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One Degree Marriage: a Christian Marriage Podcast

One Degree Marriage: a Christian Marriage Podcast

Nathaniel & Xan Sibley 165 Episodes Jun 22, 2026

A Christian marriage podcast hosted by Nathaniel and Xan Sibley, offering biblical wisdom and practical tools for couples. The show focuses on helping couples stay connected, handle conflict with grace, grow spiritually, and bring fun and intimacy into their marriage. Each episode encourages small, intentional changes that lead to lasting transformation. The podcast aims to help listeners build a Christ-centered, flourishing marriage.

Episodes

The Hidden Cost of Comparing Your Marriage to Others Jun 22, 2026 27:55 You scroll past an anniversary post or a friend's date night photo, and the thought slips in: why don't we have that? If that sounds familiar, comparison is quietly costing your marriage more than you realize.In this episode, we get honest about comparison in marriage and why it is such a sneaky threat to contentment. We talk about why social media makes comparing your marriage to other couples ea
The One Conversation Your Marriage Is Missing Jun 8, 2026 33:16 You're probably pretty good at the logistics. Who's getting the kids, who's making dinner, who remembered to call the plumber. But when's the last time you and your spouse slowed down long enough to ask: where are we actually going?In this episode, we're talking about the one conversation that tends to get skipped in even the healthiest marriages — casting a vision for your family. Not a financial
The Billy Graham Rule: Should Your Marriage Follow It? Jun 1, 2026 29:11 Every marriage needs guardrails. But does a rule about never being alone with someone of the opposite sex actually protect you, or just give you a false sense of security?In Episode 160, we tackle the Billy Graham Rule head-on: what it is, why it exists, and whether married couples actually need to follow it. We share our honest take while also making clear that "not following the rule" doesn't me
How to Protect Your Marriage in the Season of Young Kids May 25, 2026 34:33 You're doing the dishes, the diapers, and the 2 a.m. wake-ups—and somewhere in the middle of all of it, your marriage quietly slips to the back of the line. This episode is for every couple in the thick of the littles who still wants to choose each other.In this episode, we pull back the curtain on our own two-under-two season: a colicky second baby, COVID isolation, no family nearby, no meal trai
158: Unequally Yoked: 6 Shifts When Your Spouse Doesn't Believe May 18, 2026 27:36 Some weeks the loneliest seat in the house is the one right next to your spouse. If you love Jesus and they don't (or they used to, and now it's complicated) this episode is for you.Whether your spouse is a non-believer or simply lukewarm in their faith, the conversation walks through six practical, hope-forward practices for staying steady... without slipping into bitterness, pride, or quiet comp
157: 6 Things We Wish We Knew About Sex Before Marriage May 11, 2026 40:19 You said "I do," and then assumed sex would just figure itself out. For a lot of couples, it doesn't. And the silence around that can make you feel like you're the only one struggling.In this episode, we get honest about the first three years of our marriage, when sex felt more like a burden than a blessing, and what we wish someone had told us sooner. We unpack the lingering weight of purity cult
156: How to Communicate About Schedules in Marriage (Without Fighting) May 4, 2026 20:15 Ever been blindsided by something on your spouse's calendar — a meeting, a trip, a last-minute Cubs game — that you swear they never told you about? You're not alone. Most couples default to reactive scheduling, and it costs them more than they realize.In this episode:Why "I told you about this" fights almost always come down to expectations, not memoryThe two questions to ask every week — and why
155: 5 Ways to Get Out of a Marriage Rut Apr 27, 2026 25:04 Your marriage isn't in crisis. There's no betrayal. No big fight. No broken trust. You're both showing up, doing your jobs, putting food on the table, and somewhere along the way, "showing up" quietly turned into "going through the motions."That's a rut. And it's the most common (and most overlooked) season in a marriage.In this episode, we unpack a Yahoo column about a husband whose answer to "I
154: Hospitality with a Less-than-Ideal House Apr 20, 2026 26:13 What if the secret to deeper friendships, stronger family rhythms, and richer Christian community wasn't a bigger house or a better-cooked meal, but simply opening your door every Friday night?Let's chat about our weekly "Sabbath Kickoff Dinner"—a standing Friday night meal with friends and kids that's become the most anticipated part of our week. We unpack the difference between cultural hospital
153: Why Gratitude Is the Secret to a Happier Marriage (And How to Actually Practice It) Apr 13, 2026 36:56 In this episode, we're getting honest about one of the sneakiest marriage killers: ungratefulness. We've found in our own marriage, and in the couples we talk to, that the longer you're together, the easier it is to start taking your spouse for granted. The things that once drew you to them? You stop noticing. And the things that bother you? They seem to get louder.In this episode, we talk about:W
152: How to Out-Serve Your Spouse (And Why Most Marriages Never Get There) Apr 6, 2026 37:15 What would your marriage look like if both of you woke up every morning asking, "How can I out-serve my spouse today?"In this episode, we get real about what it actually means to seek to out-serve your spouse, the subtle scoreboard most couples keep, why our flesh resists serving without reciprocation, and how the gospel completely reframes what sacrifice is meant to look like in marriage.In this
151: 6 Ways Marriage Changes You Mar 30, 2026 35:22 Marriage will change you — the question is, will it change you for better or worse?In this episode, we get honest about six real ways marriage has shaped, stretched, and sanctified us — the good stuff AND the uncomfortable stuff. From sin being exposed (yes, including the t-shirt drawer debate) to learning that love is a daily choice and not just a feeling, this one's a candid conversation you'll

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