Vanilla Swingers: Swinger Podcast, Unfiltered AF
Vanilla Swingers is a swinger podcast hosted by Kat & Leo, offering an uncensored and unfiltered look into the lifestyle. The show covers real-life experiences including threesomes, full swaps, soft swaps, orgies, and swinger club reviews. It is a 2025 Best Podcast winner and 2026 AVN Award Nominee, aimed at curious couples, ENM newbies, and experienced lifestylers. The podcast is not a how-to guide but a candid, entertaining ride through the chaos of swinging.
Episodes
Ep 104: Move Fast and Break Things (Thanks Home Depot)
💥 Move fast and break things! Be bold, take chances, and don't let a little fear of failure get in the way of a good time. What's the worst that could happen!? (Besides needing a new mirror from Home Depot) 🤭
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — we're living by three sayings this week: Move fast and break things. When life gives yo
Ep 103: Calling It Quits - Breakups, Burnouts & Fadeaways
🌊 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — we’re talking about how connections end in the lifestyle, including our own 18-month throuple with Pussy Galore coming to a slow ebb
👉 Not every connection needs a dramatic goodbye. Sometimes it’s a slow fade, a little distance, and leaving the door cracked just enough for a future “hey strange
Ep 102: We Really F*cking Suck at This (Honestly, It’s Embarrassing)
🎢 The swinger lifestyle is a roller coaster of epic highs, brutal lows and apparently us still sucking at this 100+ episodes later
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — we’re talking couple connections, shooting your shot, and why 4 horny adults can make getting laid so damn complicated.
👉 PLUS our take on recent house parties and
Ep 101: Kinky AF in Our Bedroom? In Our Marital Bed? Who Us?
⛓️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're getting kinky 😈!! Turns out, we may be kinkier than we thought. Praise, exhibitionism, breeding, pregnancy, primal play and more. What turns us on, what does absolutely nothing for us and what's apparently been hiding in plain sight.
👉 PLUS... more Tatyana chronicles ❤️ including new bucket-list adventures and the s
Ep 100: Holy Sh*t! Made It to 100 (Didn't See That Coming)
🎙️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're popping the champs because somehow, against all odds, we made it to Episode 100 🍾
👉 We reflect on how 2 newbies accidentally turned a podcast recorded in a car (and still recorded in a car!) into one of the biggest parts of our lifestyle journey. We're spilling the tea on our biggest wins, our biggest fails and the
Ep 99: Catching Couple Feelings - The Magical 4-Way Connection
🦋 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're doing something the lifestyle tells you never to do... catching the feels?!?
👉 2 1/2 weeks after our 2nd-ever full couple swap, the NRE is still burning bright, and we may have stumbled into our very first couple crush. Instead of running from the butterflies, we're leaning all the way in... because nothing lasts for
Ep 98: Naughty N'awlins F*ckfest - Couple Crush Edition
🎺 In this NRE-fueled episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we recap Naughty N'awlins 2026, a fully immersive sensory overload where 3,000 swingers take over the corner of Bourbon and Canal Street... Think Bourbon Street bar takeovers, rooftop pool parties, blowjob school, and 4 nights of costumes ranging from Bordello to Alice in Wonderland... because subtlety isn't re
Ep 97: Oscar-Worthy 'The Invite' Delivers & Busts Hollywood's Swinger Myths
🍍 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're busting the biggest swinger myths! Is every party one giant orgy? Are all swinger wives bisexual? And are swingers really just sex addicts? Umm, no, probably & maybe ;)
👉 PLUS... we review The Invite! 🎬 No spoilers, but we went in expecting another Hollywood swinger train wreck and walked out genuinely impressed.
Ep 96: Dirty Vegas - Mike Tyson's White Tiger Mansion Party Knockout
🐯 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — 1,200 swingers descend on Las Vegas... and somehow we end up partying at Mike Tyson's White Tiger Mansion 🤜🏻😵 TKO!
