Girls Gone Deep
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chat about how they use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty.
Episodes
193: Pussy Worship, Baby Bisexuals & Why Loving Your Genitals Means Better Sex feat. Jordana Ezra
This week, Vee and Elle chat with Jordana Ezra, aka The Queer Sex Coach, about redefining what counts as sex, navigating bisexual awakenings, and why curiosity beats technique when it comes to eating pussy. From tribbing vs. scissoring to pussy worship, self-pleasure, and unlearning shame around smells, juices, and our bodies, they explore how sexual literacy and nervous system safety can transfor
192: Inside a Lifestyle Halloween Party: Orgies, Strap-ons, Spanking & Sensory Deprivation
This week, Vee and Elle revisit a Halloween favorite from 2023: a whirlwind trip to a lifestyle party filled with group sex, spanking, strap-ons, sensory deprivation, and a six-person orgy. Vee shares what she learned about navigating a big sex party—from confidently saying no and understanding orgy etiquette to creating privacy, leaning into novelty, and surrendering control while blindfolded. Th
191: Sex Hacks: Multiple Orgasms, Training Your Body to Cum Differently, Anal Pleasure & the Vagus Nerve feat. Kenneth Play
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with internationally recognized sex educator and “sex hacker” Kenneth Play to explore how Eastern philosophy, Western science, and a growth mindset can completely change the way we experience sex and pleasure. Kenneth breaks down how to train your body to experience different types of orgasms, hack anal and prostate pleasure, map the clit, work with the vagus nerve
190: Justice for the Handjob: Getting Him Hard, Edging & Techniques to Make Him Beg for It feat. Alexa Andre of Sex With Alexa
This week, Elle and Vee are joined once again by sexologist and educator Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), who’s back to give handjobs the respect they deserve. Alexa breaks down her go-to techniques, including the pepper grinder and lemon squeezer, plus how to use pressure, lube, edging, ball play, foreskin and communication to make a handjob the main event instead of just a warm-up. The girls also ge
189: Cock Worship 101: Pleasure, Power, Penis Shame & Cock Warming x Talk Sex With Annette
This week, Elle and Vee are crossing over to Talk Sex With Annette for a deep dive into the art of cock worship. They break down what cock worship actually is, why it can be so hot for both the giver and receiver, and how to approach it with enthusiasm, intention, and confidence. From mindset and technique to the little details that make someone feel completely desired, they share their favorite t
188: Slutty and Proud: Bi Men, Sex Parties, HPV & Fire Island Fuckfests feat. Boyslut Author Zachary Zane
This week Elle and Vee welcome Boyslut author Zachary Zane back for a conversation that goes everywhere. From male bisexuality and the stigma that still exists even in sexually open spaces, dick-size insecurity, HPV and sexual health disclosure, to why being open with your doctors actually matters. Zachary also takes listeners inside his very slutty week on Fire Island, shares his first Top Floor
187: Things We Never Knew We Liked Until We Tried Them: Breath Play, Public Sex, Sybians & Surprise Kinks feat. Aphrodite
This week, Elle and Vee bring Aphrodite back for a gloriously unhinged round of Whoreible Life: Fuck, Marry, Kill that spirals into stories about her first five-person orgy, breath play, public sex, rope bondage, piss play, Sybian fantasies, and one truly unforgettable yoni egg disaster. What starts as a kink card game becomes a conversation about discovering turn-ons you never expected, the thril
186: Magnetic, Not Thirsty: "Fuck Yes" Energy, Play Parties & Better Threesomes feat. Eden & Ross
This week, Elle and Vee chat with returning guests Eden and Ross about the difference between magnetic, fuck-yes energy and the thirsty energy that can quietly kill a connection, whether you’re flirting with a third, navigating a play party, or opening your relationship. From worshipping a woman they met dancing in Ibiza and breaking down their favorite threesome positions to energy sex, sexy boun
185: Fulfilling Fantasies (Replay): Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix feat. Brandi
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with friend Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types of fantasies, from orgies to sub/dom power dynamics to pet play, and the joy and empowerment they can bring.Chapters: Fantasies: exploring and fulfilling fantasies through ENM (ethical non monogamy). (0:00) How can you mak
184: Vee’s Birthday at Top Floor: All-Hands Group Scene, a Balcony Threesome & Elle’s Play Party Comeback
This week, Elle and Vee take us inside Elle’s first Top Floor party and Vee’s unforgettable birthday celebration in New York City. Vee attempts to surrender during an all-hands scene surrounded by the people she loves, while Elle returns to the lifestyle after baby number two and discovers just how desired, confident, and adventurous she still feels. Between a surprisingly deep debate about consen
