Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Let's Talk - Goodbye For Now Jun 16, 2026 00:36:11 Let’s talk about… Love Island and why KC needs to leave my screen. Why arguing online is pointless once you remember how dumb the average person is. More nightmare dates, why you should NEVER give the ugly guy a chance, the craziest lies men have told women via Reddit, and why I’m pressing pause on the podcast this summer.. so this is our last episode for NOW </3See Privacy Policy at h

I F*cked the Mascot with Hannah Berner Jun 11, 2026 00:48:39 Hannah Berner is back and somehow we go from broken hands to broken men in record time. Hannah and Violet get into people-pleasing, dating addicts, dating sober men, falling in love with potential, and the embarrassing things we do when we're convinced a situationship is going somewhere. Plus: Hannah's skiing disaster, why crushes are sometimes better in your head, and several reasons nei

Let's Talk - June 9, 2026 Jun 9, 2026 00:41:35 Let’s talk about… a teacher getting 20 years in prison, why every high school bully grows up to either sell crypto or become a life coach, the scientific reason couples start looking related after 2 years together, Alex Cooper is pregnant and honestly... I took that personally.Let's also talk about... the fact I had a literal pdf file teacher in high school, how I accidentally ended up in

How Men Fall In Love Jun 4, 2026 00:29:36 Everyone thinks men fall in love because of chemistry. According to science? Not even close.Violet breaks down what actually makes a man go from interested to invested, why so many women accidentally sabotage the early stages of dating, and the biggest mistake people make when they confuse attraction with commitment. From the science of attachment to the psychology of pursuit, Violet expl

Let's Talk - June 2, 2026 Jun 2, 2026 00:30:48 Let’s talk about… what happened after my date from last week? Did he redeem himself? or did my ick grow stronger? Are we upgrading from enemies to lovers or taking a step back towards enemies to strangers? Tune in to part 2 to find out :)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

My Blind Date With an AI Billionaire | A Series of Unfortunate Events May 28, 2026 00:33:30 Violet is back with another Series of Unfortunate Events, and this time a blind date turns into one of the strangest nights of her life. There’s a driver, a bodyguard, a hopeless romantic billionaire, and an unforgettable conversation about AI that somehow makes modern dating feel even more depressing.Love may be blind.But apparently it also comes with a security detail, a free trip to Eu

Let's Talk - Euphoria (May 27,2026) May 27, 2026 00:37:40 Let’s talk about… how $1 gas station sushi may not be the vibe. That time I met God while fighting for my life in the bathroom at 14. How Off Campus made me realise I’ve been wearing the wrong bra size for 2 years. Then we get into Euphoria. What life lesson is Sam Levinson trying to teach us exactly? Don’t get buried alive? Don’t trust girls with n*zi tattoos? nice toes and a j

Let's Talk - May 26, 2026 May 26, 2026 00:30:24 Let’s talk about… my love for women, dating again, romanticising the past when you absolutely shouldn’t, and whether it’s a red flag if your new man makes your skin crawl every time he opens his mouth… or if that’s just love? At least in BookTok terms.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A Series Of Unfortunate Events - Coming To America May 21, 2026 00:34:12 Violet is back with another Series of Unfortunate Events, and this time she’s unpacking her “Coming to America” origin story. From her first deeply questionable attempt at fitting in, to the accessory that made her feel like the coolest Russian alive, to one night where being included maybe should’ve come with a warning label, this episode is peak Violet: embarrassing, unfiltered, and one

Let's Talk - May 20, 2026 May 20, 2026 00:22:46 Let’s talk about… my run-in with one of LA’s fakest influencers.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's Talk - May 19, 2026 May 19, 2026 00:35:40 Let’s talk about... being set with a matchmaker and going on my first date in FIVE months!!! Let’s also talk about, frail men, Alix Earle, low effort, and being someone’s worst first date.I recorded This weeks ago but forgot to post whoops.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Don’t Be His Placeholder - Benson Book Club May 14, 2026 00:34:31 Benson Book Club is back, and Violet is done protecting your delusion. This week, she breaks down Why Men Don’t Love Women Like You — from mixed signals and “taking it slow” to why girlfriend benefits do not mean girlfriend status. If he’s acting serious but still leaving you confused, this episode is your wake-up call: stop auditioning for a role he never actually offered you.G