👉 Just another completely normal weekend... 🤪 We recap Dirty Vegas 2026, the highs, the lows, why Plush continues to throw some of the best 'dirty vanilla' parties in the lifestyle, and whether this budget-fri
Ep 95: The Infamous One Penis Policy (And Why It Blows)
🍆 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — apparently we have a One Penis Policy now. At least according to the hate mail 💌
👉 We dive into why One Penis Policies get so much criticism in the lifestyle, where we think some of that criticism is fair, and why "fair's fair" when it comes to extra play opportunities. We also talk about a couple with a textbook OPP who s
Ep 94: Aftercare? What Cums After the Orgasm
😩 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — the sex is over... now what?
👉 Kat & Leo dive into one of the most overlooked parts of the lifestyle - aftercare. Not just aftercare for your spouse, but aftercare for your play partners too. We talk about the evolution of our own journey, from rushing home for reclamation sex to lingering over greasy diner food at 2 a
Ep 93: Guys Are Total Suckers (For A Compliment)
🍭 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we accidentally discovered the male equivalent of receiving flowers - a compliment 💐🙌
👉 After 2 back-to-back MFF adventures (with some sneaky Russian & Ukrainian Easter eggs 🐣 hidden inside), Leo learns firsthand that one tiny compliment can apparently fuel a man for the next decade. What's up with men getting no compl
Ep 92: How Not to F*ck Up a Couple Swap (Don't Do What We Did)
🌷 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re breaking down the art of the newbie couple swap and how our Amsterdam adventure went from a swipe on Feeld… to drinks at our apartment… to icebreaker games… to a full-on couple swap flop 😵
👉 We’re sharing the real playbook for a successful newbie couple swap, of which ours was NOT! The texting phase, where to meet, r
Ep 91: Swinging in Europe - Kat's Gone Wild XXX Edition
✈️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re finally back from Europe… and let’s just say, Katlandia XXX World Tour did not disappoint. 😈
👉 From the canals of Amsterdam to the late-night magic of Paris to the pizza, pasta & gelato of Rome, this trip turned into one of the wildest sexcations we’ve ever had. And YES… it was absolutely raining cute 20-somethi
Ep 90: Swinger Movies That Totally SUCK (And the Ones We Actually Love)
🎬 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving headfirst into the wild, awkward, and occasionally way too real world of swinger movies.
👉 Kat & Leo break down the hits, the “wait…why is this kinda hot?” moments you must watch, rewind and watch again, and the absolute trainwrecks that should’ve stayed in the VHS era. From swinger movies and threesome TV
Ep 89: Breaking Up Is Hard to Do… Even in the Lifestyle
💔 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying the quiet part out loud - you can get broken up with in the lifestyle… and yeah, it hits harder than you think.
👉 Kat & Leo dive into the reality of lifestyle “breakups” and share our own story. We unpack what it’s like to be on the receiving end of rejection in a space that’s supposed to be no-strings-att
Ep 88: Vegas for Swingers: To Grandma’s House We Go (Whispers & Red Rooster Review)
🐓 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo set out to see what happens when your slightly unhinged uncle hosts a backyard BBQ… but make it Vegas. Welcome to Red Rooster & Whispers and our continued origin story....
👉 In Part 1 of our Vegas for Swingers series, we break down 2 of the city’s most down-home, no-frills lifestyle spots. We’re talking l
Ep 87: Katfished! Hook, Line & Sinker - How to Spot Fake Profiles
🐱 You ever look at a profile and think… no way this is real? Yeah. We didn’t. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying it out loud - we got catfished, hook, line & sinker.
👉 Kat & Leo dive into one of the most universal (and awkward) experiences in the swinger lifestyle -when a too-good-to-be-true profile turns into a full-blown reality check.
Ep 86: Catching Feels? F*ck Yeah! Why Feelings Are the GOAT of Swinging
🥰 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re poking at the lifestyle rule everyone swears by… and almost nobody actually follows - don’t catch feelings.
👉 Because apparently the plan is to flirt all night, get naked together, share some very enthusiastic orgasms… and then high-five politely and feel absolutely nothing. Sure. Totally how humans work.
👉 Are we r
Ep 85: Couple to Throuple - Chasing the Dragon in Vegas
🎠 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into the Peacock reality show Couple to Throuple and asking the question - do most couples actually have the emotional intelligence to add a third… or are they just unicorn shopping?
