Tyler and Gabriel

I Told My Mom I'd Be Famous! w Henry Jun 12, 2026 00:30:03 This week, we’re joined by Henry — content creator, photographer, and proud Mexican who left his hometown at 17 to chase a different life.We talk about confidence, self-love, family expectations, moving across Mexico, immigration, learning English, building a career online, and believing in yourself before anyone else does.

From Worship Pastor to Cain Culto Jun 5, 2026 00:30:03 This week, we’re joined by Cain Culto — artist, musician, and former worship pastor.We talk about growing up evangelical, knowing he was different from a young age, leaving the church, finding chosen family, and building a life through art and self-expression.Plus: religion, queerness, creativity, villains, identity, and becoming the person you were always meant to be.

Sexuality Is a Frequency w Love Bailey Jun 5, 2026 00:30:03 This week, we’re joined by Love Bailey — artist, performer, designer, and trans icon.We talk about growing up in Temecula, moving to Hollywood at 17, finding chosen family, gender, sexuality, creativity, and building a life through self-expression. Plus: Rocky Horror Picture Show, queer history, politics, AI, and why “sexuality is a frequency.”

But You Had Girlfriends… w Jacob May 22, 2026 00:30:04 This week, we’re joined by Jacob for a conversation about growing up gay in Texas, dating girls while secretly trying to understand yourself, and realizing maybe you can’t hide who you are forever.We talk about denial, family expectations, gym culture, finding queer community, moving across the country, and the weird journey of finally accepting yourself.

The Pressures of Being Gay w Dr. Thomas May 15, 2026 00:30:12 Today, we’re joined by Dr. Thomas — psychiatrist and fellow gay man navigating identity, masculinity, relationships, and the pressures that come with growing up queer.We talk about coming out young, trying to fit in, shame, therapy, labels, loneliness, and why so many of us learn to hide parts of ourselves growing up.

He Joined the NFL?? w Napoleon May 8, 2026 00:30:10 This week, we’re joined by Napoleon Jinnies — a Los Angeles Rams cheerleader, dancer, and performer.We talk about growing up bullied for being different, discovering confidence through dance, and becoming the first male NFL cheerleader.Plus: masculinity, social media, auditions, and being “too bright to hide.”

A Surprise Wedding? w Luiz & Sebas May 1, 2026 00:30:11 What started as a simple dinner turned into a surprise wedding — but that’s just part of the story.Luiz & Sebas share how they met, how everything unfolded so quickly, and what it’s like building a relationship that didn’t follow any rules. From instant connection to navigating life together, this episode is about love, timing, and trusting something that just feels right.

We Lived in LA for a Year… Apr 18, 2026 00:36:10 We lived in Los Angeles for a year… and a lot changed.In this episode, we reflect on the risks, the growth, and what happens after you finally do the thing you’ve been dreaming about.

The Balls Go Where?! w Nick Apr 10, 2026 00:30:05 This week, we’re joined by Nick — a dancer and performer from RuPaul’s Drag Race Live in Las Vegas.He talks about coming out, moving to LA with no plan, and finding confidence through performance. We also get into drag, identity, and the moment we realized… there’s more than one way to tuck.This episode is about taking risks, figuring it out, and finding your place.

Why Can’t We Just Date? w Alex Apr 2, 2026 00:30:03 Today we’re joined by Alex — a nightlife curator and community builder based in Los Angeles.We talk about growing up in a strict Caribbean and Christian household, living a double life, and eventually finding freedom through nightlife and chosen community.This episode is about identity, connection, and why dating can feel so complicated.