Let's Talk - May 13, 2026 May 13, 2026 00:28:00 Let’s talk about… the 21-year-old college boy who made $43,000 in 30 days after building an AI OnlyFans girl with Claude code that literally flirts, messages, and makes money for him while he sleeps. Papa finding himself a new emotional support human besides my mum, and his lifelong vendetta against Spirit Airlines.Lastly, let’s talk about why Hunter Peterson’s “let’s buy Spirit Airlines

Let's Talk - May 12, 2026 May 12, 2026 00:28:54 Let’s talk about… the new season of Euphoria, taking a shot every time Sydney Sweeney’’s character forgets to wear a bra, why baths are superior to standing showers once you hit 30, and whatever other chaotic thoughts my ADHD brain came up with that are guaranteed to give you a giggle and a laugh. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art

I Was Sentenced to 2 Years in Federal Prison May 7, 2026 01:31:38 A Daddy Issues listener DM’d Violet with the ultimate opener: she had just gotten out of federal prison. This week, Violet sits down with Carol, a former accountant indicted on wire fraud and bank fraud charges after COVID relief money went very wrong. We’re getting into the FBI showing up, facing 20 years, prison camp, halfway houses, ankle monitors, restitution, and what it really looks

Let's Talk - May 5, 2026 May 5, 2026 00:34:42 Let’s talk about… Asking a man what hairstyle he would’ve had if he wasn’t balding, Anti-gravity scientists,The time doctors almost amputate my leg because... well, RUSSIA!What my teeth actually look like under my veneers and why you should NOT get veneers, And aliens… they’re just like us??? ALLEGEDLY. Babe wake up a new alien theory just dropped.Oh and we end the episode by teachin

Confession Corner with Sofia Elizabeth Apr 30, 2026 00:56:04 TikTok creator Sofia Elizabeth joins Violet for a no-filter conversation about cheating, jealous men, bad exes, hookup prep, and the kind of dating stories that should have been enough to make you leave the first time. They get into bad excuses, obvious red flags, and the moments that tell you everything once you stop trying to explain him away.Get more content on:• @violetbenson on Insta

Let's Talk - April 28, 2026 Apr 28, 2026 00:38:28 I paid an Etsy witch for two spells, got my love life read by a racist fortune teller, forgot my mother’s birthday… and somehow that’s not even the craziest part. Plus: new Mormon Wives chaos, Taylor Frankie wiping her socials, Kendall Jenner and Jacob Elordi rumors, and is Alex Cooper’s husband ruining everything? Always a man, huh..See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Cal

Why Chasing Him Never Works - Benson Book Club Apr 23, 2026 00:29:47 Stop chasing men who are not choosing you. If you keep overgiving, overthinking, and ending up with the same guy in a different body, this one’s for you. This week on Daddy Issues, Violet dives into the book Why Men Love B*tches and breaks down why men chase what they have to earn. It's all part of this week’s Benson Book Club. Get more content on:• @violetbenson on Instagr

Let's Talk - April 21, 2026 Apr 21, 2026 00:39:28 Let’s talk about… the internet turning on MJ Gray, a Wizard Liz plot twist, and how my car accident turned into the most LA interaction ever.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let’s Talk – Alix Earle vs Alex Cooper Apr 17, 2026 00:23:02 Let's talk about... the Alex-on-Alix drama continues. We’ve got Alix Earle responding, Alex Cooper backtracking and deleting her TikTok, and Brianna Chickenfry entering the chat. From mean girl claims to fans switching up to Matt Kaplan almost dated who???Yeah… you’re gonna want to sit down for this. Take a second... take it in.....Catch part 1 here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/

