Dear Tyla
This is a podcast of my discussions with Tyla. Tyla is just an alias for all the listeners of this podcast. We get to discuss topics on Faith, General Life Issues and have some Musical moments together.
Episodes
I Almost Got Married (For The 7th Time).
Hey Dear Tyla,Have you ever talked yourself out of a moment before it even had the chance to happen? Fear, assumptions, and second-guessing can make us read too much into a situation—or imagine an ending that hasn’t come. Sometimes, while trying to protect ourselves from disappointment, we miss the possibility right in front of us.In this episode, I’m reflecting on the “what could have been” momen
Humble Limitations
Hey Dear Tyla,Have you ever called it humility when, deep down, you were shrinking back from what God placed in you?In Humble Limitations, we explore how a desire to stay modest can quietly become a reason to play small—downplaying our gifts, doubting our capacity, and holding back from the very things God has entrusted to us. Humility isn’t pretending you have nothing to offer. It’s recognising t
Me On Trial
Hey Dear Tyla,In this continuation of Will I Marry Me?, we take the conversation a little deeper—and turn the questions inward. How often do you pause to examine your own actions? What are your motives and intentions really saying about you? And are you willing to be honest about the parts of yourself that still need to grow?Self-evaluation isn’t about tearing yourself down or living in regret. It
Will I Marry Me?
Could you lead ten versions of yourself — at your current level — and sleep well at night?If following you was someone else's assignment, would they be confident… or stressed?In this episode, we sit with a question most of us run from: the honest evaluation of self. It's easy to demand from others what we've never addressed in our own lives — patience we don't practice, growth we haven't started,
Captive Convictions
Hey Dear Tyla Have you ever held onto a belief so tightly that it became the very thing holding you back?In this vulnerable episode of Dear Tyla, we unpack the silent prison of captive convictions — those sincere, well-meaning beliefs spoken over us that eventually became the chains we couldn't see.From misreading a scripture to mean "someone else will rescue me," to carrying a poverty mindset tha
Do You Know Me?
After over 6 months of being away Dear Tyla is back. I'm back and so excited. I've been on a journey of self discovery and excited to share with you all what I've learned so far.In today's episode I delve into the issues of being hidden. If you desire impact and generational influence you have to make your self known. How many things do people enjoy from you but never know it's from you?Favour nee
Peer Pressure
We live in a world motivated by the need to feel among and valued. Nobody truly thrives in isolation. A few introverts may say they enjoy their space but deep within we all want to belong to a community.Many of the things we learn come from the people within our environment and our peers in particular. Sadly many to these things leaned are vices and negative attributes. But this poses a question.
Algorithms
Have you ever noticed how your social media feed seems tailor made for you specifically? Have you ever wondered how these organisations bring in things that you like or are interested in? Algorithms are a powerful aspect of the Tech world. They hold so much power in understanding users and giving predictable outcomes. Do you think it's possible to create predictable outcomes for your life? In
In His Hands
What do you do when life feels uncertain?Where do you turn when the noise of negativity is louder than your faith?And how do you keep trusting when the road ahead isn’t clear?In this episode, we pause to confront those quiet questions many of us carry but rarely voice. In His Hands invites you to shift your focus from what’s shaking around you to what is holding you steady. It’s not about ignoring
Helpers
God is always sending help—often in ways we don’t expect and through people we don’t anticipate. But there’s a powerful truth many of us overlook: help is revealed when we move in obedience.In Helpers, we explore how divine provision is activated by faith-filled steps. Scripture shows us again and again that God releases resources, relationships, and direction when we respond to His Word. If we ne
Voices
The world is filled with so many voices. So many opinions are communicated to us on a daily basis that we can’t help but end up hearing all these things.Yet, in all this, the question begs: which voice is the most important to listen to? The voice of God, that of people, or of situations? Or is there a hidden voice we haven’t considered yet?In this episode, we go deep to discuss not just the voice
