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The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy 192 episodes Latest May 30, 2026

The Female Dating Strategy podcast, hosted by Patricia and Rose, offers a raw and unfiltered take on dating, relationships, sex, pop culture, and politics. The show aims to empower women by providing strategic advice and social commentary, often with a critical view of modern dating dynamics. It is based on the online community of the same name, which has been described as a 'mean female-only place on the internet.' Listeners can expect discussions that dissect societal norms and encourage personal growth.

Episodes

The Four F's: FDS Strategies to Survive and Thrive May 30, 2026 3601 What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest."Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link from the Journal of Interpersonal ViolenceThich Nhat Hanh y
The Not-Dating Female Strategy May 12, 2026 3101 Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyoneLet us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comLove you queens! Scro
A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About? May 1, 2026 137 Let us know!contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comlove u, see you next week
The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah Apr 21, 2026 3294 FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: cont
Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes' Apr 4, 2026 3479 Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com 
My Kink is Shaming Mar 21, 2026 3548 In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should  FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?Share
Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings Mar 14, 2026 3579 Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic Join the conversation by commenting on SpotifyAlso, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡
Let's Talk About Sex! Feb 20, 2026 3169 Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.
A Sobering Tale: Rose's Journey to Sobriety Feb 9, 2026 3242 In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS. Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026🎙️ Episode Resources & Links📘 Free Download – FDS HandbookLevel up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.👉 Download here💖 Support the PodcastLike what you hear? Help us keep the
Should You Play Games? Taking FDS Principles to Heart Jan 25, 2026 3147 Rose and Patricia delve into the timeless question: should you play games? In the ensuing discussion, they find answers that underline how important FDS principles are in ensuring a healthy approach to dating and life.Would you like to share a Queen Level-Up Story? Or a roast-a-scrote tale? Write us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com
What Is FDS: Rekindling The Communal Flame Jan 10, 2026 2646 Welcome back, queens! We are hyped and honored to kick-start the new era of FDS, and we hope to bring back the liveliness and zest of the OG days. We shall do our bestBuckle up for the first episode of the year. We are going to publish every other week and make sure we are consistent before getting back to weekly episodes, and ultimately open the subscriber-only content back up. As we shared
Savanna's Swan Song Jan 3, 2026 1044 Join the FDS hosts as they fete and say a bittersweet goodbye to the GOAT: Savannah, OG FDS Queen! We discuss her plans, the State of the Pod, and the goals for FDS in 2026!

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