👉 Kat & Leo break down the dynamics we saw on the show - from unicorn hunter couples clearly chasing fantasy MFF scenarios t
Ep 84: Vetting F*ing Sucks - Why We Hate Swinger Club Velvet Ropes
⛔ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying it out loud: We hate vetting.
👉 Safety matters. Obviously. But vetting has drifted into something else - less protection, more preference. Beauty bias, age bias, dress code bias, “vibe” bias… basically club owners playing God with the guest list and calling it “standards.”
👉 And in an egalitarian lifestyle tha
Ep 83: You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!!
💬 Kat loves sexting. Leo... tolerates it. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we talk about how sexting started as a total no-go (too intimate, too risky, too "why does this man have direct access to my wife?!") but has turned into one of the hottest parts of our lifestyle toolbox.
👉 We talk about why group sexting is hilarious and hot, why solo DMs need bound
Ep 82: F*cking Porn Stars! Our AVN Awards Show Vegas Recap
🏆 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we spill all the champagne-soaked tea from the 2026 AVN Awards in Las Vegas, the Oscars of porn, but with more glitter, less clothing, and a red carpet that just. kept. going.
👉 From Wiz Khalifa sightings to red carpet kisses to the award going to… NOT US (lol), we break down the weird, wild, and wonderful chaos of the ad
Ep 81: Illuminaughty New Year's Eve & Threesome Afterparty
🥂 In this New Year's episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re pulling back the velvet curtain on Illuminaughty, the mysterious, ultra-curated house party you’ve probably heard of… but never really heard much about. Spoiler: we showed up, dressed to the Gatsby nines, and rang in 2026 with full-blown throuple energy.
👉 We’re also talking about how we really feel about
Ep 80: Naughty New Year’s Resolutions - Swinger Bingo Edition
🍾 Forget boring New Year’s resolutions. In the swinger lifestyle, we do things differently - like making a filthy swingers bingo card.
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — we ditch vague goals and go full bingo mode, mapping out the fantasies, hookups, and “are we really doing this?” moments we want to chase this year.
👉 We talk a
Ep 79: Ho Ho... How to Get Your Girl to Swing (And Not F*ck It Up)
🎅🏻 So… you’re curious about swinging. But your partner? Not exactly.
👉 In this special holiday episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo break down how to actually bring up the swinger lifestyle without making it weird, blowing up the relationship, or sounding like you’re just trying to bang other people. (Spoiler: “We should go on an adventure together” works
Ep 78: Swinger Discretion: How Not to Get Caught (Sex, Lies & Alibis)
🕵🏻♀️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo break down one of the most underrated skills in the swinger lifestyle: discretion and how not to get caught.
👉 Living a swinger double life is one thing - living it without getting caught is another. We dive into the real-world privacy mistakes that expose swingers fast: burner phones, locked screens, fak
Ep 77: Swinger Thanksgiving: Celebrating 2 Wild Years in the Lifestyle
🦃 It’s our swinger Thanksgiving special, and we’re serving gratitude with a side of slutty stuffing.
👉 In this special Thanksgiving episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo Kat & Leo emerge from their 2-year swingermoon to give thanks for everything the swinger lifestyle has brought into their lives.
👉 From discussing DP over brunch to sweet tea in a play
Ep 76: First Full Swap - Couple Swap Virginity Lost in Vegas
🍒 In the swinger lifestyle, there’s soft swap… and then there’s full swap. And guess what? We finally did it. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — Kat & Leo cross the line and become a full swap couple… in Vegas, baby.
👉 That’s right - after 2 years of soft swapping, gerrymandering, emotional spirals, flirting, and horny hesitat
Ep 75: Jealousy, Mindf*cks, and Wait… Did Leo Just Have Lesbian Sex?
💚 Jealousy, the uninvited plus-one that shows up at every swinger party sooner or later. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo dive deep into one of the most uncomfortable but universal parts of swinging: jealousy in the swinger lifestyle.