How to Tap Into Feminine Energy, Raise Your Standards & Stop Chasing Men Apr 16, 2026 00:32:58 You are not too much. You are not hard to love. You are not asking for too much.This episode is for the girls who are done chasing, done overthinking, and done ending up with the same man in a different body. Violet gets into feminine energy, what it actually means, why so many women slip into their masculine energy without even realizing it, and how that starts showing up in dating. She

Let's Talk - April 14, 2026 Apr 14, 2026 00:32:13 Let's talk about... Alex Cooper and Alix Earle drama and why we are team Alix based on receipts. Let's also talk about Coachella how much it's changed over the years. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why He Picked Her - Not You with Patti Stanger Apr 9, 2026 01:12:49 Read it and weep, besties, because Patti is not here to sugarcoat a single thing. Stop wasting your time on a boy who only wants you around to boost his ego, fill his schedule, and keep you on standby while he figures himself out. Boys will breadcrumb you, mind game you, and keep you confused. Men make it clear. And we are done accepting less.Today, Patti Stanger returns to the show to ta

Let's Talk - April 7, 2026 Apr 7, 2026 00:23:57 Let’s talk about… the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done for a man. I'll start!And why doing something nice for someone who didn’t ask for it, never ends the way you want.(dropping this today since I've decided moving forward these episodes will drop on Tuesday's and not on Saturday's)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/

A Series of Unfortunate Events: I Crossed The Line Apr 2, 2026 00:22:33 Have you ever let one reckless thought turn into a full night of regret?Violet kicks off a new Series of Unfortunate Events with two unbelievably embarrassing stories involving a one-night stand, a love confession to a best friend gone wrong, and the kind of confidence that only shows up right before everything goes to hell. You know those nights that should’ve ended one decision earlier?

Let's Talk - March 31, 2026 Mar 31, 2026 00:31:57 Let’s talk about… the secret lives of Mormon wives, Summer House scandal Amanda and Cierra, and me shamelessly campaigning to get on Traitors.Let's also talk about... how I stepped out for one night and found myself in a buffet of hot men, from not feeling chosen to choosing myself again, running into an LA yearner, hiring a matchmaker… and why I’m officially BACK in my dating e

From The Streets to The Alter with Hannah Berner Mar 26, 2026 01:09:31 They say you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife, but we’d like to think otherwise.At some point in our life, whether we are at the height of our career or living our best single lives, we all want to find that one person we can spend the rest of our life with, right? That one true love we all grew up hoping to find one day. I mean, at the very least, who doesn’t want to be with the best pa

Let's Talk - March 24, 2026 Mar 24, 2026 00:21:36 Let’s talk about… starting a skincare line with an organic…um….secret ingredient and whether texting your ex Happy Birthday is a good idea! I’m thinking…. no? But too bad because I already did it!! Oh wellllllllSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's Talk - The Bachelorette Men Mar 22, 2026 00:07:14 Let's talk about... the bachelorette men. That's it... just for 7 minutes. ok bye. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind Mar 19, 2026 00:34:07 WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! Whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psycholog

Let's Talk - March 18, 2026 Mar 18, 2026 00:25:03 Let's talk about... men with money kink/fetish + how I made $500. Watching TV > doing meth. IG couples are FAKE. When your man is only faithful bc no one else wanted him lol. The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives + what I learned. Taylor Frankie Paul. How pregnant women are the closest thing to a god. And whatever else I yapped about.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Calif

Let's Talk - March 17, 2026 Mar 17, 2026 00:26:54 Let's talk about... bleeding haemorrhoids. Devil o'clock. Anger issues. How having a friend full of rage will bring you peace. The older your parents get the more they'll like you. Lana del ray. SLOMW Mikayla and her weasel husband. and Taylor Frankie Paul + DV + The Bachelorette.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-

