Holds the Power? The Raw Truth About Being the Female Breadwinner
Are women meant to be the breadwinner?A conversation that Monica jumped off of and immediately Slacked the team “holy sh*t, THAT WAS SOOOO GOOD!!!!” 🔥 And she immediately added it to the podcast cal to make sure you all were able to listen too! She’s being interviewed by the legendary Jennifer Szpigiel of Becoming Iconic® about all things relationships, being the breadwinner, femininity, and the e
418: Manifesting Your Man, Turning Up the Polarity & Breaking Through Your “Zones”
How to take your love & dating to the next level ||Ooooh this IG live was FIRE, and Monica immediately knew she needed to share it with you here on the pod! Whether you're currently single, dating, in a relationship, or you've been married for 20+ years - there's something juicy and TANGIBLE in this episode for you!Here's what she's diving into:🔥 Why you’re stuck in a certa
417: The Real Reason You’re Overthinking Everything (And How to Fix It)
Plus, why overthinking is making you a prisoner of your past ||Ooooh the curse of OVERTHINKING… we all do it, but do you know why? 👀 In this episode, Monica peels back the layers of what’s really happening when you can’t seem to stop spiraling. From surprising triggers to hidden coping mechanisms, she reveals insights that will completely change how you view overthinking (and yourself). Listen to
416: NUGGET: The Snowball Effect of Trauma
This is a clip from a recent IG live Monica did (full replay linked below). In this clip, she's explaining how unhealed trauma becomes a bigger and bigger "ball of energy" in your body every time you get triggered and WHY this is such a big deal.+++++ As Mentioned In The Nugget — ⇢ Full Instagram Live - "How Your Nervous System Influences Your Sex Life 🌶️💦": https://www.ins
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Enrollment is officially OPEN for the last round of its kind!!One of the most highly-anticipated days of each year is HERE! 😍 It’s officially time to welcome in the ladies who will be joining us for the 7th year and 15th round of Monica’s signature program, Queen Alchemy!!So, today, Monica’s sitting down to have a little chat about what QA is, who it’s for, what you can expect, and to answer some
415: The Science *and* Magic of Acupuncture and Herbalism for Fertility, Hormones, and Wellness With Paul Kempisty
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