Your Story, His Script
Have you ever wondered if your life is truly random, or if there’s a divine plan guiding every step you take? In this episode, we dive deep into the truth that your life is authored by God, and every chapter, every challenge, and every triumph is part of His perfect script. Drawing inspiration from Jeremiah 29:11, we explore how God has already placed landmarks, checkpoints, and divine directions
More Than A Survivor
Have you ever thanked God for surviving… yet felt weary of just surviving?In this episode of Dear Tyla, we explore the quiet shift from survival as a season to survival as an identity—and the gentle invitation God extends to move beyond it.Survival is a miracle.But it was never the mission.Through scripture, reflection, and honest truth, this episode speaks to those who have endured, remained stro
Becoming Me
Sometimes life doesn’t just change you… it rewrites you. You grow up, you survive, you keep moving — and then one day you look at yourself and quietly wonder, “Is this really me… or just who life forced me to become?”This episode is for the version of you that got buried under survival, expectations, heartbreak, strength, responsibility, and silence. We’re talking about becoming — not hustling, no
The Beauty Of Pruning
Have you ever felt like progress was delayed, not from disobedience, but from excess?Have you ever wondered if the breakthrough you’re praying for is hidden in something God is asking you to release?In this episode of Dear Tyla, we talk about pruning—not as loss, but as intention.Not as punishment, but as preparation.We explore why God prunes fruitful branches, why rebranding often begins with red
New Beginnings Again
Happy New Year Dear Tyla. Here's a question for you! Have you ever felt like nothing is wrong…but something has to change?What if the discomfort you feel isn’t confusion—but God doing something new?This episode is for anyone who’s outgrown an old version of themselves and is quietly beginning again.You’re not late.You’re not behind.You’re becoming.
Identify Crisis (Broken Image)
A mirror is meant to reflect truth — but what happens when the mirror is broken?In this episode, Broken Image, we dive deep into how distorted reflections can shape how we see ourselves, our worth, and even our relationship with God. Many of us are living through cracked lenses—shaped by pain, rejection, or comparison—forgetting that the only true reflection of who we are is found in the Word of G
Identity Crisis (I Have A Father)
Many of us wrestle with who we are because we’ve never truly known whose we are. In this episode of Dear Tyla, we dive deep into the quiet ache of fatherlessness — not just in the natural, but in how it distorts our view of God.When our earthly experiences paint a broken picture of fatherhood, it becomes difficult to trust, rest, or receive love from the One who calls Himself “Abba.” But healing b
I Owe God
God has given everyone a gift. This is something that is unique and brings value to your life. Do you know that we owe God a debt by sharing the gift with others? We usually despise our gifts because we compare it with others. In this episode I share how God brought my attention to the debt I owe Him
Welcome Back
It's been a while that I uploaded an episode. A lot has been happening but thank God for everything. In this episode I share a bit of what I've been through. It's been a challenging period but more than ever I'm glad to be back
Ask The Right Question
This episode is a quiet invitation to pause and reflect on the questions we bring before God. Sometimes, the issue isn't whether God is answering—it's whether we're asking the right questions in the first place.Rather than chasing answers that fit our plans, this reflection points to the wisdom of aligning with God's way. His way often challenges our assumptions, stretches our patience, and reorde
When God Offends You
What do you do when God doesn’t meet your expectations? When prayers go unanswered and His silence feels like rejection?In this episode, we talk about the hidden purpose in divine disappointment. God’s promises come with a process—and though it may offend you, it's shaping the person you're becoming.Tune in and be reminded: delay isn’t denial, and the process is priceless.
Rock! Paper! Scissors!
Life doesn’t come with a manual—but it does come with moments that demand discernment. In this episode, we explore how wisdom isn’t just about knowing, but knowing what fits when. Like the childhood game, each situation we face requires a different response—rock, paper, or scissors. But how do you know which one to play? Dive into this thought-provoking conversation where strategy meets spirituali
Do You Love Me?
