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You're Overqualified Podcast - Career and Leadership Strategies for Women

You're Overqualified Podcast - Career and Leadership Strategies for Women

Dani Tan - Leadership Coach and Speaker 148 Episodes Aug 20, 2026

Dani Tan, a leadership coach and founder of She Belongs Here™, hosts this podcast for high-achieving women seeking career advancement and leadership strategies. Drawing from her own experience of 11 promotions in 11 years, she shares practical advice on strategy, visibility, and positioning. The show aims to help women get promoted, lead on their own terms, and redefine leadership. Dani also works with organizations to build cultures that retain top female talent.

Episodes

137. Can't I Just Do This on My Own? What DIY Actually Costs You
137. Can't I Just Do This on My Own? What DIY Actually Costs You Aug 20, 2026 00:14:44 In episode 137, I'm doing the actual math on what "I'll just figure it out myself" is costing you, in real dollars, not just time.This one is for the woman weighing whether to get support or keep trying to DIY her way to the next level. If you've been telling yourself that hiring help is the less responsible choice, I want you to hear the numbers before you decide.In this con
136. The 3 Questions Your Manager Asks Before Promoting You
136. The 3 Questions Your Manager Asks Before Promoting You Aug 13, 2026 00:21:13 In episode 136, I'm breaking down the 3 questions your manager and leadership are actually asking before they promote you, questions that get answered in rooms you're usually not in.This one is for the woman doing great work, staying visible to her manager, and still watching the promotion stall out. You are not being rejected. You may just be unmentioned, and that is something you can cha
135. Doing the Job Above You With No Promotion? Here's What To Do
135. Doing the Job Above You With No Promotion? Here's What To Do Jul 23, 2026 00:07:42 In episode 135, we're talking about what actually moves the needle when you've been doing the job above your title — and still waiting on that promotion.If you've been going above and beyond for months, getting great feedback, and still hearing nothing, this one is for you. You are not behind. You've just been working without the right positioning in place.In this episode, I break down a real clie
134. The Promotion Questions You're Afraid to Ask (Answered)
134. The Promotion Questions You're Afraid to Ask (Answered) Jul 16, 2026 00:21:25 In episode 134, we're getting into the promotion questions you're afraid to ask, the real ones, pulled straight from a room full of high-achieving women.You are already delivering above your title. This one is for the woman who is doing the work and is ready for the actual playbook, not more vague feedback. I taught a live training this week and opened it up for real questions, and the coaching I
133. Why Someone Less Qualified Just Got Promoted Over You
133. Why Someone Less Qualified Just Got Promoted Over You Jul 9, 2026 00:08:27 In episode 133, we are talking about the thing no one names when they talk about getting promoted: the discomfort of being seen.If you have been putting in the work and still getting passed over, there is a good chance it is not your performance that is the issue. It is that not enough of the right people know about it — and that somewhere along the way, being visible started to feel uncomfortable
132. The 3 People Who Decide Your Promotion (and Why Your Manager Isn't Enough)
132. The 3 People Who Decide Your Promotion (and Why Your Manager Isn't Enough) Jul 2, 2026 00:08:32 In episode 132, we're talking about why someone less qualified just got promoted over you — and what actually happened.You did the work. You hit your goals. You got great feedback. And somehow, they got the promotion. That is one of the most demoralizing things that can happen in a career. And I want you to hear this right now: it was not your quality of work. It was positioning, visibility, a
131. Why You Get Great Reviews but Never Get Promoted
131. Why You Get Great Reviews but Never Get Promoted Jun 25, 2026 00:07:30 In episode 131, we're talking about why getting great reviews and getting promoted are two completely different decisions — and what it actually takes to win both.You are doing the work. You are hitting your goals. Your manager thinks you are incredible. And you are still not getting promoted. That is not a reflection of your performance. It is a reflection of a system that no one explained to
130. Why You're Still Stuck Even Though You're Doing Everything Right
130. Why You're Still Stuck Even Though You're Doing Everything Right Jun 12, 2026 00:19:29 In episode 130, we're talking about why you can be doing everything right and still feel completely stuck.You are not the problem. The women I work with are smart, driven, ambitious, and high-achieving. They have strong performance reviews. They are doing everything right. And they are stuck. Not because they are not working hard enough. Because what got them here will not get them there. And
129. How to Say No at Work Without Blowing Up Your Career
129. How to Say No at Work Without Blowing Up Your Career Jun 6, 2026 00:21:33 In episode 129, we're talking about how to say no at work without it costing you your career, your credibility, or your peace.You have been rewarded for saying yes. It's gotten you promoted, recognized, and into the room. So it makes sense that saying no feels dangerous. This episode is for the high achievers, especially women, women of color, and first-gen professionals, who know they nee
128. When Fear Sounds Like Logic: How Ambitious Women Talk Themselves Out of What They Want
128. When Fear Sounds Like Logic: How Ambitious Women Talk Themselves Out of What They Want May 28, 2026 00:21:50 In episode 128, we're talking about why fear doesn't always look like fear and how high-achieving women in leadership and career growth quietly talk themselves out of what they want by calling it logic.I'm coming in hot with this one: fear is sneaky. It doesn't show up as panic. It shows up as "the timing isn't right" or "I need a little more experience first&quo
127. Why Successful Women Ask for Help (And Don't Talk About It)
127. Why Successful Women Ask for Help (And Don't Talk About It) May 22, 2026 00:18:50 In episode 127, we're talking about why the most successful women in leadership and business have help and why nobody's talking about it.I'm coming in hot with this one: figuring it out alone is not the flex we think it is. The coaches, the mentors, the tutors, the specialists — it's all there for the high-achieving women winning around you. It's just quiet. And it's time w
126. How to Make Your Work Visible Without Feeling Like You're Bragging
126. How to Make Your Work Visible Without Feeling Like You're Bragging May 16, 2026 00:20:18 In episode 126, we're talking about how to make your work visible without feeling like you're bragging.You are the person everyone calls when something needs to get done. You deliver, you over-deliver, and you do it every single time. And yet when it comes to getting promoted, getting recognized, or moving up, something is not adding up. This episode is about why that happens and exactly w

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