👉 We’re breaking down how to navigate jealousy in the swinger lifestyle, how it shows up in unexpected ways (l
Ep 74: Plush’s Flesh & Fantasy Ball - Kat Does P0rn (Boy, Was It Worth the Wait)
🎃 The MFM drought is officially DEAD and spooky season brought us the sexiest resurrection.
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we hit the road for a Halloween swingermoon through LA and Palm Springs, ending (on a total whim) at the Plush Flesh & Fantasy Ball. Dressed to impress as a football player and a schoolgirl, our Sextober kickoff was high-octane
Ep 73: 3Fun vs Feeld – Which App Is Best for Swingers & Threesomes?
🔥 The dating app chaos is real - especially in the world the swinger and ENM lifestyle. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re breaking down two of the most talked-about open-minded dating apps: Feeld vs 3Fun.
👉 If you’ve ever found yourself swiping through a sea of blurry selfies, cryptic bios, and “just exploring” couples who ghost faster than they match
Ep 72: Playroom Virgins? Surviving Your First Swinger Club Playroom
🍑 So you’ve made it past the swinger club door, stripped down to your sexiest (or skimpiest) outfit… now what? In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we walk you through the wild, unspoken world of swinger club playrooms - how to go from flirting to f*cking and everything in between.
We’re talking:
💋 How to go from polite conversation to parallel play
💃 Why your
Ep 71: Plush Hollywood Mansion Swinger Party - Swing and a Miss
⚾️ Live from Vegas - yep, still 0-for-everything. Another swing and a miss in Sin City, and a strikeout the weekend before at Plush LA. Our MFM drought is real, but so is our resilience (and our road trip playlist).
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re talking about both weekends - starting with our 6-hour dash to LA for a 14,000-square-foot swinger man
Ep 70: Plush Dirty Vegas Review - 1200 Swingers Gone Wild in Sin City
🎲 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we spill all the tea on Plush Parties’ wildest event: Dirty Vegas, a full hotel takeover that brought 1200+ swingers to Sin City. We’re talking EDM-fueled chaos, zero-nudity pool parties, sparkly costumes, and — wait for it — no actual playrooms. Yep. None.
👉 But even with the weird logistics, Plush throws a damn good part
Ep 69: From Soft Swap to Full Swap – Our Wildest Episode Yet
🍒 Talking a mile a minute on too little sleep and a whole lotta NRE, we’re finally ready to share what happened. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo finally spill the tea on what happened the night everything changed.
👉 After 2 years of toe-dipping and rule-bending, and soft swap gerrymandering… something shifted. Things escalated. Lines blurred.
Ep 68: New to Swinging? Here's How Not to Suck
🗺️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re giving you a brutally honest, wildly helpful swinging 101 guide for lifestyle newbies.
👉 Join Kat & Leo as we break down everything we wish we knew at the start - why communication is your real superpower, how to set boundaries before play, and why starting with a threesome might be smarter than jumping straight
Ep 67: Fair Is Fair... Why Compersion Only Goes So Far
👀 “You had your threesome, now it’s my turn!” Sound familiar? Let’s talk about the myth of keeping it even in the lifestyle.
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into the messy, emotional minefield of scorekeeping in non-monogamy. Kat & Leo unpack why fair doesn’t always mean 50/50, how compersion and jealousy can exist in the same night, and
Ep 66: Hot Takes from the Lifestyle - Swinging's Dirty Little Secrets
🌶️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — join Kat & Leo as they dish some of the hottest takes of the lifestyle. These are the hot, messy, slightly savage truths about the swinger lifestyle - the kind you only admit after 3 tequila shots or mid-cuddle puddle when your guard’s down.
👉 Some takes will have you spitting out your champagne. Some will have you no
Ep 65: Dirty Bucket List - Filthy Fantasies We May or May Not Have
🙈 We’re not talking “have sex in a hot tub” basic.In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we dive headfirst into the Ultimate Dirty Bucket List: your filthiest, freakiest, most no-holds-barred wishlist of sexual experiences. Some are fantasies. Some are goals. Some are hard no’s. And some... we’ve already checked off. Oops.
