No One Dies from Divorce
Jill Coil, a divorce attorney and family law expert, hosts this podcast offering practical advice and emotional support for those navigating separation and divorce. Episodes cover topics like co-parenting, child custody, financial division, and healing. She interviews fellow attorneys, therapists, and individuals sharing their personal divorce journeys. The podcast aims to help listeners not just survive but thrive after divorce.
Episodes
How to Win a High Conflict Divorce
Some divorces are disagreements. Others are wars. When fear takes over and kids get pulled into the middle, a high-conflict divorce becomes one of the most exhausting things a person can go through.In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with CoilLaw attorney Steve Oliphant, who's spent years handling our hardest, highest-conflict cases, to talk about what actually works when
Inside the Judge’s Mind: What Family Court Actually Cares About
Most people walk into family court convinced that the judge or commissioner will instantly see through their ex’s lies, validate their emotional pain, and hand down sweet justice. But here is the brutal reality: family court is not Perry Mason, and the bench is not there to heal your emotional wounds.In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my partner in crime, TR Morgan. TR br
Why You Should NEVER Take Your Divorce to Trial (Unless You Have To)
Are you holding out for a judge to finally validate your pain and punish your ex? Let me tell you right now: the courtroom will not heal your heart. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my longest-standing attorney at CoilLaw, Luke Shaw, to give you the harsh reality about taking your divorce to trial. One of the absolute hardest parts of going through a divorce is knowing
What Judges ACTUALLY Care About in Custody Battles
The biggest mistake parents make in a custody battle? Thinking they can "win" their case with one dramatic, explosive moment in the courtroom. In reality, judges decide custody based on the behavioral patterns they’ve seen long before you ever walk through the courthouse doors.In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with attorney Austin Dominguez to deliver a massive real
Why ChatGPT Is Wrecking Divorce Cases
Most people don't lose their divorce in the courtroom. They lose it long before they ever get there, through emotional decisions that feel good in the moment and wreck the case later.In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with CoilLaw attorney Samantha Frazier to break down the biggest mistakes we watch people make over and over, and how to avoid them. The angry text that get
Cheating Won't Destroy Your Divorce. Your Reaction Will.
Finding out your spouse had an affair is one of the most devastating things a person can go through. After almost 20 years in family law, here's the hard truth I have to sit down and tell those clients: the affair itself probably won't change your divorce. But how you react to it can change everything.In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I'm joined by CoilLaw attorney Savann
Why "Keeping the Peace" Can Destroy Your Divorce
Are you so emotionally exhausted by your divorce that you’re willing to sign anything just to make the fighting stop? Wanting peace is completely understandable, but settling too fast out of temporary fatigue can lead to legal and financial regret that lasts for years.In this episode of No One Dies From Divorce, I sit down with Coil Law attorney Chelsea Hoffman to unpack the hidden dangers of &quo
The Truth About Protective Orders in Divorce
A protective order is the closest thing family law has to a nuclear bomb. In the right hands it saves a life. Used as a weapon, the fallout can level a family that was never in real danger to begin with. After almost 20 years in family law, I've watched both happen, and that's exactly why I wanted to do this episode.In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with one of my s
Will I Ever Be Happy Again? Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce
When you're in the middle of a divorce, it can feel like a bomb went off and the smoke is so thick you can't see an inch in front of your face. You can't picture life on the other side, and you're terrified it's going to hurt like this forever. After almost 20 years in family law, here's what I know that you can't see yet: it doesn't.In this episode of No On
What Nobody Tells You About Money and Divorce
Do you actually know where your family's money is going? After almost 20 years in family law, I can tell you the partners who don't are the ones who end up most vulnerable in a divorce.In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my CoilLaw colleague Crystal Anderson to talk about the part of divorce nobody warns you about: money and power. We get into why completely sepa
The Real Reason Nobody "Wins" in Divorce
Think family court is about finding justice and punishing your ex? Think again. In this eye-opening episode of No One Dies From Divorce, I sit down with my partner in crime and senior managing attorney, Gabi Jones, to reveal the harsh legal realities that often shatter our clients' expectations.As experienced advocates in family law, Gabi and I explain why seeking revenge or "fairness&qu
Take The High Road in Divorce
Do you feel stressed out, bewildered, emotionally compromised, or overwhelmed with navigating your divorce? Today we are talking with author Andy Heller about how to deal with high-conflict divorces and co-parent effectively. Through his own divorce and life experience, Andy has outlined a pathway for how to manage emotional, logistical, and financial issues that occur during and after a divorce.
