Heart of Dating

S18 E303: He's Amazing… But His Theology Is Different Aug 12, 2026 2961 Today we’re diving into the three tiers of theological differences in dating, as JJ and Kait Tomlin unpack how to navigate convictions, preferences, and deal breakers when you and your partner don’t see eye to eye. Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking

S18 E302: Spiritual Leader IN Dating Aug 5, 2026 2653 Today we’re diving into spiritual leadership in dating as we unpack what it really looks like in relationships, the red flags to watch out for, and how servant leadership changes the game! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://w

S18 E301: Emotionally Intelligent vs Emotionally Healthy Jul 29, 2026 2630 Today we’re diving into the difference between emotional intelligence and emotional health, why this distinction is critical for dating, and how to spot the traits that really matter for healthy relationships! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our

S18 Ep300: How Do You Know When to Stop Trying With Someone? Jul 22, 2026 1453 Today we break down the main reasons we stay in unhealthy relationships, from dating for potential to the sunk cost fallacy, and give practical questions to help you know when it’s time to move on! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here!

S18 E299: But What If I'm Not Attracted? Jul 15, 2026 1873 Today we're digging into the myth of instant chemistry as Kait and JJ unpack why moderate attraction matters, challenge Disney-style romance expectations, and share stories (including their own) about how attraction can genuinely grow over time! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Per

Heal the Part of You That Keeps Choosing the Wrong People Jul 10, 2026 598 Explore emotional healing, forgiveness, and understanding attachment styles that influence your dating choices. It’s time to reset what you’re attracted to and open your heart to a new kind of relationship. Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ

S18 E298: Should Women Make the First Move? Jul 8, 2026 2150 Today we’re diving into the big question of whether women should initiate in Christian dating as JJ and Kait break down biblical perspectives, cultural shifts, and practical advice for making the first move! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ h

S18 E297: Why Do Good Christian Men Feel So Rare? Jul 1, 2026 1682 Today’s episode dives deep into the realities of the Christian dating scene, unpacking why quality men may feel scarce, exploring shifts in church attendance, and offering hope, challenge, and compassion to singles navigating modern relationships. Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personal

S18 E296: Are Dating Apps Too Worldly For Christian Dating? Jun 24, 2026 1726 Today we’re diving into the gray zone of Christian dating, tackling whether dating apps are too worldly and breaking down the real pros and cons of online dating for those seeking godly relationships! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! ht

S18 Ep295: What Does It Actually Mean to Hear God About a Relationship? Jun 17, 2026 1426 Today we're unpacking whether that uneasy feeling is God's voice or just anxiety, and diving deep into how to discern real peace versus fear when it comes to relationships! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/qu

S18 Ep294: Does God Tell You Who To Marry? Jun 10, 2026 1653 Today we're kicking off Season 18 by diving into the age-old question: does God really determine who you marry, and how do you navigate the pressure, theology, and decision-making in Christian dating? Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! http

Navigating the GRAY ZONE: It's Complicated... Jun 3, 2026 142 This season we’re diving into the unspoken questions of Christian dating—think making the first move, hearing God’s voice, and navigating attraction—by tackling the conversations everyone’s afraid to have! Join the School of Dating Waitlist NOW! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofd

Ultimate Guide to Masculine and Feminine Energy in Christian Dating May 22, 2026 713 Join the School of Dating Waitlist NOW! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stu

Trapped in Relationship Limbo? Here's What's Really Happening Apr 24, 2026 482 This month for our bonus epsode in Patreon we're tackling the biggest question we've been asked lately. How long should you stay in something confusing? They're not sure about you...now what? Should you stay or should you leave? Tune in to get answers!!! Join School of Dating Now! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coac

S17 Ep293: Bitterness, Comparison, and Scarcity: Navigating Singleness and Disappointment with Bianca Juarez Mar 18, 2026 3252 Today we’re diving in with Bianca Juarez, who gets real about heartbreak, disappointment, and the power of holding onto hope. Plus, she shares her journey of restoration after loss and what it means to find redemption in unexpected places! Join the School of Dating Waitlist NOW! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coachin