It’s a simple question — until it isn’t.In this episode, we journey into the heart of a question that has stopped many in their tracks. “Do you love me?” It sounds tender… until it demands an answer. When asked by a partner, it can echo with desperation, longing, or truth we’ve tried to avoid. But what if the real question being asked isn't about the other person at all?This is not just a conversa
Let It Shine
In a world where humility is often misunderstood as hiding, this episode challenges you to let your light shine unapologetically. Many of us wrestle with the tension between being visible and being seen as prideful — but how can anyone glorify God for what they’ve never seen?In Let It Shine, we talk about the importance of making your gifts known, not for self-promotion, but so that the world may
The Story Behind My Song Faithful God
In this heartfelt episode, I share the story behind my song Faithful God — a melody birthed from the fire of personal encounters and the unwavering truth of God's nature. This episode explores how every testimony is more than a recount of the past; it is a prophetic seed for the future.A testimony is not just a “look what God has done”, it’s a bold “He can do it again” — for you, for me, for anyon
Thinking Out Loud
In this special episode, I’m simply thinking out loud—reminiscing on the journey of Dear Tyla as we celebrate 4 incredible years. From uncertain beginnings to becoming a voice of hope and truth, this episode is a heartfelt reflection on the growth, the grit, the grace, and the God moments that have shaped us. I talk about the milestones we’ve crossed, the challenges that refined us, and the unexpe
Live Again
Sometimes it feels like certain parts of our lives are gone for good — missed opportunities, lost dreams, or the grace we think we once carried. But in this heartfelt episode of Dear Tyla, we’re reminded that nothing is ever truly dead when it’s reconnected to its Source. God is not just a redeemer; He is a restorer. As long as there is breath in your lungs, there is hope for life again. Restorati
Dining With The Enemy
God is a God that rewards. He sees. He rewards and is setting a beautiful table in your honour. But what if the table God is preparing for you isn’t just about blessing — but about testifying? In this powerful episode, we explore the meaning behind God’s open display of favor — not hidden, not quiet, but right where the enemy can see. It's not about shaming others, but about revealing His goodness
Perfectly Broken
In this soul-stirring episode of the podcast, we dive into the beauty hidden in brokenness. Perfectly Broken reminds us that God is not repelled by our cracks—He’s drawn to them. He sees beyond the shattered pieces and lovingly mends, molds, and uses them for His glory.Through raw reflections and powerful truth, we explore how being broken isn’t the end of the story but the very beginning of somet
Prepare For Rain
In this powerful episode, we dive into the transformative principle of putting action behind your faith. "Prepare For Rain" challenges you to not just believe, but to live like what you believe is already on the way. Whether you're praying for breakthrough, waiting on a promise, or holding onto a vision, this message will inspire you to start building, moving, and preparing—just like the rain is c
The Martha Paradox
God values our service — our willingness to do, to give, to build. But what happens when our service replaces our fellowship with Him?In this episode, we unpack The Martha Paradox — the internal conflict between serving God and sitting with Him. Martha wasn’t wrong for serving; her mistake was serving without first drawing from the presence of Jesus.We explore the tension many believers face: pour
Show Up
There’s a treasure inside you — gifts placed by God, full of potential and purpose. But too often, we’re caught longing for validation from people we esteem or those closest to us. We want them to see us, to cheer us on, to affirm our greatness.But what about the ones already clapping for us? The ones who celebrate us without prompting? The ones who see value in us, effortlessly?In this episode, w
My View His View
Ever been on a date and taken a picture of your significant other? Well it's one of the most thrilling experiences in life and many times you get to see things about the person that you've never seen. In life it's important that we get our view from people that love us and see us not as we are but all that we can be. Knowing that a typical human is flawed will lead us to find our identity through
Mustard Seed Faith
Have you ever read the story in scripture where Jesus explains how faith as a mustard seed can do a lot? Have you ever found yourself in a position where it sees your faith is way larger than a mustard seed but seemingly powerless? What if the problem is not the size of your faith but the quality. In this episode we discuss in more details the value of building faith
My Birthday Story
I celebrated my birthday in March and it was truly a remarkable experience. I believe this story will remind you that God has not forgotten
My Audience My Stage
Something happened to you when you find yourself in the right place, with the right audience and on the right stage. In this episode I share the valuable lessons I've learned in this period of silence and the benefits of God bringing your own people to you
My Idea Of Love (Part 2)
Continuation of Last week's episode!
