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Flirting & Farting: The Marriage Chronicles

Flirting & Farting: The Marriage Chronicles

Honest conversations on Love & Marriage with the Shallahs 7 Episodes Mar 26, 2025

Flirting & Farting is a refreshingly honest podcast about marriage—the love, the awkward moments and everything in between. Hosted by LaVianca and Shakim, it features unfiltered conversations on intimacy, communication and the quirks of partnership. The hosts are not experts but students of marriage and life, sharing laughs, lessons and real talk. Whether you're a newlywed, seasoned or just curious, join them for relatable, raw and often hilarious insights into love, commitment and connection.

Episodes

Healing the Inner Child & Strengthening the Heart of Marriage
Healing the Inner Child & Strengthening the Heart of Marriage Mar 26, 2025 00:23:29 What if the key to a thriving marriage wasn’t just love, but healing? This week, we dive deep into the inner child—how unhealed wounds show up in our relationships, the power of individuality, and how proactively doing the work before conflict arises creates a foundation for love to breathe, expand, and last.We’re unpacking the patterns, the aha moments, and the real work that leads to healthier,
Date Nights, Romance & Real Talk: How We Keep Our Marriage Strong With Kids
Date Nights, Romance & Real Talk: How We Keep Our Marriage Strong With Kids Mar 19, 2025 00:17:43 Ever feel like you and your spouse are just roommates?In this episode, we get real about what it looks like to prioritize dating each other while raising kids, running businesses, and navigating everyday life. We share our favorite date night experiences — from spontaneous game nights at home to unforgettable moments at the gun range and surprise blessings from strangers.We also talk about the imp
Love, Business & Babies
Love, Business & Babies Mar 12, 2025 00:15:34 Running a business together is one thing—doing it while raising a family and keeping the spark alive? Now that’s a journey. In this episode, we get real about what it takes to be business partners, lovers, and parents all at once. From the power of calendar planning to leaning into our network and playing to each other’s strengths, we’re sharing the lessons, laughs, and love that keep us moving fo
Marriage Expectations vs. Reality: Building Our Union, Not Just a Wedding
Marriage Expectations vs. Reality: Building Our Union, Not Just a Wedding Mar 5, 2025 00:17:04 In this episode of Flirting & Farting with The Shallahs, we peel back the curtain on marriage expectations versus reality — from our untraditional wedding to the daily choices that keep our love alive.We share why we chose an intimate, budget-friendly garden wedding, went Dutch for dinner, and focused on investing in our marriage, not just the wedding day. From pre-marital counseling to naviga
When Lovebirds Become Parents: Growth, Healing & Hard Truths
When Lovebirds Become Parents: Growth, Healing & Hard Truths Feb 26, 2025 00:19:17 🎙️ In this episode of Flirting & Farting with The Shallahs, we dive deep into the raw, unfiltered journey of transitioning from lovebirds to first-time parents.From finding out we were expecting in the middle of working overnight shifts at a mental health facility, to navigating pregnancy during the height of the pandemic, this is the real story of how parenthood forced us to grow up — fast. We un
Dating with Intention: Courtship, Boundaries & Building Trust Before Marriage
Dating with Intention: Courtship, Boundaries & Building Trust Before Marriage Feb 19, 2025 00:25:17 In this episode of Flirting & Farting with The Shallahs, we dive deep into the journey of courtship and intentional dating.From long drives every weekend to no-sex-before-marriage dating, this is the real story of how we built a solid foundation of trust and friendship before saying “I do.” We unpack what healthy boundaries look like (with family, friends, and even social media), how we navigated
Our Unscripted Love Story: From Random Encounters to Real Commitment
Our Unscripted Love Story: From Random Encounters to Real Commitment Feb 12, 2025 00:13:44 In this very first episode of Flirting & Farting with the Shallah’s, we take you all the way back to where it all began. From chance run-ins under the moonlight at UNC Pembroke to fumbled first meetings, military distances, and unexpected reconnections — this is our origin story.We’re sharing the real, unfiltered, unscripted journey of how two millennial creatives became best friends, partners, an

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