Beyond Great Sex
Beyond Great Sex helps women who struggle with desire and dread around sex. It challenges common myths and 'sexpectations' to create passion, pleasure, and connection. The podcast offers advice on turning off mental blocks, deepening partner intimacy, and building body confidence. It emphasizes that pleasure is connected to overall well-being and self-worth.
Episodes
Ep 34: Conflicting Emotions Can Coexist—And You Can Still Enjoy Sex
Is shame, guilt, self-consciousness, or dread keeping you from the sex you want to have?What if it doesn’t have to?In this episode, I’m breaking down why conflicting emotions are not a sign that something is wrong—and why you don’t have to wait until you feel "perfectly okay" to experience pleasure. We’ll talk about:· Why emotions like shame, guilt, and self-consciousness show up—and how they try
Ep 33: Stop Waiting to Love Your Body—Enjoy Life & Intimacy NOW
What if the way you see your body is the very thing holding you back from the intimacy, confidence, and pleasure you deserve?For years, I believed my body was the problem. I thought I had to change it before I could feel sexy, desired, or fully free in intimacy. I was wrong.In this episode, we’re diving deep into how your relationship with your body shapes your sex life—and how to start rewriting
Ep 32: Five Things I've Learned About Desire
If you've ever felt like your desire is unpredictable, inconsistent, or just… gone, this episode is for you. I’m sharing five powerful lessons that completely changed the way I see desire—lessons that will help you stop chasing it, start understanding it, and actually cultivate more of it in your life and relationship. If you’ve ever wondered, 'Why don’t I want sex like I used to?' or 'Is somethin
Ep 31: When Every Hug Feels Like It Has Strings Attached
Ever find yourself pulling away from your partner—not because you don’t love them, but because every hug, kiss, or touch feels like it comes with an expectation? You’re not alone.In this episode, we’re unpacking why this happens, why it’s not just about your partner always wanting sex, and—most importantly—how to break free from this cycle so you can enjoy physical closeness again without the pres
Ep 30: When You're the One with the Stronger Libido
What happens when you’re the one with the higher libido in your relationship? If you’ve ever felt frustrated, rejected, or wondered if something is wrong because your partner isn’t matching your desire, this episode is for you.We’re breaking down the truth about libido mismatches, why men aren’t always ‘in the mood’ (despite what society tells us), and what’s actually happening when your partner t
Ep 29: How to Shift from Stuck to Turned On—Using Your Emotional Floorplan
Ever feel stuck in your sex life—like you want to want sex, but you can't seem to find the ON button? You’re not broken, and your libido isn’t ‘gone’—you might just be in the wrong emotional room. In this episode, I introduce you to the concept of your Emotional Floorplan, a game-changing way to understand what’s fuelling or blocking your desire. Whether stress, resentment, or mental overload is h
Ep 28: Why Was Sex With Your Ex So Hot, and Now It’s… Not?
In this episode, we’re tackling a tough question: Why was the sex with an ex—who wasn’t good for you—so incredible, and now that you've met the "right" person for you, it’s just… different? You might feel bad, wondering if something’s wrong with you, or if you’re with the right person. Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered! We’ll break down what’s really happening and by the end, you’ll see your relat
Ep 27: “I'm Not a Sensual Woman”
Do you struggle to feel sensual? In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of sensuality with a real-life example from a session with a client, Leila. Join me as I challenge societal norms and guide you to explore sensuality as a personal, internal experience. Discover how you can tap into your sensual energy by understanding the sensations in your body and engaging in activities that make you
Ep 26: Scheduling Sex
Struggling to find time for intimacy in your relationship? You’re not alone. The idea of putting sex on the calendar might make you cringe—but could there be hidden benefits? In this episode, I dive into the often controversial topic of scheduling sex. Why do some people swear by it while others resist the very thought? I explore the common hesitations and share insights that might just change you
Ep 25: One Skill to Make Your Long-Time Partner Feel Like New Again
Let’s work on making your relationship feel like new again! How does that sound!?I know that many of you struggle to keep things sexy in the long run. And I understand how disheartening it can feel to be with someone you love, yet to feel like the spark has gone, like you’re in a rut, always having the same kind of sex, feeling like there is nothing new and exciting anymore, that meh feeling…So to
Ep 24: You're Not the Diagnosed Patient
Do you ever feel like you are responsible for all that isn't going well in your intimacy with your partner? Like you need to change or "fix" yourself because it is your fault that things aren't as they could be?If so, you definitely want to listen in on today's episode where I share with you the advice I gave to my client, Sylvia, who thought that she was ruining everything in her relationship wit
