THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE
Kate & Liam, a happily married bisexual couple who are chronic overthinkers, share their personal experiences with non-monogamy. They discuss the challenges and joys of navigating an open relationship, offering insights and candid conversations about love, commitment, and alternative lifestyles.
Episodes
S5 Ep. 06: Is Kate a Lesbian?
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the possibility that Kate has been living inauthentically for almost her whole life, with far reaching implications.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www
S5 Ep. 05: Aging in the Lifestyle
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the intersecting topics of age and attraction in light of their 15 year age difference.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-
S5 Ep. 04: Oral Pleasure for Women
In this episode, Kate interviews an anatomy professor on the subject of cunnilingus.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-badPodcast-a-Palooza -- https://libert
S5 Ep. 03: Heated Rivalry
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the hit show 'Heated Rivalry'. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-badPodcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertin
S5 Ep. 02: European Adventures (Summer 2025)
In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their sexy summer trips to Greece, Portugal, France & Italy.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-badPodcast-a-P
S5 Ep. 01: Does Size Really Matter?
In this episode, Kate & Liam address that timeless question: does size really matter? Spoiler alert -- it totally does!Support the show
S4 Ep. 09: Erotic Blueprint
In this episode, Kate discusses with therapist & coach Catherine of Expansive Connection how to better understand our sexual preferences.www.ExpansiveConnection.comFind all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreatOther Great Lifestyle Travel Optio
S4 Ep. 08: Disappearing Libido
Is it possible to be having the best sex of your life when you're having a whole lot less of it?Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreatOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty
S4 Ep. 07: What Women Want
In this episode, Kate describes the sexy times that transpired at her women's retreat in April 2025.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreatOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Nau
S4 Ep. 06: Our ONLY FANS Experiment (Part 2)
In this episode, Kate & Liam tell the crazy story of their recent content creation weekend in Florida.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreatOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/N
S4 Ep. 05: Sex & Personality
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss where they fit in two different personality typing frameworks -- the Enneagram and the Erotic Blueprint. Find out more about both of these at https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ and https://www.https://missjaiya.com/ Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.comWomen's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/women
S4 Ep. 04: No Boys Allowed
In this episode, Kate talks about her night at a Women's Only Party.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.comWomen's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-badPodcast-a-Palooza
S4 Ep. 03: Summer Sex Party
In this episode, Kate & Liam finally get around to discussing their backyard get-together from the summer of 2024!To hear a separate discussion of the same event as seen through different eyes, check out Loq and Tryst's fascinating discussion on YouTube!https://www.youtube.com/live/4k6bOHWeT5k?si=j6aiRMj8tLyhg8TnFind all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.Sap
S4 Ep. 02: Sacred Sexuality
In this episode, part of Kate's occasional series called "Bad Ass Women of the Lifestyle," she interviews Lauren Hayes, non-monogamous relationship coach and host of the podcast "The Examined Lives of MormonWives," and her friend Bri, a former LDS church member. Together, Lauren and Bri founded the women's support group "Sacred Sluts" to help women break fre
S4 Ep. 01: European Adventures (Summer 2024)
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the highlights (and occasional lowlights) of their summer lifestyle travel adventures.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-badPodcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineeve
S3 Ep. 09: The Bareback Episode
In this episode, Kate and Liam question what often seems like the ultimate swinger taboo. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-badPodcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/Room 77 -- https://room77life.c
S3 Ep. 08: Asking For What You Want
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired -- in the Lifestyle.Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-badPodcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/Room 77 --
S3 Ep 07: Sex & Drugs
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives.Travel with us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-
S3 Ep. 06: Every Body's Welcome
Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle.LinksCara's Websitehttps://www.thepushfitness.com/Kate's Women's Retreat webpagehttps://sapiotours.com/womens-retreatAll Kate's Linkshttps://katemonogamish.com/my-linksThe Monogamish Marriage Bloghttps://themonogamishmarriage.com/Support the show
S3 Ep. 05: Orgies
In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard.Show LinksEmail us: The MonogamishMarriage@gmail.comSupport us: www.patreon.com/Kate_and_LiamTravel with us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/Room 77 -- https://room77l
S3 Ep. 04: Self-Compassion -- Inner Parts Work with Relationship Coach Catherine
Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring.Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retr
S3 Ep. 03: Online Dating (Part 2)
Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!). Kate dishes about her sexy -- and not so sexy -- dates with both men and women, including one that goes very wrong (trigger: SA). Liam reports back on the dates with women he met on two additional dating sites, and lets us know how all hi
S3 Ep. 02: Online Dating (Part 1)
In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings. Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications.Links:Sapio ToursSmall Group Eur
S3 Ep. 01: Lifestyle Travel Stories
Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023. Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at https://SapioTours.comIf you're
