The Backdoor Podcast
The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities. Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says. New episodes every Monday and Thursday.
Episodes
The Bedroom Habits That Make Someone More Attractive | Ep 88
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the bedroom habits that can make someone more attractive and why the little things behind closed doors can say a lot about a person. From confidence, hygiene, and self-care to communication, intimacy, and the way we make our partners feel, we’re getting into the habits that can make someone more desirable beyond just physical appearance.
The Things We Pretend Don't Hurt... But Actually Do | Ep 87
In this episode, we have an honest conversation about the things we tell ourselves don’t hurt—but actually do. We talk about the emotions we tend to minimize or hide, including rejection, disappointment, friendship and relationship struggles, insecurity, self-worth, people-pleasing, and the pressure to act like everything is fine.
We get into why certain experiences stay with us even when we try t
Silent Turn On's For Women | Ep. 86
What actually makes a man attractive to women? In this episode, we're breaking down the silent turn-ons women notice that have nothing to do with looks.
From confidence and emotional intelligence to initiative, reliability, and the small everyday actions that make women feel seen, valued, and desired, we're revealing the traits that quietly build attraction over time.
Whether you're dating, marrie
The Things We Do When We're Feeling Unloved | Ep. 85
The Things We Do When We're Feeling Unloved
What happens when you start feeling like your partner doesn’t love you the way they used to? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we break down the things people often do when they’re feeling unloved, disconnected, or emotionally neglected—sometimes without even realizing why they’re acting differently.
We talk about the subtle ways feeling unloved c
Things We Judge Our Partners For But Not Ourselves | Ep. 84
Things We Judge Our Partners For But Not Ourselves | Ep. 81
Are we actually holding our partners to the same standards we hold ourselves to? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we get honest about the relationship habits, behaviors, and double standards we’re quick to judge in our partners while giving ourselves a pass.
We talk about the things that can create tension in relationships, includ
Are We Actually Sexually Compatible? | Ep. 83
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we dive into one of the biggest questions couples ask themselves: Are we actually sexually compatible?
We discuss:
• What sexual compatibility really means (and what it doesn't)
• Whether compatibility is something you're born with or something you build together
• Signs you and your partner may be sexually compatible
• Common causes of mismatched libidos
•
Things Men Secretly Need But Rarely Admit | Ep. 82
Things Men Secretly Need But Rarely Admit | Ep. 82
What do men actually need in a relationship that they rarely say out loud? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the emotional needs men often keep to themselves and the things they wish their partners understood without having to ask.
We talk about:
The reassurance men secretly need
Why appreciation matters more than you might think
What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You | Ep. 81
What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You
There are probably things your partner wishes you understood without having to ask—but for one reason or another, they may never actually say them out loud. In this episode, we get into the thoughts, feelings, frustrations, and expectations that partners often keep to themselves.
We talk about the little things that can make someone feel lo
The Relationship Double Standards We All Have.. | Ep. 80
The Relationship Double Standards We All Have
We all have relationship standards—but are we actually willing to follow the same rules we expect from our partner? In this episode, we have an honest conversation about the double standards that can show up in relationships and dating, including the ones we may not even realize we have.
We discuss the different expectations people can have for themsel
The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love | Ep. 79
The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love
Falling out of love doesn't always happen because of one huge mistake. Sometimes, it's the small habits that slowly create distance, resentment, and disconnection over time. In this episode, we talk about the everyday behaviors that can quietly change the way your partner feels about you and your relationship.
We discuss how taking someone for granted,
The Green Flags We Ignore.. | Ep. 78
The Green Flags We Ignore
Everyone talks about red flags, but what about the green flags? In this episode, we shift the focus to the positive qualities that often get overlooked in relationships and discuss why they're just as important—if not more important—than spotting warning signs.
We break down the healthy behaviors that build trust, respect, and long-term compatibility, while also asking an
Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners | Ep. 77
Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners
Every relationship has uncomfortable conversations that somehow never happen. Whether it's out of fear, embarrassment, or simply not knowing how to bring them up, avoiding these questions can leave room for misunderstandings and unmet expectations.
In this episode, we dive into the awkward questions couples often avoid asking each other—from finances, in
What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner | Ep. 76
What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner?
Is complete honesty always the best policy, or are there some thoughts that are better left unsaid? In this episode, we explore the question every couple has probably thought about but rarely admits out loud: Is there anything you'd never tell your partner?
