Coming Up for Air
A post-breakup survival guide in podcast form. The host shares her personal healing journey and offers real talk, mindset shifts, and tough love to help listeners rebuild confidence after a breakup. No sugar-coating—just practical advice to heal, grow, and thrive.
Episodes
The Decisions You Made for a Relationship That You're Still Paying For.
Sometimes the relationship ends, but the consequences of being in it don't.The job opportunities you turned down, the money you invested, the places you never moved to and the decisions you made because you thought you were building a future with somebody.In this episode, I'm talking about the less discussed consequences of a breakup. The practical, financial and personal sacrifices tha
At Some Point, Researching Your Ex Becomes Another Form of Contact.
You haven’t texted them. You haven’t called them. You might even be months into no contact. But you still know where they went last weekend, who they followed, whether they’re seeing someone new and what their friends are posting.So… are you actually disconnected from them?In this episode, we’re talking about why we research our exes after a breakup, what we’re really hoping to find when we check,
Why Can’t I Get Over My Ex? The Fear of Never Fully Moving On
What if you never fully get over your ex?Maybe it's been months or years since the breakup. You're doing better, you've rebuilt parts of your life, but you still think about them, still miss them sometimes and wonder whether you'll ever completely move on.In this episode, I'm talking about why we can carry an ex with us long after a relationship ends, the fear of never lo
The Second Heartbreak: When You Realise They Might Never Come Back.
Will my ex come back? It’s one of the hardest questions to stop asking after a breakup especially when you were the one who was left.But there’s another stage of heartbreak nobody really prepares you for: the moment you realise they might actually never come back.In this episode I talk about why losing hope can feel like a second breakup, why you can still want your ex to come back even when you
Why Am I Still Mentally Talking to My Ex?
You've stopped speaking to them, so why are you still having entire conversations with them in your head?In this episode, I talk about why we mentally talk to an ex after a breakup, replay conversations, imagine telling them things and wonder what they'd think of the life we're building without them.We get into wanting recognition rather than reconciliation, missing being witnessed
Your Relationship Is Secured. Now How Would You Live?
If you’re single and scared you’ll never find love, I want you to imagine something: your future relationship is already secured.You don’t know who they are. You don’t know when you’ll meet. You just know you cannot miss them.How would you live differently if you weren’t constantly wondering when love was going to happen?In this episode, I am talking about being single in your 30s, dating anxiety,
Maybe Your Single Life Doesn’t Need to Look Impressive.
If you’re single and quietly wondering whether you’re doing this stage of life 'right,' this episode is for you.There’s so much pressure to make single life look incredible the travelling, the career, the solo dates, the full social calendar, the constant proof that you’re thriving. But maybe your life doesn’t need to impress anyone. Maybe it just needs to feel like yours.In this episode
Single & Feeling Behind? What If I Never Meet Someone?
Being single in your 30s can feel completely fine… until suddenly it doesn't.Your friends are married, having children and building lives with their partners. You're not on dating apps, you don't have many single friends and you find yourself wondering: where am I actually supposed to meet someone?And underneath that is the question that's much harder to admit: what if I never
You're Not Struggling Because You're Single. Here's What's Really Happening.
Why does being single feel so much harder than it should?If you've ever found yourself wondering why everyone else seems to be moving on, why you're still waiting for your life to begin, or why being single feels like a personal failure, this episode is for you.In this conversation, I am not talking about learning to 'love being single' or pretending you don't want a relat
If You Could See Your Future After Your Breakup, Would You Live Today Differently?
There comes a moment after a breakup where you stop worrying about what happened. and start worrying about what it means for your future.What if you'll never love again? What if you've missed your chance? What if your best years are already behind you?In this episode I want to explore one question that completely changed the way I think about healing:If you could see your future would y
Why You Still Can't Move Forward From Your Breakup (If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes)
Why can't I move forward from my breakup? If you've been asking yourself this question, you're not alone.In this episode I explore why so many of us become convinced we'll never move on after heartbreak. I talk about how your brain collects evidence that you're 'stuck,' why the story you tell yourself matters, and how changing small daily habits can completely c
The Rebuild: How to Rebuild Your Life After Being Left. Heartbreak, Healing & Moving Forward.