Hunter is a Wrestler Mar 26, 2026 00:30:07 Today we’re joined by Hunter — a professional wrestler who went viral for being unapologetically gay in a space that doesn’t always make room for it.He shares what it was like growing up in a small town in Massachusetts, navigating his sexuality at a young age, and learning how to build confidence in who he is. We talk about family, coming out, and how finding your own community can change everyth

Dylan & Harry are Spiritual Mar 20, 2026 00:30:03 Today we’re joined by Dylan and Harry — who met in line at Erewhon and quickly realized their connection wasn’t random.They share how spirituality brought them together, from asking the universe for signs to actually recognizing one when it showed up. What started as a simple interaction turned into a deeper connection rooted in energy, timing, and alignment.We talk about manifestation, healing, a

Iago is Ballet Mar 12, 2026 00:30:09 Today we’re joined by Iago — a Brazilian ballet dancer from Rio de Janeiro who grew up in a favela and built a professional dance career in the United States.He shares what it was like growing up in a poor neighborhood in Rio, losing his father at a young age, and discovering ballet through a free public-school program. What started as secret ballet classes behind his mom’s back eventually led him

Nick is a Pretzel Mar 5, 2026 00:30:08 This week we’re joined by Nick, a 24-year-old from Temecula, California who shows up to the podcast with a cooler full of Aplós plum drinks and chocolate-covered pretzels. (Aplós, if you’re reading this… please sponsor us.)We talk about growing up bored in a small town, lonely kid energy, drinking way too young, and the chaos of teenage curiosity. The conversation drifts into sneaking into gay bar

Nick is Masc Mar 4, 2026 00:30:08 Today, we’re joined by Nick — a Florida-raised creator who built a completely new life by choosing to start over.Nick talks about growing up in the Florida panhandle around church culture, leaving home through college track scholarships, and realizing adulthood was his chance to reinvent himself. He didn’t come out until 23 — instead of making a big announcement, he entered the Andrew Christian mo

We’re Engaged! Feb 19, 2026 00:30:03 Today, it’s just us.We talk about how this podcast started in our bedroom with a microphone and no plan — just curiosity. How it slowly became a space for queer voices, immigrants, and people building new lives from scratch. And how sometimes you forget the impact until someone stops you in a hallway and reminds you why you started.We share our 2026 goals: learning instruments, going back to schoo

Max is a Photographer Nov 20, 2025 00:30:11 This week, we’re joined by Maxwell Poth — a queer photographer who grew up Mormon in Utah and became the only openly gay kid in his entire town.He talks about cheerleading in high school, coming out to a community that refused to hear the word “gay,” and being bullied by adults from neighboring towns while his own school protected him. We get into Mormon culture, religious expectations, and the mo

Noah is an Actor Nov 13, 2025 00:30:04 Today, we’re joined by Noah Neitch — an Arizona-raised only child who grew up loving the spotlight, even when the world told him to hide it.He opens up about growing up queer in conservative Arizona, being called gay in fourth grade, and the grandma who let him run around in her heels.We talk only-child energy, attention, Disney, and the moment he finally told his mom he was gay on the day he move

Nick is Hot Nov 6, 2025 00:30:07 This week, we’re joined by Nick—a singer, songwriter, and performer reclaiming confidence after heartbreak and turning pain into art.He opens up about life after a long relationship, rediscovering himself through music, and finding freedom in his single era.We talk censorship, queer visibility, self-expression, and how being “too much” can actually be your superpower.Fresh off his latest single SE

Santi is a P*ta Sep 11, 2025 00:30:01 Today’s episode features Venezuelan artist, performer, and rising pop icon Santi—who moved to the U.S. with no formal training, just a vision and a deep love for performance.He opens up about growing up gay in Venezuela, learning English through Nicki Minaj lyrics, and creating his debut album Miss Venezuela from pure imagination.We talk kissing culture, self-expression, dancing in heels, and why

Michael is a Hero Aug 28, 2025 00:30:06 This week, we’re joined by Michael—a physical therapist, proud gay Mexican-Chinese man, and the human embodiment of golden retriever energy.Born in L.A. and raised in Rosarito, he shares what it was like growing up between cultures, navigating identity, grief, and the moment his sister knew he was gay before he did.We talk stereotypes, softness, family, and how helping others became his purpose—fi