183: Confessions of an Orgy Organizer Part 2: Water Sports, Pool Orgasms, Double Penetration & More feat. Bossy
This week, Elle and Vee welcome back everyone's favorite unfiltered guest, Bossy, to play the card game of WHOREible Life. Be a fly on the wall as you listen to a fully detailed tell all episode. They dive into sex in a dirty ass pool, pee play, squirting, period sex, double penetration, embarrassing firsts, and why the most taboo conversations often lead to the biggest breakthroughs. It&apos
182: Guys Gone Deep: Group BDSM Scenes, Opening Up, and the Lincoln Tunnel Story with Mister A
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Mr. A for an unfiltered look at how his and Vee’s relationship evolved from being monogamish into group BDSM scenes, couple swapping, and separate experiences. They break down his detailed scene-negotiation process, including desires, limits, safe words, triggers, aftercare, and how every person, even the voyeur or cuck, stays included. Vee opens up about jeal
181: Confessions of an Orgy Organizer: DP, Golden Shower Peep Show, Strap-Ons, Double Digits & More feat. Bossy
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with one of their favorite humans in the lifestyle, Bossy, for a hilarious, heartfelt, and wildly unfiltered conversation about friendship, non-monogamy, and unforgettable play party moments. From the infamous "George" strap-on to Slut Olympics, chosen family, and hosting an 85-person lifestyle birthday party, they share it all. But beneath all the filthy
180: Big Depth Energy: Masculine Leadership Without the Alpha Male Bullshit and Redefining "BDE" feat. Ross Lewin
Podcast SummaryThis week, Elle and Vee sit down with Ross Lewin, founder of @embodi.men and creator of the Big Depth Energy Method, to unpack what modern masculinity actually looks like. They dive into why so many good men struggle with dating, how confidence gets confused with arrogance, and why consent, leadership, and emotional depth are the real turn-ons. From play parties and pickup artists t
179: She's Poly. Her Fiance is Monogamous. Can a Mono-Poly Relationship Actually Work? feat. Fernanda of Polycurious
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with relationship coach and Polycurious host Fernanda Fabian to unpack one of the most misunderstood relationship dynamics: mono-poly relationships. Fernanda shares how she and her monogamous fiancé built a thriving partnership by moving painfully slow, prioritizing trust, and creating predictable check-ins that made difficult conversations feel safe. Together they
178: From Relationship Agreements to Anal Hooks: Open Love, All-Girl Orgies & Girl Talk with Aphrodite
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Aphrodite in a meandering, OG Girls Gone Deep-style conversation: three girls talking sex, open relationships, and everything from deep to deeply silly. From relationship agreements, intentionality, proactive communication, hierarchy in polyamory, and navigating the unknown, to anal stories, tentacle porn, sex magic, Top Floor FOMO, surprise dates, and all-girl se
177: The Butt Whisperer: What 100 Assholes per Week Taught This Doctor About Better Anal Sex feat. Dr. Evan Goldstein
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with renowned anal health expert Dr. Evan Goldstein to answer every question you've ever had about anal sex but were too embarrassed to ask. Grab your notepad because this episode is packed with the tips, tricks, and hard truths you need for anal success. From training your body for pleasure and avoiding painful mistakes to douching myths, STI prevention, micr
176: Road Head, Rim Jobs, DVP, and the Art of Being Multiorgasmic
This week, Vee and Elle play WHOREible Life with repeat guest Catherine Drysdale, a dating and intimacy expert who shared how she accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom in Episode 168. Today, pull up a seat and eavesdrop on three unapologetically honest humans as we swap wild stories, reveal our kinks, confess our preferences, and answer the kinds of questions most people only think ab
175: In Bed With Alexa x GGD: Sexual Fantasies, Public Play, MFMs and DVP
In this episode, Vee joins Alexa Andre of In Bed With Alexa for a conversation about sexual fantasies: the ones we secretly crave, the ones we've brought to life, and the ones that are better left in our heads. From public play and group experiences to praise kinks, fantasy fulfillment, shame, and self-discovery, they unpack how fantasies evolve as we evolve. The conversation gets raw, funny,
174: Predicament Play: Why Sex Gets Hotter When You Stop Performing and Start Playing feat. Foxie Lou