If you've been left after a long-term relationship and you're wondering how to rebuild your life, this episode is for you.Today, I'm talking about The Rebuild the chapter that comes after heartbreak. Not just healing or moving on, but creating a life that's bigger, braver and more fulfilling than the one you thought you'd lost.I share the psychology behind why life can fee
The Hidden Reason You Still Feel Rejected After Your Breakup
Have you ever wondered why being left hurts for years, even after you've done so much healing?In this episode, I'm talking about the hidden rejection that follows a breakup. The part nobody prepares you for. The part where someone else's decision slowly becomes the way you see yourself. If you've ever thought, 'Why wasn't I enough?' or 'Why does rejection st
How to Enjoy Being Single After a Breakup (Instead of Just Surviving It)
How do you actually enjoy being single after a breakup instead of just surviving it?In this episode, I'm challenging some of the most common breakup advice and sharing a completely different way of thinking about single life. Instead of treating being single like a waiting room, I explore why it can become one of the most freeing and transformative chapters of your life.I talk about why we k
The Thoughts Nobody Talks About After Becoming Single When You’re 30.
This isn't a self-help episode. It's a validation chat.If you've found yourself single in your late 20s or 30s after a breakup, engagement ending, divorce, or long-term relationship, this conversation is for you.I am talking about the things people don't say out loud: feeling left behind while everyone else seems to be moving forward, grieving a future you had already planned,
Will My Ex Ever Reach Out Again? The Truth About Them Not Coming Back.
Will your ex come back? Why hasn't your ex reached out? Does no contact really work? And how do you heal when you've been dumped by someone you still love?In this episode, I explore the psychology behind heartbreak, attachment, and why so many people stay emotionally stuck waiting for an ex to return.You'll learn why silence feels so painful, why some exes never reach out again, wha
I Fell In Love With Who They Could Have Been. Letting Go Of Your Ex's Potential After Heartbreak.
In this episode, I talk about why it's so hard to move on after a breakup when you still believe your ex had so much potential.If you've been dumped, blindsided, or left heartbroken after a long-term relationship, you may find yourself obsessing over who your ex could have been rather than who they actually were. I talk about heartbreak healing, anxious attachment, relationship grief, em
I Sold the House After My Breakup. How I Healed Without Bitterness
In this episode, I’m opening up about what it was really like selling the house I shared with my ex after our breakup. This isn’t just about moving house, it’s about letting go of a chapter of life, healing emotionally, and learning how to move forward without bitterness.I wanted this conversation to feel like sitting down with a friend, so I’m sharing the honest emotions behind leaving a home ful
The Comparison Trap After Heartbreak - How To Deal With It.
In this episode, I talk about the comparison trap after heartbreak comparing yourself to your ex, your ex’s new partner, people moving on faster than you, happy couples, engagements, and everyone who seems okay while you still feel heartbroken after being dumped.I talk about breakup anxiety, anxious attachment, overthinking, checking your ex’s social media, emotional obsession, feeling replaced, l
The Truth About Situationships After Your Breakup.
After going through a breakup I didn’t want, I quickly learnt how easy it is to fall into a situationship. Situationships feel feel addictive, emotionally intense, and impossible to let go of sometimes.In this episode, I talk about situationships after heartbreak, anxious attachment, breakup healing, why emotionally inconsistent people can feel so hard to move on from after being rejected.I explor
Stop Trying to Be Understood by Someone Who Has Chosen to Misunderstand You.
Going through a breakup you didn’t want can make you feel rejected, misunderstood, emotionally drained, and impossible to move on from the person you still love.In this breakup healing podcast episode, I talk about heartbreak, anxious attachment, emotional pain, overthinking, self-worth, rejection, attachment styles, and how to stop trying to be understood by someone who has chosen to misunderstan
10 Deep Limiting Beliefs About Being Single After Being Left (That Nobody Talks About)
How to heal after a breakup, move on from an ex, and learn how to be okay being single after being dumped. If you’re struggling with heartbreak, rejection, overthinking, or feeling not good enough after a breakup, this episode is for you.In this episode of I talk about how to heal after a breakup when you were brutally dumped and the 10 deep limiting beliefs that can keep you stuck in heartbreak w
How to Heal After a Breakup & Stop Feeling Pressure to Glow Up.
