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THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST

THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST

Holly Blanc Moses 200 episodes Oct 21, 2026

The Autism ADHD Podcast provides neurodiversity-affirming, practical support for parents, therapists, and educators of Autistic and ADHD children and teens. Host Holly Blanc Moses, a neurodivergent therapist and mother, discusses mental health, emotional regulation, social interaction, academics, and independence. The podcast offers evidence-based tips and real-life stories to empower children and teens to live a life they love.

Episodes

PDA in Autistic & ADHD Kids: Demand Avoidance + 5 Strategies That Help
PDA in Autistic & ADHD Kids: Demand Avoidance + 5 Strategies That Help Oct 21, 2026 37:33 PDA in Autistic & ADHD Kids: Demand Avoidance + 5 Strategies That Help What if an autistic or ADHD child's "NO" isn't defiance? What if they're actually overwhelmed, anxious, or afraid? You ask your child to put on their shoes. A teacher asks a student to open their book. A therapist suggests an activity. And the response is an immediate "NO!" Or maybe the child freezes, walks away, or says, "I ca
"Just for Attention"? Why This Assumption Hurts Autistic & ADHD Kids and How to Help
"Just for Attention"? Why This Assumption Hurts Autistic & ADHD Kids and How to Help Oct 15, 2026 32:26 "Just for Attention"? Why This Assumption Hurts Autistic & ADHD Kids and How to Help "How can they expect me to stay invisible? It's not like I can just stop existing." An autistic ADHD boy said those words to me in my office. After decades of working with children and teens, it's still one of the most heartbreaking moments I've experienced. He wanted friends. He wanted to be included. He wanted s
Is It Really "Behavior"? Medical Issues We May Miss in Autistic & ADHD Kids
Is It Really "Behavior"? Medical Issues We May Miss in Autistic & ADHD Kids Oct 7, 2026 28:49 What if the "behavior" you're seeing isn't simply behavior? When an autistic or ADHD child suddenly becomes more irritable, anxious, withdrawn, aggressive, avoidant, or emotionally dysregulated, it's easy to focus on what we can see—and how to make it stop. But what if the behavior is actually a clue? In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I'm joined by my dear friend Dr. Purnima Valdez, a de
Are We Telling the Wrong Story? Executive Functioning in Autistic & ADHD Children
Are We Telling the Wrong Story? Executive Functioning in Autistic & ADHD Children Sep 23, 2026 38:52 Are they really refusing—or are we expecting their brain to do something it can't reliably access in that moment? Executive functioning differences can look like laziness, carelessness, defiance, lack of motivation, "not listening," forgotten homework, unfinished assignments, meltdowns, or complete shutdown after school. But those "behaviors" may be telling us a very different story. In this episo
Could One Page Change Your Child's School Year?: Free Tool to Help Teachers, Therapists & Others Better Understand Autistic & ADHD Children
Could One Page Change Your Child's School Year?: Free Tool to Help Teachers, Therapists & Others Better Understand Autistic & ADHD Children Aug 20, 2026 54:12 Could One Page Change Your Child's School Year? A Free Tool to Help the Adults in Their World Truly Understand Them If you're the parent of an autistic or ADHD child, you know how exhausting it can be to explain your child to every new teacher, therapist, physician, coach, tutor, or camp counselor. You hope they'll understand your child's strengths, communication style, sensory needs, executive fu
Why Some Tasks Feel Impossible for Autistic & ADHD Kids: Visual-Spatial Skills, Executive Functioning, and the Cost of Shame
Why Some Tasks Feel Impossible for Autistic & ADHD Kids: Visual-Spatial Skills, Executive Functioning, and the Cost of Shame Jun 18, 2026 32:49 Why does your autistic or ADHD child struggle with things that seem easy for everyone else? Maybe they can't keep their room organized. Maybe they lose things constantly. Maybe they seem overwhelmed by tasks that other children complete without much effort. And maybe you've wondered... "Are they just not trying?" In this episode, I share a personal story that completely changed the way I think abo
Small Language Shifts That Protect The Mental Health of Autistic & ADHD Children
Small Language Shifts That Protect The Mental Health of Autistic & ADHD Children Jun 11, 2026 49:03 The Small Language Shifts That Protect the Mental Health of Neurodivergent Kids What if some of the most common words we use with autistic and ADHD children are actually creating confusion, shame, masking and self-doubt? Words like: • Respectful • Responsible • Pay attention • Motivated • Trustworthy • Nice • Confident and on and on Most of us use these words every day without thinking twice. But
Are We Really Listening to Autistic & ADHD Children?
Are We Really Listening to Autistic & ADHD Children? Jun 4, 2026 24:04 I was in the hospital for seven days recently. Scared. Exhausted. Completely out of control of what was happening to my body. In the middle of all of it — a nurse walked in and asked if I wanted a blanket. It sounds small. It wasn't. Because in that moment, someone was asking what I needed. And I couldn't stop thinking about how rarely that happens... especially for neurodivergent kids. We tell th
Autism, ADHD & Anxiety: Trying to Be "Good Enough" Almost Killed Me
Autism, ADHD & Anxiety: Trying to Be "Good Enough" Almost Killed Me May 7, 2026 01:29:19 This episode is deeply personal. Today, I'm sharing a part of my story that I've hidden for a very long time.  Elizabeth Le Forest is walking with me through painful topics such as anxiety, perfectionism, chronic illness, masking, people pleasing, burnout, and what happens when a neurodivergent person spends their life trying to prove they are worthy of love, belonging, and support. For years, I w
"Why 'Bad Behavior' Isn't Bad Parenting — And the Harmful 'Raised Right' Myth About Autism & ADHD"
"Why 'Bad Behavior' Isn't Bad Parenting — And the Harmful 'Raised Right' Myth About Autism & ADHD" Apr 9, 2026 31:26 If you've ever felt that gut punch… The side eye. The comment. The subtle (or not so subtle) message that your child is "too much"… or that you're somehow getting it wrong as a parent… I get it! In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, I'm talking about something that so many parents and therapists experience… but we don't talk about enough: The "good kid / bad kid" narrative The "they were ra
Neurodivergent  Moms of Autistic &  ADHD Kids:  Your Burnout Makes Sense &  It Didn't Start With  Motherhood
Neurodivergent Moms of Autistic & ADHD Kids: Your Burnout Makes Sense & It Didn't Start With Motherhood Apr 1, 2026 50:45 I want to start with something I say to burned-out moms — and I mean it every single time I say it: Your burnout makes sense. Not the kind of "makes sense" that's just being nice. The kind that means there is a real, biological, neurological explanation for why you feel the way you feel. And it started long before you became a mom. That's a nervous system that was already running on empty — and fi
Sex, Drugs & What Neurodivergent Kids Actually Hear — And Why Safe Communication Changes Everything
Sex, Drugs & What Neurodivergent Kids Actually Hear — And Why Safe Communication Changes Everything Mar 25, 2026 16:02 Let me tell you about the time I performed Madonna's "Like a Virgin" at my elementary school talent show. I was nine. I rolled around on the floor. I sang every single word. I thought the audience was speechless because I was that talented. I had absolutely no idea what the word virgin meant. Nobody asked what song I'd picked. Nobody explained it to me. And I didn't know what I didn't know. This e

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