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with kink educator Foxie Lou. This is a masterclass in turning sex from performance into exploration touching on BDSM, play, trust, and connection. From primal wrestling and predicament play to nervous system safety and the fear of receiving, the conversation gets raw fast as Elle realizes her struggle with submission might actually be a struggle with vulnerability
173: The Pussy Protocol: Play Party Survival Guide (Vaginal Health Part 2)
In this episode, Dr. Elle aka Dr. Sexy breaks down the 13 biggest things quietly wrecking the vaginal microbiome and why so many women stay stuck in cycles of BV, yeast infections, odor, irritation, and feeling “off” in their own bodies. She gets real about what it actually takes to keep your pussy balanced while living a sexually open lifestyle, from sex parties and multiple partners to semen exp
172: The Pussy Protocol: How Do You Tell Someone Their Pussy Smells? (Vaginal Health Part 1)
This week, Elle and V are diving headfirst into the messy, vulnerable, wildly under-discussed world of vaginal health, BV, yeast infections, microbiomes, and the shame so many women silently carry around their bodies. Check out our first episode on this topic in 011: Vagina Health: How to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs. In this NEW episode, we go deeper. From play party etiquette
171: Inside the World of Bi Curious Women, All-Femme Sex Parties & Sex Magic feat. Skirt Club Founder Genevieve LeJeune
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, to explore what really happens when women gather without the male gaze. From all female play parties and bisexual awakening to sex magic, nervous system regulation, and erotic sisterhood, this conversation dives deep into the emotional and psychological layers of female desire. Genevieve opens up about building a
170: I Brought a Vibrator into the Delivery Room and Got Fisted During Labor: Elle’s Birth Story Feat. M
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Elle's husband M just four weeks postpartum to unpack a birth story that took a wild, unexpected turn. From using a vibrator to trigger contractions to an intense, emotional delivery that led to a complete mindset shift, nothing went as planned. They dive into the raw reality of postpartum healing, libido shifts, and what happens to your sex life af
169: Parenting, Tantra & Kink: How Pleasure, Presence & Play Can Transform Modern Parenting
This week Elle and Vee chat with Aviva (aka Leora) about the raw and unexpected intersection of parenting, tantra, and kink. They explore how divorce became a gateway to self-discovery, pleasure, and reclaiming personal power—while unpacking how core principles of kink and tantra (like attunement, boundaries, and presence) can actually enhance the way we parent. The conversation weaves through emo
168: Mommy Dom 101: She Made Him Clean Her Apartment and He Thanked Her For It feat. Catherine Drysdale
This week, Vee and Elle go deep with Catherine Drysdale — a dating and intimacy expert who accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom and never looked back. She breaks down the truth behind dominance that no one talks about: it’s not about pain, it’s about presence, boundaries, and knowing exactly what you want. We get into service subs, pleasure-first dynamics, and why she refuses to cent
167: Yoni Massage: the Pleasure Spots You're Missing, and How to Find Them feat. Suriya Nikko
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Suriya Nikko to dive into the world of yoni massage, internal orgasms, and what your body might be holding onto beneath the surface. They unpack how pelvic tension, stress, and even subtle trauma can block pleasure. This is for women who already orgasm and want more pleasure, and for partners who want to learn how to slow down, tune in, and unlock deeper laye
166: What It Really Takes to Be a Good Porn Star, a Good Dom, and Actually Good in Bed feat. Small Hands
This week, in this wildly honest and unexpectedly human episode, Vee and Elle sit down with adult film star Aaron Thompson, better known as Small Hands, to pull back the curtain on what really goes down behind the scenes of porn. Elle, Vee and Small Hands get into kink, consent, gang bang dynamics, emotional intelligence, erectile dysfunction, and what it actually means to be a good Dom. This epis
165: So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex… Did You Actually Want It? feat. She Comes First author Ian Kerner
This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with d
164: Would You Rather Kink Edition: Fantasies, BDSM, Sex Toys & What Really Turns Us On
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Tash Doherty about all the random sexy, kinky things that come up during a game of WHOREible Life (think: never have I ever, but unhinged). Playing Would You Rather with WHOREible Life cards opens the door to a wildly honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about fantasies, exhibitionism, impact play, submission, and the psychology behind what turns us o
163: Confessions of a Porn Star: Robococks, On-Set Secrets & the Truth About the Adult Industry with Jade Greene