Going through a breakup? Feeling pressure to glow up, move on fast, hit the gym, or prove your ex lost someone amazing? This episode is for you.In this episode i talk about how to heal after a breakup, move on from an ex, rebuild confidence, and deal with the pressure to glow up after heartbreak.So many people feel like after a breakup they need a revenge body, a dramatic transformation, or to loo
How to Heal After a Breakup & Be Happy Single Again. Accept, Trust & Release.
Healing after a breakup? Struggling to be single again? Worried you’ll never meet the right person? This episode will help you feel peaceful, confident, and grounded in your single season.In this episode I talk about how to heal after heartbreak, stop worrying about meeting someone, and learn how to genuinely enjoy being single again. If you’re trying to move on from an ex, rebuild confidence, tru
How To Cope with A Breakup: 10 Harsh Truths That Will Set You Free.
Struggling to get over a breakup? Wondering how to move on after heartbreak or why you still miss your ex even when you know they weren’t right for you?In this episode, I dive into 10 brutal truths about breakups that most people avoid , but understanding them is the key to real healing, self-growth, and moving on.If you’re searching for real breakup advice, trying to figure out how to get over a
The Mindset Shift That Finally Helped Me Detach After My Breakup.
I made this episode for anyone going through a breakup who feels stuck and can’t stop thinking about their ex. I know how it feels to keep replaying everything, questioning your worth and wondering why you can’t just move on.In this episode I share the mindset shift that helped me finally detach and start getting over my ex. This isn’t about pretending you don’t care, it’s about understanding why
Why 'Focus on Yourself' Feels Impossible After a Breakup.
Struggling to move on after a breakup? Especially when you were the one who got left?In this episode, I break down why 'focus on yourself' feels so hard after being dumped. If you’re overthinking, replaying memories, missing your ex, or feeling stuck in heartbreak, this episode explains the psychology behind it.I cover breakup healing, attachment, rejection, and why letting go isn’t as s
The Pace of Your Healing After a Breakup Is a Sign of Your Strength.
Healing after a breakup doesn’t have a deadline and the pace you’re moving at? It says more about your strength than you think. In this episode of Coming Up For Air, I am talking about why slow healing is still powerful, how to stop comparing your journey, and what it really means to move on after heartbreak. If you’ve been feeling stuck, emotional, or frustrated with your progress after a breakup
Coping When Your Ex Moves On Quickly and Stays There.
What happens when your ex moves on quickly… and the relationship actually lasts?In this episode, I share my perspective three years later and talk about the emotions that come with watching someone you once loved build a long-term relationship with someone else. I discuss how to cope with the comparisons, the questions that come up, and how focusing on your own growth can slowly shift your perspec
Post Breakup & Your Life No Longer Looks Like Your Friends.
There’s a quiet pain in feeling like life has moved on without you.In this episode, I talk about what it’s like to be left while everyone around you seems to be moving forward. Friends at different life stages, a future that no longer exists, and the loneliness of being in an in-between space you never chose.This episode is about coping mentally and physically when comparison hits, when your world
The Year of the Horse - Breakup Healing.
2026 is the Year of the Horse , a year of freedom, courage, and forward motion. In this episode, I explore how the Horse’s energy can help you move past heartbreak, restore your vitality, and reconnect with your true self. Learn practical ways to reclaim momentum, set boundaries, follow your desires, and trust your heart. Whether you’re navigating loss or seeking alignment, this episode guides you
Single on Valentine’s Day? Congratulations. You’re Doing It Right.
Single on Valentine’s Day? Congratulations, you’re doing it right. In this episode, we reclaim the day for yourself, celebrating independence, self-love, and the power of choosing your own joy. We explore meaningful ways to honour your life, your growth, and your relationships beyond romance , including how to handle seeing an ex with someone else, so you can fully own this day as your own.Want Mo
Liminal Space - The Messy Middle of Heartbreak
This episode explores the in-between phase after heartbreak, when the old version of you no longer fits and the new one hasn’t arrived yet. I talk about identity loss, emotional waves, nervous system regulation, loneliness, and practical ways to cope without rushing healing. This is a slow, grounding episode for anyone living inside transition. Nothing is wrong.Something is reorganizing. Want Mor
Breakups - Taking Your Dreams Back.