👉 But don’t worry - this list isn’t just
Ep 64: Naughty N’awlins F*ck-It List - Go Hard or Go Home, Part 2
🎺 New to Naughty N’awlins? Or just want to level up your sexy strategy? We’ve got you.
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re giving you the ultimate Naughty N’awlins checklist: what to pack, where to party, and how to actually get laid (instead of just collecting slut cards and compliments). From Bourbon St bar takeovers, seminars, and theme nights to pl
Ep 63: Naughty N’awlins Review 2025 - Is It Really Worth the Hype? Part 1
⚜️ We didn’t expect to fall so hard… but Naughty N’awlins swept us off our feet. Now we’re only left wondering, "Why isn’t this twice a year?!"
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into our full review of Naughty N’awlins 2025, the wildest swinger takeover in the U.S. From rooftop pool chaos and foam parties to sexy seminars and jaw-dropping play
Ep 62: So You Met a Unicorn - Don’t F*ck It Up
🦄 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving deep into the wild world of unicorns. You know, those elusive single females in the lifestyle who actually want to play with couples.
👉 Unicorns are real. We used to think they were mythical creatures—rare, wild, and only spotted once in a swinger’s lifetime. But surprise: one fell into our lap 10 months ago.
Ep 61: Why the Lifestyle Sucks - From NRE to WTF?!?!!
😩 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re pulling back the satin sheets and getting real about the moments that made us question everything.
👉 From the dizzying highs of new-relationship energy to the crushing lows of ghosting, jealousy, and emotional spirals, Kat & Leo share the darker side of the lifestyle rollercoaster - because for every hot night of
Ep 60: Feeld Review - The Horny Dating App for Threesomes, Couples & Unicorns
📱 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving headfirst into Feeld, the kinky little dating app made for threesomes, couples, and curious unicorns.
👉 After 6 chaotic months on Feeld, we’ve got the inside scoop: the highs, the flops, and the hookups worth writing home (or podcasting) about. From profile setup hacks to decoding Desires tags, we’re breaking
Ep 59: Boo! You Got Ghosted - How to Handle Ghosting Like a Pro
👻 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re talking ghosting. Yep, it even happens to us.
👉 From sudden silence to disappearing unicorns, we’re spilling the tea on all the ghosting oofs that left us dazed, confused, and maybe a little emotionally hungover. Ghosting isn’t just for newbies—whether you’ve been in the lifestyle for one week or one year, it still s
Ep 58: Single Male Bible - How to Find (or Be) a Manicorn
😈 Kat’s riding a wave of MFM-induced euphoria—NRE blazing through her veins like a damn wildfire—and she’s talking a mile a minute. Fresh off her most perfect threesome (yes, even rivaling Italian Edward 😏), she and Leo unveil The Single Male Bible.
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re talking threesomes, manicorns, and the holy grail of MFM bliss. Whethe
Ep 57: Kasidie Review - Good, Bad, and Ugly of This Swinger App
💋💻 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're giving you a complete Kasidie review. We spent months deep in the trenches of Kasidie - flirting, playing, passing, and collecting validations like Black Friday shoppers grabbing TVs in a brawl.
We spill the unfiltered tea on what it’s like to actually use one of the OG swinger platforms in 2025 - and give you tips
Ep 56: Swipe Right! Swinger App Do’s, Don’ts & Dealbreakers
📱 Ready to swipe, match, and maybe even moan?
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving headfirst into the wild world of swinger dating apps. Navigating SLS, SDC, Feeld, Kasidie, and 3Fun isn't for the faint of thong, but we’ve got you covered with a flirty, honest overview of each one.
From bios that actually get replies to pics that scream playdate ma
Ep 55: Couples vs Singles - Threesomes, Foursomes & Facepalms
🥊 It’s the lifestyle debate that never dies — and in this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving headfirst into the age-old battle of couples vs. singles. Kat & Leo break down the mindset differences between solo swingers and paired-up players, from unicorns and bulls to hotwife dynamics and full-swap couple chaos.