This week, Jade Greene shares her unconventional journey from beauty queen and professional cheerleader to erotica author and porn performer. Jade pulls back the curtain on what really happens behind the scenes of porn, from consent talks and filming mishaps to the hilarious realities of sex on camera. Between laugh-out-loud stories and honest truth bombs, this episode is a playful, unfiltered pee
162: Blow Jobs, Baby! Make It Your Sexual Superpower & Feel More Confident Giving and Receiving: Talk Sex With Annette x GGD
This week Elle and Vee join Annette Benedetti of the Talk Sex with Annette podcast for a crossover episode all about blowjobs. The girls share their top tips for giving incredible oral, from rhythm and enthusiasm to reading a partner’s reactions, and the surprisingly important etiquette of being on the receiving end. They get into the little things that make oral sex unforgettable, and the habits
161: Turned On by Watching: Cuckolding, Hot Wifing, and Tips for Bulls, Stags & Vixens
This week Elle and Vee chat with JJ of Sexie Show podcast about all things cuckolding. From the thrill of watching, to the juicy tension of jealousy, ego, and control, the girls ask the questions on everyone's minds: why do it? What does a cuck get out of it? They get into the real difference between cuckolding and hot wifing, why so many couples are secretly curious, and how this “taboo” dyn
160: Sexie Show x GGD: Sex Games, Hot Takes, Soaking, and Turn-Ons
This is a crossover episode in which Elle and Vee join Sexie Show host JJ as guests for a completely chaotic conversation packed with sex games, hot takes, and the kinds of questions that expose how well (or how poorly) you actually know your co-host.They cover everything from memorable moments from the playful dynamics of their friendship, GGD and sexual memories, breast milk play, golden showers
159: No More Bullsh*t: Radical Honesty, Emotional Affairs & Modern Marriage feat. JC Wilde
This week Elle and Vee have a deep, free-flowing and wide-ranging chat with JC Wilde, writer and director of the film Wild Fire. They speak about emotional affairs and the radical honesty that nearly burned her marriage down, and then what happens when you stop performing “perfect partner” and start saying the thing that scares you most. Inspired by real-life truth-or-dare confessions, Wild Fire s
158: “Fuck First”, “Eat Pussy”, and “Sex Ends When You’re Satisfied”: Hot Group Sex & Unicorn Etiquette feat. Alexa Andre
This week, Elle and Vee play Whoreible Life with sexologist, relationship coach, and host of In Bed with Alexa podcast, Alexa Andre. As usual, a few cards turn into larger conversations about being a unicorn, OnlyFans, orgies, the best kind of dildo, latex fantasies, receiving pleasure, and why couple privilege can make or break group sex. Messy, honest, hilarious, and very on-brand.What is Whorei
157: 365 Days of Orgasms: Clitoral, G-Spot, A-Spot, Blended & the Power of Daily Pleasure feat. Annette Benedetti
This week Elle and Vee chat with Annette Benedetti, badass sex educator, pleasure expert, and host of Talk Sex with Annette, known for her no-bullshit approach to sex, orgasms, and sexual health. They dive into her 365 Days of Pleasure experiment, daily masturbation, favorite sex toys, and why the intermittent setting actually exists on the Magic Wand (do people really use that?!). If you want the
156: Going Deep with a Dominatrix: Pussy Power, Impact Play & Where Tantra Meets Kink feat. Mistress Chi
This week, Vee and Elle chat with Mistress Chi, a tantric dominatrix and erotic facilitator who blends sacred sexuality with BDSM and ritual. They explore discovering your inner switch, blending tantra and kink, and how power exchange can become a portal for emotional and erotic transformation. From impact play to pussy-led creativity, this episode is full of insights for anyone curious about kink
155: Hottest Sexual Fantasies, Intimacy & Narcissistic Partners: A Sex Coach Breaks It Down feat. Leandra Petroff
This Week, Elle and Vee chat with Leandra Petroff, Somatica-certified sexologist and sex & intimacy coach, and pick her brain about everything from narcissism in relationships, the perspective of a switch, and building real intimacy in modern relationships. They break down what “somatic” actually means and how to radically deepen connection. From the psychology of dominance and submission to c
154: Fisting 101: Techniques, Pro Tips, & Double Fisting Orgasms feat. Jamie Joy and Riley Ocean
Fisting isn’t about going hard — it’s about going slowly, intentionally, and deeply connected.In this episode Elle and Vee sit down with Jamie Joy and Riley Ocean to take the shame, fear, and mystery out of fisting and talk about what actually makes it powerful, pleasurable, and safe. Together, they explore anal and vaginal prep, communication, pacing, and aftercare, breaking down what it really t
153: You Asked, We Answered: How to Find a Third, First Girl-on-Girl Experiences, 24-Person Orgies, & What Makes Our ENM Partnerships Work?
