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Thrive While Loving an Addict | Addiction | Sobriety | Recovery | Relapse

Thrive While Loving an Addict | Addiction | Sobriety | Recovery | Relapse

KL Wells 103 Episodes Oct 6, 2026

More than 50% of American families have a loved one who is an addict or alcoholic. While resources exist for the addict, their families often suffer in silence. This podcast brings together loved ones and family members to share insights and create a community of healing. Host KL Wells provides a platform for real, raw advice from those walking the same path. Listen to vulnerable stories and discover how to address the hardships of having an addicted loved one.

Episodes

Jim Horton: Finding Joy Again After Losing a Son to Overdose
Jim Horton: Finding Joy Again After Losing a Son to Overdose Oct 6, 2026 42:52 What happens when staying busy becomes the only way you know how to survive grief?After losing his son Zachary to an overdose in January 2020, Jim Horton kept moving. He read more than 50 books a year, worked out almost every day, taught skiing, and devoted 60 to 80 hours a week to the foundation he created in Zachary's memory.For years, staying busy helped keep the grief at a distance. But when J
Loving a Brother Through Addiction: Justin Burgy's Story
Loving a Brother Through Addiction: Justin Burgy's Story Sep 22, 2026 42:54 What does it mean to become the "fixer" in your family, and what happens when fixing stops working?In this episode, KL Wells sits down with Justin Burgy, an author from Youngstown, Ohio, whose novel Not My Brother's Keeper grew from his family's generational experience with addiction. Justin first watched his father struggle with cocaine addiction. Roughly a decade later, he found himself confront
Why Good News Can Be Just as Dangerous for a Relapse as a Crisis
Why Good News Can Be Just as Dangerous for a Relapse as a Crisis Sep 8, 2026 29:15 What happens when the good news carries its own emotional weight?Three and a half years into her son Sam's recovery, KL Wells is watching him experience milestones that once felt far away: a new home, a new job, and the possibility of a promotion. These are moments worth celebrating. They have also taught KL something she did not initially expect. Recovery is not only about learning how to move th
His Father's Death Sent Him Into Addiction, Then Jail.
His Father's Death Sent Him Into Addiction, Then Jail. Aug 25, 2026 51:53 What happens when the person who taught you how to survive chaos is also part of the reason you never learned to feel safe?Richard Lynch spent his childhood learning to read his father's voice for warning signs, sometimes recognizing days in advance that another crisis was coming. He grew up quickly, did well in school, and eventually built a life that appeared to be working. Then his father died,
Grief Doesn't Get to Decide Who You Become
Grief Doesn't Get to Decide Who You Become Aug 11, 2026 40:57 What happens when life changes in an instant?Within just ten days, Elizabeth Grandinetti lost both her grandfather and her fiancé while recovering from major surgery. The losses were overwhelming, and for a time, grief became the center of her world. This conversation explores what came next: the slow work of healing, rediscovering herself, and learning that while grief changes us, it does not hav
Drugs Destroyed My Life, and I Wasn't Even Using Them with Mark Manderson
Drugs Destroyed My Life, and I Wasn't Even Using Them with Mark Manderson Jul 28, 2026 46:52 What happens to the eight-year-old boy who finds his aunt collapsed on the floor, pills beneath his feet, and has to call for someone to help her? What happens when, years later, he discovers that the childhood memory he questioned was real?For Mark Manderson, that experience became part of a much larger story. His aunt died from a drug overdose when he was young, but the memory remained buried un
Why She Had to Move Her Daughter Out to Save Them Both
Why She Had to Move Her Daughter Out to Save Them Both Jul 14, 2026 38:45 Loving someone through addiction or mental illness can slowly consume every part of your life. The focus shifts to crisis after crisis, while your own well-being quietly slips into the background.In this episode, KL Wells sits down with Lisa Taylor to share the deeply personal story of reaching that breaking point. Together, they explore the difficult decision to step back, the courage it took to
What Sits Right Beside the Worst Thing That Ever Happened to You
What Sits Right Beside the Worst Thing That Ever Happened to You Jun 30, 2026 51:07 Healing from trauma rarely happens all at once. It unfolds over time, often in ways that are difficult to recognize while you're living through them. The journey beyond survival can be uncertain, filled with moments of growth, grief, and unexpected clarity.In Part 2 of this conversation, Jason Prokowiew returns to continue sharing his story. Building on the experiences explored in Part 1, he refle
Two Wars: One His Father Fought, One Jason Lived In
Two Wars: One His Father Fought, One Jason Lived In Jun 16, 2026 49:50 What does it take to understand a parent who hurt you?Not excuse them. Not justify what happened. Simply understand them in a way that helps make sense of wounds that have been carried for years.In this episode, KL Wells sits down with Jason Prokowiew, author of War Boys, to explore the lasting impact of addiction, generational trauma, and the possibility of finding healing through understanding.E
Running Out Of Capacity Is Not The Same As Giving Up
Running Out Of Capacity Is Not The Same As Giving Up Jun 2, 2026 29:49 For years, Sherry Ehrin grieved a sister who was still alive. When her sister eventually died after decades of addiction, that grief did not end. In many ways, it began again.This conversation explores the kind of loss that families often carry quietly: the grief that accumulates through years of relapse, hope, disappointment, and difficult choices. It is a story about love, capacity, boundaries,
Drowning With Them Is Not the Same as Loving Them
Drowning With Them Is Not the Same as Loving Them May 19, 2026 52:17 What does it mean to love someone through addiction when the addiction is almost completely invisible from the outside?In this episode, KL Wells sits down with Dr. Wanda Kay, a clinician, somatic therapist, and coach who spent twenty years married to someone struggling with sex addiction while raising children, building careers, and trying to hold together a life that appeared stable to everyone a
No One Is Coming to Save You. That Is the Point.
No One Is Coming to Save You. That Is the Point. May 5, 2026 50:08 What does it look like to grow up inside the kind of environment many families are trying to help their loved ones escape?Bill Hoopes shares what it was like to take on adult responsibility at a young age in a home shaped by addiction and mental illness. His story offers a perspective that many listeners may recognize, especially those who learned early on to care for others before learning how to

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