This episode is for anyone who’s realised they’re spending more time thinking about their ex than actually living their own life. We talk about how heartbreak quietly hijacks your attention, how “waiting” can become a way of life, and why obsessing over what someone else is doing keeps you stuck. It’s an honest conversation about reclaiming your time, your energy, and your one precious life and ch
What Love Shouldn’t Cost You Post Breakup.
This episode explores the quiet, unspoken costs of staying in relationships that slowly erode your peace, self-trust, and sense of self. We talk about the things love should never ask you to sacrifice, how to recognise when hope becomes self-abandonment, and how to reclaim yourself after loving deeply. If you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and permission
How To Slow Down In January To Make Sure 2026 Is Big.
This episode is for anyone who’s healing, starting over, or quietly rebuilding their life. We’re talking about levelling up without pressure, rushing, or forcing change. Instead, this is about slow, meaningful growth, nervous-system safety, and learning to trust yourself again. If you’re coming out of heartbreak, grief, or a season that changed you, this episode is a reminder that you don’t need t
Happy New Year - Goal Setting & How To Set The Tone For 2026.
Happy new Year to you all. Whether you are going into the New Year still healing from something that happened in 2025 or even before that I have got you. A gentle episode to catch up talk a little bit on goals and one big piece of advice to kick start your year. The whole of January I am taking a calmer approach to setting the tone for the year so you feel supported but motivated for the year ahe
Christmas After a Breakup: The Year You Didn’t Collapse.
This episode is for anyone who made it to Christmas after a breakup and is wondering why it still feels a little unsteady.I talk about why Christmas can bring emotions back up even when you’ve been healing, why missing someone doesn’t mean you want them back, and why this season isn’t a setback — it’s a pause that reveals how much you’ve actually grown. This isn’t surface-level breakup advice or f
The Decisions You Make After Your Breakup Will Shape Your Entire Future.
After a breakup, it’s not the ending that shapes you it’s the decisions you make next. In this episode, I talk about the quiet, everyday choices that either keep you stuck or slowly set you free. The boundaries you set, the habits you build, the thoughts you stop entertaining, and the version of yourself you choose to become when no one is watching. This one is about taking your power back, choosi
Four Years of Single Seasonal Reflections
In this episode, I open up about being single for four years and how every year of that journey reshaped me. From the heartbreak of my first Christmas alone, to rebuilding my life, losing my job, finding clarity, and finally choosing myself over rushing into love. I talk about why my healing had to come before any new relationship, and how this year I finally feel ready for something new because I
Your New December Rituals That Have Nothing To Do With Christmas - Single Edition.
In this episode, I’m flipping December on its head. Instead of slipping into nostalgia or repeating old rituals, I’m sharing how I build future-facing, identity-shaping traditions that support the version of me I’m becoming.I dive into why December feels so emotionally heavy and how I use it as the most intentional month of my year. Expect unconventional rituals, zero boring advice, and mindset sh
Do Not Dread December - Single Edition.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s really like to go into December single not the Instagram version, but the honest, emotional, surprisingly empowering reality of it. I share the deeper mindset shifts, the things people never say out loud, and the ways this season can actually feel lighter, calmer, and more grounding when you’re on your own. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loul
Your Self Worth Following A Breakup.
In today’s episode, I’m opening up about the deeply personal journey of rebuilding my self-worth after being broken down by someone I loved. I talk about the difference between who I truly am and what someone else once made me feel, and how I’ve had to remind myself that my value isn’t defined by another person’s choices. I share the small steps, the emotional shifts, and the daily acts of care th
My Yearly Birthday Reflection Episode. Going Into Being 33 Single & Aligned.
Every year I do a birthday episode. This year has been interesting and hard but I have managed to reflect on why its been a tough year. I also knew that my 32s were going to be a year of growth in every area of my life. I have had to apply so much of the work I did in therapy to different areas of my life too. I share my mindset shifts with you & why I feel like the year of being 33 will be th
Blocked Not Broken. When Your Ex Blocks You.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means when someone blocks you the confusion, the silence, and the way it can shake your sense of worth. I’ll share my own reflections and what I’ve learned about the psychology behind it why people cut others off completely, what it says about their emotional state, and how to shift the focus back to yourself instead of taking it personally. This e
*Halloween Edition* What Is Scarier Than Being Single?...
