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A Well Cared For Human: self-love strategies for transforming your pain into power

A Well Cared For Human: self-love strategies for transforming your pain into power

Kory M. Shrum 154 Episodes Apr 24, 2026

After completing her true crime podcast 'Who Killed My Mother?', Kory M. Shrum received numerous requests from listeners asking how she healed from abuse, trauma, and mental illness. This wellness podcast explores self-love strategies for transforming pain into power. It offers inspiration and relaxation but is not a substitute for professional medical treatment. The host shares personal insights and practical advice for achieving happiness, health, and peace.

Episodes

Will your goals destroy you?
Will your goals destroy you? Apr 24, 2026 1448 Will Your Goals Destroy You? The Hidden Cost of Ambition Ambition can drive your greatest success—but it can also quietly burn you out. In this episode, Kory explores the complex relationship between ambition and self-worth, and what happens when your goals start working against you instead of for you. Through personal stories and grounded insight, you’ll learn how to pursue success without sacrif
Healing, Purpose, and the Power of Storytelling with Zac Diamanti
Healing, Purpose, and the Power of Storytelling with Zac Diamanti Apr 10, 2026 2687 What happens when a warrior comes home—but no longer knows who they are? In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, Kory sits down with award-winning fantasy author Zac Diamanti to talk about storytelling, trauma, and the long journey of healing after service. Zac shares how his time in the military—and the difficult transition out of it—shaped his writing, especially in his cozy fantasy novel G
How to Stop Fighting Your Thoughts
How to Stop Fighting Your Thoughts Mar 27, 2026 879 Many of us were never taught how to work with our thoughts and emotions. Instead, we were taught to fear the control they had over us. In this episode of A Well Cared For Human, Kory shares an audiobook excerpt exploring the Mind and Emotions Pillar, one of the Four Pillars of Wellbeing. Growing up in an environment where her thoughts and feelings were constantly dismissed, criticized, and invalid
How to Heal Your Relationship With Your Body
How to Heal Your Relationship With Your Body Mar 13, 2026 1154 Many of us grow up learning to criticize our bodies long before we ever learn how to care for them. Maybe someone made hurtful comments on your appearance. Maybe you were bullied. Maybe the messages about what a body “should” look like slowly taught you to see your own body as a problem to fix. In this episode of A Well Cared For Human, I share an excerpt from the audiobook of A Well Cared For Hum
A Meditation for When You Feel Overwhelmed
A Meditation for When You Feel Overwhelmed Feb 27, 2026 1000 When your mind is racing and your nervous system feels unstable, you don’t need to solve your life. You need to slow your body down. In this episode of A Well Cared For Human, I guide you through a grounding meditation I use when I feel internally chaotic, a simple practice called “Be Like a Log.” Inspired by a verse from the 8th-century Buddhist text The Way of the Bodhisattva by Shantideva, this
The 4 Foundations of Self-Love (That No One Teaches You)
The 4 Foundations of Self-Love (That No One Teaches You) Feb 13, 2026 1802 What does it actually mean to have a healthy relationship with yourself? In this episode of A Well Cared For Human, Kory explores the four essential attributes that change everything: honesty, trust, respect, and open communication. Drawing from Chapter Three of A Well Cared For Human, she examines how trauma, self-doubt, gaslighting, and survival mode interfere with these qualities,  and how we c
The Self-Care Shift That Changes Everything
The Self-Care Shift That Changes Everything Jan 30, 2026 1023 What if self-care isn’t about habits — but about the relationship you’re building with yourself? In this episode of A Well Cared For Human, Kory explores the most important mindset shift behind sustainable self-care: moving from isolated self-care tasks to intentional relationship-building across the Four Pillars of Wellbeing. Through personal reflection and an extended audiobook excerpt from A We
Leverage Your Losses (& Audiobook Chapter 1 Preview)
Leverage Your Losses (& Audiobook Chapter 1 Preview) Jan 14, 2026 1614 This episode features Chapter One of the audiobook A Well Cared For Human, presented as a full audio reading. It introduces the tone, voice, and emotional foundation of the book, offering an immersive entry point into the audiobook, along with the author’s introduction and commentary. In this episode: Kory shares insights into the audiobook production process An introduction to the core idea t
Why New Year’s Resolutions Are Hurting You (And What to Do Instead)
Why New Year’s Resolutions Are Hurting You (And What to Do Instead) Dec 31, 2025 1301 New Year’s resolutions often sound motivating—but they can quietly damage your relationship with yourself. In this episode, Kory offers a gentler, more sustainable way to set goals—one that prioritizes wellbeing over self-criticism. Using the A Well Cared For Human framework, she walks through how to align your goals with your body, mind, spirit, and relationships, while paying close attention to
Finding Balance in an Unbalanced World
Finding Balance in an Unbalanced World Dec 17, 2025 1202 Episode 145: Finding Balance in an Unbalanced World In this week’s episode, Kory explores why so many of us feel exhausted, anxious, overwhelmed, or “out of sync” — and why none of it is a personal failing. Living in a fast-moving, hyperconnected world constantly pulls us off center. Add in the pressure to “get it together,” stay productive, and keep up with endless expectations, and balance becom
What’s Keeping You Overwhelmed, Overworked, and Undervalued
What’s Keeping You Overwhelmed, Overworked, and Undervalued Dec 2, 2025 1454 Author James Clear said, “"You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” The only problem is that most systems that dictate our lives are not built by us, let alone for us. In this episode, host Kory discusses how systemic structures impact our relationship with ourselves and our ability to nurture the four pillars of wellness: body, mind and emotions, spirit,
Gratitude When Life Is Hard: 3 Practices to Be Thankful for Yourself
Gratitude When Life Is Hard: 3 Practices to Be Thankful for Yourself Nov 7, 2025 1568 Gratitude can feel impossible when life feels chaotic, uncertain, or overwhelming — and yet this is when we need it most. In this episode, we explore why gratitude often feels out of reach during stressful seasons, and why shifting your practice inward (toward gratitude for yourself) is one of the most powerful healing tools available. I share three simple, grounding practices that help you: Bui

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