We discuss the difference between privacy and secrecy, whether every thought needs to be share
The Biggest Myths From Social Media | Ep. 75
The Biggest Myths From Social Media
Social media is packed with advice, trends, and opinions—but how much of it is actually true? In this episode, we break down some of the biggest myths the internet continues to spread about relationships, dating, and everyday life, and discuss how these ideas can shape our expectations without us even realizing it.
We dive into viral relationship "rules,&qu
The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships | Ep. 74
The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships
Social media has changed the way we view love, dating, and long-term relationships—but is it setting unrealistic expectations? In this episode, we unpack some of the biggest myths social media promotes and how they can quietly impact the way we see our own relationships.
From highlight reels that make every couple look perfect to viral relationshi
The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious | Ep. 73
The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious
When people think of relationship dealbreakers, they usually picture cheating, lying, or abuse—but what about the subtle issues that slowly wear a relationship down over time?
In this episode, we explore the less obvious dealbreakers that often go unnoticed until they become major problems. We discuss how poor communication, emotional immaturity, l
The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... | Ep. 72
The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About...
Every couple has those moments where you stop mid-argument and think, "How did we end up fighting about this?" In this episode, we dive into the unexpected disagreements that have come up throughout our relationship—things we never imagined would become actual debates.
From texting habits and household responsibilities to money, parenting,
The Truth About Modern Dating | Ep. 71
Has dating actually gotten harder... or have the rules completely changed?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're unpacking the realities of modern dating—from dating apps and situationships to ghosting, social media, unrealistic expectations, and the pressure of having endless options. We're discussing why genuine connection feels harder to find, what people are really looking for today,
The Most Attractive Thing Someone Can Do That Has Nothing To Do With Looks | Ep. 70
What if the most attractive thing about someone has nothing to do with their appearance?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're diving into the qualities that create lasting attraction—the ones that make someone more attractive the longer you know them. From confidence and consistency to kindness, emotional maturity, and the way someone makes you feel, we're breaking down what really keeps
Our Followers Told Us The Icks Men And Women Have | Ep. 69
What gives people the biggest "ick" in a relationship? We asked our followers... and the responses did not disappoint.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're reacting to the funniest, most relatable, and most controversial relationship icks submitted by our audience. From bad texting habits and social media behavior to awkward personality traits, dating habits, and everyday turn-offs, we'r
Things We Pretend Don't Affect Us... But Do | Ep. 68
We all have things we say "don't bother us"... until they slowly start changing how we feel.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're diving into the small moments, subtle behaviors, and everyday situations that people brush off—but secretly carry with them. From changes in effort and communication to social media, appreciation, jealousy, and feeling overlooked, we're unpacking the little th
Kinks We're Curious About... But Too Nervous To Admit | Ep. 67
How do you bring up something you've always been curious about without making it awkward?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're having an honest conversation about curiosity, communication, and the bedroom conversations many couples avoid. From the fear of being judged to navigating different comfort levels and preferences, we're discussing why these topics can feel so intimidating—and wh
Things We Secretly Test Our Partners On | Ep. 66
Have you ever "tested" your partner without them even realizing it?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're exposing the subtle ways men and women secretly test each other in relationships. Whether it's waiting to see who texts first, noticing who initiates plans, looking for reassurance without asking, or paying attention to how your partner reacts in certain situations, we're unpacking wh
Relationship Conversations We Avoid Until It's Too Late | Ep. 65
The hardest conversations in a relationship are often the ones that matter the most.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're talking about the important conversations couples tend to avoid—from feeling unappreciated and emotionally disconnected to intimacy, money, future goals, and resentment. While avoiding these discussions may feel easier in the moment, they often become the very issues
The Relationship Standards We Have For Others But Not Ourselves | Ep. 64
We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE,The Relationship Standards We Have For Others But Not Ourselves, Double standards that are common ,Double standards we have done Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for adve
The Little Lies Couple's Tell Eachother | Ep. 63
We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real. The kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE ,The Little Lies Couple's Tell Each other , Lies men tell , Lies women tell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
The Relationship Red Flags We Ignore Because We're Attracted | Ep. 62
We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real. the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE Red flags for men, Red flags for women, Red flags we have overlooked Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
The Truth About Why People Cheat | Ep. 61
In this episode of the backdoor podcast we talk about cheating. We dive into our opinion on cheating, the reason people do it and if a relationship can recover from someone cheating. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Being Creators Together: The Relationship Side No One Sees | Ep. 60
What happens when your relationship becomes part of your business?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like being creators together while trying to maintain a healthy relationship. From content creation and online attention to boundaries, burnout, and balancing work with real life, we’re sharing the side people rarely see.
