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Thrive While Loving an Addict | Addiction | Sobriety | Recovery | Relapse

Thrive While Loving an Addict | Addiction | Sobriety | Recovery | Relapse

KL Wells 103 Episodes Aug 11, 2026

More than 50% of American families have a loved one who is an addict or alcoholic. While resources exist for the addict, their families often suffer in silence. This podcast brings together loved ones and family members to share insights and create a community of healing. Host KL Wells provides a platform for real, raw advice from those walking the same path. Listen to vulnerable stories and discover how to address the hardships of having an addicted loved one.

Episodes

Grief Doesn't Get to Decide Who You Become
Grief Doesn't Get to Decide Who You Become Aug 11, 2026 40:57 What happens when life changes in an instant?Within just ten days, Elizabeth Grandinetti lost both her grandfather and her fiancé while recovering from major surgery. The losses were overwhelming, and for a time, grief became the center of her world. This conversation explores what came next: the slow work of healing, rediscovering herself, and learning that while grief changes us, it does not hav
Drugs Destroyed My Life, and I Wasn't Even Using Them with Mark Manderson
Drugs Destroyed My Life, and I Wasn't Even Using Them with Mark Manderson Jul 28, 2026 46:52 What happens to the eight-year-old boy who finds his aunt collapsed on the floor, pills beneath his feet, and has to call for someone to help her? What happens when, years later, he discovers that the childhood memory he questioned was real?For Mark Manderson, that experience became part of a much larger story. His aunt died from a drug overdose when he was young, but the memory remained buried un
Why She Had to Move Her Daughter Out to Save Them Both
Why She Had to Move Her Daughter Out to Save Them Both Jul 14, 2026 38:45 Loving someone through addiction or mental illness can slowly consume every part of your life. The focus shifts to crisis after crisis, while your own well-being quietly slips into the background.In this episode, KL Wells sits down with Lisa Taylor to share the deeply personal story of reaching that breaking point. Together, they explore the difficult decision to step back, the courage it took to
What Sits Right Beside the Worst Thing That Ever Happened to You
What Sits Right Beside the Worst Thing That Ever Happened to You Jun 30, 2026 51:07 Healing from trauma rarely happens all at once. It unfolds over time, often in ways that are difficult to recognize while you're living through them. The journey beyond survival can be uncertain, filled with moments of growth, grief, and unexpected clarity.In Part 2 of this conversation, Jason Prokowiew returns to continue sharing his story. Building on the experiences explored in Part 1, he refle
Two Wars: One His Father Fought, One Jason Lived In
Two Wars: One His Father Fought, One Jason Lived In Jun 16, 2026 49:50 What does it take to understand a parent who hurt you?Not excuse them. Not justify what happened. Simply understand them in a way that helps make sense of wounds that have been carried for years.In this episode, KL Wells sits down with Jason Prokowiew, author of War Boys, to explore the lasting impact of addiction, generational trauma, and the possibility of finding healing through understanding.E
Running Out Of Capacity Is Not The Same As Giving Up
Running Out Of Capacity Is Not The Same As Giving Up Jun 2, 2026 29:49 For years, Sherry Ehrin grieved a sister who was still alive. When her sister eventually died after decades of addiction, that grief did not end. In many ways, it began again.This conversation explores the kind of loss that families often carry quietly: the grief that accumulates through years of relapse, hope, disappointment, and difficult choices. It is a story about love, capacity, boundaries,
Drowning With Them Is Not the Same as Loving Them
Drowning With Them Is Not the Same as Loving Them May 19, 2026 52:17 What does it mean to love someone through addiction when the addiction is almost completely invisible from the outside?In this episode, KL Wells sits down with Dr. Wanda Kay, a clinician, somatic therapist, and coach who spent twenty years married to someone struggling with sex addiction while raising children, building careers, and trying to hold together a life that appeared stable to everyone a
No One Is Coming to Save You. That Is the Point.
No One Is Coming to Save You. That Is the Point. May 5, 2026 50:08 What does it look like to grow up inside the kind of environment many families are trying to help their loved ones escape?Bill Hoopes shares what it was like to take on adult responsibility at a young age in a home shaped by addiction and mental illness. His story offers a perspective that many listeners may recognize, especially those who learned early on to care for others before learning how to
She Scared Herself Sober — and Then Found Her Purpose
She Scared Herself Sober — and Then Found Her Purpose Apr 21, 2026 55:49 In this episode of Thrive While Loving an Addict, KL Wells sits down with Lauren Fay to explore the hidden emotional landscape of addiction, particularly when it is shaped by perfectionism, secrecy, and the pressure to maintain an image. Lauren shares her experience of appearing put together on the outside while quietly struggling with alcohol and mental health challenges behind closed doors.As La
He Died Twice on the Streets Before Finding His Way Back
He Died Twice on the Streets Before Finding His Way Back Apr 7, 2026 42:18 Episode SummaryIn this episode of Thrive While Loving an Addict, KL Wells sits down with Dr. Robb Kelly, a neuroscientist and addiction specialist, to explore what it means to understand addiction as a disease rather than a moral failure. Dr. Kelly shares his personal journey from early exposure to alcohol in childhood to losing his family, home, and stability, and eventually living on the streets
She Grew Up With Two Alcoholic Fathers — Here’s What Healed Her
She Grew Up With Two Alcoholic Fathers — Here’s What Healed Her Mar 24, 2026 46:56 Episode SummaryIn this episode of Thrive While Loving an Addict, KL Wells sits down with Dawn Jackson, a nurse, grief recovery specialist, and author, to explore what happens when grief goes unnamed for years. Dawn shares her experience growing up with both a biological father and a stepfather struggling with alcoholism, and how those early environments shaped what felt normal, safe, and familiar.
You're Not Stuck — You're Still Following Rules That Once Kept You Safe: Breaking Free from Inherited Patterns
You're Not Stuck — You're Still Following Rules That Once Kept You Safe: Breaking Free from Inherited Patterns Mar 10, 2026 44:31 Episode SummaryIn this episode of Thrive While Loving an Addict, producer Steve Cary joins host KL Wells to explore how deeply rooted patterns shape the way we think, respond, and relate to others. Many of these patterns begin in childhood as survival strategies within family systems affected by addiction, chaos, or emotional unpredictability.KL reflects on how growing up with a mother struggling

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