We’re talking threesomes, foursomes, vi
Ep 54: Bliss Cruise Review 2025 (Part 2) - Smuggled Booze, Bent the Rules, Tips You Can Use
🏴☠ Yo Ho Ho and a bottle of rum! What do sunscreen bottles, secret bladder flasks, and a suspiciously full shampoo container have in common?
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re back with Part 2 of our Bliss Cruise 2025 recap, diving into the art of smuggling booze, bending the rules, and turning your naughty vacation into a truly unforgettable escape.
W
Ep 53: Bliss Cruise Review 2025 (Part 1) - What Worked, What Flopped, What Got Us Naked
⚓ New owners, new app, and a whole lot of new ways to end up in someone else’s bed. Isn’t that what it’s all about?!
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we kick off Part 1 of our juicy Bliss Cruise 2025 recap. Yep, it’s our third Bliss in a row (sluttons, and proud), and we’re spilling the sexy tea on what changed, what flopped, and what had us screaming “Fine
Ep 52: Swinger Boundaries - Rules, Vetoes and Where to Bust a Nut
🛑 So you’re thinking about swinging… but what are the actual rules? Do you kiss? Do you cuddle? Can he finish on her chest, in her mouth or none of the above?
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re talking rules, limits, and the kinda sexy fine print no one tells you about. Think of it as your pre-game pep talk: condoms, safe words, “don’t choke me,” and ho
Ep 51: Limp D!cks in the Lifestyle - It's About to GO DOWN!!
🍆 Is there a limp d!ck epidemic sweeping the lifestyle?
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving headfirst into the one thing nobody wants to talk about… but everyone’s secretly Googled. Yep, we’re talking about erectile dysfunction.
And guess what? It’s not just older guys. From baby-faced 22-year-old studs to rugged 33-year-old firemen who literally
Ep 50: MFF Threesomes - How to Capture Real Unicorn Magic
🦄 Ah, the unicorn - magical, mythical, and the star of every red-blooded man’s fantasy since time before time - the elusive, electric MFF threesome. Especially when both women are also into each other. 🔥 It also happens to be Leo’s personal favorite fantasy. If he had it his way, we’d record this episode live from a pile of tangled limbs, giggles, and glitter.... an MFFFF if he could have his way.
Ep 49: MFM Threesomes - How to Make Her the Star
⭐ What’s hotter than one man’s attention? Try two - with all eyes, hands, mouths (and more) on you. You're not alone.
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving deep into the world of MFM threesomes where all the attention is on her. Whether you're exploring an MFM soft swap for the first time or curious about a no-holds-barred hotwife fantasy, this is y
Ep 48: Swinger Pet Peeves (And How to Avoid Them)
🐈 Ever rolled your eyes at yet another Glow party? In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo are getting hilariously real about the stuff that drives swingers crazy. From overpriced club nights to pushy partiers, awkward etiquette fails, and the infamous “bi-for-my-guy” dilemma, we're airing out the most common complaints in the lifestyle.
You’ll learn
Ep 47: Amsterdam After Dark - Red Light District Sexy Secrets Revealed
❌❌❌ Grab your stilettos and step into Amsterdam’s Red Light District with us! This is our pre-pre-pre lifestyle ORIGIN story—before we even knew what “the lifestyle” meant, we were already amping up our sexy fun in the neon-lit streets of Amsterdam.
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re spilling all the scandalous details from steamy live sex shows at Casa
Ep 46: Kiss 'n' Tell Our Swingermoon - The Honeymoon of Swinging
💋 While we rarely Kiss ‘n Tell, it’s time to spill the tea on our wildest swinger chapter yet—our Swingermoon.
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we talk about riding the double helix of alternating threesomes MFM-MFF-MFM-MFF (because balance is key, right?) to speedrunning the Swingermoon, that wild, intoxicating first 2 years honeymoon phase of swinging whe
Ep 45: Swinging Rookie Mistakes - Wish I Knew Then What I Know Now
🏏 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into all the sh*t we wish we knew before we started swinging. From rookie mistakes to WTF moments, Kat & Leo break down how to navigate the wild world of ethical non-monogamy without losing your mind (or your partner). Plus, Kat has thoughts on why a threesome should never turn into a foursome… foreshadow
Ep 44: Twist SF Review - San Francisco's Swinger Club
🚋 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re taking you inside Twist SF, San Francisco’s only swinger club and our local home club. From newbie yoga to couples only nights, it's the spot for newbies!
