Saved & Single
Saved & Single is a podcast for men and women navigating singleness through faith, whether never married, divorced, or widowed. Hosted by Jasmine Mays, this show creates space for honest conversations about dating apps, sex and celibacy, loneliness and disappointment, healing, situationships, stewardship, and purpose. Through solo episodes, guest stories, and pastoral wisdom, Saved & Single reminds you that singleness isn’t a waiting room, it’s a season meant to be lived fully and faithfully.
Episodes
After Divorce, I Became the “Church Hoe”: Dr. Tammie’s Story | Ep. 26
After her first marriage ended, Dr. Tammie Carter Jenson says she became what she calls the “church hoe”, chasing relationships, looking for another husband, and trying to fill wounds she had never healed.In this vulnerable follow-up conversation on the Saved & Single Podcast, Tammie opens up about what happened after divorce, including loneliness, sex, gambling, comparison, desperation for ma
Did God Send Them? How to Know If Someone Is From God
In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine Mays talks about one of the hardest parts of Christian dating: discerning the difference between someone who is truly aligned with God’s plan for your life and someone who simply looks good on paper.Jasmine shares why the “almost right” relationship can be so dangerous, how fear of starting over can cause Christian singles to overlook red
Why Am I Still Single? How to Keep Believing God for Marriage
Have you been believing God for marriage for years and started wondering whether it will ever happen for you?In this honest episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine Mays sits down with her mother, Pastor Sandy Mays, to talk about what Christian singles can do when waiting becomes exhausting, disappointment weakens their faith, and they feel ready to give up on marriage.Jasmine opens up a
"God Told Me I’d Meet My Husband at 35...Then It Happened": Dr. Jasmine's Story | Ep. 23
In this inspiring episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine Mays sits down with Dr. Jasmine Leigh Morse to share a powerful Christian testimony about waiting on God for marriage, healing after heartbreak, and trusting His timing.Years before meeting her husband, Dr. Jasmine heard God say “35.” But waiting that long did not fit the timeline she had imagined for her life. She opens up about
"I Married a Counterfeit"... Red Flags, Divorce & Trusting God: Sherrie's Story | Ep. 22
In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Sherrie Robinson for an honest conversation about Christian dating, rushing into marriage, divorce, red flags, discernment, and learning how to trust God after heartbreak.If you have ever met someone you thought was sent by God, moved too quickly, ignored warning signs, or asked God to bless something you had already chosen,
Breaking Soul Ties, Healing After Divorce & Finding Godly Love: Sealeta’s Story, Part 2 | Ep. 21
In Part 2 of Sealeta’s story on the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine continues the conversation about soul ties, healing after divorce, church hurt, therapy, celibacy, and learning how to stop settling for relationships that are not aligned with God.If you’ve ever felt stuck in a situationship, struggled to break an emotional or physical attachment, ignored conviction, or wondered why it is so
"I Married Him 3 Times"... Trauma, Divorce, Soul Ties & Church Hurt: Sealeta's Story | Ep. 20
In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Sealeta Brinkley for a powerful conversation about childhood trauma, divorce, remarriage, soul ties, church hurt, abuse, and learning how unhealed pain can repeat in relationships.If you’ve ever ignored red flags, gone back to someone who hurt you, confused familiarity with love, or wondered why you keep attracting the same
Why Didn’t They Choose Me? Christian Dating Rejection After 40 | Ep. 19
In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating rejection, disappointment, heartbreak, and learning how to keep your eyes on God when dating does not go the way you hoped.If you’ve ever met someone you thought was “the one,” prayed about them, imagined a future, and then felt crushed when they did not choose you, this episode will s
Why We Ignore Red Flags When We’re Lonely | Ep. 18
In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about why Christian singles sometimes ignore red flags when they are lonely, tired of starting over, or deeply desiring marriage.Jasmine shares a personal dating story and unpacks how loneliness, attachment, fear, physical chemistry, and the desire to be chosen can cause us to overlook spiritual incompatibil
Is Waiting Until Marriage Still Realistic? | Christian Singles & Sex | Ep. 17
In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating, celibacy, temptation, intimacy, soul ties, and why waiting until marriage can feel so difficult in modern dating culture.Is waiting until marriage still realistic for Christian singles over 40? What happens when physical intimacy creates emotional attachment before real security exist
“I Want Marriage”… Why Christian Singles Still Can’t Find Love: Jason’s Story | Ep. 16
Why does dating feel so difficult for Christian singles over 40 — even for people who genuinely want marriage?In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Jason Perry for an honest conversation about Christian dating, divorce, emotional maturity, loneliness, church culture, online dating, long-distance relationships, and why so many good men and women are still single.