This Halloween, I’m not talking about ghosts, I’m talking about something scarier: being with the wrong person. In this episode, I open up about what it feels like to be used, overlooked, and underappreciated and why that’s so much more haunting than being single.Because being single isn’t the fear.Losing yourself in someone who doesn’t value you is.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula
Your Husband Isn't On Hinge.
I know how deflating online dating can be especially as we head into winter, Christmas, and New Year so I want to catch you early before you put all your effort into online dating and forget what you really deserve. This episode is my reminder to both you and me that our person isn’t missing… he’s just not on Hinge right now. I’m sharing how I’m keeping the faith, raising my standards, and manifes
How Do You Know You Are Dating The Right Person Following Heartbreak.
In this episode, I talk about what it really feels like to be with the right person not on paper, but emotionally. After heartbreak, it’s hard to trust yourself again or to know what calm, healthy love actually feels like. I share how I learned to recognise peace over chaos, what emotional safety feels like, and how love that’s right helps you grow without losing yourself.It’s an honest conversati
Trusting Love After Heartbreak: Healing, And Knowing the Right Person Is Coming.
Breakups can leave you wondering if you’ll ever find the right person - but healing is proof that love is still possible. In this episode, I explore fresh, uplifting ways to move forward: from voice notes to your future self and love archetype boards, to rituals for enjoying your own company and manifesting love in a grounded way. You’ll discover why the love you give always comes back, This isn’t
Things I Am Not Scared of Being 30 & Single.
I’m 30, single, and surprisingly calm about a lot of things that used to terrify me. Specifically: I’m not scared of meeting the wrong person again, I’m not scared of judgment, I’m not scared of starting a family later in life, and I’m not scared of falling in love. In this episode I’ll walk through how I got here - mindset shifts, concrete practices, scripts you can use, and examples that made me
Reframing Thoughts About Your Ex and Their New Partner.
It’s easy to get caught in the mental loop of imagining your ex doing all the same things with their new partner that they once did with you. Those thoughts can feel overwhelming, painful, and hard to escape. In this episode, we dive into how to shift that thought pattern and how to spin thoughts into a more positive thought pattern. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram
The Lessons I Didn’t Expect to Learn While Being Single (But Needed More Than I Knew)
In this episode, I’m sharing the unexpected and honestly, lessons I’ve learned during my time being single. From learning to love my own company, to realising I don’t miss my ex, to feeling proud (not apologetic) when I say I’m single… this season has been nothing like I thought, and everything I needed. I’ll walk you through the mindset shifts and the practical steps that helped me get here. If y
When Your Boundaries Are Being Disregarded Pre & Post Breakup.
In this episode, I want to take you on a journey of courage. We’ll talk about what happens when your boundaries are broken, the fear of leaving, the deep importance of respect, how to find the strength within yourself, and most importantly, what your future can look like when you spread your wings and walk into a new chapter of your life.So if you’ve been feeling stuck, afraid, or doubting yoursel
How To Stop Thinking Your Ex Has Found Someone 'Better'
In this episode I am talking about one of the hardest things to face after a breakup that feeling when your ex moves on and you think they’ve found someone better than you. It can hit you like a punch in the chest you’re scrolling on Instagram, or a friend tells you, and suddenly it feels like everything you went through was for nothing, like you’ve been replaced. I want you to know right now: tha
Going No Contact After A Breakup - The Mental No Contact.
We’re told: block them, delete them, unfollow, cut them out. But here’s the thing. You can remove someone from every physical part of your life and still have them living rent-free in your head. And that… is the part no one teaches you how to deal with.So if you’ve been feeling frustrated because you’ve done “all the right things” but your mind won’t stop bringing them up, you’re in the right plac
Moving Back Home After A Breakup.
In this episode I am diving into something so many of you have messaged me about and that is the experience but often feel shame around: moving back home after a breakup. Whether it's your childhood bedroom or a spare room at a parent’s house, it can feel like you're going backwards while everyone else is moving forwards. But this episode is here to shift that mindset completely.If you&a
Bravery After A Breakup & How To Find Yours.
