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The Self Love Podcast

The Self Love Podcast

Elaine Denton 114 Episodes Jun 16, 2026

The Self Love Podcast offers guidance and tools for learning to love yourself more. Hosted by Elaine Denton, a Psychospiritual Therapist and Life Coach, it bridges the gap between mind, body, and soul. The podcast shares her journey, lessons from client sessions, and wisdom on self-discovery. It is not intended as therapy or personal advice.

Episodes

How fear of vulnerability in relationships may be holding you back Jun 16, 2026 00:29:48 In this episode we explore the power and truth about vulnerability, and how fear of it may be holding you back in relationships; causing unnecessary stress, struggle and conflict whilst trying to protect yourself and how this fear will get in the way of empathy, intimacy and deeper connection. You can watch the Brene Brown ted talk hereIf you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level,
How to say goodbye to your inner good girl- 3/3 Jun 8, 2026 00:21:45 In this third episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about how we can create REAL and LASTING change to the 'good girl' childhood blueprint that once kept us safe, through reframing shame, removing self blame and reparenting the inner child to create compassion, courage and the confidence to be YOU. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠c
When being 'good' was used to silence others' abusive behaviours in childhood 2/3 May 31, 2026 00:27:01 TW: This episode contains reference to childhood trauma and abuse. In this second episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about the darker side of being the  ‘good girl' or good child when it’s related to intentional manipulation and abuse. I don’t go into detail, but we explore the different types of trauma and hopefully enough for you to feel seen and heard if this was your experience. If you want t
Being the 'good girl' and childhood conditioning- part 1/3 May 26, 2026 00:30:01 Being a 'good girl' was never meant to be your adult identityIn this first episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about the concept of 'good girl' childhood conditioning- where it comes from, how it happens and how it affects childhood and adulthood.If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love
The power of reparenting your inner child May 17, 2026 00:26:42 Being your own best friend is great advice, but this doesn't get to the vulnerable parts that really need it. In this episode, I talk about the concept of 'reparenting' your inner child, which really works to help you with your relationship to you and helps with the many patterns that are holding you back from self love. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠c
How being an underparented Gen X/millenial shaped your self love May 9, 2026 00:29:41 In this episode talk more about the generation we (and our parents before us) grew up in affected yours esne of self and ability to love yourself, and how anxious ir avoidant attachment might be shaping your life. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠ ⁠⁠click here⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read m
WTF is psychospirituality? The mind, the soul and the connection between Apr 28, 2026 00:25:02 In this episode and kickstarting a new season, I explain psychospirituality and why it is now pivotal to my role as a 'psychospiritual' therapist, and helping you connect to your ‘true self’. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can click here to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out m
90's 'nostalgia' and the harsh reality of growing up in as a gen x/late millennial Apr 8, 2026 00:28:50 In this episode, I explore the romanticising of the 90's, and some of the harsh realities we had to face (and probably why you listen to this podcast). It's an exploration and I hope it resonates (and might explain a few things). If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email commu
People pleasing, how being 'likeable' is really impacting your life (and how to change it) Mar 19, 2026 00:26:01 In this episode, I explore the impact of people pleasing , the true effects of being 'likeable' and steps you can take to create changes. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which includes reflections prompts for you to follow.You can read
Hyper-independence, self trust and me... Mar 5, 2026 00:22:01 In this episode, I share how hyper-independence is often seen in only trusting yourself is actually still related to lacking self trust and how it impacted my own life before my journey into self love. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠which incl
Is the Fire Horse more powerful than YOU? Feb 24, 2026 00:28:05 In this episode, I explore the codepency we may have on external 'forces' when we lack trust within ourselves, and how social media might be leading us further away from ourselves and our inner wisdom.You can now join my FREE 'self love unlocked' private community here with weekly posts, reflections and a live check in meditation. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me)
What is your inner critic telling you? Jan 18, 2026 00:30:27 If you were to answer this question, you'd likely reflect on the harsh words that your critical inner voice says, but in this episode, I share 'the 7 types of inner critic' as theorised by Psychologist Jay Earley and Psychotherapist Bonnie Weiss, who are within the Internal Family Systems experts (you can find out more about IFS here) to give you some further understanding on the things that hold

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