In this episode, Vee and Elle answer listener questions from the @girlsgonedeeppod instagram. ChaptersHow Do You Find a Unicorn or a 3rd? (See Episode 81 for more tips) (00:00)What Was Your First Girl on Girl Experience? Was It a Friend or Random? What’s the Largest Orgy You’ve Been In? Defining Two Types of Orgies. (31:00)Condoms in Mouths and Ureaplasma.(37:06)What Do You Do To Make Your ENM Par
152: Naughty Snowball Replay! Prostate Play, Fisting Tips & Other Reasons We're Forever On The Naughty List
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their Joy Family holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had! This is a revisit from January 2025, and still holds up as one of the naughtiest most exploratory parties they've been at together. Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23)Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best pr
151: When Pleasure Gets Weird (and Hot): Knife Play, Cervical Orgasms, Cock Warming & Pain/Pleasure Cycling
This week Elle and Vee discuss all the ways they've been exploring pleasure recently: including BDSM scenes with vibrators, flogging and five orgasms, achieving sub space, mushroom-fueled connection, cervical orgasms while pregnant, knife play, cock warming, and that very specific moment when you yawn on a dick and keep going anyway. Halloween Night BDSM Scene Gone Wrong: Vee and Mister A are
149: Shamelessly Sexy: Unattached Sex, Feeder Porn & Why Writing About Sex Makes You Better in Bed: Inside The Intimacy Journal with Tash Doherty
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with Tash Doherty — a British-Irish-American writer, creator of Misseducated (the blog and podcast helping the world become shamelessly sexy), and author of These Perfectly Careless Things, her spicy coming-of-age debut novel. She is a bold, candid, and deeply reflective sexuality writer who holds nothing back. We discuss Tash’s latest project, The Intimacy Journal
148: Kinky Christmas Gift Guide: Our Favorite Toys on our Wishlist This HO-liday Season!
Have you been naughty or nice? Either way, Vee and Elle are serving up the ultimate sexy gift guide to help you heat up your season.We’re sharing the toys, experiences, and books we actually love… and several come with special discount codes just for GGD listeners. Happy HOlidays, naughty snowballs!Vee is bedridden from a sex injury, and Elle has pelvic girdle pain. Our fave toys - why are we doin
147: Our Most Unhinged Confessions: Rim Jobs, The Butt Plug Debate, Sex in Public & More feat. WHOREible Life Card Game
This week, Elle and Vee play time Fuck-Marry-Kill version of the card game WHOREible Life with Athena. This episode is pure chaotic pleasure — the kind where nostalgia, food, kink, and butt-stuff all swirl into one ridiculous open conversation. We go from childhood games to double-ended vegetables, from grooming disasters to pegging wins, from lingerie-in-public confessions to pee-play experimenta
146: Anal Prep & Training: The Exact Cleansing Routine for Better Comfort, Pleasure & Confidence
This week, it’s Guys Gone Deep! Elle and Vee are joined by Ricky — their resident anal expert — for an honest, hilarious, and educational chat about what it really takes to feel comfortable exploring the backdoor.From understanding how to prepare your body, to learning the right tools, techniques, and hygiene tips, this episode dives into the practical side of exploration — and the mindset that ma
145: From a 25-Year Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess: Breaking the Rut with Dr. Alisa Kriegel
What happens when a psychologist in a 25-year sexless marriage decides she’s done living without desire?This week,Dr. Alisa Kriegel joins Elle and Vee to share her raw, transformative journey from disconnection to deep erotic empowerment — the story behind her upcoming memoir From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess.We talk about:How up to 40% of marriages are sexless — and why no one wants to admit i
144: Rough Oral Sex: Face Fucking Tips for Topping, Bottoming, and Keeping it Safe
This week Elle and Vee chat about rough oral play: aka face fucking.What is face fucking? What is the difference between fellatio and erumatio? (00:34)Do you like rough oral sex? How our relationship with it has evolved. (4:11)Running mascara as marks. (11:04)CNC. (12:24)Roman showers: throat sex to the point of throwing up. (14:25)Things to think about for the giver/top. (17:52)Tricks and tips fo
