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The Complex Trauma Podcast

The Complex Trauma Podcast

Sarah Herstich 135 Episodes Jul 1, 2026

A podcast for anyone healing from complex PTSD, childhood emotional neglect, and the patterns you've been carrying without knowing what to call them. Hosted by EMDR and somatic trauma therapist Sarah Herstich, each episode gets into nervous system healing, trauma responses, and what it actually takes to stop living in survival mode. If you've spent years people-pleasing, apologizing for existing, or holding it together on the outside while unraveling on the inside, this is for you. We talk about the fawn response, toxic shame, hypervigilance, and why your body still doesn't feel safe even when nothing bad is happening. New episodes every Wednesday.

Episodes

Why Your Nervous System Craves Certainty (And Why It Looks Like Control) Jul 1, 2026 1133 Ever been called controlling? Too rigid? Too much? On today's episode I breaks down why it was maybe never about control. Your nervous system has maybe been trying to answer one question this whole time: am I safe?This episode covers the real reason behind reassurance seeking, perfectionism, hypervigilance, overthinking, and food rules, and why none of it is a character flaw. Using research o
Emotional Flashbacks in Complex Trauma Explained Jun 24, 2026 2193 Emotional flashbacks are one of the most common and most misunderstood experiences in complex trauma. Unlike visual flashbacks, they don't come with images or a clear memory. They arrive as intense feelings, shame, fear, loneliness, helplessness, often with no story attached and no warning.In this episode, Sarah breaks down what emotional flashbacks actually are. You'll learn why insight
Complex Trauma and the Belief That You're a Burden Jun 17, 2026 1257 Do you feel guilty every time you need something, even from people who love you? Do you find it easy to show up for everyone else but nearly impossible to let someone show up for you?If so, this episode is for you.In episode 135, I explore the belief that you are a burden. Not as a passing thought, but as a felt sense in the body that gets activated the moment you need something from another perso
Why Complex Trauma Survivors Struggle to Believe Themselves Jun 10, 2026 1750 Many complex trauma survivors struggle to trust their memories, emotions, perceptions, and reactions. In this episode, we're exploring why being disbelieved can feel so painful, how emotional neglect and attachment wounds can teach us to question ourselves, and why trauma often leaves us with fragments of memory instead of a clear narrative.We discuss: • Why not being believed can feel abando
Why Emotional Loneliness Runs So Deep in Complex Trauma Jun 3, 2026 1875 Emotional loneliness is one of the most common and least talked about experiences in complex trauma recovery. It's not about the number of people in your life. It's about whether your nervous system has learned to let them in. And for a lot of survivors, it hasn't. Not because something is permanently wrong with you, but because your nervous system learned some very specific things
What CPTSD Does to Your Sleep and Why Nothing Else Has Worked May 27, 2026 1920 Sleep is one of the most common struggles in the CPTSD community, and one of the least understood. If you've tried the routines, the supplements, the magnesium, the blue light glasses, and you're still lying awake at midnight or waking up at 3am feeling like something is wrong, this episode is for you.Today I break down why sleep is uniquely hard when you have complex trauma, what's
What Inner Child Healing and Reparenting Actually Looks Like May 20, 2026 2286 Inner child healing isn't easy work. For people living with complex trauma, it can be one of the most neurobiologically specific processes in trauma recovery. And the version most people have been handed doesn't come close to touching it.In this episode we get into what inner child healing actually is, what the young part is really doing in your nervous system, and what reparenting actua
Corrective Emotional Experiences After Childhood Emotional Neglect May 13, 2026 1986 You've done the work. You've been in therapy, read the books, and you can name what happened to you. So why doesn't it feel like enough?That gap between understanding your story and actually feeling different in your body has a reason. And it's not because you haven't tried hard enough. It's because childhood emotional neglect creates a very specific kind of wound tha
CPTSD and the Stack of Diagnoses Nobody Connects May 6, 2026 2262 If you've been diagnosed with more than one thing, and it feels like every provider is treating each piece in isolation, this episode is for you.Complex PTSD doesn't just show up as one condition. For many people, CPTSD symptoms include a stack of co-occurring diagnoses that are deeply connected at the nervous system level but rarely treated that way. In this episode, I break down exactl
It's Not People-Pleasing, It's Fawning Apr 29, 2026 2181 If you've spent your life being told you're "too nice," "a people-pleaser," or that you just need to "set better boundaries," this episode is for you. Fawning is the fourth trauma response, and for most folks with complex PTSD, it's been... a thing... for decades. In this episode, Sarah unpacks what fawning actually is (hint: it's not a personality
When Being Seen Can Feel Unsafe in Therapy for CPTSD with Katie Fries Apr 22, 2026 2259 If you've ever sat in your therapist's office and thought "I sort of just want you to take care of me" and then felt embarrassed for even thinking it, this episode is for you.Listener Laurie wrote in after the "I Finally Stopped Shrinking" episode asking why being truly seen by a therapist can feel so activating, why grounding doesn't always hit the way her thera
The Inner Critic, IFS, and Complex Trauma with Emily Pagone Apr 15, 2026 2094 If you've ever wondered why the harshest voice in your head won't quiet down, this episode might help you reframe the why's behind it.This week I sits down with Emily Pagone, LCPC, founder of Authentic Growth Wellness Group and host of The Inner Critic Podcast. Emily specializes in IFS therapy, EMDR, and somatic approaches with a particular focus on complex trauma and neurodivergent

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