My Idea Of Love Part 1
Happy New Month. It's February and it's the month of love. We all express love in the way we define it. In this episode we discuss my idea of love and though it may be controversial you'll will definitely learn a lot from it...
Treasure In Earthen Vessels
Treasure is usually hidden in forms that we may not easily recognise. Not everything that is of value shines. It takes discernment to recognise the treasure hidden in us and around us. In this episode we discuss the need for discernment in all things
The Little Things (Gal 5:9)
Progress is something we all desire but it comes on the basis of the little things we do. Those steps of dedication and discipline cause us to enter into great experiences while on the other hand the little things we do wrong have a serious negative effect. In this episode we discuss the value of consistency.
You Have My Heart (Prov 23:26)
It's early in the year and because of the things we desire we can get to the point where we actually lose focus on what matters most. In this episode we discuss the value of making God a priority and keeping our hearts focused on what matters most
God Is Unbelievable (Matt 8:27)
Have you ever heard a testimony and said WOW!!!?
Well wow can mean two things. It can mean that you are simply blown away by the magnitude of God's power or it can mean that it feels fake and fabricated. We decide the limitations of God in our lives. In this episode we discuss how our perception of situations lead to our perception of God's ability...
Do You Trust Me? (Mark 4:40)
In this epiosde we probe our hearts if we truly trust God. There are many confessions we make that are usually just emotional or because of the euphoria of the moment but our inner convictions are truly different. Sometimes we also don't believe that God has our best interest at heart and it leads us to not just question His love for us but also His ability. In this episode we remind ourselves tha
The Other Side Of Jesus (2 Pet 3:18)
There is usually more than one side to an individual or a thing and many times we relate to people based on the aspect that is considered most important. We prioritise certain aspects and sometimes lose sight on the multifaceted nature of people and things. In this episode we discuss a particular side of Jesus that we tend to neglect as believers.
Faith On Water (Matt 14:22-33)
Our walk with God will require us to take risks in order to see the miraculous. God places audacious desires in our hearts so that He can show His wonders. In this episode we discuss the need to have faith this year. The dreams we have are as valid as our faith in God's ability to perform but we have to agree to have Faith on Water...
In The Beginning God (Gen 1:1)
Happy New Year!!! I am super excited that we made it to 2025 and what better way to start the year than with God. So many decisions and resolutions are being made and they are all with good intentions but it's important how you you start. It's important to start with God in every aspect and dealing with your life. This episode discusses the need for beginning with God and the benefits of doing suc
Learning Doubt
We were all born as believers. We all came to the earth knowing that every thing is possible. Along the line we learn a terrible trait called doubt. We get told that we can't do certain things either by the people we love and respect or by the various experiences we encounter as we try to achieve those dreams. It now becomes a very important task for us to unlearn the art of doubting and pick up t
God Answers Prayers
It's been a pretty long and eventful year for me and while reflecting on the year I came to realise how many prayers the Lord has answered. Sometimes we get so caught up with the things we need at tye moment that we forget the things we once asked the Lord for and He eventually answered. In this episode I share a personal testimony and how it's been encouraging me to trust God to fulfil the other
I Believe God
In a world with so many opinions and so many voices, your convictions are one of your greatest assets. Living in the world of men you must believe in something or someone. Your faith must be anchored on something at some point. Faith is a choice. Every voice is an opinion from you to choose from. God speaks and the opinions and experiences of men also speak. The choice is yours to make. As for me
God Adventures
Adventures are as fun as they are daring. The one who guides you through an adventure determines the reality and extent of your experience. Walking with God is both thrilling and exciting but it requires faith. There is so much God wants to show the world through our lives but it will only happen through the hearts of those who are willing to risk it all to believe God. In this episode we trigger
The Other Side Of The Story (What About The 99?)