143: Inside the Temple of Eden: All-Femme Play Parties and Sexuality Beyond the Male Gaze feat. Eden
This week, Vee and Elle chat with Eden, a tantra facilitator and intimacy coach, discussing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to explore their sexuality and intimacy without the male gaze. They talk what actually happens inside femme-only temples — no boys, no judgment, just sacred play, deep connection, and maybe a little glitter lube. They unpack queerness, non-monogamy, and the p
142: RDBSM: The Conversation Every Couple Needs to Have Before Their First Play Party, plus Collars, Limerence & Cum Boundaries
This week, Vee and Elle unpack everything couples should talk about before stepping into a shared play space—from emotional boundaries to desires, jealousy, and how to reconnect afterward, using a conversation framework they learned on an ISTA retreat. From collars and rituals to new relationship energy (NRE), aka limerence, and the messy middle between fantasy and reality—Vee goes deep on her ex
141: Sex and Psychedelics: Can MDMA Ruin Sober Sex? Do Orgasms Release DMT? ...and More with Nicolle Double L
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with journalist and sexual freedom philosopher Nicolle Double L to explore the intersection of BDSM, psychedelics, and sexuality as tools for self-discovery and healing. The conversation dives into cervical orgasms, DMT release, altered states, and how sex can mirror a psychedelic journey, especially when paired with presence and aftercare. The discussion delves in
140: Cock Worship, Sexting, & Sexual Experiences We’d Pay For: Playing Esther Perel’s Game Where Should We Begin?
In this episode, Vee and Elle play only the NSFW cards from Esther Perel’s card game Where Should We Begin.Where Should We Begin: Esther Perel’s card game.“A text message you fantasize about recieving…”: domming your husband from afar, cock cages, and naughty sexts. (6:06)“A sexual experience I’d pay for…” From sex workers in Amsterdam to strippers to dominatrixes. (10:30)Somatica visualization/fa
139: Vee’s ISTA Retreat Experience: Embodiment, Boundaries, and Letting Go
In this episode, Vee shares her transformational ISTA experience— what is ISTA like (International School of Temple Arts)? What can you expect going to an ISTA retreat? The ladies dive into how Vee FINALLY found the tools to get out of her head and into her body, how to communicate boundaries lovingly, and awakening eros AKA life force. Get ready to hear about emotional release, using tantric exer
138: NRE or Just a Good Dom? Navigating New Relationship Energy and Dom/Sub Dynamics
In this meandering conversation, Elle and Vee blend kink, parenting, and intimacy into one candid, sex-positive chat. They dive into everything from pregnancy porn and the risks of recording intimate videos to the awkwardness of moms finding sexy photos. They explore sex-positive parenting, New Relationship Energy (NRE), and the intensity of Dominant/submissive dynamics—discussing what makes a goo
137: Golden Showers & Scat Play: How to Explore Toilet Kinks with Priestess Francesca
Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for informational and educational purposes only. The content shared here should not be taken as medical or mental health advice. Discussions may include topics related to sexual health and practices, but they are not a substitute for guidance from a qualified healthcare provider. Please consult with a licensed professional regarding any personal questions or co
136: Threesomes with Best Friends, Changing Dynamics in an ENM Relationship, Naughty Sex Dreams and ISTA Tips
This week, the girls catch up on whats been going on for them, from threesomes to new partners. Vee reveals something big going on in her life: a change in her relationship dynamic, and how it seems to be affecting her ability to orgasm. Elle shares updates on how her pregnancy is affecting her dreams. “Cumming and running”: Elle sets boundaries during play weekends. (00:47)The orgasm happens in
135: Sex Mishaps: Anal Oopsies, Lost Tampons and Condoms, Blow Job Gag Reflexes, and Near-Arrests
This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spill all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny.