Being creators as a
The Things Couples Notice... But Pretend Don't Matter | Ep. 59
Every couple notices the little things… they just don’t always admit how much they actually matter.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the subtle behaviors, energy shifts, and small changes people pretend don’t bother them — even though they slowly affect attraction, connection, and the overall relationship over time.
From social media habits and communication changes to
Watching Porn: Harmless or a Relationship Killer? | Ep. 58
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we dive into one of the most debated topics in modern relationships: is watching porn harmless entertainment, or can it slowly damage intimacy, trust, and attraction between couples?
We unpack relationship boundaries, emotional disconnect, addiction concerns, unrealistic expectations, and how porn consumption can affect communication, loyalty, and long-term
Why Couple Slowly Stop Sharing With Each Other | Ep. 57
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the quiet shift that happens in many relationships — when couples slowly stop opening up, sharing thoughts, and communicating on a deeper level.
It’s not always intentional… and it usually doesn’t happen all at once.
From feeling misunderstood and avoiding conflict to emotional exhaustion and disconnection, we’re breaking down why people s
The Small Habits That Quietly Kill Attraction | Ep. 56
Attraction doesn’t disappear overnight… it fades through small habits most couples don’t even notice.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the everyday behaviors that slowly kill attraction in relationships — from lack of effort and constant criticism to emotional distance, routine, and feeling taken for granted.
It’s not one big mistake… it’s the little things that add up
Would You Stay or Leave? Real Relationship Scenarios That Get Messy | Ep. 55
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we react to messy real-life relationship scenarios and debate the ultimate question: would you stay or leave?
From cheating, double standards, toxic behavior, and emotional manipulation to loyalty, boundaries, and modern dating struggles, we break down the kinds of situations couples face every day. If you’re into relationship debates, dating psychology, vi
How Money Affects Your Relationship and Lifestyle | Ep. 54
Money changes more than your bank account — it changes relationships, priorities, attraction, pressure, and the way people move through life.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we talk about how money can strengthen a relationship or quietly destroy it. From lifestyle inflation and financial stress to dating standards, ambition, gender roles, and the pressure to “keep up,” this conversation
What Women Feel... But Don't Know How To Explain | Ep. 53
Sometimes it’s not that women aren’t communicating… it’s that they don’t have the words for what they’re feeling yet.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re unpacking the emotions women experience in relationships that are hard to explain — from feeling “off” without a clear reason to wanting effort, reassurance, and connection without having to ask for it.
We’re breaking down the gap betw
The Things That Make You Insecure... No One Admits | Ep. 52
Everyone has insecurities… they just don’t say them out loud.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting real about the things that quietly make men and women feel not enough — and how those insecurities show up in relationships without being openly admitted.
From comparison and rejection to lack of reassurance, respect, and feeling unchosen, we’re breaking down the subtle triggers tha
Do We Ever Get Jealous? The Truth About Our Relationship | Ep. 51
Do we actually get jealous… or have we just learned how to handle it?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting real about jealousy in our relationship — what it looks like, when it shows up, and how we deal with it behind the scenes. From social media attention to real-life situations, we’re breaking down the emotions most couples feel… but don’t always talk about honestly.
Jealousy
What Onlyfans Actually Does to a Relationship | Ep. 50
What does being on OnlyFans really do to a relationship — beyond what people see online?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting honest about the real impact of creating adult content as a couple — from intimacy and trust to communication, boundaries, and outside pressure. This isn’t the highlight reel… it’s the reality.
We’re breaking down how this lifestyle can strengthen a relati
What Happens When You’re Not On The Same Level in The Bedroom | Ep. 49
What happens when you and your partner aren’t on the same page in the bedroom?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the reality of mismatched desire, effort, and expectationswhen it comes to intimacy — and how it can quietly impact connection, confidence, and the overall dynamic of a relationship.
From different drives and preferences to feeling rejected, pressured, or misund
From Parents to Onlyfans: The Reality No One Talks About | Ep. 48
What’s it really like balancing parenthood… and a life most people don’t openly talk about?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting honest about the reality of going from parents to content creators in the adult space — the challenges, the judgment, the relationship dynamics, and the behind-the-scenes conversations that people rarely hear.