The Ugly Truth About Co-Parenting with Samantha Boss
Samantha Boss spent years in and out of court, fighting to modify a poorly crafted divorce decree. This experience inspired Samantha to begin coaching others through the divorce process in order to help more parents avoid the pitfalls of parenting plans. Join us on this episode as we talk about the need for a solid, perfectly tailored parenting plan that covers your family's specific needs, o
Dear Parents: Notes from a Child of Divorce
Divorce is hard on everyone. Between Mediation, decrees, lawyer fees, court dates, parent-time, and more, the divorce process can create a lot of chaos. Often the children of divorce get lost in the conflict, and their voices are not heard. Today we are talking with Grace Casper, a young woman who was a child of divorce. Grace is sharing her perspective as her parents divorced while she was still
How to Move Forward after Loss, Divorce, & Grief
Shelly Anderson is passionate about life's journey and the stages we grow through. At times that includes loss, divorce, and death. Join us as we discuss how grief isn't just a single stage, and that trauma becomes a part of who we are. Time does not heal all wounds; time allows the body to absorb the wounds and create space so we can mourn the life we thought we’d live, and press forwa
The Cost of Blended Families with Naja Hall
If you're divorced and dating or dating a divorcee, then this episode is for you! Listen in as Naja Hall tells it like it is. Blended families are difficult under the best of circumstances, but marrying someone with a High-Conflict divorce comes at a cost. It will test you mentally, emotionally, and financially, and test your relationship with your new spouse as well as any children involved.
Should I stay or Should I go? with Kate Anthony
Regardless of where you're at in your marriage or divorce process, there are a few key things to consider before choosing to stay or go. Divorce coach Kate Anthony talks about the importance of doing the emotional work which can guide you to finding joy and/or exit with grace. She says, Happiness is an inside job and it begins with making the choice. You deserve to be happy!
Why Not Ask? Getting what you want and need after divorce.
The question we should all be asking ourselves Why not ask is relevant in all facets of life. From high-conflict divorces to negotiations in the workplace, we can all benefit from the art of having Crucial Conversations that apply to all our relationships. Join us as we talk with Negotiation expert, Christine McKay, about how Negotiation isn't about winning, it's a conversation about re
Divorce and the Unspoken Childhood Trauma with Tara Seals
Make your passion your purpose and it becomes your profession, something Tara Seals, The Bossy Educator has definitely accomplished. As a child of divorce, an educator, and a bonus mom herself, Tara knows all about what divorce means for children. In this episode, Jill and Tara dive into the unspoken trauma and confusion that impacts children when parents divorce. Gather your village, get clear
Let Him See That Child with Attorney Boyd
For Jill and Joanna, family law was a calling. A call to represent the underdog and even the playing field for fathers. Both women have set the bar high in establishing firms that advocate for equal rights, parent time, and a voice is doing what's best for the child. Too often children are weaponized and used as leverage for money and control. Listen in as they share their journey through law
A Path to Peaceful Resolution with Jan & Jillian
Navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce can be exhausting and at times infuriating. However, many couples are able to come to peaceful resolutions having little to no conflict with the help of experts Jan and Jillian. Divorce doesn't have to ruin your life, but it will redefine it. In some cases, it may open old wounds and push you to find emotional freedom and hope through the trials. W
Murdaugh Murders: Scandal of a century with Kara North
You are in for a wild ride as we journey down the Rabbit hole of corruption with the Murdaugh family murders. At the center of it all is underage drinking, poor parenting, white privilege, and a prominent family wrapped in a web of deceit and corruption. On the surface what appeared to be a reckless boating accident turned into the scandal of a century with bodies piling up. Where there's
Radical Stepmom
So you fell in love with a partner who has kids! Everything seems pleasant at first, but quickly you become villainized as the “wicked stepmother.” You feel overwhelmed, unseen, blamed, and like you're always walking on eggshells. If this sounds like your journey as a step parent, join us as Radical Stepmom Christina shares her personal and professional experience of how to put your marriage
Unbounded: How to reclaim your life with Mary Crafts
Today we are talking with Mary Crafts about her hard won life lessons in her newly published book, Unbounded: From Sorrow to Summitt. At 50 Mary found herself, overworked, overweight, and in a toxic loveless marriage. Something had to give. Join us as she shares her wisdom on how to honor yourself, reclaim your life, and let go of fear.
