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Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids

Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids

Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting 670 Episodes Aug 20, 2026

Pardon the Mess is a podcast for Christian moms who love Jesus, love their kids, but still feel behind on most days. Each week, host Scarlet Hiltibidal tackles a real parenting mess like morning meltdowns, discipline guilt, or raising kind kids in an unkind world. She offers honesty and grace, focusing on one small, faithful step at a time rather than complicated systems or longer to-do lists. The podcast is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network.

Episodes

I Don’t Want to Do Motherhood Alone
I Don’t Want to Do Motherhood Alone Aug 20, 2026 1731 Motherhood is beautiful, but it can also feel isolating. In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares why moms need gospel-centered community and how God often works through the people He places around us. Through personal stories of seasons when she pulled away from others in pain and waited until she felt “bright and shiny” again before showing up, Scarlet explores the freedom that comes from bein
I Worry That My Anxiety is Affecting My Kids
I Worry That My Anxiety is Affecting My Kids Aug 13, 2026 1634 What if my anxiety is affecting my kids?It’s a question many moms quietly ask themselves. In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares a personal story from her own motherhood journey and the fear that she might pass her anxiety on to her children.Scarlet talks about a moment when she realized that her biggest struggle wasn’t just anxiety itself, it was what she believed about God. When we don’t tru
I Don’t Know How to Help My Kids Love Church
I Don’t Know How to Help My Kids Love Church Aug 6, 2026 1425 If you've ever wrestled a toddler through the church doors, bribed your kids with donuts to make it through the service, or wondered if anything they're hearing is actually sticking—you are not alone.In this episode, Scarlet sits down with her pastor-husband, Brandon Hiltibidal, for an honest conversation about one of the biggest questions Christian parents ask: How can we help our kids lo
I Feel Like I’m Losing Myself in Motherhood
I Feel Like I’m Losing Myself in Motherhood Jul 30, 2026 1771 Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered, Who even am I anymore?Motherhood is beautiful, sacred, and deeply meaningful, but it can also feel all-consuming. Somewhere between diaper changes, school pickups, endless laundry, and caring for everyone else, it's easy to lose sight of who you are.In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares honestly about what it feels like to lose yourself in
Homeschool, Public, or Private...How Do I Choose?
Homeschool, Public, or Private...How Do I Choose? Jul 23, 2026 2067 How do you know you're making the right decision for your kids?Whether you're homeschooling, choosing private school, considering public school, or simply wondering if you're getting this whole parenting thing right, the pressure can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal reminds us that while parenting comes with countless decisions, our greatest calling isn't to e
Summer is Long…What Do I Do With My Kids?
Summer is Long…What Do I Do With My Kids? Jul 16, 2026 1825 Summer always seems to come with big expectations. We imagine memory-making adventures, endless family fun, and kids who magically never complain. But somewhere between snack requests, screen-time negotiations, and trying to keep everyone occupied, many of us end up wondering if we're doing enough.In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares why the best summer isn't necessarily the busiest
I Don't Know How to Help My Child Through Friendship Drama
I Don't Know How to Help My Child Through Friendship Drama Jul 9, 2026 1607 Few things are harder than watching your child come home hurt by a friend. Whether they're feeling left out, navigating conflict, experiencing rejection, or struggling through friendship drama, many moms find themselves wondering: Should I step in? Should I stay out of it? How do I help without making it worse?In this episode of Pardon the Mess, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares personal stories, prac
I Don’t Know How to Trust God’s Goodness After a Miscarriage
I Don’t Know How to Trust God’s Goodness After a Miscarriage Jul 2, 2026 2343 In this deeply personal episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares her own experiences with miscarriage and the difficult questions that often accompany loss. Through stories of grief, fear, and surrender, she reflects on the difference between questioning God's goodness and learning to trust His goodness even when circumstances don't make sense.Whether you're walking through pregnancy loss yo
A Bad Diagnosis & Letting Kids See Hard Things
A Bad Diagnosis & Letting Kids See Hard Things Jun 25, 2026 2057 How do you talk to your kids about cancer, suffering, terminal illness, or the possibility of losing someone they love?Whether it's a grandparent's diagnosis, a chronic illness, a devastating loss, or another painful reality, there comes a moment when we realize we cannot protect our children from every hard thing this side of heaven.In this episode of Pardon the Mess, Scarlet Hiltibidal s
I Don't Know How to Help My Kids Feel at Home When Home Keeps Changing
I Don't Know How to Help My Kids Feel at Home When Home Keeps Changing Jun 18, 2026 1919 How do we help our children navigate change when their hearts are breaking over what they're leaving behind?In this week's episode of Pardon the Mess, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares from a lifetime of moving, from her childhood years spent relocating across the country to the many ministry moves she's made as a wife and mom. She explores the unique challenges of helping children process tra
Loving Each of My Kids Well (When They All Need Something Different)
Loving Each of My Kids Well (When They All Need Something Different) Jun 11, 2026 1699 How do you love your children well when every one of them seems to need something completely different from you?In this week's episode of Pardon the Mess, Scarlet Hiltibidal explores one of the most common tensions in motherhood: the desire to make sure each child feels deeply loved, seen, and secure, even when their personalities, needs, struggles, and seasons of life look nothing alike.Drawi
I Keep Feeling Like I’m Failing My Kids
I Keep Feeling Like I’m Failing My Kids Jun 4, 2026 1929 It’s officially Scarlet Hiltibidal’s first episode as the new host of Pardon the Mess, and she’s kicking things off with a conversation every mom needs to hear.If you’ve ever laid in bed replaying your parenting failures, wondered if your bad moments are shaping your kids forever, or felt crushed under the pressure to “get motherhood right,” this episode is for you.Scarlet shares honest stories fr

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