Ep 23: “I Would Be Fine Never Having Sex Again”
I hear a lot of women say that they would be fine never having sex again, including some of my clients who often initially seek my help to salvage their relationship, but if it were really up to them they’d be ok never having sex again. Sounds familiar? In today's episode I tell you the very simple reason why you do not want sex. Spoiler alert, it is not because something is wrong with you or beca
Ep 22: When He Can't Get it Up
Let's talk about erectile dysfunction! This is yet again a far too taboo subject given how common it is among penis owners. I know how challenging it can be for both partners when your man struggles with his erection. So today I'm teaching you what causes erectile dysfunction and what both you and your partner can do to solve it.Resources:Study Impotence and its medical and psychosocial correlates
Ep 21: Desire, Initiating, Feeling Sexy, and More - A Discussion with Relationship Coach, Rebecca Ore
This week I was a guest on Rebecca Ore’s podcast, Master Your Relationship Mind Drama. We covered things like:Navigating differences in sex-drivesWhat is the 'right' amount to be having sex?Does it matter who initiates?How to keep passion alive in long-term relationshipsAnd how to feel sexy and desirable, regardless of what our partner is doing (or not doing) If you're having mind drama in (or out
Ep 20: Have Better Sex in 2024 + A Little Gift for You
In this episode I share with you four simple yet powerful practices I like to do to get myself into the energy I want to be in at the start of the year. If you want to create change in your intimacy and make 2024 the year you have the best sex of your life, this episode is a fun way to start!Download your free workbook to HERE to choose your Sex & Intimacy Word of the year. Resources:My Instag
Ep 19: It's Definitely Not Menopause!
Here we are, the episode that I know so many of you were waiting for... Let’s talk about menopause and sex! This is such a hot topic for me… hot in every meaning of the word – hot cause it’s about women and sex (and what’s not hot about that!?) but also hot in the sense that it’s a burning topic that we need to address, that we need to demystify, that we need to rethink completely… I get extremely
Ep 18: It's Probably Not Your Hormones
Have you been struggling with your sex-drive and been told it's probably hormonal? Have you tried taking oestrogen, DHEA or even testosterone, without any improvement on your libido? In today's episode I explain to you why your hormones are unlikely to be responsible for your lack of sexual desire, and what else is likely going on for you.Resources:Basson, “Biopsychosocial models of women's sexual
Ep 17: My Secret Ingredient for a High Sex-Drive, Always
Would you love to be able to access your desire on demand at all times? To have a switch that you can just flick and turn yourself on in a matter of seconds? What if I told you that it is possible? Sounds too good to be true? Listen to today's episode to find out about my secret ingredient for a high sex-drive, always. And no, I'm not selling you a magic pill that will make you want to have sex al
Ep 16: Safety Is the New Sexy – Part 2
In the last episode of the podcast, we discussed the science behind your nervous system and how to identify if a lack of emotional and/or physical safety is coming in the way of your enjoyment of sex. We saw how, not feeling physically or emotionally safe can totally kill your libido, your desire for intimacy altogether, your pleasure, and why it makes it almost impossible for you to reach an orga
Ep 15: Safety Is the New Sexy – Part 1
Are you ready to talk about emotional and physical safety and sex? I know it doesn’t sound like a very sexy topic, but it probably is going to be one of the most important episodes of the podcast, ever… Cause without safety there can be no pleasure. And helping you create more pleasure in your life is what this podcast is all about… So trust me, you want to listen in on this one! My Instagram ac
Ep 14: Why You Come on Your Own but Not with Your Partner
Do you struggle having an orgasm with your partner, yet you are able to get there on your own? In this episode I take you through the three most common reasons why that might be. I will give you a hint: it is NOT because you are broken. Trust me. This is a very common issue for women. I struggled with this for years and wish someone had told me then what I'm going to tell you in today's episode. Y
Ep 13: How to Initiate Sex
Wanting to learn how to initiate sex is on most of my clients' wishlists when they hire me. In this episode I tell you all about initiating. I give you practical tips, but most importantly, I teach you about the mindset approach to initiating sex.
Listen to this episode to find out about the five most common reasons why people don't initiate sex, and what to do about it. Resources: Free course on
Ep 12: How Fear of Rejection and People Pleasing Affect Your Sex Life
This week I discuss how fear of rejection and people pleasing affect our sex lives. Not only is fear of rejection a cause of pain, frustration and dissatisfaction for many, it can also put us in danger if we don't know how to identify it and navigate it. Luckily for you, I give you the tools just for that in this episode! Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.co
Ep 11: Are You Slut-Shaming Yourself and/or Other Women?