Women Breaking Barriers with Kathleen Martinez
In this episode we uncover the outdated beliefs and practices within the legal system and how being a strong, independent woman comes with unique challenges. Listen in as Jill and Kathleen share their journey to success by overcoming the odds and obstacles of discrimination, shaming, and self doubt within the legal field. Join them as they champion each one another, other women and break barriers.
Doing Divorce Differently with Kate Strong
Sadly our society and the legal system encourages that we stack the evidence against our spouse to justify why we deserve a divorce. Often this approach only makes things worse and children become the collateral damage. There is another way. Today we are talking with Kate Strong about what it really means to do divorce differently. It starts with Asking Yourself and doing the work of inner Self-Ca
Old School Dating Standards with New School Style ft. Katy Clark
Dating after divorce can be daunting and exhausting. “The grass isn't always greener. It still has to be watered and most of it is fake. 80% of the dating pool is junk, they haven't done the work to be a good date,” says Katy Clark. Join us as we dive into how to reinvent yourself post divorce, start your Glow-Up and go from frumpy to fabulous with the 3 Fs.
When We Know Better, We Do Better with Cindy Stibbard
Often when we are young we are blinded by love and overlook the small acts of indiscretion and disrespect in a relationship. Years later after marriage, kids, and abandonment of self, we face divorce filled with anger, fear and resentment. Together Jill and Cindy are on a mission to eradicate the shame and stigma around divorce. Listen in as certified divorce coach Cindy Stibbard unpacks her journ
Time to clean house: How Real Estate can affect your Divorce
Divorces are messy, especially when it's time to clean house and sell! Today we are talking to divorce real estate expert, Joe Gordon on why you want a certified specialist vs. a standard agent when selling a house during a divorce. Having experienced his own divorce and the complexities of selling, Joe understands the delicate process it is to unravel a life and home. Listen in as he shares
Breakup to Breakthrough with Leanne Kanzler
With a New year, new you under way, this might include new relationships. But first, before we can start something new, we need to break up with the old and let go of what is holding us back. Join me and Leanne Kanzler as we talk about how to Breakup to Breakthrough and live your best life! It's time to break free from what isn't working.
New Year, New Me 2023
It's that time again! Join us as we present this year's calendar challenge designed with you and life in mind. We all have roadblocks, setbacks, and heartbreak, but we also have dreams, goals, and ambitions. This month focus on one daily challenge to create a better you. And remember, courage begins with one step!
Kim and Kanye: Ice cold
What should have been a clear cut divorce turned into a 3 year long battle with wild accusations, late night social media rants, and massive public scrutiny. Join us as we talk all about Kim and Kanye, his radical behavior, her ice cold shut outs and how even an iron clad prenup won't save you from a PR and legal nightmare.
Smoke and Mirrors: the Jen Shah and Momtok Scandals
There is no shortage of drama in Utah when it comes to the Wizard of Oz, Jen Shah and Momtok “swinger,” Taylor Frankie Paul. Jen Shahs is facing potentially 30 years in federal prison for fraud and Taylor is facing solitary confinement as a newly proclaimed monogamous woman. Shah struck gold by defrauding elderly people out of their retirement and now it's time to pay the piper with her sente
Tackling Teenage Angst During Divorce with Amy Parry
"How can I help the individuals going through a traumatic event like divorce,” is the question psychiatrist Amy Parry asks herself? Oftentimes teenagers get thrown to the side when parents are divorcing. Amy was drawn to teenagers who are struggling with the fallout of divorce on mental health. In her work she focuses on trying to understand what they are feeling and going through. “We can&ap
Stephanie Andersen- Cultivating Gratitude
With the holiday season upon us, we often become quickly overwhelmed with to-dos. In this episode, Steph Andersen talks about the power of healing and yoga: to unit or become one with self. If the heartbreak of divorce and fractured relationships have you stressed out, take a minute to release those trapped emotions and center yourself. Finding balance can bring peace and calm into our life. Join
Cleaning up The Trauma of Divorce
Relationships are hard and being human is complex, especially when you're going through a divorce. Today we are diving into why therapy is beneficial to individuals and families during or post separation. Divorce doesn't erase the relationships, it just changes the dynamics. We all need a safe space to unpack the emotions without shame or blame. Listen in as I talk with LMFT Ben Farmer
How to go from Lonely to Loved with Dr. Morgan
As an expert on attachment theory, Dr Morgan shares with us her insights on how to attract relationships you deserve. In today's episode we discuss how the habit of putting others' needs before our own, or ignoring our internal experiences, drives us to seek distractions from dealing with ourselves. Join us as we explore how healthy romantic relationships work and how to go from lonely t
The spooky side of divorce (Halloween edition)
Not all divorce is high conflict. In this special Halloween edition, we uncover the seemingly dark side of divorce. We shake the bones loose and question the cost of Adultery, being a bad Spouse vs a good parent, and do moms always win? Listen in as we blast some of the spooky myths about divorce.