Why You Chase and He Pulls Away (The Anxious-Avoidant Trap) with Thais Gibson Mar 12, 2026 01:03:32 Is your attachment style running the relationship?This week on Daddy Issues, Violet sits down with relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down why you chase, why he pulls away, and how subconscious wiring shapes the way you date.Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, counselor, and founder of the Personal Development School, known for her work on attachment styles and subconscious rela

Let's Talk - March 10, 2026 Mar 10, 2026 00:33:33 Let's talk about.... that time I tased myself. That time I stabbed myself. How people pay to run marathons. My tiny feet. My crooked leg. Not surviving the zombie apocalypse. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Act Like a Prize Mar 5, 2026 00:52:27 Daddy Issues starts now.This week, Violet Benson officially launches her podcast under the name that built her brand. After 12 years of building the Daddy Issues community, Violet shares the moment that pushed her to reclaim the name, protect what she created, and step fully back into the identity that started it all.Then Violet delivers a Russian big sister pep talk. She breaks down why

The Conversation You’re Avoiding with Mel Robbins Feb 26, 2026 01:17:42 You’re not crazy. You’re anxious.This week on Almost Adulting, Violet sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack high-functioning anxiety in love — why women attach fast, date potential, ignore red flags, and stay in relationships where they can’t ask for what they need. Mel breaks down the 5 Second Rule, how to stop spiraling, time blindness, and the worst thing you can do when anxiety hits.Th

How to Reinvent Yourself in 2026 After Losing Yourself Feb 19, 2026 00:40:49 After a month-and-a-half break and a big network move, your Russian big sister Violet Benson is back – and she’s starting 2026 the only way she knows how: with tough love.Violet breaks down the four shifts that changed her life – and can change yours too.• setting real boundaries (and holding the door open when someone wants to leave) • radical self-awareness (aka stop lying to yours

How To Master Your Emotions with Jay Shetty Dec 18, 2025 01:13:23 If you’ve ever wondered why you settle, sabotage, or shut down.. this episode tells you the truth.Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta is joined by Jay Shetty - New York Times best-selling author, host of On Purpose, former monk, and one of the most influential voices in self-improvement, emotional healing, and modern spirituality.In this powerful conversation, Jay and V

GET HIM OBSESSED - CAPRICORN Dec 15, 2025 00:26:55 Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This December, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Capricorn man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:🔥 How to win over his ambitious and disciplined heart—and keep him hooked.🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and build a solid connection.🔥 What he values most in a partner (and what w

She Comes First with Dr. Emily Morse Pt.2 Dec 11, 2025 00:38:27 WELCOME TO PART 2, b*tches! :)We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl c*m. Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode with tips to not c*m too fast, hilarious fan sex stories and how I ended up in the ER after a fingering gone wrong.Connect with Dr. Emily Morse:WebsiteInstagramSex with E

She Comes First with Dr. Emily Morse Dec 8, 2025 00:40:43 From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts.Welcome to part 1 besties :)I have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over and over again, so take out your notepad and get ready to take some notes. We discuss how to, love your body and vageen, get your man to go down on you, tips for giving a wif

Manifest Miracles I Law of Attraction 432 Hz I Elevate Your Vibration Dec 1, 2025 03:00:44 Bonus episode - 3 hours of manifesting sound for anyone looking to elevate their vibrations and energy to better attract and manifest while sleeping or for anyone looking for frequency music to listen to while practicing gratitude or doing my manifesting techniques from last episode/other episodes.This powerful track uses the 432Hz frequency as a base and continuously builds on itself, al

Here’s Why He Went Cold Nov 27, 2025 00:41:38 The Real Reason Men Shut Down, Pull Away, and Go Blank.Ever dated someone who was warm one minute… and emotionally shut down the next? In this week’s Benson Book Club, we break down Chapter 7 of The Untethered Soul - “Transcending the Tendency to Close.”This chapter explains:why people emotionally close offwhy your ex suddenly went coldthe psychology behind emotional shutdown and avoidanc