134: Unpacking Submission, “I Can’t Get Over My Ex”, and How To Push New Boundaries Healthily With Briana Cribeyer
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Briana Cribeyer, a sacred sexuality facilitator, guide, and founder of Sacred Sexuality Rising. They explore various relationship dynamics and the challenges that can arise while navigating an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) journey. Briana answers listener questions and shares tips and tools for handling difficult situations, balancing masculine and feminine
133: Girls Gone Shallow and Other Ice Breakers with JJ of The Sexie Show
This week, Elle and Vee chat with JJ of The Sexie Show podcast, and play Girls Gone Shallow, a sex-themed game testing how well they know each other. Play along with your partner, and we invite you to make the stakes interesting ;)Battlestrip: what is it? (1:57)What is the role of games in a sexy environment? Pushing our growth edges, getting silly and reducing anxiety. How can we carry the energ
132: Bite Marks, Next Level Anal Play and Role Play vs Fantasy…What’s the Difference?
This week, Elle and Vee catch up on all their latest play, from Elle’s long weekend with lifestyle friends to the reason underlying Vee’s horniness, kinky date night takeaways and why some fantasies you don’t want to role play.Ass play/vegetable play, caving, and Elle learns what a bussy is.Fears, Desires, Boundaries with old friends; ebbing and flowing playing with others in your ENM partnership.
131: So You Got Cheated On… Now What? Can You Rebuild Trust? With Britton & Carolee of Magical Story of Us
In this episode, Britton and Carolee Beckham crack open the raw truth of what it really takes to heal after infidelity. From betrayal to breakthrough, they share the messy, brave journey of rebuilding trust, rediscovering themselves, and confronting the emotional landmines of marriage, family, and faith. With vulnerability at the center, they unpack the weight of growing up Mormon, why they chose
130: “The Blowjob That Earned Me a Reward Fuck”, Visions During Orgasm & Core Desires That Get Us Off feat. Athena
This week, Elle and Vee catch up with Athena talking all things NSFW and soul-deep: blowjob glory, gift kink, doctor role play, surrender vs submission, orgasmic visuals and more.Unexpected First-Time Hookup Sex And Taking Sexy Selfies (00:00)Cock Worship Blowjob That Earned a Reward Fuck, Spit or Swallow & Taste of Cum (05:17)10:05Orgasming from Oral and Typical 11:26Visuals and Sensations
129: Back to the Body: Elongated Pleasure and Erotic Personas with Pamela Madsen
This week, Elle and Vee chat with OG sexual wellness icon Pamela Madsen on all things erotic. From extended orgasmic states to the joy of adult play, and how cultivating your erotic persona can transform your sex life. Plus, hear about the Oprah-featured Lotus Lift Meditation and what men can do to truly empower the women in their lives. Pulling from so much experience, Pamela had some serious wi
128: Beyond Bondage: Exploring Submission through Ropes with Rina Trevi
How can ropes and shibari be used in different ways? At play parties to understand a new partner quickly, as a mode for a transformational or transcendental experience, as a method for submission or dominance... In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Rina Trevi about her journey from dominatrix to tantrika and vulnerability coach, the spiritual side of shibari, and how rope play at parties can be
127: Gemini Bach Bash Gets Wild: Slut Olympics, Sweaty Sex, and Blow Job Train
Elle and Vee recap their weekend at a mansion airbnb with 45 of their friends, celebrating several birthdays and a bachelor bachelorette!Gemini Bach Bash (00:00)Theme nights (04:54)Seal team slut olympics (06:32)Intentions and elle’s announcement! (19:12)Thursday Night Highlights (28:01)Before Kiss Someone New, Do You Get Consent From Their Partner? (32:37)Sensual Loving and Sweaty Sex (35:02)Cu
126: Sounding, Soulgasms, and New Ways to Get Turned On feat. Olivia Dydyna
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Olivia Dydyna about her journey from being inorgasmic to fully awakened through sound, breath, and deep self-connection. The girls explore Soulgasm, light language, sounding for pleasure, and how to unlock turn-on even when trauma lives in the body. If you've ever wondered what it means to center yourself, speak your truth, and experience desire beyond
125: Does Penis Size Matter? Top Floor Recap, FOMO and Metamour Triggers
In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into their recent experiences in ENM, sharing naughty stories, recent personal growths and lesson learned. Jewelry Mishaps and Lingerie Inconveniences During Sex. (00:00)Top Floor Play Party Intentions: New Play Partner, New Location, Plus Pushing Exhibitionist Boundaries. (5:48)The Art of the Stacking: Creative Sexual Positions with 4 people (Porn Star Wolf Hud
124: International Whores Day feat. Kaytlin Bailey and Priestess Francesca
