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Self Obsessed

Self Obsessed

Tam Kaur 128 Episodes Jul 24, 2026

Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.

Episodes

mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires
mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires Jul 24, 2026 00:23:18 if you've ever felt invisible, believed you were "just shy," or convinced yourself that confidence was something other people were born with, this conversation is for you. we explore why your self-concept is the foundation of every change you want to make, and how the identity you've carried for years may be quietly shaping your reality without you even realizing it. when you sto
why are women getting dumber on purpose?
why are women getting dumber on purpose? Jul 17, 2026 00:15:30 if you've ever caught yourself saying "i'm just a girl," embracing girl math or girl dinner, or believing that helplessness is part of being feminine, this conversation is for you. we explore how the identities you repeat shape your self-concept, confidence, and self-worth, and why social media trends can quietly reinforce limiting beliefs. true confidence isn't about playing
why undeserving people always seem to succeed
why undeserving people always seem to succeed Jul 9, 2026 00:12:25 if they could do it without the credentials, the only thing standing between you and that outcome is not capability, it is belief. if you've ever wondered why people with less experience or fewer qualifications are achieving the success you want, this video is for you. we explore how your self-concept, confidence, and self-worth shape your reality, why comparison on social media fuels scarcity
why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did
why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did Jun 29, 2026 00:13:17 this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became the proof that you had healed, evolved, and finally de-centered men. but what if true feminism requires something entirely different? in this video, i break down the 7 reasons why letting go of man-hating changed the way i v
REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want
REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want May 29, 2026 00:22:53 if you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except you...this reality check is for you ❤️ in today's video, we’re talking about self concept, attachment styles, manifestation, boundaries, confidence, detachment, and the small daily choices that either move you closer to health
how to transform your life before summer (you have one month)
how to transform your life before summer (you have one month) May 22, 2026 00:17:29 this is your mid-year reminder that you do not need to wait until january to become the woman you said you wanted to be. in this video, we reset your space, your phone, your mind, and your habits so you can stop avoiding your goals and start rebuilding discipline, self-trust, and momentum before 2026 slips away. if you have been feeling stuck, burnt out, inconsistent, or disconnected from your fut
how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work)
how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work) May 12, 2026 00:21:15 this one is for the woman who has already done the work. who knows the tools. who has grown and who keeps hitting the same wall every time she tries to go higher. your inner critic does not disappear when you evolve. it evolves with you. it gets quieter, subtler, and far more dangerous. it stops sounding like self-hate and starts sounding like wisdom. and that is when it does the most damage. this
how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life
how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life May 8, 2026 00:21:40 you already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why being nice is quietly sabotaging your goals, your self-esteem, your energy, and the company you keep. why your body is paying a physical price for every emotion you've swallowed to keep the peace. why the women who get treate
why women who put themselves first win every time
why women who put themselves first win every time Apr 21, 2026 00:21:45 for the woman who has always been the reliable one. the one who shows up, gives everything, and somehow still ends up last on her own list — without being able to explain why. this video is the explanation. and the way out. there is a system built into friendships, families, relationships, and culture itself that keeps women small. it does not announce itself loudly. it uses guilt, shame, and a si
how to ACTUALLY be yourself (when you've forgotten who that is)
how to ACTUALLY be yourself (when you've forgotten who that is) Apr 16, 2026 00:18:21 feeling disconnected from yourself and tired of second-guessing everything you say, do, and want? in this video, i’m talking about how people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and old survival patterns can quietly pull you away from who you really are, until you barely recognize your own voice. we’re getting into why authenticity can feel so hard, how social media, relationships, and the need to be lik
the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl"
the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl" Mar 27, 2026 00:15:29 hey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite part in the comments 💌becoming the IT girl starts with realizing you were never missing “it” you just needed to stop searching for it in trends, attention, or other people’s validation. in this video, we’re talking about what it rea
watch this when you want to give up
watch this when you want to give up Mar 23, 2026 00:15:29 watch this when you want to give up and need a reminder that this difficult season of your life is not where your story ends. in this episode, we’re talking about feeling stuck, unmotivated, behind, or like nothing is working even though you’re trying your best. this is for the girl in a slump or in the messy middle who wants to keep going, trust her journey, and stay committed to becoming the wom

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