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Self Obsessed

Self Obsessed

Tam Kaur 128 Episodes Sep 4, 2026

Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.

Episodes

5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way
5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way Sep 4, 2026 00:19:40 [ad] Text CHECK to 82228 to sign up for CoppaFeel!’s free monthly text reminder service, and they’ll remind you to check your chest every month.PRE-ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY JOURNALmanifesting true love can feel like it’s all about finding the right person, but the healthiest relationships begin with the relationship you have with yourself. in this video, i’m sharing my 5-step self-obsessed guide to m
watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk]
watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk] Aug 28, 2026 00:17:25 going back to school or university can feel like the perfect opportunity to reinvent yourself, but real confidence starts with changing how you see yourself. in this video, i’m sharing 8 mindset shifts that will help you stop living through other people’s opinions and start making choices based on the person you actually want to become. we’ll talk about how to stop chasing validation, handle rejec
watch this when you feel behind in life | comparison, self-doubt, and finding your own path
watch this when you feel behind in life | comparison, self-doubt, and finding your own path Aug 21, 2026 00:13:19 feeling like everyone else is moving forward while you’re falling behind in life? i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 10 reassuring facts and mindset shifts to help you stop comparing yourself to others and trust your own timeline. we’ll talk about navigating self-doubt, letting go of the pressure to have it all figured out, and finding your own path. whether you’re questioning your progre
MID YEAR RESET 2026: the 1% plan to become unrecognisable in 6 months
MID YEAR RESET 2026: the 1% plan to become unrecognisable in 6 months Aug 5, 2026 00:29:26 if you've been waiting for a sign to reset your life, let this be it. the middle of the year is one of the most powerful times to pause and reflect because you still have enough time to completely change how this year ends. in this video, we'll talk about what a true mid-year reset actually looks like and why the second half of the year can completely change the direction of the first. fro
mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires
mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires Jul 24, 2026 00:23:18 if you've ever felt invisible, believed you were "just shy," or convinced yourself that confidence was something other people were born with, this conversation is for you. we explore why your self-concept is the foundation of every change you want to make, and how the identity you've carried for years may be quietly shaping your reality without you even realizing it. when you sto
why are women getting dumber on purpose?
why are women getting dumber on purpose? Jul 17, 2026 00:15:30 if you've ever caught yourself saying "i'm just a girl," embracing girl math or girl dinner, or believing that helplessness is part of being feminine, this conversation is for you. we explore how the identities you repeat shape your self-concept, confidence, and self-worth, and why social media trends can quietly reinforce limiting beliefs. true confidence isn't about playing
why undeserving people always seem to succeed
why undeserving people always seem to succeed Jul 9, 2026 00:12:25 if they could do it without the credentials, the only thing standing between you and that outcome is not capability, it is belief. if you've ever wondered why people with less experience or fewer qualifications are achieving the success you want, this video is for you. we explore how your self-concept, confidence, and self-worth shape your reality, why comparison on social media fuels scarcity
why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did
why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did Jun 29, 2026 00:13:17 this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became the proof that you had healed, evolved, and finally de-centered men. but what if true feminism requires something entirely different? in this video, i break down the 7 reasons why letting go of man-hating changed the way i v
REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want
REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want May 29, 2026 00:22:53 if you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except you...this reality check is for you ❤️ in today's video, we’re talking about self concept, attachment styles, manifestation, boundaries, confidence, detachment, and the small daily choices that either move you closer to health
how to transform your life before summer (you have one month)
how to transform your life before summer (you have one month) May 22, 2026 00:17:29 this is your mid-year reminder that you do not need to wait until january to become the woman you said you wanted to be. in this video, we reset your space, your phone, your mind, and your habits so you can stop avoiding your goals and start rebuilding discipline, self-trust, and momentum before 2026 slips away. if you have been feeling stuck, burnt out, inconsistent, or disconnected from your fut
how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work)
how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work) May 12, 2026 00:21:15 this one is for the woman who has already done the work. who knows the tools. who has grown and who keeps hitting the same wall every time she tries to go higher. your inner critic does not disappear when you evolve. it evolves with you. it gets quieter, subtler, and far more dangerous. it stops sounding like self-hate and starts sounding like wisdom. and that is when it does the most damage. this
how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life
how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life May 8, 2026 00:21:40 you already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why being nice is quietly sabotaging your goals, your self-esteem, your energy, and the company you keep. why your body is paying a physical price for every emotion you've swallowed to keep the peace. why the women who get treate

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