For all our sapiosexuals out there, get ready for this panty-dropper! Elle and Vee chat with comedian and podcast host Kaytlin Bailey and "erotic initiatrix" Priestess Francesca about the history of International Whores Day, sex workers' rights, and our internalized prejudices. What is International Whores Day? (3:58)Decriminalizing vs Legalizing. (9:12)Spirituality and Religion in
123: Masturbation: Early Experiences, How it Affects Your Relationship, and Self Touch Practices
This week, Elle and Vee dive deep into all things masturbation—from silent solo play to sex toy confessions, and the rituals we don’t talk about (but definitely should).What comes to mind when you think of masturbation? (04:42)Masturbating rather than playing in a couple. (06:10)Sexual empowerment through masturbation and sexting. (10:40)Cock stroking. (14:15)Does solo play take away from partner
122: Kink Talk: Flogging, Whipping, Spanking, Fisting and Bodily Fluid Encounters
This week, Vee and Elle delve into their experiences with vulnerability, impact play, and the emotional complexities that arise during kinky encounters. From flogging techniques, to primal play, to collecting cum, squirt juice, a spit chalice, and even scat play, the girls don’t hold back, in their signature style. Crygasm, Vulnerability and Emotional Releases in Spanking Session (00:00)Flogging,
121: Dark Eroticism: Piss Play, Kink Psychology, and Exploring the Taboo feat. Priestess Francesca
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door.What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04)Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09)Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57)How can you start exploring your dar
120: Embracing Your Inner Slut and Making a Gang Bang Fantasy a Reality feat. Athena
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Athena, Vee's metamour and wingwoman in NYC. In this candid chat, the girls hear the details of Athena's first gang bang, chat about how to make your fantasies a reality, being a single woman in the lifestyle, and so much more! Exploring the Abyss of Porn Together (00:00) Introducing Athena: From Fainting to Best Friends (2:19)Embracing Your Inner Slut:
119: Seek the Risk: Tools for Working Through Challenges and Emotions in Non-Monogamy feat. Author Adam Darrow
In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy. Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventurou
118: Tips to Build Confidence Eating Pussy When You're a "Baby Bisexual" feat. Liv Love
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Liv Love: sex writer, sex educator and swinger, and new friend from Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025! They focus on bisexuality, labels, performance anxiety, shame, strap on sex ... and a play-by-play of how to go from zero to orgasm. This is a no-holds-barred conversation about questioning your bisexuality, pussy insecurities, and so much more! Lack of confi
117: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025: Too Horny to Sleep, Too Tired to Care
In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into Elle's Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 experience, sharing spicy stories, communication hiccups, and the evolution of their desires in the lifestyle. They explore boundaries, consent, group play dynamics, and the rediscovery of feminine energy — all while navigating connection, frustration, and the value of both solo and shared intimacy.Introduction to Hed
116: Talk Tantra to Me: Sex Magic and Shadow Work with Sacred Sex Ed Author Leola Watkins
This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing. They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations
115: The Undervalued Art of Fingering: The Best Techniques, Squirting, G Spots, and Prostate Play
This week, the girls go deep on an often (in their experience) overlooked and underused play option: fingering! Pulling from listener polls, friends, research and their own experience, Elle and Vee share all the juicy details of every aspect of fingering that they could come up with. Did they miss anything? Fingering: yay or nay?Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion.How many finge
114: Elle’s ISTA Retreat Experience: Tantra, Triggers & Transformation
What Is ISTA SSSex Level 1 Retreat? (00:00)The Intensity of Emotional Processing. (07:25)The Importance of Slowing Down. (13:38)Elle’s Reasons for Going to ISTA. (21:07)Masculine and Feminine. (27:00) No Expectation of Tantra and Sexuality as a Sacred Experience. (28:55)People Pleasing vs Listening to Your Body's Signals. (33:44)Shadow Work: Elle’s Revelations Around Social Anxiety. (37:00)T
113: Cunnilinguistics: The Art of Giving and Receiving Oral at a Play Party feat. Marz
50 Shades of Gold Calling all women to join this sexually transformative event! Click here for details! This week, the girls chat with Marz, who is the copilot of Top Floor, a curated members-only community for those embracing alternative relationship dynamics, kink, and sex-positive exploration. They give all the top tips from the Cunnilinguistics workshop Marz facilitated in which Vee was the
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