This episode has sat with me for a while. It’s about something we’re told to be from a very young age, but we’re never actually taught how to do it. Today we’re talking about being brave. Especially when everything’s crumbling. Especially when the relationship ends, your world shifts, and suddenly you have to stand up on your own again even though you're not sure you remember how. I learnt a
Loss of Control Following A Breakup.
In this episode I talk about how easy it is to lose yourself because you can't control what your ex is doing. But here’s the truth I want to anchor you in today: you can’t control what they did, or why they left, or even how they feel now. That’s all out of your hands. The only thing you can truly control is the way you choose to respond and that choice, every single day, is what will determi
Behind Closed Doors Of A Breakup - No One Knows What Really Happened.
In this episode I want to talk about something that I know so many of you are sitting with right now and I want to be really honest about it. It’s not just the heartbreak itself that hurts.It’s not just the missing them, or the confusion, or the grief.It’s the frustration. The anger. The heaviness of knowing that no one else really knows what happened behind closed doors and no matter how many tim
Walking Away From Almost, and Trusting in What’s Still to Come.
Sometimes, the hardest person to walk away from isn’t the ex who hurt you.It’s the new connection that felt like a fresh start. The person who came along just when you thought your heart might be ready again. In this episode I reassure you and remind you that trusting your gut is the most powerful thing you can do. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.inst
Breaking Up With Your Ex’s Habits and Beliefs.
In this episode, I am getting honest about the emotional leftovers: the habits and beliefs we adopted in a relationship that no longer serves you. You’ll learn how to spot what’s not yours anymore, how to rewire your inner voice, and how to rebuild your identity on your own terms. No fluff. Just real talk, practical mindset shifts, and a few gentle nudges to help you come back home to yourself. Wa
Navigating Singlehood: Advice, Growth, and Single Talk Catch Up.
When I went through my breakup I wanted to know that it got better and if certain thoughts and feelings became easier. Now 3 years on I wanted to share with you how life looks and feels. I share some tips and some reflections that I have had recently. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUp
How To Deal With Your 'Wedding Date' Following A Break Up.
I want to talk about something that a lot of us go through… but few of us talk about out loud. The day you were supposed to get married… but didn’t. The day you thought would be your anniversary… but became something else entirely. I talk about how to cope mentally and physically in this episode. I actually went away to Greece, but I talk about if I didn't - what I would have done instead. Wa
When ‘Firsts’ Fall Apart Following a Breakup.
On this episode I am talking about losing your firsts your first house, your first engagement, your first big love… and how to heal when the dream you built with someone else falls apart.Maybe your ex left. Maybe you had to walk away even when your heart didn’t want to. Maybe the life you thought you'd live just… evaporated. I go through how I felt losing the first time I got engaged and my f
Will You Ever Get Over Your Ex Moving On?
Seeing your ex move on can feel like a setback, even if the breakup is old. In this episode, we talk about why it hurts, how to cope, and what it really takes to move forward. From practical steps to mindset shifts, this is a straight-talking, compassionate guide to letting go and choosing yourself again. If you’re stuck in the pain of watching someone else start over, this one’s for you.Want Mor
Let Them Show You: Stop Making Excuses for The Way Your Ex Is Acting.
In todays episode I am talking about one of the hardest lessons to learn but also one of the most liberating: Let people show you who they are — and stop making excuses when they do.I know this can feel harsh. When someone you love hurts you or disappoints you, your brain wants to make sense of it. Your heart wants to protect the connection. And your nervous system wants to avoid the truth. But wh
Are You Scared of Being Single Forever Following a Breakup?
In this episode we’re diving into something I know so many of us struggle with the fear of being single. Whether it’s fresh after a breakup or something that’s been lingering in the background for a while, that fear can feel all-consuming. But today, I want to help you reframe it, understand where it’s coming from, and give you the tools and mindset shifts to move through it feeling stronger, clea
You're Not Starting From Scratch, You Are Starting With Experience - Post Breakup.