Kevin & Cade are a Team Aug 21, 2025 00:30:06 Cade didn’t even realize he was doing the podcast—he just accepted the calendar invite. But somehow, this surprise guest turned into one of our favorite conversations.We talk to Cade and Kevin about being total opposites (Type Z vs. Type A), growing up in Mississippi and Montreal, and how working together as a couple actually makes them stronger—just like us.Kevin’s a hustler who started working i

Logan & Matty are Basically Us Aug 14, 2025 00:30:08 Today, we’re joined by Logan and Matty—two opposites who became inseparable after a DM and a 50-hour first date.We talk about falling hard, moving in fast, and how living together early actually helped their relationship grow.They open up about communication styles, therapy, Animal Crossing nights, and building a life full of love, laughter, and a little weed.Also: gym routines, manifestation, and

Ezra is Dance Aug 8, 2025 00:29:39 This week, we’re joined by dancer and performer Ezra Sosa—our officially adopted child.Ezra opens up about growing up queer in conservative Utah, coming into his identity, and the long road from So You Think You Can Dance to Dancing with the Stars.We talk tour life, inner homophobia, queer joy, and why soccer just isn’t doing it for him.Also: Drag Race moments, heat floors, hate comments, and why

Roberto is a Captain Jul 31, 2025 00:30:05 This week, we’re joined by Roberto Portales—a Cuban-American platoon leader, former football player, and proud Chatty Cathy (after two drinks).Roberto opens up about growing up in a loud, loving Tampa household, serving in Afghanistan, and coming out later in life—after years of living in hyper-masculine spaces.We talk about West Point hazing, war zone drinking rules, and why masculinity doesn’t e

June is a Queen Jul 24, 2025 00:29:42 Today, we chat with the radiant June Jambalaya—drag queen, performer, and Jacksonville native (just like Tyler).June shares her journey from church stages to RuPaul’s Drag Race, how attending an arts high school changed everything, and why drag became her way to reclaim power and tell her story.We talk dance rejection, chosen family, coming out during a hurricane, and the joy of creating space for

Reno is a Fantasy Jul 17, 2025 00:30:10 This week, we’re joined by the handsome and gravity-defying Reno Gold—OnlyFans creator, pole dancer, fire spinner, and pancake chef.He tells us about growing up all over the U.S., starting gymnastics at age 3, and how stripping led to a career built on fantasy, creativity, and connection. We talk about supportive parents, hotel room living, and the dream of becoming an OF star.Also in this episode

Bruno is Domesticated Jul 10, 2025 00:49:55 Brazil is in the house today! Born and raised in Bahia, Brazil and now thriving in Los Angeles, Bruno joins us to share his journey from wild to (mostly) domesticated.He opens up about growing up Catholic, immigrating to the U.S. without speaking English, and finding freedom through drag, love, and a lot of affection—sometimes too much (yes, security was called).We talk culture shock, queer joy, a

Michael & Bruno found International Love Jul 3, 2025 00:46:38 This week, we’re joined by Michael and Bruno—two Disney-loving soulmates who, like us, are an American-Brazilian couple building a life across cultures.We talk about the magic of their relationship, from surprising each other early on to proudly owning the title Disney gays. They share stories of pin collecting (with boundaries!), dating rituals, and finding joy in the little things.Bruno opens up

Jordan is an Old Friend Jun 26, 2025 00:45:31 Today, we’re joined by Jordan—a longtime friend of Tyler and a total beam of light.Born in Spiro, Oklahoma, Jordan opens up about growing up Black and biracial in a small town where he never quite fit in—not Black enough for the Black kids, not white enough for the white ones. The youngest of six, he shares how he used humor and heart to survive.We talk about his journey from Oklahoma to Madrid—hi

Patty & Leo are Gen Z Jun 19, 2025 00:55:40 It’s a double date! In this episode, Patty and Leo join us to talk love, pop culture, Catholic school trauma, and the very serious theory that drinking milk turns kids gay.Leo grew up in Mexico, dated a girl for three years, and came out after moving to L.A. to pursue acting. Patty, from Chicago, found his voice on TikTok during the pandemic—spilling celeb gossip like they’re close personal friend