GET HIM OBSESSED - SAGITTARIUS Nov 17, 2025 00:18:12 Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This November, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Sagittarius man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:🔥 How to capture his adventurous spirit and keep him intrigued.🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for freedom with your desire for connection.🔥 What he craves in a relationship (an

Why You Don’t Feel Loved Unless He Says It Nov 13, 2025 00:25:31 You don’t want flowers.You want reassurance.If he can post a story, he can send a sentence that says “I care about you.”This episode is for every woman who feels crazy for needing words - because guess what? You’re not clingy. You’re not insecure. You’re under-affirmed.We’re unpacking why hearing “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” or “I’m here” hits like emotional oxygen… and why

Feeling Happy? Don’t Tell Your Friends Nov 12, 2025 00:34:41 The evil eye lives in your group chat. Did I stutter? Ever notice the SECOND you share good news - your life collapses faster than a Nature Valley bar? Same.One minute I’m being loved correctly, soft life era unlocked… Next minute? Like not even 24 hours later - I break my foot, bleed from my privates, and end up crawling around my house like a feral naked raccoon throwing up on my h

Build Better Habits in 4 Steps Oct 29, 2025 00:31:18 Struggling with your goals? then listen to this.Today we dive into my dumpster fire of a life before diving into the science of habit formation with a sprinkle of sarcasm. We’re breaking down the game-changing insights from James Clear's Atomic Habits to help you build habits that actually stick. I'll walk you through the four simple steps to form habits that work for you, 

I Broke My Foot on a Date Oct 23, 2025 00:37:19 What do you do when your hot‑girl era turns into a medical horror story? I broke my foot on a date, got a UTI, and spent the day being gaslit by the ER - who sent me home TWICE with a literal displaced fracture… but not before charging me for wasting my time. I can’t walk for two months, might need surgery, and now I’m side‑eyeing my friends because my scorpio senses are tingling that one

What Men Still Don’t Know About Women’s Bodies with Winx Health Oct 16, 2025 00:49:56 Start with the PSA - it’s your biology lesson in detachment. Send it to every girl who caught feelings after he came inside her.Then we dive into vag myths, s@x lies & the patriarchy - we’re breaking down everything men still get wrong about women’s bodies.What’s the craziest thing a woman’s admitted about her taco?The biggest myth men still believe in 2025?And is it true a fishy taco

Why You Need to Stop Caring Who Thinks You’re Cringe Oct 2, 2025 00:27:43 Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to set you FREE.Truth is, other people’s opinions are keeping you Broke & boring babe.. which is why today, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ Let Them Think Bad Thoughts. A

GET HIM OBSESSED - LIBRA Sep 22, 2025 00:25:05 Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:🔥 How to charm the ultimate romantic and keep him captivated by you.🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for beauty, harmony, and connection.🔥 What he values most in a relationship (and w

The Bar Is in Hell Sep 19, 2025 00:33:29 Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS.From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs.  Welcome to Part 5, besties. Buckle up because this episode is UNHINGED and will have you laughing your socks off. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and

Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play Sep 11, 2025 00:36:48 Welcome to the narcissist playbookThink you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity. On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every tr

The Tinder Swindler Aug 21, 2025 00:34:10 No intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband or the next Tinder Swindler. The dating pool is in hell. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

GET HIM OBSESSED - VIRGO Aug 18, 2025 00:23:19 Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This August, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Virgo man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:🔥 The secrets to understanding his perfectionist tendencies—and how to meet his high standards.🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and keep his attention.🔥 What he values most in a partner (

Date From Hell Aug 14, 2025 00:37:18 Okay besties… it begins. I’m officially back in the dating game - I'm talking Hinge, matchmakers, awkward dates I already regret, and I’m taking you with me.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

4 Proven Ways to Turn Any 'No' Into a 'Yes' Aug 9, 2025 00:36:10 Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of Almost Adulting, I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no' into a 'hell yes,' getting hired when you’re underqualified, nailing interviews, and beating the competition for the promotion you deserve. Today you’ll learn how to:• Get a YES (even when you’re not the obvious choice) through manipulation•