I saw this quote on the back of a toilet door - details in the episode. It really resonated with me because for ages I have said I am starting from scratch and it is so normal to think so but in this episode I talk about why you arent, and why your experience will be like your blue print that you carry into a new relationship. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https
Dating Apps Post Breakup
Breakups are horrible but the first swipe post-split? That’s a whole other level of weird. In this episode, I dive into the emotional rollercoaster of re-joining the world of dating apps after a breakup. Whether you're downloading Tinder for the fifth time or dipping a toe into Hinge, I talk about what it means to start over digitally. From ghosting fears to unexpected confidence boosts, I sh
Don't Give Up On Yourself Post Breakup.
In this episode I talk about not giving up on yourself. It's so easy to think that one bad day or one difficult conversation is setting you back on your breakup healing. It's not. You have to allow these things to push you and move you forward. I felt like giving up on myself so many times. I am so glad that I learnt that there are lessons in mistakes and blessings in the breaking.Want M
How To Emotionally Detach From Your Ex.
Most breakup advice out there focuses on surface-level things: "block them," "keep busy," "treat yourself." But true mental detachment is deeper. It's not just about erasing someone from your phone — it’s about reclaiming the mental real estate they’re still renting in your mind, often without paying.In this episode. I’m sharing mindset shifts you might not have
How To Heal From A Breakup. My Most Asked Question.
Breakups can feel like the end of everything — but what if they’re actually the beginning of something entirely new? In this episode, I’m answering one of my most asked questions: How do you heal from a breakup? But instead of just focusing on moving on, we’re talking about something deeper — how to clear the emotional clutter, release what no longer serves you, and make space for the next version
Why Your Ex Goes Cold After A Breakup.
My 'Becoming the Strongest Version of Yourself' – A 4-Week Post-Breakup Healing & Empowerment Course is going LIVE on SUNDAY 30th of MARCH.You are not broken. You are becoming. If you’re ready to move beyond heartbreak, reclaim your confidence, and step into your most empowered self, this 4-week transformational course is for you.This isn’t just about getting over the past—it’s about
How To Be Secure In Becoming Single.
My 'Becoming the Strongest Version of Yourself' – A 4-Week Post-Breakup Healing & Empowerment Course is going LIVE on SUNDAY 30th of MARCH.You are not broken. You are becoming. If you’re ready to move beyond heartbreak, reclaim your confidence, and step into your most empowered self, this 4-week transformational course is for you.This isn’t just about getting over the past—it’s abou
Are You Dreaming Of Your Ex?
Ever wake up wondering why your ex keeps showing up in your dreams, even when you’re doing the work to move on? In this episode, we’re diving into why your subconscious mind holds onto these connections, so you will come away with insights, practical tips, and a little peace of mind knowing you’re not alone in this.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - www.instagram.co
Stepping Into Your Strongest Self Post Breakup.
I know that everyone who listens & watches my podcast are all at different stages but for my 100th episode I wanted to do a positive episode that will hopefully make you feel confident. If you are in the early stages of your breakup this is an episode you can come back to should you need it. I love doing episodes on this, let me know if you want me to to do more.Want More Like This - https://s
How Long Did It Take You To Heal From Your Breakup?
The most common question I get asked is how long did it take you to heal Lou? I wish I could say 2 months you will fine, but it didn't take me 2 months it took me 2 years BUT everyone is different and healing from different things. Its important to remember this to make sure you are not beating yourself up. I go through how healing is choice and how to make that choice in this episode. Want M
Things People Don’t Realise You Face Following A Breakup.
I felt so alone whilst I was going through my breakup & the worst thing was because my ex had moved on I was comparing how I felt with how he felt and how he was dealing with the breakup. I thought what I was struggling with was so pathetic. I am here to tell you it isn't. In this episode I will hopefully talk through things you are also struggling with and validate these feeling. Want M
Are You Obsessing Over Your Ex?
In this episode I talk generally about the DM's I get and the questions I get asked the most. One of the main questions I get asked is 'Will They Treat Their New Partner Better?' or 'How do I Stop Obsessing Over My Ex. I answer all these questions in this episode.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - www.instagram.com/comingupforairpodJoin Us on Pat
Being Ghosted.
In this episode I explain how I would deal with getting stuck in a cycle of your ex coming in and out your life. It is such a hard cycle to break but hopefully this will strengthen your mindset and empower you to finally say enough is enough.Watch this episode on YouTube - https://youtu.be/ppHxT8iFAK8 My New Instagram - www.instagram.com/comingupforairpodJoin Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpF
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