Getting creative and compromising in mediation
You can't fight for your rights if you don't know your rights. Rob Jepson has dedicated his career to helping divorcees avoid heartache, pain, and financial setbacks through solution oriented mediation. We all need guidance on what is legal, within our rights, and what we really want during divorce. Join us on this episode as we talk about the goal of mediation and how it can help you m
Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Family with Andy Heller
While navigating through the turmoil of his own divorce, Andy Heller read countless support books to help him through the process. He identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women experiencing divorce. His book, “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family,” is his give back with a stated goal of making the divorce process easier. In this episo
Two Attorneys Talk all things Johnny Depp-Amber Heard trial. Ft. Jahan Kalantar
Jahan Kalantar fell in love with advocating for the little guy. During the pandemic, overnight he went from a booming practice in Syndey to zero revenue. The Government's regulation was confusing, convoluted and divisive. So he took to TikTok to help explain the law in plain English. Then he struck TikTok gold with the Depp-Heard case, or as he calls it, the trial of our generation. As a se
Preparing for One Extraordinary Marriage
Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo co-host one of the top marriage podcasts on Apple called, The One Extraordinary Marriage Show. From their own experience and years of helping others, they know a thing or two about what it takes to make any relationship last. It starts by understanding the six pillars of Intimacy. Tony and Alisa have written a best selling book, “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy” to guide anyo
Her Hips Don’t Lie: The shake down of Shakira and Gerard’s split.
Shakira and Gerard Pique split after 12 years together. They have two children together. There is much speculation and gossip around why they are breaking up. Join us as we go into all the juicy details of the power couples split. Shakira’s hips may not lie but her lips aren’t moving and the truth behind their break up may never come to light. And later, my guest Kelly Baldwin and I will div
Tomorrow Needs You! You are never alone: Suicide Prevention Month
Michael Wise is a paralegal for MoxieLaw, a personal injury firm. He is dedicated to helping people find peace and closure through difficult times, including the struggles many of us have with mental health. Today Michael and I will be discussing the very sensitive yet crucial topic of suicide. Join us as we go over 5 things you can do to help you through your darkest moments and remember, Tomorro
Tessa White: Crucial Coaching on How to Be Successful in Your Career
Welcome to season 2! Tessa is the founder of The Job Doctor. A practice dedicated to building career strategies and re-engaging people in the workplace. She believes anyone and everyone can gain new skills to enter the workplace and thrive. Tessa was newly divorced and had been out of the workplace for a while. She knew she had to provide for her family which would require hard work and determi
The End of Season 1!
No One Dies from Divorce concludes it's first season. Thank you everyone for the support and we will see you in the fall! Follow @jillcoil on Instagram, Tiktok, and Facebook to stay up to date.
A Better Way to Come Through Trials with Krista Andersen
Krista Andersen is passionate about living fully, family, conflict engagement, using words to heal instead of harm, and creating memorable experiences. Her passion for how words are used to heal and harm led her to the field of mediation where Krista is devoted to helping clients learn how to engage in conflict in healthy ways. Knowing that conflict is a constant in our lives, Krista seeks to edu
Divorcing a Narcissist
The final divorce tip this season! I'm explaining what to do when divorcing a Narcissist
From Falling Flat to Standing Tall with Megan Sanford
You sometimes have to fall flatter on your face then you ever have to be able to stand taller than you ever could. This is exactly how Megan Sanford would describe her experience of being addicted to Meth, pregnant at 19, and not knowing if she would be here tomorrow. Megan shares her most vulnerable story with the world in hopes that it will give hope and encouragement for anyone feeling they a
Why Are You Getting a Divorce?
