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Fridays with Tab and Chance

Fridays with Tab and Chance

Tabitha Brown, Chance Brown 118 Episodes Aug 21, 2026

Tabitha Brown and her husband Chance Brown share insights from their 25+ years of marriage. Every Friday, they offer perspectives on relationships, family, love, and loss, drawing from their personal journey together.

Episodes

Does Death Erase the Trauma They Left Behind?
Does Death Erase the Trauma They Left Behind? Aug 21, 2026 00:44:48 This episode, Chance and I are getting into something a lot of people don't talk about — what happens when someone who caused you real trauma, or was absent from your life, passes away? Does their death erase what they did? Do you owe them grief? Do you have to show up? Chance got deeply personal about his absent father and what he imagines he'd truly feel and do if that day came. We also talked a
We Have Strong Feelings about the Raising Kanan Season Finale
We Have Strong Feelings about the Raising Kanan Season Finale Aug 17, 2026 00:46:41 ⚠️ Spoiler alert — we mean it. This week me and Chance did something we've never done before: a full TV show recap. And it got heated. We broke down the Raising Kanan season finale, debated who was really responsible for the family falling apart (Kanan or Rock?), mourned Uncle Marvin like he was real family, and Chance made his position very clear — he has never liked Kanan, not even once. If you'
Red Flag or Green Flag? We're Judging Your Dating Decisions | Fridays with Tab and Chance
Red Flag or Green Flag? We're Judging Your Dating Decisions | Fridays with Tab and Chance Aug 7, 2026 00:48:43 We played a game this week and it did NOT disappoint. Me and Chance went through a full red flag, green flag relationship quiz — and let's just say we don't always agree. Work wives, exes' stuff still at the house, going through phones, splitting the bill on the first date, sex on the first night… we covered it all. Chance added a whole yellow flag category. I stood my ground. Blackie may or may n
We're Tired — An Honest Conversation About Black Life and Nolan Wells
We're Tired — An Honest Conversation About Black Life and Nolan Wells Aug 1, 2026 00:49:06 This one is heavy — and it's supposed to be. Me and Chance sat down to talk about the weight of being Black in America. The weight of raising Black children. The weight of still showing up with joy and grace in a world that doesn't always value our lives. This conversation was sparked by the Nolan Wales case and everything it stirred up in us as parents, as a couple, and as Black people. Chance sh
Vacation vs. Field Trip — Are Do We Have different expectations?
Vacation vs. Field Trip — Are Do We Have different expectations? Jul 25, 2026 00:58:29 Me and Chance got into something that sounds simple but went deep fast — what's the difference between a vacation and a field trip, and are couples even going on the same kind of trip when they travel together? Chance broke down why family trips, itineraries, and historical sites all register as "field trips" in his brain, and why that goes all the way back to childhood. This one is going to make
Natural Born Leaders: Knowing When to Lead and When to Follow
Natural Born Leaders: Knowing When to Lead and When to Follow Jul 17, 2026 01:02:50 This episode started as one thing and turned into something so much deeper. Me and Chance got into what it really means to be a leader — not the performance of it, but the real thing. Chance talks about leading from childhood, protecting his friends before he even had words for it, and why his mama refusing to make him say "yes ma'am" to someone who hadn't earned it changed everything. We also tal
Who Are You When You're Not Needed?
Who Are You When You're Not Needed? Jul 10, 2026 01:02:43 This one got deep fast. Me and Chance are talking about who you are when all the titles are stripped away — no mother, no father, no provider, no caretaker. Just you. We both realized we've been needed by somebody since we were kids, and we unpack what that does to a person. Plus Chance gives his very thorough, very Chance breakdown of the difference between a need and a want — and let's just say
Should Married Couples Sleep in Separate Bedrooms?
Should Married Couples Sleep in Separate Bedrooms? Jul 3, 2026 00:41:55 Me and Chance are getting into something I never really understood until now — couples sleeping in separate bedrooms. My grandparents did it, a lot of your grandparents did it, and apparently it goes all the way back to kings and queens. We talk about why people do it, what it means for intimacy and connection, and whether it's actually a red flag or just smart living. Chance made it very clear wh
New Rules after 23 years: Relationship Report Cards & Holiday Planning
New Rules after 23 years: Relationship Report Cards & Holiday Planning Jun 26, 2026 00:54:03 Me and Chance are out here trying to create new relationship traditions — and accidentally exposing ourselves in the process. We heard about a couple who does a yearly relationship review on their anniversary and we loved it, so we're starting our own. Then we got into alternating holiday planning because I've been planning everything out of habit and it's time for that to change. Sounds simple, r
Father's Day vs Mother's Day: Why Father's Day Doesn't Get the Same Love
Father's Day vs Mother's Day: Why Father's Day Doesn't Get the Same Love Jun 19, 2026 00:41:03 Me and Chance got into something I didn't expect — why Father's Day never seems to get the same energy as Mother's Day, and whether we're the ones contributing to that. Turns out Chance has been quietly downplaying his own celebration for years, and we dug into why: how he was raised, what he saw modeled growing up, and what it means for how he shows up for our son now. We also found out when Fath
Disabilities, Vows & Loving Through the Hard Stuff | Fridays with Tab & Chance
Disabilities, Vows & Loving Through the Hard Stuff | Fridays with Tab & Chance Jun 12, 2026 00:38:39 The video we were inspired by: https://fb.watch/HHWIomEVd9/?mibextid=wwXIfr&fs=e  This one got real. Me and Chance are talking about something nobody wants to bring up before getting married — what happens when disability enters your relationship. My mama had ALS, and watching how her husband handled it left a mark on me I still carry. We get into what our vows actually mean, why anger shows up wh
What does support and belief in your partner look like in a relationship? Fridays w/ Tab & Chance
What does support and belief in your partner look like in a relationship? Fridays w/ Tab & Chance Jun 6, 2026 00:52:25 "Does Your Partner Believe in You?" | Fridays with Tab & Chance Me and Chance are getting into the difference between believing in someone and actually supporting them — and why those are NOT the same thing. Plus, I hit an NBA three-pointer to prove a point, I retired my husband from LAPD before he could do it himself, and we debate who'd survive longer on a deserted island. (Hint: Donna makes an

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