S17 Ep 292: Breaking the Cycle of Body Shame and Finding Confidence in Dating with Jordan Lee Dooley Mar 11, 2026 2724 Today we’re joined by Jordan Lee Dooley, who vulnerably shares her journey with body image, body shame, and embracing health as an act of worship, plus practical encouragement for showing up confidently in dating! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QU

S17 Ep291: Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People with Stefanie and Caleb Rouse Mar 4, 2026 3805 Today we’re unpacking the signs of emotional unavailability with relationship coaches Caleb and Stefanie Rouse as they share their personal stories, expert insights, and practical tips for breaking toxic dating cycles! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking o

S17 Ep290: Overcoming People Pleasing and Codependency in Dating and Relationships with Debra Fileta Feb 25, 2026 3061 Today we’re breaking cycles with Deb Fileta as she dives deep into people pleasing, unpacking its roots, how it affects dating and relationships, and sharing practical steps to walk in healthy, God-centered connection! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking o

Christian Bachelor and Q&A Feb 20, 2026 545 Join us today to listen in to a bonus episode in Patreon. A couple weeks ago we had a Christian bachelor event with two different bachelors. We finish up with a Q&A! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

S17 Ep289: Limerence vs Infatuation: How to Recognize and Heal Unhealthy Romantic Fixation Feb 18, 2026 2926 Today, Kait and JJ dive deep into the world of limerence, breaking down what it really is, how it differs from infatuation and a crush, and offering practical wisdom for anyone struggling to break free from obsessive romantic fantasies! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type fo

S17 Ep288: Breaking Cycles of Weak Discernment and Blind Trust with Lysa TerKeurst Feb 11, 2026 2926 Today we’re joined by the incredible Lysa TerKeurst as she gets real about healing from betrayal, rebuilding trust, and finding hope in dating again after an unwanted divorce! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com

S17 Ep287: Healing the Mother and Father Wound with Justin and Abi Stumvoll Feb 4, 2026 3942 Today we’re diving deep with Justin and Abi Stumvoll as they unpack the realities of mother and father wounds, discuss how our childhood impacts our dating lives, and share practical steps for healing and self-compassion! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by takin

The Situationship Cycle: Why You’re Stuck—and How to Get Out Jan 30, 2026 543 Today we’re talking all about breaking free from ambiguous “situationships” as Kait and JJ unpack how to spot them, why we get stuck in them, and practical steps to find clarity and healthier friendships in Christian dating! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by

S17 Ep286: You Are NOT Your Attachment: How to Rewire Unhealthy Dating Patterns | Dr. Caroline Leaf Jan 28, 2026 3337 Today we have Dr. Caroline Leaf, who unpacks the difference between mind and brain, how attachment patterns are learned, not labels, and gives us practical tools to transform how we show up in dating! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious,

S17 Ep285: Breaking Sexual Shame & Reclaiming Wholeness with Dr. Juli Slattery Jan 21, 2026 2763 Today we’re diving into breaking free from sexual shame as Dr. Juli Slattery joins JJ and Kait Tomlin to unpack the roots of shame, identity traps, and how to pursue true sexual wholeness and surrender in our relationships with God and others! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for t

S17 Ep284: Breaking the Fear of Commitment with Dr. Gary Chapman Jan 14, 2026 2914 Today we’re kicking off Season 17 with Dr. Gary Chapman, who’s diving deep into breaking the cycle of commitment fears, shifting our focus to loving others first, and sharing wisdom for singles and marrieds alike! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling st

Breaking Cycles: Stop the Patterns That Keep You from Healthy Love Jan 7, 2026 449 Today we’re kicking off Season 17, breaking down toxic dating cycles, teasing powerful episodes with experts like Dr. Caroline Leaf and Dr. Chapman, and sharing practical first steps toward healing in your dating life! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeli

We Tried Christian Matchmaking at Christmas… Here’s What Happened Dec 29, 2025 451 We had another Christian Bachelor event...tune in to see how it went👀 Want to listen to the whole video?! Join us on Patreon! ⁠https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https

