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The ANTD Podcast

The ANTD Podcast

D. Widders 92 Episodes Aug 6, 2026

Unfiltered wisdom on life and growing your relationship with God and your significant other. A married couple with over 16 years of experience shares stories of overcoming hard things, including cheating, death of family members, parenting, and business, to grow closer together and closer to God. Discover practical tips for building a strong spiritual foundation, better communication, and a loving, lasting relationship, all while depending on Jesus for strength and guidance.

Episodes

Can You Cheat on Someone and Still Love Them? The Psychology Behind Infidelity
Can You Cheat on Someone and Still Love Them? The Psychology Behind Infidelity Aug 6, 2026 1285 Can You Cheat on Someone and Still Love Them? The Psychology Behind Infidelity
Stop Giving The Affair Partner Power & Control Over Your Healing After Betrayal
Stop Giving The Affair Partner Power & Control Over Your Healing After Betrayal Jul 23, 2026 1677 When you've been betrayed, it's easy to become consumed by the affair partner—checking their social media, comparing yourself, replaying every detail, and wondering why they were "chosen."But what if that obsession is actually keeping you from healing?In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders unpack the psychology of betrayal trauma, intrusive thoughts, comparison, a
Can God REALLY Heal a Marriage After Infidelity? The TRUTH Every Couple Needs To Know AFTER BETRAYAL!
Can God REALLY Heal a Marriage After Infidelity? The TRUTH Every Couple Needs To Know AFTER BETRAYAL! Jul 9, 2026 1774 Can God really restore a marriage after cheating—or is that just something Christians say?In this episode of the ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask after betrayal: Can God heal a relationship without asking the betrayed spouse to ignore their pain? We explain why real healing never comes through denial, why forgiveness is only part of the journey, and
Is Cheating Is a Choice? — Who’s Really to Blame After Betrayal?
Is Cheating Is a Choice? — Who’s Really to Blame After Betrayal? Jun 26, 2026 1205 Cheating is one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and betrayal recovery.In episode 91 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we break down a hard truth many couples avoid:relationship problems may create tension, but cheating is still a choice.We dive deep into:Whether relationship issues can cause infidelityWhy cheating is always a personal decisionThe difference between
Intimacy After Infidelity: Why Your Partner Doesn't Want to Touch You
Intimacy After Infidelity: Why Your Partner Doesn't Want to Touch You Jun 18, 2026 1154 In Episode 90 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders discuss how the hardest part of healing after infidelity isn't learning how to have sex again—it's learning how to feel safe again.After betrayal, intimacy changes. Touch can trigger painful memories, emotional shutdown, intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance, or even a desperate need for closeness known as hyper-bonding. In this episode,
If I Knew This About Betrayal, I Never Would Have Cheated
If I Knew This About Betrayal, I Never Would Have Cheated Jun 11, 2026 1173 Why Betrayed & Unfaithful Spouses Live in Different Realities After Discovery | Healing After InfidelityIn this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders dive deep into one of the most painful realities of betrayal: why the person who cheated often doesn't understand the damage they've caused. Discover why D-Day (Discovery Day) marks the true beginning of trauma for the
Can a Relationship Survive Infidelity? How to Save Your Relationship After Betrayal
Can a Relationship Survive Infidelity? How to Save Your Relationship After Betrayal Jun 4, 2026 1606 Can a relationship survive infidelity, cheating and betrayal?Most people think cheating automatically means the relationship is over—but that's not always true. In this episode, Amee and D. Widders share their personal story of betrayal, recovery, and transformation while breaking down what actually predicts success after infidelity. They discuss accountability, transparency, rebuilding safety
Why You STILL Can’t Stop Thinking About the Affair (It’s Your Brain Protecting You) | Betrayal Trauma Explained Ep 87
Why You STILL Can’t Stop Thinking About the Affair (It’s Your Brain Protecting You) | Betrayal Trauma Explained Ep 87 May 28, 2026 1548 What if the reason you can’t stop thinking about the affair isn’t because you’re obsessed or “crazy” — but because your brain is desperately trying to protect you? In this raw and eye-opening episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee Widders and D. Widders reveal the truth about betrayal trauma, how infidelity hijacks your nervous system, and why triggers, hypervigilance, anxiety, and intrusive thoughts a
How to FORGIVE a Cheater Who Shattered Your Trust (Even If It Still Hurts) | Step-by-Step Guide Ep 86
How to FORGIVE a Cheater Who Shattered Your Trust (Even If It Still Hurts) | Step-by-Step Guide Ep 86 May 21, 2026 1443 In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we tackle one of the hardest questions after betrayal: How do you forgive someone who cheated on you?Amee shares vulnerably about forgiving D’s infidelity, while D opens up about the journey of repentance, self-forgiveness, and earning trust back. Together they break down why forgiveness isn’t weakness, isn’t forgetting, and is
How to Heal After Betrayal: 3 Mistakes Keeping You Stuck
How to Heal After Betrayal: 3 Mistakes Keeping You Stuck May 14, 2026 1876 Healing after betrayal isn’t just about rebuilding trust — it’s about recognizing the unhealthy coping patterns keeping you stuck. In Episode 85 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders break down the 3 most common unhealthy coping mechanisms couples fall into after infidelity, betrayal, and cheating — and the practical, faith-based steps that lead to real healing, restoration, and rebuilding trus
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to The Affair Partner After Betrayal & Infidelity
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to The Affair Partner After Betrayal & Infidelity May 7, 2026 1644 Feeling like you'll never measure up to your partner's affair partner? Obsessing over comparisons, checking social media, and questioning if you're enough? You're not alone — and it doesn't have to destroy you.In this raw and powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders get brutally honest about betrayal trauma. Amee shares how she broke free from obsessive thought
The Truth About Affair Partners & How to Break Free From Them (It’s Not What You Think)
The Truth About Affair Partners & How to Break Free From Them (It’s Not What You Think) Apr 30, 2026 1414 In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we take a raw and honest look at affair partners, side relationships, and secret affairs—and the deeper emotional pull that keeps people going back even when they know it’s destroying everything.We break down why the connection to an affair partner can feel so addictive, what it’s doing beneath the surface of your primary relationship,

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