Younger Men Do It Better: Caroline Stanbury & Sergio from Real Housewives of Dubai Jul 31, 2025 00:50:35 Why Women Are Choosing Younger MenThis week on Almost Adulting, I’m joined by the power couple that broke the internet—and probably a few age-gap double standards. Caroline Stanbury (yes, that Caroline from Ladies of London and Real Housewives of Dubai) and her hot husband Sergio (ex-pro footballer, full-time golden retriever energy) are here to prove that age is just a number—and chemist

How Emotionally Immature Parents Affect You Jul 27, 2025 00:27:07 Do you ever feel weirdly lonely in your relationships? Like you’re the one always doing the work—overthinking, overgiving, overfunctioning—and you still feel...empty? You’re not crazy. You might just have grown up with an emotionally immature parent.In this special Benson Book Club episode, I break down the first chapter of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents&nbs

20 Things Your 20’s Are Too Short For Jul 21, 2025 00:18:40 If you're in your twenties then listen to this.Your 20s are all about embracing mistakes, growth, and becoming the person you’re meant to be. In today's short episode, I’m sharing 20 things your 20s are too short for—like staying in toxic relationships, letting others define your worth, and holding back from living your best life. Plus, stick around for a powerful manifesting mantra at th

GET HIM OBSESSED - LEO Jul 21, 2025 00:22:52 Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This July, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Leo man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:🔥 What he craves in a partner—and how to become his ultimate desire.🔥 Foolproof ways to grab his attention and keep his spotlight on you.🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to win back h

Right Person, Wrong Time - Listen to This Before You Decide Jul 10, 2025 00:29:44 Ring ring… hellllllo? It’s your big sis Violetta coming to your rescue!Hi besties!! It’s the second week of the month, and you know what that means: a brand new episode of Ask Violetta. But today, we’re doing things a little differently... We’re answering just one question. But not just any question—the one that haunts your group chat at 2am:“What if they’re your soulm

Stop Being So Hard on Yourself TODAY Jul 3, 2025 00:29:52 Why are we so f*cking mean to ourselves?This week, we’re diving deep into that nonstop voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough, smart enough, hot enough, just... not enough. You’ll find out why it exists, how it got there, and how to finally shut it the hell up.We’re talking:· The real science behind your inner critic (yes, it’s a thing - it’s called the&nb

Is It Clingy…Or Just Your Love Language? Jun 26, 2025 00:27:59 Think you’re low-maintenance until they stop texting back? Can’t breathe unless you’re together 24/7? Sounds like you’ve got a ‘Quality Time’ love language. But don’t panic... needing time isn’t the problem, ignoring it is.Hi besties!! Today we’re breaking down everything you need to know about the second most common love language: Quality Time.So before you call it quits, LISTEN UP.

Why You’re Gaining Weight, Attracting Losers, & Can’t Manifest Sh*t with The Hot High Priestess Jun 19, 2025 00:49:22 What if I told you the reason you don’t have your summer body… is because of your situationship?This week I’m joined by Sarah Perl, aka The Hot High Priestess, and we’re unpacking why your anxiety, trauma, and bad taste in men are literally showing up on your body.We go deep on:Why your nervous system is hoarding fat like it’s hoarding toxic menWhat it really takes to

GET HIM OBSESSED - CANCER Jun 16, 2025 00:25:32 Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This June, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Cancer man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to learn:🔥 What makes him the ultimate romantic—and how to use it to your advantage.🔥 Foolproof ways to connect with his sensitive side and make him feel safe with you.🔥 What he craves in a relationship

30 Questions to Ask Yourself to Find Love Jun 12, 2025 00:40:55 You’re not single because you’re broken—maybe you’re just asking the wrong questions.In this deeply personal and hilariously honest solo episode, I share 30 questions you need to ask yourself if you’re serious about finding real love—not the situationship, not the trauma-bond, not the 2-week high followed by ghosting. We're talking love that lasts.I also open up for the first time about b