S16 Ep283: When to Stay vs. When to Walk Away in Dating with Dr. Les Parrott Nov 12, 2025 3170 Today we're joined by Dr. Les Parrott, who walks us through the crucial decision points in dating—when to lean in, when to walk away, and how to spot patterns, red flags, and character issues, all while unpacking tools like the SYMBIS assessment and the new Heart Chart to help us build healthier, more self-aware relationships! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here

Lisa Bevere's Prophetic Word for Singles! Nov 10, 2025 481 Join us as Lisa Bevere speaks a prophetic word over singles and shares about uncovering and breaking the mindsets keeping you stuck and find re-IGNITED HOPE! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.he

S16 Ep282: The Truth About Soul Ties with Theologian Joel Nov 5, 2025 3734 Today we’re breaking down the hot topic of soul ties in Christian dating with special guest Joel Mudamalle. We dive deep into biblical context, emotional bonding, and wisdom in relationships! Join School of Dating Now! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Datin

S16 Ep281: Why You Keep Having the Same Fight (and How to Finally Stop It) Oct 29, 2025 4518 Today we’re diving deep into the pain and peace cycle with Terry and Sharon as they unpack why our coping reactions matter in dating, how to take ownership of your triggers, and how true intimacy starts with regulating yourself—not finding someone to fix you! The Find Your Person Challenge is BACK and FREE! Join us Nov 2-5th! https://www.heartofdating.com/challenge Find out your Dating Personali

S16 Ep280: Love Is Forged, Not Found: Gabe & Rebekah Lyons on Marriage That Lasts Oct 22, 2025 3388 Today we’re hanging out with Gabe and Rebekah Lyons as they get real about the ups and downs of 28 years of marriage, forging love through conflict, why the spark isn’t everything, and how healing comes through honesty and unity before and after you say “I do”! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! Th

S16 Ep279: How to Build Healthy Honest Emotional Intimacy in Dating with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill Oct 15, 2025 3740 Today we’re joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill as they walk us through the power of the Connection Codes, sharing their story of overcoming emotional disconnection in marriage and giving us practical tools for naming and processing our emotions in dating and relationships! Download the core emotion wheel here! http://connectioncodes.co/heart-of-dating Find out your Dating Personality Type for

S16 Ep278: Equally Yoked vs Missionary Dating - Addison & Juli Bevere Oct 8, 2025 3357 Today we’re diving deep into what it means to be equally yoked as Addison and Julie Bevere join Kait and JJ to unpack spiritual compatibility, missional dating, and their own journey from MySpace DMs to marriage! Check out Addison and Juli Bevere on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@athomewiththebeveres or Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/athomewiththebeveres/?hl=en Find out your Dating Pe

Christian Bachelor, Ghosting & HODC 2026 Scoop Oct 3, 2025 583 Our Christian Bachelor sat down for three 5-minute dates… and had to choose who to continue with. 🌹 Meanwhile, Kait & JJ dove into your top questions on ghosting, keeping God at the center of dating, and even dropped a major HODC 2026 scoop you won’t hear anywhere else. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dat

S16 Ep277: Are Your PREFERENCES Keeping You Single? Oct 1, 2025 2639 Today we're diving into the realities of compromise in relationships as Kait and JJ unpack why holding too tightly to our preferences—like location, routines, or lifestyle—can make dating harder, especially as we get older, and share honest stories of what healthy (and not-so-healthy) compromise looks like in marriage! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https:

S16 Ep276: What if we're not compatible? with Jamal Miller Sep 24, 2025 3201 Today we’re diving deep with Jamal Miller as he unpacks the true difference between compatibility and suitability in Christian dating, challenging us to pursue purposeful partnerships that go beyond chemistry and shared hobbies! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian si

S16 Ep275: The 7 Core Needs That Sabotage or Save Your Relationships with Mike Foster Sep 17, 2025 3003 Today, Mike Foster joins Kait and JJ to unpack the seven primal questions driving our core needs, how childhood imprints impact our dating lives, and why knowing your own—and your partner’s—deepest questions can totally transform relationships! Take the 7 Primal Questions Assessment Here: https://www.primalquestion.com/assessment-page Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our

