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The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy 192 Episodes Oct 3, 2026

The Female Dating Strategy podcast, hosted by Patricia and Rose, offers a raw and unfiltered take on dating, relationships, sex, pop culture, and politics. The show aims to empower women by providing strategic advice and social commentary, often with a critical view of modern dating dynamics. It is based on the online community of the same name, which has been described as a 'mean female-only place on the internet.' Listeners can expect discussions that dissect societal norms and encourage personal growth.

Episodes

Listener Guest Reina: Against Chill, For Vulnerability
Listener Guest Reina: Against Chill, For Vulnerability Oct 3, 2026 3049 FDS queens are not chill. Patricia is joined by our listener Raina to bury the idea of being "pathetic", center our desires and hold tight to our standards. Its pretty feel-good. Wanna co-host with us? Email us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comLove you queens
Sarah Says
Sarah Says Sep 19, 2026 3390 Guest host Sarah joins Rose in a freewheeling discussion about alllllll the ways women are told to shrink, dismiss, and ignore how patriarchy instructs us to settle and date down. Affirmative action for men in real time - Sarah and Rose tick through the boxes they've broken out of and how they orient themselves to successfully value themselves in the dating realm.
Listener guest Anne-Sophie: Interracial Dating, Reality TV, and My FDS Journey
Listener guest Anne-Sophie: Interracial Dating, Reality TV, and My FDS Journey Sep 4, 2026 3646 Guest host Anne-Sophie joins Rose to discuss the lessons learned from the reality tv show Summerhouse and Ciara Miller: how her charisma elevated her platform on the series, and how FDS queens might learn from her dating strategy to navigate their own. Join in to learn what we can learn about friendships and racial/class differences from reality tv.Wanna co-host with us? Email us at contact@thefem
Whatever You Do, People Will Have a Million Opinions
Whatever You Do, People Will Have a Million Opinions Aug 16, 2026 2664 How to exist in a world where our worth is always someone else's concern? How to stay true to yourself when seemingly your environment judges and assigns value to every action you take, the way you present in the world, your clothes, your body language? Should we even care?We delve into self/identity as a woman and human being, and how we fully embody our selves in the face of non-stop criticism a
Summer Break
Summer Break Jul 11, 2026 31 Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!
The Secret Palermo Bodega: a Simile For a (slightly) Open Heart
The Secret Palermo Bodega: a Simile For a (slightly) Open Heart Jun 26, 2026 3676 We explore a useful metaphor for an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.
A Pocket Full of Maybes
A Pocket Full of Maybes Jun 13, 2026 3956 Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies applyWhat does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!Are you int
Freeze, Flight, Faun. Are There Better Options?
Freeze, Flight, Faun. Are There Better Options? May 30, 2026 3601 What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest."Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link from the Journal of Interpersonal ViolenceThich Nhat Hanh y
The Not-Dating Female Strategy
The Not-Dating Female Strategy May 12, 2026 3101 Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyoneLet us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comLove you queens! Scro
A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About?
A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About? May 1, 2026 137 Let us know!contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comlove u, see you next week
The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah
The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah Apr 21, 2026 3294 FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: cont
Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes'
Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes' Apr 4, 2026 3479 Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com 

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