Plus we take a super quick sneak peek into Power Exchange, San Francisco’s sleaziest, anything-goes sex club (definitely not for the faint of heart!), where oddly
Ep 43: MFM or MFF? Why We Love Threesomes - Ménage à Trois, Yee-Haw!
🤠 New year, new us? Nah - new year, same freaky us... but turned ALL the way up!
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re kicking off the new year with a wild ride through our favorite dynamic: threesomes. What better way to ring in the new year than with a sizzling double helix of threesomes? That’s right—MFF, MFM, MFF, MFM—back and forth, back and forth—lik
Ep 42: Le Mask Paris Review – Our Naughty Paris Origin Story
🗼 Oh la la, baby! This is THE ONE—the club that started it all, the aha moment, the night we dipped our toes (and maybe more) into the world of swinging!
In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we take you straight to Le Mask, the seductive Paris swinger club where our journey into the lifestyle began. The energy was electric, the mystery intoxicating, and the Fre
Ep 41: You Might Be a Swinger If... Top Signs You Swing
🏌 Ever caught yourself giggling at a foursome joke on the golf course? Does your closet have more theme outfits than regular clothes? If so… you just might be a swinger!
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — join Kat & Leo for a hilarious, no-holds-barred deep dive into the funniest, most outrageous signs you’re in the lifestyle—Jeff Foxworthy style!
👉 Fro
Ep 40: Hooked on Swinging, High on NRE (New Relationship Energy)
✨ New Relationship Energy? It’s one helluva drug and probably why we are all swinging! One hit and you’re obsessed - texting like a lunatic, floating on dopamine, and barely keeping your pants on. But here’s the kicker what goes up must come down like a rollercoaster!
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo spill all the sizzling, scandalous, and
Ep 39: 9-to-5 Paradox – When the Wife’s a 10 and the Husband’s... Not
🤦🏻♀️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers, Kat & Leo dive into some of most frustrating (and hilariously relatable) challenges in the lifestyle.
👉 From the fit, fabulous, and insufferably picky—those who seem to treat swinging like an exclusive VIP club, leaving everyone else rolling their eyes... to the notorious 9-to-5 dilemma, where finding a well-matched couple feels like a treasure hunt,
Ep 38: Scarlet Ranch Review - Mile-High Mischief in Denver
🏞️ Ready for some mile-high mischief? In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into one of the sexiest, most luxurious lifestyle clubs in the U.S. - Scarlet Ranch in Denver.
👉 We're dishing about it all - the upscale lodge vibes, sexy crowd, and luxurious playrooms to that giant teepee, flirty Sexy Jenga, and even those voyeur-friendly glass-walled sho
Ep 37: Why I Love Swinging - Top 10 Benefits of the Lifestyle
💖 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo are celebrating one full year of consistent playtime in the lifestyle, and whew… it’s been a ride. A sexy, hilarious, deeply connected ride.
👉 Sure, the sexy fun is amazing (hello, fantasies coming true!), but swinging is so much more than just steamy nights. From communication that’s next level (no secrets,
Ep 36: Swipe Left - Red Flags in the Lifestyle That Scream Run!
🚩 HAPPY NEW YEAR!! It’s the end of our first full year in the lifestyle—2024 is closing out, and we’re already wondering: what will 2025 have in store for us?
👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re spilling the tea on red flags that scream, run, don’t walk! From pushy players to couples who act like they’re auditioning for drama club, we’re calling it lik
Ep 35: Mon Chalet Review - Doubling Down with a Pair of Threesomes
👨👧👧 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re giving you the uncensored lowdown on Denver’s steamiest swinger hotel: Mon Chalet. This motel-meets-adult-playground is straight out of a 70s porn set, with mirrors on the walls and ceiling, seductive lighting, a sex swing, a whirlpool built for three, and a love chair made specifically for oral pleasure - perfec
Ep 34: Ultimate Trapeze Club Review - South Florida After Dark
🌴 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into Trapeze Fort Lauderdale, hyped as one of the top swinger clubs in the U.S. - is it really worth the buzz (and the price)?