S16 Ep274: Arousal, Desire & Lust: The Sex Talk You Never Got Sep 10, 2025 3485 Today, Sam Joelman joins Kait and JJ for a candid and healing conversation about arousal, sexual ethics, and navigating boundaries in Christian dating, reframing shame around sexuality, and empowering couples to co-create their own values-based approach. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Pr

S16 Ep273: Pacing and Boundaries: How Fast is Too Fast? Sep 3, 2025 4127 Today we’re kicking off Season 16 with Pastor Stephen Chandler, who’s giving us the real talk on dating timelines, pacing relationships, and building true friendship before you sprint to engagement! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, o

The Dating Advice You ACTUALLY Need | Patreon Aug 25 Aug 29, 2025 449 Confused by conflicting dating advice? 😅 Kait and JJ reveal why your dating personality type changes everything and the kind of advice that will finally make sense for you. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak.

S16 Trailer: Relationship Goals Aug 20, 2025 389 Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/hear

MINISERIES: | Can High Standards Hurt Your Dating Life? The Intentional Romantic | Dating Personality Types Jul 9, 2025 1550 Today we’re diving into the world of dating personalities as Kait and JJ unpack what it means to be the “intentional romantic”—aka the walking green flag—and explore both the strengths and pitfalls of this healthiest dating style! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz We're taking a podcast break but we don't want to leave yo

MINISERIES: Situationship Specialist? The Wanderer’s Fear of Choosing | Dating Personality Types Jul 2, 2025 1639 Today we’re exploring the Wanderer dating personality as Kait and JJ reveal why commitment is tough for them, how FOBO shows up, and what it means to date with true intentionality! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from h

MINISERIES: God Didn’t Call You to Settle | Dating Personality Types Jun 25, 2025 1013 Today we’re exploring the Safety Seeker dating personality as Kait and JJ unpack its challenges and strengths—and encourage Safety Seekers to raise their standards for a thriving, godly relationship! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxiou

MINISERIES: How to Date as an Overthinker | Dating Personality Types Jun 18, 2025 1123 Today we’re unpacking the “Overthinker” dating personality with Kait and JJ, who offer wisdom, practical tips, and encouragement for anyone caught in a cycle of indecision in their dating life! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or h

MINISERIES: Falling Fast, Feeling Hard: The Hopeless Romantic Trap | Dating Personality Types Jun 11, 2025 1554 Today we’re unpacking the Hopeless Romantic dating personality type as JJ explores the thrills, pitfalls, and wisdom needed for those who love big and fall fast. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://ww

MINISERIES: Dating Feels Draining? You Might Be a Lone Wolf | Dating Personality Types Jun 4, 2025 1484 Today, we’re diving deep into the "Lone Wolf" dating personality, unpacking its avoidant attachment style, common dating pitfalls, and why healing happens best in community, not in isolation! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or hea

What's Wrong With Me? I'm a Catch! May 30, 2025 887 Have you ever wondered if there's something wrong with you when it comes to dating? This episode of Heart of Dating explores possible blind spots that may be hindering your dating life, offering valuable dating advice. It's time for some self-reflection and to consider new perspectives! Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heart

S15.5 Ep272: Age Gaps, Awkward Dates, and a Whole Lot of ‘Wait…What?’ | Ben & Ali Creech May 28, 2025 3861 Today on Heart of Dating, Ben and Ali Creech open up about their 11-year age gap, overcoming doubts and awkward dates, and how shared spiritual and emotional maturity can make unconventional love stories thrive! Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Da

S15.5 Ep271: Am I Too Broken to Be Loved? Stuck in Self-Sabotage and Shame | Chris Cook May 21, 2025 3345 Today’s episode features Chris Cook opening up about grief, rejection, and his journey with chronic illness, sharing how God brought redemption, healing, and deeper identity through the hardest seasons of his life—and how all of it shaped his dating story. Join School of Dating here! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian

Healing, Hope, and a Husband: How to Stop Waiting and Start Dating May 16, 2025 3192 Today we’re celebrating a heartwarming Heart of Dating love story as Megan and Bryan share their journeys through healing, self-discovery, and faith—plus how putting themselves out there (at School of Dating and HODC Conference!) led to a healthy relationship and engagement! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/he