Cheating, Control & the Downfall of Wizard Liz with MJ Grey Jun 6, 2025 01:02:18 Today I’m joined by viral creator MJ Gray to break down everything from the Wizard Liz drama, delusional men who want “traditional women” but can’t even lead… to why the 50/50 dating fantasy is officially dead. We’re talking cheating, bill-paying boyfriends, men who secretly resent powerful women, and why you should think twice who you have a baby with.If you’ve ever wondered why the guy

I Thought About Him… Then He Appeared. May 29, 2025 00:38:33 One random act of kindness, a stranger on the freeway, and a moment that changed everything.Listen to this to restore your faith in humanity and discover how a split-second decision can reveal the goodness still left in the worldWanna listen to this episode AD FREE?? Go to my ad free subscription at - almostadulting.supercast.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Californ

So Your Mum’s a Narcissist? Let’s Talk May 22, 2025 00:59:42 Welcome back to Benson Book Club! Today we’re diving into Chapter 4 of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson—aka the one that explains why you can’t trust, love, or text back without spiraling.Think your mom’s a narcissist? You might be onto something. Convinced your dad’s emotional unavailability ruined your love life? You’re not wrong. This episode is your Rom

GET HIM OBSESSED - GEMINI May 19, 2025 00:17:30 Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This May, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Gemini man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to uncover:🔥 The secrets behind his charm and dual nature—and how to make them work in your favor.🔥 Proven tips to spark his curiosity and keep him endlessly intrigued by you.🔥 What excites him

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Is Your Toxic Relationship Making You Sick? May 1, 2025 00:20:38 Listen bestie, you know that tight feeling in your chest, the unexplained fatigue, the random headaches and sleepless nights? That’s your body screaming: this relationship is toxic!! RUN. (We're talking, romantic, platonic, or family—no one gets a free pass.)Today, Violetta reveals the science-backed truth about how emotional stress from toxic relationships physically destroys your h

The Anxious Avoidant TRAP Apr 25, 2025 00:38:39 Ever wonder why YOU are SO addicted to people who pull away? Today, you’ll finally find out.If the harder you chase, the faster they run — you might be trapped in the anxious-avoidant cycle: where one partner craves closeness, and the other panics when things get too real. In this BBC episode, Violet breaks down why this dynamic feels like home but leaves you emotionally starved.Inspired

How to Detach from a Love Bomber Apr 18, 2025 00:24:25 Think he was your soulmate? wrong. He was just a love bomber with good Wi-Fi.This isn’t another “just let go” episode. This is your official detachment plan with a twist—designed for the girl who’s done performing for emotionally unstable men who ghost after six weeks of calling you “the one.”In this short, savage 5 step guide, I’m breaking down how to detox from the fantasy, regulate you

Doing the Most for the Bare Minimum Apr 12, 2025 00:28:07 Second week of the month? You know what that means—it’s time for Dear Violet - where you call, text, or email me your BURNING questions and I give you the best advice that you need to hear.From pooping in front of him (WHY) to co-signing car loans in the talking stage—On today's episode, I’m breaking down the dumbest sh*t we’ve all done for men who didn’t deserve it. Plus: navigating

Give Me 21 Days and I’ll Change Your Life Apr 3, 2025 00:40:43 If you’re tired of feeling stuck, this is your wake-up call.In 21 days, you can reset your mind, body, and soul—and completely shift the trajectory of your life. No fluff. No waiting. Just the mindset, the energy, and the exact steps to become her. This is the sign you've been looking for!! Your future self is begging you to press play :)P.S. Make sure to tune in to the 3 call to action s

When People Reveal Themselves—Let Them Mar 28, 2025 00:41:29 Buckle up besties, because we’re removing the love goggles, dry-heaving over mixed signals, and finally realizing your soulmate is not the guy who ghosted you after “accidentally” falling into another woman’s vagina. Oopsies.In today’s spicy little episode, ’m diving into the chapter that should be tattooed on every situationship survivor's forehead: Let Them Show You Who T

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