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Fridays with Tab and Chance

Fridays with Tab and Chance

Tabitha Brown, Chance Brown 118 Episodes Oct 9, 2026

Tabitha Brown and her husband Chance Brown share insights from their 25+ years of marriage. Every Friday, they offer perspectives on relationships, family, love, and loss, drawing from their personal journey together.

Episodes

When Your Spouse's People Don't Like You
When Your Spouse's People Don't Like You Oct 9, 2026 00:48:00 What do you do when your spouse's friend — or their family — just doesn't like you? This week me and Chance got into it: the difference between not liking someone and being disrespectful, what you should expect from your spouse when you bring it up, and who's really responsible for checking their own people. We even role played some scenarios for Quest and y'all… I almost lost it. New episode ever
Pass or Play: Marriage Q&A We're Not Holding Back
Pass or Play: Marriage Q&A We're Not Holding Back Oct 2, 2026 00:41:28 This episode we played a little game — marriage questions, pass or play. And baby, we did not hold back. Chance's biggest complaint about me? I bring up business right before bed. Mine about him? He never reads the text that has all the answers and then asks me anyway. We also got into what used to be cute that now gets on our nerves, what only your spouse can say without catching hands, who'd sur
How Do You Choose Your People?
How Do You Choose Your People? Sep 25, 2026 01:02:28 This episode we got into something real — how do you choose your people, and for what? It all started with a family argument about who got to ride in the funeral limo, and it went from there. We talked about how Chance picks his golf partners, how he's had the same barber for 16 years (and why that matters), how Tab chooses her hair stylist and her trainer, how we each chose our wedding party — an
What Ship Are You On? Where is your focus?
What Ship Are You On? Where is your focus? Sep 19, 2026 00:41:34 This episode started with a simple thought — so many words end in "-ship." Friendship, relationship, mentorship, ownership, entrepreneurship, fellowship, kinship… and Chance realized it was helping him understand why he's been feeling the way he's been feeling lately. We got deep about which ship is most present in your life right now, whether you're driving it or just riding, when it's time to ge
Things That Used to Exist (But Don't Anymore)
Things That Used to Exist (But Don't Anymore) Sep 12, 2026 00:57:15 This episode, Chance and I went on a full trip down memory lane — talking about all the things that used to exist that this generation has no clue about. Toys R Us, Blockbuster, the mall, record stores, 106 & Park, phone books, pay phones, encyclopedias, cutting coupons with your granny, Sunday comics in color, knowing your friends' phone numbers by heart… we got into all of it. We also got re
Do You Know What Love Looks Like?
Do You Know What Love Looks Like? Sep 4, 2026 01:00:04 This episode, Chance and I are talking about love — where it starts, how your childhood shapes the way you give and receive it, and why some people miss it when it actually shows up. We got real personal about how growing up without a father in the home can affect how you connect with people and what happens when somebody tries to love you in a way you've never experienced before. If you've ever p
In Sickness & In Health — Did He Really Show Up?
In Sickness & In Health — Did He Really Show Up? Aug 28, 2026 00:27:24 A follower asked us something that stopped me in my tracks: how did watching my mama get failed by her partner during her illness shape what I needed from Chance? We got real honest — about the hardest season of our marriage, how Chance admits he wasn't there for me the way he should've been when mama was sick, and how that fear made me hide my own sickness from him for years. Then fast forward to
Does Death Erase the Trauma They Left Behind?
Does Death Erase the Trauma They Left Behind? Aug 21, 2026 00:44:48 This episode, Chance and I are getting into something a lot of people don't talk about — what happens when someone who caused you real trauma, or was absent from your life, passes away? Does their death erase what they did? Do you owe them grief? Do you have to show up? Chance got deeply personal about his absent father and what he imagines he'd truly feel and do if that day came. We also talked a
We Have Strong Feelings about the Raising Kanan Season Finale
We Have Strong Feelings about the Raising Kanan Season Finale Aug 17, 2026 00:46:41 ⚠️ Spoiler alert — we mean it. This week me and Chance did something we've never done before: a full TV show recap. And it got heated. We broke down the Raising Kanan season finale, debated who was really responsible for the family falling apart (Kanan or Rock?), mourned Uncle Marvin like he was real family, and Chance made his position very clear — he has never liked Kanan, not even once. If you'
Red Flag or Green Flag? We're Judging Your Dating Decisions | Fridays with Tab and Chance
Red Flag or Green Flag? We're Judging Your Dating Decisions | Fridays with Tab and Chance Aug 7, 2026 00:48:43 We played a game this week and it did NOT disappoint. Me and Chance went through a full red flag, green flag relationship quiz — and let's just say we don't always agree. Work wives, exes' stuff still at the house, going through phones, splitting the bill on the first date, sex on the first night… we covered it all. Chance added a whole yellow flag category. I stood my ground. Blackie may or may n
We're Tired — An Honest Conversation About Black Life and Nolan Wells
We're Tired — An Honest Conversation About Black Life and Nolan Wells Aug 1, 2026 00:49:06 This one is heavy — and it's supposed to be. Me and Chance sat down to talk about the weight of being Black in America. The weight of raising Black children. The weight of still showing up with joy and grace in a world that doesn't always value our lives. This conversation was sparked by the Nolan Wales case and everything it stirred up in us as parents, as a couple, and as Black people. Chance sh
Vacation vs. Field Trip — Are Do We Have different expectations?
Vacation vs. Field Trip — Are Do We Have different expectations? Jul 25, 2026 00:58:29 Me and Chance got into something that sounds simple but went deep fast — what's the difference between a vacation and a field trip, and are couples even going on the same kind of trip when they travel together? Chance broke down why family trips, itineraries, and historical sites all register as "field trips" in his brain, and why that goes all the way back to childhood. This one is going to make

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