As women, we have all been either on the receiving end of slut-shaming, on the giving end, (meaning we’ve judged or criticised other women), or both! In this episode I explore the causes of this paradox and offer some thoughts on how we can evolve in our collective journey and stop this pattern which, among other things, impacts our enjoyment of our sexuality, our sexual freedom and our pleasure.R
Ep 10: How to Communicate What You Want to Your Partner – Part 3: Practical tools
Do you struggle communicating your sexual desires to your partner? This week, I share with you my best practical and actionable tools for constructive and effective communication, and specifically as they relate to sex. You will learn easy steps that you can immediately implement in your relationship to start communicating you wants and needs in a way that is more likely to create the results tha
Ep 9: How to Communicate What You Want to Your Partner – Part 2: The Patriarchy
This week we continue our conversation on how to communicate our sexual needs, wants, desires, to our partner. We look closer at heterosexual couples and explore a fear many women have of "undermining" or "emasculating" their male partner if they share what's on their mind. In this episode, you will learn about the internalised beliefs you might have developed by evolving in a patriarchal society.
Ep 8: How to Communicate What You Want to Your Partner – Part 1: When You Are Afraid to Hurt Your Partner’s Feelings
In this week's episode, I address a question that comes up all the time in sessions, that is: “how do I communicate what I want to my partner?” I share with you the most common reasons why women struggle in saying what they want sexually, and specifically the fear of hurting their partner's feelings. I walk you through why that might be a fear of yours and tell you how you can break this pattern.
Ep 7: All He Cares About Is Having Sex (continued)
This week we continue the discussion we started in the last episode, about this narrative some women have about their male partners only being interested in having sex. We discuss the reasons behind it and I offer you a different perspective and way of thinking about the situation that might just change your whole perception of your relationship.
Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My W
Ep 6: All He Cares About Is Having Sex
In this episode I share insights from a session I had with my client Isabelle. She thought that all her husband wants is to have sex. That that’s the only thing he is interested in. That he is only affectionate when he wants to get laid. And that as soon as he shows the slightest sign of affection: whether he kisses her, hugs her or whatever, it always “gets out of hand” because the only reason he
Ep 5: When You “Lose” Desire (Part 2)
This week we explore the lack of sex-drive within the relationship, when you feel sexual desire, just not towards your partner anymore. We discuss the reasons why you have stopped feeling desire for your partner, and I give you a 3-step process (that works!) to rekindle the flame.
Resources:My Instagram account: @morganehorn_ My Website: www.morganehorn.com Free Materials
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Ep 4: When You “Lose” Desire (Part 1)
In this week's episode, we explore the generalised lack of desire. That is, when you feel that you have a low or non-existent libido. We discuss the reasons behind this low libido and I give you a practical exercise designed to help you observe the emotions you create on a given day and whether these emotions are conducive to feeling more desire in your body.
Resources:
My Instagram account: @mo
Ep 3: When Your Partner Does Not Satisfy You
This week, I address a question that regularly comes up during sessions with clients, and that is: What to do when my partner does not satisfy me sexually? It can be challenging to decide what to do in such a situation... Sometimes we’re not on the same page (sexually), we can feel dissatisfied, or wish our sex life was different. If you are in that situation, you may wonder if you should leave t
Ep 2: Understand Your Desire
A low sex-drive, or lack of desire is the #1 reason why my clients seek my help. In this week's episode you will learn all about desire, you'll understand how it works, and why you may be thinking that there is a problem with your libido. Because the first step to becoming a turned-on woman is to understand your body and your desire. Resources: Book Come as You Are by Emilie NagoskiMy Instagram a
Ep 1: Your Sex Life Is a Reflection of Your Thoughts
Are you fulfilled sexually? And by fulfilled, I mean: does your sex life fully satisfy you? Are you currently living the sex life of your wildest dreams? Or, are there aspects that you would like to change if you could? In today's episode, I tell you the secret to a fulfilling sex life. Because contrary to a lot of things I hear out there, a fulfilling sex life is not something that just happens t
Welcome to Beyond Great Sex: Start Here!
In this episode I present the podcast, to tell you about the intention behind it, who it is designed for, what you can expect from it; so that you can decide whether you want to invest your precious time listening to it.
The podcast is aimed primarily at women, although men are most welcome to listen in and join the fun! I coach all people of all genders but my goal with this podcast is to hel
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