S15.5 Ep270: Don’t Rush to the Altar: Why Discernment Matters More Than Chemistry with Miah Huber May 14, 2025 4348 Today, Kait and Miah Huber dive into Miah’s powerful story of overcoming abuse in a Christian marriage and finding hope, healing, and purpose through faith. Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the f

S15.5 Ep 269: Divorced & Dating as a Single Dad & Pastor | Kenneth Lock May 7, 2025 3119 Today we’re joined by Kenneth Locke as he shares his powerful journey through divorce, healing, and rediscovering love and purpose as a single pastor leading in the public eye. The Find-Your-Person Challenge: A 4-Night Conference Experience for Christian Singles! Sign up for FREE here! https://www.heartofdating.com/challenge Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single fe

S15.5 Ep 268: Brutality & Beauty of Singleness | Annie F. Downs Breaks Her Silence Apr 30, 2025 4233 Today Annie F. Downs joins us, and gets real about her singleness journey, her honest struggle, lessons with ghosting, and reminds us that both singleness and marriage are reliable paths to abundant life! The Find-Your-Person Challenge: A 4-Night Conference Experience for Christian Singles! Sign up for FREE here! https://www.heartofdating.com/challenge Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Progr

S15.5 Ep 267: Sexting, Virginity, and the Sin We Hide: JJ Gets Honest About His Past Apr 23, 2025 2931 Today JJ gets real as Kait puts him in the hot seat—he shares his testimony of dating, struggling with porn, learning boundaries, and what it took to truly grow from unhealthy patterns into a more emotionally and spiritually mature man. Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dat

Stuck in the FRIEND ZONE?! and HOW to get out of it! (Patreon April 2025) Apr 18, 2025 740 Today we have a bonus episode for you about friendzoning. How to know you're in the friend zone and how to get out of the friend zone! Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon!

S15.5 Ep 266: Healing Body Image & a Broken Engagement with Nicoletta Bradley Apr 16, 2025 3600 Today we’re going deep with Nicoletta Bradley as she shares her transformative journey of healing from body image struggles and a broken engagement! Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join u

S15.5 Ep265: Disappointed, Waiting, Husbandless & God’s Faithfulness Apr 9, 2025 5362 Meki’s story is one of wrestling with disappointment, delayed dreams, and a relationship that didn’t check the usual spiritual boxes. She shares how God met her in the waiting and led her into a love story that looked different—but was still deeply good. Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating

S15 Ep264: First Date Hottest Takes, Green Flags and Tips with Christie Kederian Apr 2, 2025 3394 Today we have Dr. Christie Kederian here to break down the essentials of first dates, share surprising research, and offer practical tips. Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating The Soulmate Shortcut: How to Find Love Without Dating App Burnout https://event.webinarj

S15 Ep263: Dating in Church Community without Ruining Everything with Neiman Davis Mar 26, 2025 3088 Today we’re joined by Neiman Davis and diving deep into dating within church communities while sharing insights from his role at The Belonging Co! Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us

S15 Ep262: Just friends or more? The Truth About Friendationships with Daniel MacLeod Mar 19, 2025 3965 Join Basics of Dating now! https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofd

S15 Ep261: Surviving a Breakup as the BreakupER and BreakupEE 💔with Ben Stuart Mar 12, 2025 3375 Today we have Ben Stuart, who shares invaluable insights into the art of breaking up and the importance of wise counsel in dating! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FR

S15 Ep260: Where to Meet Quality Christian Singles and Debunking EXCUSES❌ Mar 5, 2025 2539 Today Kait and JJ address the scarcity mindset in dating, emphasizing the importance of actively seeking a godly partner. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resou

BONUS: Navigating Online Dating🔎Curiosity, Connections & Authenticity Feb 28, 2025 932 Today Kait and JJ give us their tips on speed dating, and the importance of curiosity in forming genuine connections. Dive into how Christians are reshaping the online dating scene and making meaningful strides in their love lives! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel

S15 Ep259: The List👀 Challenging Fast Engagements🚨 & Godly Discernment - Christian & Arden Bevere Feb 26, 2025 3289 Today we have Arden and Christian Bevere, who share their journey from meeting to marrying in under a year. They discuss their intentional approach to dating and the significance of having a God-centered marriage vision. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https

S15 Ep 258: Why You're Stuck in Your Head (And How to Fix It) with Joy and Mathieu Rossignol Feb 19, 2025 3655 Today we're diving into the world of dating with Joy and Matthieu, and they're sharing insights on dealing with anxiety and overthinking in the early stages of dating. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

S15 Ep257: The Spark & Butterflies EXPOSED - Why That Triggers People | Healthy Type & Attraction Feb 12, 2025 2914 Today we’re diving deep into attraction and 'types.’ Join us as they challenge conventional views on physical attraction and how societal and personal expectations shape our dating choices! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ

BONUS: Long Distance, Big Risks, and The One That Was Worth It Feb 8, 2025 3427 Today Kait and JJ have guests, Amber and Randward on to talk about how they met at the Heart of Dating Conference, navigated long distance, and are now married a year later. Get your ticket to HODC Dallas here! February 14th and 15th in Dallas, TX! You never know what might happen😉 https://www.heartofdating.com/hodc Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join

S15 Ep256: Love After Heartbreak, Set-Ups, and How God's Hand is in the Details with Elyse & Tim Mahan Feb 5, 2025 4147 Today we're diving into the heartwarming journey of Elyse and Tim as they share their inspiring story. Join us to hear about the challenges of dating post-heartbreak and divorce, the significance of trusted setups in today’s dating climate, and their beautiful God-led adventure from two pasts into a shared future! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us

S15 Ep255: How fast is too fast? Stages of Dating and Redefining SUCCESS Jan 29, 2025 2371 Today Kait and JJ break down the stages of dating. They discuss avoiding pressure, reframing the concept of dating, and understanding godly dating amidst today's unique challenges! Join School of Dating HERE! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subs

S15 Ep254: Attachment Styles 101 with EXPERT Adam Lane Smith Jan 22, 2025 3536 Today we're exploring attachment styles with Adam Lane Smith. He breaks down secure, anxious, and avoidant attachments and their impact on our relationships and faith. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

S15 Ep253: Signs You’re Not Ready to Date (Yet).. and Signs That You ARE With Riley and Jack Kehoe Jan 15, 2025 3460 Today we’re diving into season 15 where Jack and Riley share their journeys with closed and open singleness, offering insights on personal growth, fulfillment, and intentional dating! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXE

S15 Trailer: Basics of Dating Jan 8, 2025 283 Today Kait and JJ are giving you a sneak peek into what we have up our sleeves for this next season on the Heart of Dating Podcast! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this

S14 Ep 252: Being Led On, Mixed Signals, Hot and Cold...Are They ACTUALLY Into Me or Just CONFUSED? Dec 18, 2024 3033 Today we’re diving into all things mixed signals, dissecting the concept of "gophering" in relationships, and how to set boundaries for clarity! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? D

Single During the Holidays: A Survival Guide (Patreon December 2024) Dec 13, 2024 835 Today Kait and JJ are doing you a favor and helping set you up for success to survive this holiday season! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to s

S14 Ep251: Compatibility is OVERRATED, Why Opposites MAGNETIZE (& What TRULY Matters) Dec 11, 2024 3849 Today, JJ and Kait dive into compatibility with guests Megan and Casey, shedding light on family dynamics, shared values, and the richness of embracing differences in relationships! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEye

S14 Ep 250: What if I Choose Wrong? The CANCER of Endless Options Dec 4, 2024 3043 Today, we’re diving into the depths of decision-making in relationships tackling the concept of FOBO, sharing personal experiences, insights, and practical tips to overcome this fear and commit fully! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/c

Love Attachments and Healing Past Hurts with Jason VanRuler (Patreon Bonus November 2024) Nov 26, 2024 987 Licensed therapist, Jason VanRuler joins us to lead a workshop on figuring out your love attachments and how to heal your past hurts! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download thi

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