This isn’t just about what you see online —
Spicy vs Intimate: Why Most Couples Lose One Over Time | Ep. 47
Why does the passion fade… or the emotional connection start to feel distant?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the difference between spicy and intimate — and why most couples slowly lose one as their relationship evolves. From physical attraction and excitement to emotional closeness and vulnerability, we’re diving into why it’s so hard to maintain both at the same tim
The Things We'd NEVER Admit... But All Couples Do | Ep. 46
Every couple has things they do… but would never openly admit.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re getting real about the habits, thoughts, and moments that happen in almost every relationship — but usually stay unspoken. From petty thoughts and silent scorekeeping to awkward habits, jealousy, and double standards, we’re saying the things most couples keep to themselves.
It’s honest, a
The Truth About How Men Really Think | Ep. 45
How do men actually think in relationships… and why does it feel so different from women?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the real male mindset — from communication and emotions to attraction, respect, and how men process relationships behind the scenes. This is the side of men that doesn’t always get explained clearly… but impacts everything.
We’re talking about what
When Love Is Still There… But Something Changed | Ep. 44
Every relationship has a moment where something shifts… and nothing feels the same after.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the turning point — that moment when love, attraction, or connection starts to feel different. Sometimes it’s subtle. Sometimes it’s obvious. But it’s the moment that changes everything.
Was it something that was said? Something that stopped happeni
The Effort Gap.. When 1 Person Cares More | Ep. 43
What happens when it starts to feel like you’re the only one trying?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the effort gap — that frustrating, often unspoken dynamic where one person feels like they’re putting in more time, energy, and care than the other. From initiating conversations and intimacy to planning, supporting, and showing up consistently, we’re breaking down what i
The Biggest Relationship Issue That No One Talks About... | Ep.42
It’s not cheating. It’s not constant fighting. It’s something quieter… and way more common.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re unpacking the biggest relationship issue that often goes unnoticed — the slow build of disconnection, unmet needs, and unspoken feelings that quietly change how couples feel about each other over time.
This is the stuff people don’t post about. The subtle shift
The Unspoken Expectations In A Relationship... | Ep. 41
Most relationship problems don’t start with what was said… they start with what was never said at all.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the unspoken expectations that quietly shape relationships — and how they often lead to frustration, disappointment, and resentment when they go unmet.
From emotional needs and effort to communication, intimacy, and roles in a relations
Are We Fighting… Or Just Misunderstanding Each Other? | Ep. 40
Are most relationship fights actually about the problem… or about misunderstanding each other?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down why so many arguments between couples aren’t really about what happened — they’re about how men and women communicate, interpret tone, and process emotions differently.
From feeling unheard to assuming the worst, we explore how small miscommuni
Things Men Notice… But Never Say | Ep. 39
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In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on the subtle things men pay attention to in relationships but often keep to themselves. From small behaviors and tone during arguments to effort, respect, attraction, and emotional energy, we’re talking about the things guys notice but rarely bring up out loud.
Sometimes it’s to avoid con
The Silent Scoreboard Men Keep In Relationships | Ep. 38
Ever feel like you’re doing more in the relationship… but no one’s saying it out loud?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the “silent scoreboard” that many couples keep — the mental tally of effort, sacrifices, responsibilities, and emotional labor that slowly builds resentment over time.
From who initiates intimacy to who plans dates, handles the mental load, or apologiz
The Things That Slowly Turn Us Off | Ep. 37
Attraction rarely disappears overnight — it fades through small habits most couples don’t even realize they’re doing.
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re unpacking the subtle behaviors that slowly kill attraction in relationships. From constant criticism and emotional distance to lack of effort, inconsistency, and feeling taken for granted, we’re talking about the things partners often
Why Men Pull Away | Ep. 36
Why do men suddenly become distant — even when the relationship seems good?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the real reasons men pull away emotionally, mentally, and sometimes physically… and why it doesn’t always mean they’ve stopped loving you.
From stress and pressure to feeling misunderstood, rejected, or overwhelmed, we’re unpacking what actually happens when men
Things Women Wish Men Knew | Ep.35
What do women constantly try to explain… but feel like men still don’t fully understand?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the honest truths from the female perspective — from emotional safety and reassurance to the mental load, intimacy, effort, and feeling truly heard in a relationship.
This isn’t about blaming men. It’s about understanding what actually makes women fe
Guys Bedroom Secrets Exposed | Ep. 34
What are men really thinking in the bedroom… but rarely say out loud?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re exposing the unfiltered truths about male desire, confidence, performance pressure, turn-ons, turn-offs, and the things guys wish women understood about intimacy.
