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Social Skills Coaching

Social Skills Coaching

Patrick King 244 Episodes Aug 11, 2026

Social Skills Coaching is a podcast by Patrick King, a social interaction specialist and bestselling author based in San Francisco. The show provides actionable steps for personal improvement, focusing on emotional intelligence, communication, and social skills. It covers topics like dating, relationships, and confidence-building without gimmicks or pickup artistry. The podcast aims to help listeners master human psychology and break down emotional barriers.

Episodes

Why Your Questions Keep Conversations Shallow
Why Your Questions Keep Conversations Shallow Aug 11, 2026 24:23 Tired of small talk? Want to move past surface-level chats and actually connect with people? Learn how to ask better questions that make people feel valued and eager to share. Patrick King shares specific techniques for deep conversations that work with anyone—the same approach talk show hosts use to keep audiences engaged. Master conversations by leading with genuine curiosity instead of scripts.
Awkward Silences Aren't the Problem — Running Out of Things to Say Is
Awkward Silences Aren't the Problem — Running Out of Things to Say Is Jul 16, 2026 39:01 You're mid-conversation and suddenly—silence. If social anxiety creeps in when talk stalls, conversation threading fixes that. This is the practical technique for asking connected questions that keep conversation flowing naturally, without forcing it. You'll learn how to listen actively, respond with genuine interest, and build emotional connection with anyone. By the end, you'll have the conversa
Follow-Up Questions That Make People Want to Keep Talking
Follow-Up Questions That Make People Want to Keep Talking Jul 1, 2026 15:30 00:01:00 Chunking Up and Chunking Down 00:10:27 We’ve discussed a few methods 00:14:51 Let's summarize these with the primary takeaways from this episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6H Do you struggle to ask follow-up
Why Your Questions Are Making People Like You Less
Why Your Questions Are Making People Like You Less Jun 24, 2026 13:26 00:00:54 The Art of Asking the Right Questions 00:01:51 The Kipling Method 00:08:38 Assumptive Questions 00:12:29 Here are the main takeaways from today's episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6H Do you struggle to ask th
How To Spot A Fake Friend By Noticing The Baseline Shift
How To Spot A Fake Friend By Noticing The Baseline Shift Jun 15, 2026 25:11 Unlock the hidden code behind human behavior—before it costs you opportunities, relationships, and influence.Most people think they’re good at reading others. They’re not. They project, assume, and misinterpret—then wonder why conversations stall, deals fall apart, and signals get missed. Behavioral Tells cuts through the noise and shows you what people are actually communicating beneath the surfa
The Power of Gaze: Decoding Dominance and Flow in Group Dynamics
The Power of Gaze: Decoding Dominance and Flow in Group Dynamics Jun 11, 2026 19:19 00:00:27 Behavioral Tells is the new book from Patrick King. 00:01:23 Watch Where Attention Flows 00:03:03 The VDR is a way to visualize attention 00:09:32 Understanding “Group Flow” 00:18:32 Here are the takeaways from today's episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patri
Why You Can't Always Trust Facial Expressions
Why You Can't Always Trust Facial Expressions Jun 1, 2026 08:19 00:01:04 Why You Can’t Always Trust Facial Expressions00:07:25 Let's take a look at the main takeaways from today's episode.Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46)By Patrick Kinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6HUnlock the hidden code behind human behavior—before it costs you opportu
Vulnerability's Timing: Share, Don't Spill
Vulnerability's Timing: Share, Don't Spill May 11, 2026 06:32 Unlock the secret to becoming more likable by mastering vulnerability's timing in our latest episode! You'll learn how to share modest pieces of your truth that align perfectly with the conversation at hand, as backed by a 2015 study showing increased likability from well-timed self-disclosures. Discover when and how to pause after sharing to let your words sink in, fostering deeper connections wi
Schrödinger's Cat: How Thought Experiments Challenge Your Beliefs
Schrödinger's Cat: How Thought Experiments Challenge Your Beliefs Apr 22, 2026 26:01 Patrick King explores how thought experiments, like Schrödinger's cat, challenge our beliefs and assumptions. Learn to question your own knowledge and open the door to new ideas and perspectives. Discover the power of systematic thinking in understanding complex issues. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 1:39 The Struggle for Knowledge 3:12 Thought Experiments Overview 5:49 Virtues and Drawbacks of Thought Exp
Navigating the Trust Spectrum: From Dynamic Agents to Earned Faith in a Shifting Environment
Navigating the Trust Spectrum: From Dynamic Agents to Earned Faith in a Shifting Environment Apr 15, 2026 10:06 00:02:58 Stimulus Generalization as a Mechanism for Learning to Trust00:03:26 Trust in Close Relationships00:03:57 More Is Better00:08:42 Attitudinal Effects of Mere ExposureHow to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 12) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/Extract
Ditching Small Talk: Finding Depth and Direction Through Engaging Conversation 🎧
Ditching Small Talk: Finding Depth and Direction Through Engaging Conversation 🎧 Apr 8, 2026 10:17 00:00:44 Create Motion00:05:48 Joseph Campbell00:06:39 The Hero CycleBetter Small Talk: Talk to Anyone, Avoid Awkwardness, Generate Deep Conversations, and Make Real Friends By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/2Q5CWQMhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0871N22LFNetworking events suck, but they can suck less. What to say and when to say to be likable, connect, and make a memorable impression.Acti
Shift Your Perspective, Solve Your Conflicts: Mastering Empathy & NLP for Workplace Harmony 🎧
Shift Your Perspective, Solve Your Conflicts: Mastering Empathy & NLP for Workplace Harmony 🎧 Apr 2, 2026 12:57 00:00:18 Hello listeners00:01:31 Let’s begin by asking, what is empathy, anyway?00:11:49 SummaryThe Power of E.Q.: Social Intelligence, Reading People, and How to Navigate Any Situation By: Patrick KingYour success in life will depend on how good you are with people. Sorry, that's the harsh truth.But the good news is that this is a trainable skill - and this book is an amazing start.Make a smas

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