Michael is a Therapist Jun 12, 2025 00:57:15 This week, we sit down with Michael Pezzullo—a licensed therapist and mental health advocate specializing in LGBTQ+ affirming care.Born and raised in NYC, now living in West Hollywood, Michael opens up about growing up in Hell’s Kitchen, why he still feels like a New Yorker, and the long road (literally—he failed his driving test six times) to becoming a therapist.We talk masculinity, internalized

Fabian is a Star Jun 5, 2025 00:55:41 You might know her as Naysha Lopez, but to us, Fabian is a star in and out of drag.In this episode, he opens up about his journey from dreaming of the crown to winning Miss Continental—and later competing in Mister Continental, the male counterpart to the iconic pageant. We talk about the difference between pageants and Drag Race, finding confidence outside of drag, and inspiring others to embrace

Pasquale is a Yogi May 29, 2025 00:58:16 Pasquale Guiducci joins us this week—a yoga teacher and all-around ray of sunshine.We talk about growing up in an Italian family, living in D.C., and what led him to move to L.A. He shares how yoga became a joyful part of his life, how it keeps him grounded, and what he's looking for in love and community.It’s a sweet, open conversation about breath, balance, queerness, and being present.

Payam is a Healer May 22, 2025 01:02:42 This time, we sit down with Payam about healing, identity, and finding peace in our bodies.He shares his experience immigrating from Iran, coming out, and living through the AIDS crisis. We also explore how somatic therapy can help us move through trauma, regulate our nervous system, and reconnect with ourselves.We talk activism, queer joy, and what decades as a therapist have taught him about res

Antony is a Performer May 15, 2025 00:58:41 This week, we chat with Antony Ware—a charismatic performer currently lighting up the stage in Las Vegas. He opens up about his coming out story, how he landed the role, his passion for fitness, and what it’s like dating and making friends as an adult. We also talk Janet Jackson (of course), queer identity, and Drag Race favorites. It’s heartfelt, fun, and full of energy—don’t miss it!

Daniel is a Matchmaker May 8, 2025 01:05:25 In this episode, we chat with queer matchmaker Daniel Cooley about coming out, growing up in Victorville, being homeschooled, and ending up on Millionaire Matchmaker. We also dive into the dating struggles of the app era—and how he helps people find real connection.

Gabriel is Out May 1, 2025 00:43:57 In this heartfelt debut, we turn the mic toward co-host Gabriel Drumond to explore his personal story—growing up gay in a small town in Brazil, moving to the U.S. alone in his twenties, and navigating identity, love, and belonging along the way.We also open up about why we created this podcast: to connect with our LGBTQ+ community, make new friends, and hold space for honest, healing, and inspirin

Baked Bananas Dec 12, 2024 00:12:30 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel unwind and discuss their recent road trip to the West Coast.

We're Moving! Dec 5, 2024 00:35:23 Dr. Tyler and Gabriel (attempt to) catch you up, and oh - they're moving!

Gay? Create Boundaries Aug 13, 2024 00:23:34 Dr. Tyler and Gabriel explore the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries in relationships with friends and family, both during upbringing and later in life, highlighting how these boundaries can lead to greater personal relief and healthier connections, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Gay? Prepare for the Worst Aug 5, 2024 00:25:14 Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss the significance of proactive planning for the future, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, while maintaining hope and optimism for the best outcomes. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

So, Gay - Are you the Husband or Wife? Jul 29, 2024 00:18:51 Dr. Tyler and Gabriel explore the stereotypes and expectations of traditional gender roles in marriage, and how these notions apply to and differ in gay relationships, challenging the straight narrative of being the 'husband' or 'wife.'