The story of the Shepherd leaving the 99 sheep to save one that was lost is a very common story of how the Lord goes all out for the lost. It shows how previous we are in the sight of the Lord. As powerful as this truth is, we are left with one question. Does it mean the Shepherd doesn't value the 99? In the second episode of these series we discuss on this and see a perspective that is truly libe
The Other Side of The Story (The Unprodigal Son)
We are starting a series about common stories from scripture and learning lessons from perspectives that aren't usually seen. We all know the story of the Prodigal Son but what about the elder brother which I call the Unprodigal Son? There were legitimate concerns that he expressed that we don't acknowledge and also a response from the Father that will set things in a different light? Was the Prod
Dream With God
In this inspiring episode, we explore the profound journey of dreaming with God and how it transforms our lives. Join us as we delve into the essence of walking with God, a path that requires unwavering faith and deep conviction. Discover how to hold on to your dreams, even when faced with doubt and uncertainty. We'll share heartfelt stories, practical insights, and spiritual wisdom to empower you
In Front Of You
Most dreams start off with the end in mind and as much as that can build anticipation and hope it can become very discouraging along the line. Many of us have been static in life because all we need to get there doesn't seem readily available. As real as that may seem the truth is that everythibg we need to get started is never far from us. It may not be the best but it will definitely get the job
Navigating Success
Success is a feeling and an experience we all wish to have. We all love to have that taste of glory, celebration and recognition. It's something we should aspire to experience. As good as success is, it can become our greatest enemy and undoing. It's amazing that our success can be the reason why we don't succeed further. In this episode we discuss how to get the best out of success.
Navigating Disappointment
Everyone of us must have experienced one level of disappointment whether if it were personally or from others. It's one experience that can wreck the best of us. Many people get lost in the pool of disappointment and some never recover. Every storm has a way of being Navigated. There is a way out if you know the way and have the will. In this episode I share some of the disappointments I have expe
Public Enemy
Having the loyalty of people is one of the most precious gifts we can get from people but should we also have shared enemies? Should we inherit the enemies of our friends or should we end up choosing sides irrespective of circumstances? In this episode we discuss what it means to be a mediator and the key to preserving relationships.
Lessons From Dear Tyla
So I was preparing to record an episode this evening and it just dawned on me that Dear Tyla will be 3 years tomorrow! It's been an amazing journey and one with many lessons learned. In this episode I share a few that can help you in your own endeavour.
Take My Yoke
Being a believer is one tough journey. Many times we feel that our allegiance to God exempt us from some certain things but in reality it makes us even bigger targets. Also there is this thought that being saved absolves us from every responsibility. The truth remains that the Lord delivers us from the the burdens of life by not only taking away the issues but I stilling His own demands on our liv
Give Me An Example
Life is lived by references. Whatever you magnify becomes your reality. Faith is not just built on knowledge but on the emphasis of a particular conviction. Every aspect of life has a corresponding example and it is your responsibility to choose the one that you desire
God Has Not Forgotten
In life we may go through seasons where we doubt the validity of our dreams and passions. In those times we begin to feel that we probably made mistakes or God isn't interested in our own lives. In this episode I share a very personal story and also a testimony that God has not forgotten any promise He made. I hope you find encouragement to believe again!
When The Heart Speaks
It's been a while that I shared anything on Dear Tyla. So much has happened and I've decided to share... Here is a bit of my heart.