👉 Four visits later, we’ve seen it all: a sixsome, a wife poach, and even a hotwife twist. From the packed dance floor to the grabby single-dude vibe (and let’s not forget the buffet),
Ep 33: Bliss Cruise Review (Part 3) - April vs. November: Which Should You Book?
⚓ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo are wrapping up their Bliss Cruise review trilogy with the ultimate showdown: April vs. November sailings. Which cruise is hotter? Which one’s cheaper? Which crowd vibes harder? We’ve got answers.
👉 We’re calling out all the drama—because let’s be real, keyboard warriors have A LOT to say. From those gasp pla
Ep 32: Bliss Cruise Tips: 10 Pro Hacks for the Best Swinger Cruise Ever (Part 2)
🚢 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo are back with Part 2 of our Bliss Cruise review, sharing our Top 10 Pro Tips to make your swinger cruise unforgettable. With 6,600 swingers on board, it’s easy to get overwhelmed - but not on our watch.
👉 From embarkation day hacks to dining options, theme night secrets (yes, you must do them!), and strategie
Ep 31: Bliss Cruise Review (Part 1): Unleashing Our Wild Unicorn
🚢 We’re baaaack! In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo kick off their 3-part Bliss Cruise review series with Part 1: a juicy, unfiltered look at what it’s really like on board a floating swinger city with 6,600 hedonistic humans. Buckle up, because this trip had wild unicorn magic, laugh-till-you-cry moments, and—yep—even a few middle school dance
Ep 30: Ready to Swing? Take the Mojo Sex Quiz with Kat & Leo
🔞 Ever wondered if your partner’s ready to swing, or if their idea of “kinky” is just adding caramel drizzle to dessert? 🥴 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo take the Mojo Upgrade quiz live and unfiltered to find out just how aligned (or hilariously mismatched) they are in the bedroom.
👉 Whether you're just dipping your toe into non-monogamy or
Ep 29: Friction Hotel Takeover - Red-Hot Sexcapades and Wild Debauchery
🛏️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo dish the red-hot recap of our first-ever hotel takeover: Friction in North Carolina!
👉 From dancing in the lobby to 4th-floor orgies until 5:30am, this weekend was straight-up debauched. Unlike clubs, there’s no closing time—and unlike cruises, this one’s a steal. We’re talking non-stop play, room-hopping, a
Ep 28: Unicorn Magic - Threesome or Throuple?
🦄🌈 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we dive headfirst into the glittery chaos of unicorns, FFM threesomes, and that delicious “are-we-a-throuple-now?” energy.
👉 What started as casual play turned into something deeper—and wilder. We’re talking unicorn sleepovers, a three-night Vegas adventure, and even hosting her in our own home. This episode unpacks how
Ep 27: When in Rome - Swingers 69 Club Review
🏛️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we step inside Swingers 69, Rome’s most seductive, secretive club where Gothic erotica meets Roman debauchery. Think haunted mansion vibes, velvet chairs, Victorian mirrors, and a red-lit glow that makes everyone look like a vampire in heat.
👉 Whether you’re into cozy voyeur nooks or open play areas, Swingers 69 is where
Ep 26: Sex, Drugs & Rock ’n Roll - The Real Truth About Drugs in Swinging
💊 Get ready, because we're taking you on a wild ride through the world of drugs in the lifestyle! In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo dive headfirst into the wild world of drugs in the lifestyle.
👉 From the smooth sips of liquid courage (alcohol) to the occasional hit of wacky weed, and even some harder substances, we're laying out exactly what y
Ep 25: Steamy Nights in Stilettos - Paris’ Les Chandelles Review
👠 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo take you behind the velvet rope of Les Chandelles, Paris’ most exclusive lifestyle club.
👉 Behind the velvet ropes, we found a breathtaking venue that lives up to its reputation—so much so that it's worth investing in those stiletto heels you've been eyeing. While it's not all supermodels and celebrities, the
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