From ego and rejection to initiation and emotional connection, this conversation goes deeper than just physical attracti
What Men Wish Women Knew | Ep. 33
What do men really wish women understood about them — but rarely say out loud?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the honest truths from the male perspective when it comes to relationships, communication, respect, intimacy, and emotional pressure. From feeling unappreciated to struggling with vulnerability, this conversation dives into the things men think… but don’t alwa
The Truth About Initiating | Ep. 32
Who should initiate in a relationship? And why does it feel so personal when they don’t?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re having the honest conversation most couples avoid — initiating intimacy, affection, dates, effort… and why it can quietly create resentment. From feeling rejected to feeling undesired, we’re breaking down the emotional side of initiation that no one really talks a
Different Kinks, Same Relationship, Can it Work? | Ep. 31
What happens when two people in a relationship don’t want the same things in the bedroom?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the reality of having different kinks, desires, and comfort levels — and whether a relationship can truly work when you’re not fully aligned sexually.
From communication and compromise to boundaries, curiosity, and feeling accepted, we’re breaking dow
Spontaneous vs Planned - What Actually Works Long Term? | Ep. 30
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, TikTok couple StephandKayls dive into one of the biggest relationship debates: Spontaneous vs Planned – What Actually Works Long Term?
When it comes to dating, marriage, and real-life relationships, is it better to live in the moment or plan for the future?
Steph and Kayls talk about relationship compatibility, communication styles, routines, structure, and
Silent Turn Ons | Ep. 29
Silent Turn Ons – the little things that make a big difference.
On this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, SK uncovers the subtle gestures, secret signals, and unspoken chemistry that truly turn people on. From quiet acts of affection to hidden ways couples spark desire, we’re talking about the kind of attraction that’s easy to miss but impossible to ignore.
Perfect for couples, first-time parents,
Decoding Women - Things we do That Men Don't Understand | Ep. 28
Why do women say one thing… but feel something completely different?
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the behaviors, emotions, and habits women have that often leave men confused. From overthinking and mood shifts to needing reassurance and reading between the lines, we’re unpacking what’s really going on beneath the surface.
This isn’t about calling women “complicated”
Chemistry vs. Compatibility: The Truth About Opposites | Ep. 27
We’re breaking down one of the biggest relationship myths: do opposites actually attract—or do they just create chaos?
From introvert vs. extrovert, emotional vs. logical, and routine vs. spontaneous, this episode dives into why we’re drawn to people who are nothing like us—and what happens once the honeymoon phase wears off. We talk real compatibility, communication clashes, compromise fatigue, a
The Future Of "Spicy" (Why Shock Content Is Getting Smarter) | Ep. 26
Steph &Kayls break down how “spicy” media is getting sharper, subtler, and more strategic, and why controversy now equals currency in the attention economy. If you think you’ve seen it all, think again.
Step into The Backdoor.
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Why Men Do What They Do | Ep. 25
Why do men shut down, pull away, or say one thing and do another? In Why Men Do What They Do, we unpack the psychology, social conditioning, and emotional habits that influence male behavior in relationships. Honest, relatable, and unfiltered conversations you won’t hear anywhere else.
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Boundaries, Attention & Why Couple's Are Struggling | Ep. 24
Most relationships don't fail because of cheating - they fail because boundaries weren't clear. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls, we dive deep into why couples are struggling in the age of social media, online attention, and modern dating.
We talk about:
Unspoken expectations and silent resentments
Attention-seeking behavior on Instagram, TikTok, and DMs
Where bounda
Would you let your partner sell content online? | Ep.23
What if your partner made money selling content online - would you stay, support it, or walk away? In this episode of thebackdoorwithsk, we dive into the conversations couples are terrified to have. We talk OnlyFans, social media validation, money, boundaries, jealousy, and where the line between "work" and "cheating" actually is.
Is being uncomfortable insecurity... or self-re
Third Wheel: The Internet | Ep. 22
When your relationship goes viral, the internet moves in...
People think being an online couple is all cute content, flirty banter, and matching pajamas. What they don’t see is what happens when your relationship lives on the internet—and the internet starts acting like a third roommate.
Third Wheel: The Internet explores what it’s really like to be an online couple—when love becomes content, opin
The Future Of Content Creation and Relationships | Ep. 21
The Future of Content Creation and Relationships.
