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The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy 192 Episodes Aug 16, 2026

The Female Dating Strategy podcast, hosted by Patricia and Rose, offers a raw and unfiltered take on dating, relationships, sex, pop culture, and politics. The show aims to empower women by providing strategic advice and social commentary, often with a critical view of modern dating dynamics. It is based on the online community of the same name, which has been described as a 'mean female-only place on the internet.' Listeners can expect discussions that dissect societal norms and encourage personal growth.

Episodes

No Matter What, People Will Always Have an Opinion
No Matter What, People Will Always Have an Opinion Aug 16, 2026 2664 Patricia brings another fascinating topic to the table as the Queens return from summer break to resume FDS talk time! In this episode, we delve into self/identity as a woman and human being, and how we fully embody our selves in the face of non-stop criticism and ceaseless attention.
Summer Break
Summer Break Jul 11, 2026 31 Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!
The Secret Palermo Bodega
The Secret Palermo Bodega Jun 26, 2026 3676 Patricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.
A Pocket Full of Maybes
A Pocket Full of Maybes Jun 13, 2026 3956 Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies applyWhat does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!Are you int
Freeze, Flight, Faun. Are There Better Options?
Freeze, Flight, Faun. Are There Better Options? May 30, 2026 3601 What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest."Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link from the Journal of Interpersonal ViolenceThich Nhat Hanh y
The Not-Dating Female Strategy
The Not-Dating Female Strategy May 12, 2026 3101 Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyoneLet us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comLove you queens! Scro
A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About?
A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About? May 1, 2026 137 Let us know!contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comlove u, see you next week
The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah
The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah Apr 21, 2026 3294 FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: cont
Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes'
Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes' Apr 4, 2026 3479 Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com 
My Kink is Shaming
My Kink is Shaming Mar 21, 2026 3548 In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should  FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?Share
Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings
Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings Mar 14, 2026 3579 Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic Join the conversation by commenting on SpotifyAlso, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡
You Are Entitled to Sexual Attraction
You Are Entitled to Sexual Attraction Feb 20, 2026 3169 Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.

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