Opinions And Decisions
There are so many voices in this world. So many people have a lot to say and suggest. In such a world as ours it's very possible that we tilt towards believing the opinion of people but what is most important is our convictions. Every opinion is a suggestion that has the potential to be wrong. We must define what our convictions are because they ultimately define our decisions and they in turn def
Excess Love
Jesus you love me too much oooo... I'm sure you know the response already. Excess Love is such a beautiful song by Minister Mercy Chinwo. I remember how it trended for a certain period and oh my it blessed us. People deserve love in lavish amounts but can we love people too much that it hurts them and damages them? It's important to remember that love has many dimensions and one of it is disciplin
How To Fall In Love With Me
It takes a lot to get me to live someone but in this episode I share a very deep secret that would probably get me married soon enough and hopefully some of us can use the same principles for ourselves... This episode is a fun one though
Confronting My X
How many times have you fallen in love? How many X's do you have? For some of us our past relationships had good moments while for others, our past relationships were dreadful. In this episode we talk about the necessity of dealing with the past, both and good and bad and how ignoring it can wreck a beautiful experience
My Valentine's Fantasy
Happy Valentines Day to you all... So I don't have a Val but decided to come up with a fake Val story... Ente into my world of imaginations...
The Accidental Proposal
Have you ever asked someone out by mistake? Here is my story of how this happened and it's pretty hilarious. Imagine the many things we miss out on just because we are not bold enough to ask.
My Culture My Identity
In this episode I share about my Culture and some of its peculiarities. In turn I discuss how our culture shapes our identity.
Purpose Over Results
If there is one thing I have come to realise causes the greatest level of disappointment is when you don't get the results you desire from a thing. The truth is if we consistently depend on results to motivate us we may struggle to be consistent in our dealings. There must be something greater to fuel our passion in life and that is purpose. In this episode we share why purpose is so important and
Heaven Helps
In this episode we discuss the reality that Heaven truly helps men. As it is important for us to live right and do right there may be times that we act out of order. In such moments we feel guilty reaching out to the Father but our solution lies in running to him.
Bulletproof
Being a fan of super hero movies one of the many powers seen in them is the ability to deflect bullets or stop them from penetrating heros. This is a truly great ability and one that we can use in our personal lives. In this episode we discuss developing tough skin in this new year so that the world around you doesn't affect you in anyway...
Amnesia (Forget)
Have you ever tried to remember certain things and details and sadly seems to never remember it existed? This happens a lot and it can be frustrating. As frustrating as these things may be it can sometimes help us as as recalling certain things can be extremely painful and detrimental to our progress. In this epiosde we discuss the benefit of forgetting certain things so that we can actually make
Nostalgia (Remember)
Ever heard of the word NOSTALGIA? It is the emotion you feel when you encounter something from your past. It is usually a happy feeling packed with a lot of emotion. The very ability to have nostalgic feelings is a gift because you can draw emotional strength even from past experiences. There is a gift in recalling the faithfulness of God. Sometimes all we need to do is take time to remember the t
Don't Go Alone
In this episode I share on the value of relationships and taking advantage of the most important relationship available to us, The Holy Spirit. As we move through the New Year it is important that we don't weary ourselves by doing things on our own.
Let's Start Again (Happy New Year)
Happy New Year family. I'm so glad we made it to 2024. As with all new things there is always a wave of excitement and passion found in them. In this episode I decided that it would be very important and beneficial to help align our motives for doing things and also remind us that there is nothing wrong in trying to complete things from the previous year. You don't have to do new things but you ca
Hard Talk (Uncomfortable Conversations)
It's been a very long time since I posted an episode and this will have to be one of the hardest ever. We always tend to move towards things that soothe our ego and cuddle our pride but it does more harm than good. In this episode I share the benefits of having uncomfortable conversations and the dangers of avoiding them.
My History With God
There are so many things we receive as believers that come through our union with Jesus, our fellowship with other believers and the access granted by various vessels. A lot of things can be imparted but one thing that can't be imparted is our History With God. This doesn't just serve as a proof of our walk with Him but also a Testimony of His dealings in our life and how these dealings strengthen
Hidden In The Word
The Word of God is truly powerful. The Word of God is both instructive and prophetic. The words hidden in scripture don't just teach us but they show us possibilities for our lives. The word can come in such a way that it seems deeply personal and specific while other aspects seem general. You must see yourself and assignemt as it is captured in the Word of God. It will take both diligence and hun
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