“He Was My Assignment… Not My Forever” | Widowhood & Finding Love Again: Trina's Story | Ep. 15
What happens when the person you thought was your forever becomes part of your testimony instead?In this emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Trina Knight to discuss divorce, remarriage, caregiving, widowhood, grief, faith, surrendering to God, and unexpectedly finding love again after loss.This conversation covers Christian widowhood, healing after heartbrea
“He Was Fine… Then Gone” | Losing My Husband & Rebuilding My Life: Bridget's Story | Ep. 14
What happens when the love of your life is suddenly gone?In this deeply emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Bridget to talk about the heartbreaking loss of her husband to suicide, the grief that followed, and what it looks like to rebuild your life after unimaginable pain.Bridget shares their love story, the moment everything changed, the questions she wrest
Dating After Divorce: Relationship Expert Debra Fileta | Ep. 13
If you’re a Christian single over 40 who has been divorced and wondering if you’re truly ready to date again… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with licensed counselor and relationship expert Debra Fileta to talk about healing after divorce, why so many people repeat unhealthy relationship patterns, and how to know if you’re actually ready to sta
You’re Not Meeting New Men… It’s the SAME Man | Identity Coach Anabell Ingleton | Ep. 12
If you’ve ever felt like you keep meeting the same man just in a different body, this episode will open your eyes.In Episode 12 of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Identity Coach Anabell Ingleton to break down why your dating patterns aren’t random. From subconscious beliefs to past experiences, they unpack how your internal world influences who you attract and why many Chris
I Stayed 14 Years… The Night Everything Changed: Precy's Story | Ep. 11
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship, afraid to leave, or unsure how you would rebuild your life… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Precy Lawson, who shares her powerful story of marriage, abuse, forgiveness, and ultimately making the decision to leave and start over after 40.After 14 years in a relationship that turned increas
I Thought God Sent Him… But I Was Wrong: Natalan's Story | Ep. 10
Have you ever thought someone was sent by God… but deep down something felt off?In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, we have a real and honest conversation about ignoring red flags, trying to “save” a man, and dating or marrying someone who doesn’t share your faith. You’ll hear a powerful story of marrying someone you didn’t truly love, entering relationships outside of God’s will, a
I Said I Was Done… Then I Met My Husband Hours Later | Married After 45: Ty Haggan | Ep. 09
In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Ty Haggan, who spent decades single, believing God for marriage while watching everyone around her move on with life.After years of waiting, healing, and wrestling with disappointment, she reached a breaking point and wrote in her journal: “I am done.”Just hours later, she met the man who would become her husband.Ty shares h
What Marriage Is REALLY Like (And What You Need to Fix Before You Get There): Angela Palin | Ep. 08
We hear “marriage is hard”… but what does that actually mean?In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Angela, who has been married for 28 years, to break down what marriage really looks like behind the scenes, beyond the wedding, beyond the romance.They talk about communication, compromise, respect, and the real work it takes to build a lasting relationship.If you’re single, d
What Christian Singles Should Actually Be Doing (While Trusting God) | Ep. 07
In Episode 7 of Saved & Single, Jasmine breaks down what Christian singles should actually be doing while trusting God for a spouse. Following her conversation with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman, she shares personal insights on long-term singleness, hope deferred, emotional healing, and why many believers feel stuck in the waiting season.This episode explores the balance between faith and
Stop Waiting on God to Send Your Spouse | Christian Matchmaker Jackie Dorman on Dating Over 40 | Ep. 06
In Episode 6 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman of Last Year Single to talk about one of the most common messages Christian singles hear:"Just wait on God."But what happens when waiting turns into years of singleness?Jackie shares why many Christian men and women stay stuck in long-term singleness, how the church sometimes creates shame around dating,
Where Are the Christian Men? | A Godly Man’s Take on Dating, Divorce, Leadership & Abstinence: BZ "The Voice" | Ep. 05
In Episode 5 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with BZ “The Voice” Cullins, our first male guest, to talk about Christian dating from a man’s perspective after divorce. BZ shares his testimony, lessons from marriage, and how his faith shapes the way he approaches relationships today. We discuss what “God first” really looks like, why many men don’t approach women anymore, how a Christian ma
I Got Saved… and Had to Stop Having Sex (After 18 Years): Yarelli’s Story | Ep. 04
What happens when you give your life to Jesus… but you’ve been living like you’re married for 18 years? In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her best friend, Yarelli, to talk about celibacy, abstinence, and learning to honor God in real life, especially when you live with your partner. Yarelli shares how her daughter’s cancer journey led her to Christ, how Scripture convic
Moving Forward When the Marriage Ends: Pastor Sandy’s Story | Ep. 03
Divorce changes more than your relationship status; it can shake your confidence, your faith, and your sense of identity.In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her mother, Pastor Sandy Mays, for a raw and deeply honest conversation about marrying out of fear, ignoring red flags, standing in faith for years, and eventually choosing to move forward when the marriage didn’t hea
Marriage, Divorce & Infidelity in the Church: Dr. Tammie's Story | Ep. 02
In this powerful episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Tammie Carter Jenson to talk honestly about marriage, divorce, infidelity, and healing, even inside the church.Dr. Tammie shares her real-life journey through two painful marriages, public divorce, betrayal, and the emotional toll of trying to do things “the right way” while quietly suffering. We discuss the stigma sur
Did God Forget About Me? The Truth About Being Saved & Single | Ep. 01
Welcome to the Saved & Single Podcast, the show for the grown & sexy Christians navigating singleness, dating, and the desire for marriage in a way that honors God.In this first episode, I’m setting the foundation for what this podcast is really about: real-life singleness after 30, 40, 50+,not teeny-bopper dating advice, and not advice from people who haven’t dated in 20 years.We’re talki
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