S2 Ep. 08: Boundaries - The Multiamory Interview
In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,,https://www.multiamory.com/Support the show
S2 Ep. 07: Fantasies
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami.https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QRhLdb7aV7fIlHscBugXf?si=R1wqLreLQD2sbei-ffqpewNever have Kate & Liam shared so explicitly about their practices between the sheets as they do here!Support the show
S2 Ep. 06: Betrayal
This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman. A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree. Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual under
S2 Ep. 05: Coming Out To Our Families
In this episode, Kate & Liam explore a paradox: why do non-monogamous people go to such extreme lengths to keep their lifestyle a secret when it enriches their lives so much? Support the show
S2 Ep. 04: Erections
In this episode, Liam tells the story of his erection struggles in group sex situations, and how he eventually conquered them. Let's just say that Kate is deeply worried.Important Links:Support us on Patreon... https://Patreon.com/kate_and_liamHypnotism... https://www.sanfranciscohypnotherapy.com/Naughty Gym Adventure Travel... https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-adventure-tripsRoo
S2 Ep. 03: Our ONLY FANS Experiment
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss in their usual frank way the ups and downs of their experience as Only Fans creators.IMPORTANT LINKS Kate's Only Fans https://onlyfans.com/katemonogamishLiam's Only Fans https://onlyfans.com/liam_landon Kate & Liam's New Travel Group https://SapioTours.comSome other excellent Only Fans accounts mentioned in this episode:Andi's Onl
S2 Ep. 02: Rachel Krantz Interview
Kate interviews Rachel Krantz, journalist and author of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy. They discuss the gaslighting, coercion, and jealousy Rachel experienced in her first open relationship, and some of the uncomfortable parallels Kate noticed between Rachel’s story and her own. Get Rachel’s book Open wherever you buy books, and check out her podcast ‘Help Existi
S2 Ep. 01: Group Vs. Solo Play
In this episode, the first of the second season, Kate & Liam recount their adventures since the end of Season One. In doing so, they notice a pattern: while Liam enjoys solo play, Kate is at her best in group situations. These differences lead to moments of both great pleasure and extreme discomfort, which they explore in the typically 'no holds barred' Monogamish Marriage style.Lin
S1 Ep. 11: Lifestyle Vacations
This episode starts with face-off between Hedonism in Jamaica and Desire in Mexico, before discussing other possibilities for getting away with like-minded people. To join us at Podcast-A-Palooza in Palm Springs in June 2022, click here.To join us at Room 77's Summer Bang in Antigua, click here.Several other excellent podcasts are referenced in this episode, including : The Black N Kinky Life
S1 Ep. 10: Dating Separately (Part 3)
Kate & Liam find their way to a shared understanding after weeks of stress over Liam's desire to date separately.Support the show
S1 Ep. 9: Dating Separately (Part 2)
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss his date with Kaitlyn, and dealing with the aftershocks.Links:Polysecure by Jessica Fernhttps://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987/ref=sr_1_1?crid=KONFU1LBLUE9&keywords=polysecure&qid=1647317479&sprefix=polysecure%2Caps%2C88&sr=8-1Coaching in Non-Monogamyhttps://www.ExpansiveConnection.comSupport
S1 Ep. 8: Dating Separately (Part 1)
Liam and Kate work through some challenging emotions in advance of Liam's first solo date with another woman. Support the show
S1 Ep. 7: Body Image
In this special episode, Kate talks one-on-one with her girlfriend April about their lifelong struggles with self-acceptance. LinksNaughty Gym's Montana Adventure - May 7-11, 2022https://www.naughtygym.com/adventure-travelWanderlust Swinger's Podcast-A-Palooza Palm Springs - June 3-6, 2022https://podcast-a-palooza.com/MonogamishRoom 77's Summer Bang in Antigua - July 29-August 5, 20
S1 Ep. 6: Jealousy
Is jealousy the biggest source of conflict in the lifestyle, or is it somehow a gift? Or both? In this episode of The Monogamish Marriage podcast, Kate & Liam cover all the angles and reach some unexpected conclusions.Join them for 3 days at PODCAST-A-PALOOZA 2022 in Palm Springs (June 3-6)https://podcast-a-palooza.com/MonogamishOr for 7 days at SUMMER BANG 2022 in Antigua (July 29-August 5)ht
S1 Ep. 5: Pornography
All those pictures and videos we put online -- are they pornography? Does it matter if the answer is yes?Check out our blog at www.TheMonogamishMarriage.comJoin us at Podcast-A-Palooza Palm Springs, June 3-6, 2022:https://podcast-a-palooza.com/Join us at Room 77's Antigua Hotel Takeover, July 29 - August 5, 2022:https://room77life.com/travel/Support the show
S1 Ep. 4: Threesomes
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their early threesomes with her ex-boyfriend Derek. What could go wrong?Articles discussed in this show:Our First MFM Threesome: Part Onehttps://wp.me/p7bfUe-1UOur First MFM Threesome: Part Twohttps://wp.me/p7bfUe-1MOur MFM Experiment: Getting It Righthttps://wp.me/p7bfUe-1JThe Greatest Threesome in the History of the Worldhttps://wp.me/p7bfUe-1zThe Guarant
S1 Ep. 3: Bisexuality
In this episode, both Kate & Liam share stories and insights from their individual bisexual journeys. Nothing is held back -- but then again, you knew that!To join them at Podcast-a-Palooza Encore in Dallas, click here:https://podcast-a-palooza.com/To read any of the articles referred to in the podcast, click on the appropriate link below:: No Pain, No Gain: Pushing Boundarieshttps://wp.me/p7b
S1 Ep. 2: Hotwifing
In this episode, Liam & Kate discuss the subject of separate room play and Hotwifing, the practice of a woman dating other men with the enthusiastic support of her husband. This is not just a matter of casual interest to them, but an activity they have enjoyed personally. Below are links to individuals and articles mentioned in this podcast:Polyamory, Hotwifing, Open Relationships, and Everyth
S1 Ep. 1 Origins
In this, the first episode of The Monogamish Marriage Podcast, Kate & Liam tell the story of how they met, why they decided to be non-monogamous, and why they're starting a podcast.You can interact with them in a number of different ways:Blog -- www.TheMonogamishMarriage.comPatreon -- www.Patreon.com/TheMonogamishMarriage Twitter -- www.Twitter.com/Monogamish1Instagram -- https://instagra
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