In this episode, we talk about how creating and connecting are changing in today’s digital world. From online friendships to personal branding and authenticity, we explore what it means to build real relationships while sharing your story online.
Join the conversation and discover where creativity and connection are heading next.
The Relationship R
Future Of 'Spicy': Industry Trends & Predictions | Ep. 20
We dive deep into the evolving world of spicy content—from OnlyFans and fan-based platforms to emerging adult creator trends in 2025 and beyond.
Join us as we explore how creators are adapting, monetization models are shifting, and what the future holds for digital intimacy, online censorship, and influencer branding in the adult entertainment space.
Whether you're a content creator, marketer, or
Decoding Men: Things we do that women don't understand | Ep. 19
Why do men stare and think about nothing? What’s with the amount of times they go to the bathroom? And do they gossip with their friends? 😅
In this episode of Decoding Men, we break down the everyday behaviors, habits, and quirks that leave women scratching their heads. From communication styles to emotional wiring, we explore what’s really going on in the male mind.
🎙️ Honest. Funny. Unfilter
Setting Boundaries With Strangers Online. | Ep.18
In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we dive into the increasingly important skill of setting healthy boundaries with strangers in online spaces. From social media interactions to anonymous comment threads and unexpected DMs, the internet has blurred the lines between public and private life.
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Responding to our HATE comments! | Ep.17
You commented… so we responded. 👀😂
In this episode, we dive into our hate comments—the good, the bad, and the downright unhinged. Episode 17 is all about clearing the air, roasting ourselves a little, and having fun with the internet’s loudest opinions.
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We Blew Up on TikTok… Then Started Exposing EVERYONE 💣 | Ep.16
In this episode, we’re taking you all the way back — how we started on TikTok, what really helped us blow up, and the unexpected journey that led to our viral “Exposing” series. From awkward first posts to hitting the For You Page, we break down the highs, the lows, and the moment we realized people love hearing the juicy secrets guys and girls are hiding. 👀
We’re also answering some of your big
Bedroom Toys & the BZZZZ Theory | Ep.15
Why Toys Belong in the Bedroom. Breaking the stigma, especially in long-term relationships. Let’s talk about something that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed openly: sex toys. And more importantly, why they absolutely belong in the bedroom, especially for couples in long-term relationships.
🧠The BZZZZ Theory The stronger the vibe, the better the connection. It’s simple. When partners
How We Separate Intimate Time : Personal Vs Adult Work | Ep.14
Lets talk about being intimate... In todays podcast we dive into how we separate our intimate time and how we prioritize being intimate not only for the camera! We answer questions about wether or not we record things for ourselves that we NEVER share and talk about how long it took us to get comfortable on camera in every type of way.
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Mom, Dad & The Money: OF Finances 🌶️ | Ep.13
Real talk on budgeting, saving and investing as influencers, content and adult creators - especially with a baby now in the picture. Do you talk about money with your partner? How do you split things? Let's break it down.
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Growing Up Online: Will We Tell Our Kid About Our Spicy Content? | Ep.12
Steph crashes out on this episode👀 Today's episode is a deep dive into digital legacy, future conversations and how we plan to navigate explaining our jobs to our kid/s one day.
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Being a Family Chanel On YouTube & Being a 🌶 Creator | Ep.11
Have you ever thought about why family vlogs are bad? Join us as we dive into the ethics, the money and the madness behind family influencers, child content creators and "kidfluencers." Hear our take as adult content creators as we explore how kids are often exploited in the name of "Family Vlogs" or viral fame because there are many family vlogging problems.
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Let's Talk About (Long-Term) "Spicy Time" In The Bedroom | Ep.10
You've heard about the honeymoon phase but what happens after that? In this episode, we're getting real about how the "spicy bedroom time" changes in long term relationships. Spoiler, it's not always spontaneous kitchen-counter action. From unmatched libidos to "not tonight, I'm tired.... again" We laugh and get honest about keeping the spark alive when life keeps throwing laundry, kids and work s
Unfiltered / The Most Controversial, Dirty Questions We Get as Spicy Influencers | Ep. 9
In this episode, we’re diving into the juicy, unfiltered questions we get asked as influencers—no topic is off-limits. From controversial opinions to the dirty secrets behind the glitz and glam of social media, we’re answering the questions you’ve always wanted to know but were too afraid to ask. Brace yourselves for some honest truths, shocking confessions, and maybe a few laughs along the way! T
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