Young, Gay & Learning Love Late Jul 23, 2024 00:23:43 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss the impact of missing 'puppy love' during gay adolescence and how this affects building relationships in adulthood. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Gays Getting Intimate? Jul 16, 2024 00:22:52 Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss their personal experiences with intimacy and explore how these attachments can vary from person to person. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Being Gay is Rebellious? Jul 8, 2024 00:18:05 Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss the forced label of being a "rebel" when embracing queerness, and the challenges and pitfalls that come with this perception. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

The Impact of Music: Growing Up Gay Jul 1, 2024 00:25:17 Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss their experiences growing up gay and the impact of music on finding strength, hope, and inspiration. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Gay, so confusing Jun 25, 2024 00:31:57 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss their experiences making friends & building relationships after coming out.

Gay Sons & Fatherhood Jun 16, 2024 00:29:25 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss their experiences and views on Fatherhood.

The Shame of Sex: Growing Up Gay Jun 11, 2024 00:30:15 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss their experiences growing up gay, and the difficulties of understanding sex.

Gay and going through puberty Jun 3, 2024 00:28:04 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss their experiences going through puberty.

Gay in a Hometown? May 27, 2024 00:27:28 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss growing up gay in their respective hometowns.

Do we share too much? May 20, 2024 00:30:23

Pick Me Up, Put Me Down May 13, 2024 00:29:55 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss their relationship with the gym & weight lifting.

Do we spend too much time together? May 6, 2024 00:29:35 Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss their relationship, and whether or not they spend too much time together.

Drinking Mar 12, 2024 00:29:20 Join Tyler and Gabriel as they casually discuss their journey with alcohol, from their first sips to their decision to quit. Delve into their personal experiences and the reasons behind their choice to abstain. Whether you’re navigating your own relationship with alcohol or not, this episode reviews their personal perspectives and relatable anecdotes.

Tokyo Mar 4, 2024 00:31:20 Join Tyler and Gabriel as they discuss the vibrant city of Tokyo. Starting as a surprise birthday trip, they share insights into iconic landmarks like the Statue of Liberty and a quirky Cat Cafe. With reflections on Tokyo's impeccable cleanliness and efficient public transport, this episode offers a delightful glimpse into the wonders of the city. Tune in for a captivating journey through Toky

Roadtrips Feb 26, 2024 00:30:21 On this episode, we share our adventures from unforgettable cross-country drives in the US to international excursions in places like Mallorca. Join us as we dive into the joys of the open road and the unexpected journeys that come with traveling off the beaten path. Whether you're an avid road-tripper or a curious traveler seeking inspiration, buckle up for a ride with us.

Eating Feb 19, 2024 00:31:20 Embark on a candid exploration of fitness and dietary changes as we discuss our individual journeys and experiences. From setting fitness goals and changing diets to navigating the challenges of embracing healthier lifestyles, we share personal anecdotes and insights. Join us as we reflect on moments of change and growth, from eliminating sugar from coffee to understanding the importance of a bala

Disney Feb 12, 2024 00:26:36 Step into the enchanting world of Disney with us as we explore how two people from different cultures and geographical upbringings found common ground through a shared admiration and near obsession with Disney. Join us as we reminisce about our earliest memories of Disney movies and delve into the Brazilian fascination with all things Disney. From discussing highlights of our unforgettable Disney

Coming out Feb 5, 2024 00:28:40 Join us on an intimate journey as we openly share pivotal moments in our lives, delving into topics from our earliest memories of realizing our identity to the challenges of coming out. In this candid podcast episode, we explore the impact of these revelations on friendships and social circles, and the complex emotions experienced during childhood. We share personal anecdotes about attempts to con

Relationships Jan 29, 2024 00:24:13 Embark on a personal journey with us in this candid episode, where we openly share our experiences and reflections on relationships. From confronting preconceived notions before our first relationships to navigating challenges like coming out and dealing with disapproving friends, we provide a genuine glimpse into the complexities of love. Join us as we delve into age gaps, insecurities, and the

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