"If you are in a relationship that is keeping you from being happy for whatever reason, then it is probably not best to stay in said relationship."
Family and Immigration Law Broken Down with Pooja Mehta
Immigration is scary and a complicated process for those that have started, are in the middle and/or are in the final stages of the process. It can be almost paralyzing when having to deal with immigration when going through a divorce. In fact many think that they cannot divorce or leave an abusive relationship because of their immigration status. However, Pooja Mehta, an attorney out of New Je
Why Would a Divorce Case Go to Trial?
Not all divorces go to trial, but some do. I explain in this divorce tip episode why that would happen.
Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard - Trial broken down with Sterling Swank
Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard’s Defamation trial has been heard around the world. Millions are captivated at every move, argument and evidence that has been presented regarding Johnny Depp's Defamation case against Amber Heard and her Counter Complaint for Defamation against Johnny Depp and his Lawyer. Jill Coil and Sterling Swank break down the trial all the way up to the last week of testimo
Divorce Tips: Pregnancy and Divorce
Regaining Your Hotness After Divorce
Life after divorce allows you to be true to who you really are. So often in marriage, we forget our own needs because we are busy taking care of our spouse and our children. Because of this, we end up losing sense of what we want and what our needs are. Divorce gives us that chance to rediscover who we are and what we want to be. Today’s guest, Leta Greene, is all about embracing what makes us i
Divorce Tips: Does the Length of the Marriage or My Age Affect the Divorce?
Taken from Chapter 1 of my book, No One Dies from Divorce: How to Survive and Thrive When Your Marriage Ends. This is a book about not only surviving divorce but also coming out on the other side stronger and more capable. The scariest part about divorce is the unknown, the questions that keep you up at night: Am I going to be okay? Are my kids going to be okay? What will my family and friends t
The Surprising Financial Benefits of Divorce
Most assume the financial ramifications of a divorce to be devastating, but with the right legal and financial counsel, divorce can offer the chance for a new financial beginning and opportunity. Today’s guest, Rick Salmeron, is a certified financial planner and knows firsthand about the financial issues that arise when getting divorced. Keep your focus on rebuilding after a difficult process wit
Divorce Tips: Dealing with DCFS / CPS Issues During Divorce
The mission of the state funded programs, DCFS and CPS (Division of Child and Family Services and/or Child Protective Services), is to keep children safe from violence, abuse, and neglect. If DCFS/CPS shows up at your door, you likely have a lot of questions about their process and what your rights are at each stage of the process. Tune in if you are dealing with DCFS/CPS issues during divorce, so
Commissioner T.R. Morgan: Tips from the Bench
TR Morgan has presided in over 10,000 hearings as a former Domestic Relations Commissioner for the Utah Courts. After years of practicing on the bench, TR joins to share his background, judicial philosophy, and best practices when your case goes to court. Tune in to learn more from a retired Commissioner! T.R. Morgan grew up in Northern Utah playing high school basketball, winning at board games,
Divorce Tips: How to Keep Your Inheritance Safe From Divorce
Can I keep my inheritance safe from divorce? The short answer is yes, however you need to ensure you’re protecting money by knowing your state’s laws. Regardless of your state, I always advise that you avoid commingling these funds, and to consider getting a trust as an added layer of protection. If you’re the recipient of an inheritance, tune in today to learn more about your options.
JLo and Ben Affleck - Bennifer Forever?
Even though I’ve been a JLo fan since the beginning of her career, I’m not a huge fan of “Bennifer”. Today, Cameron and I are indulging in more salacious celebrity gossip and sharing why it’s not the best idea to get back with your ex.
Divorce Tips: Divorcing Without Children
Even if you consider your divorce amicable or less complicated because you do not have children, it does not hurt to consult with a family law attorney to ensure you’re protecting yourself, property, and future. While many people may think of hiring an attorney for a “simple” divorce without children, there are other factors to consider when proceeding, such as: refinancing and removing a party f
Dr. Debi Silber: Post-Betrayal Syndrome
Betrayal can affect your entire life - work, health, and even your relationships. While we’ve heard it before, “time heals all wounds”, Dr. Debi Silber joins me today with proof that this is not true. It doesn’t matter if your betrayal happened decades ago, you can still experience post betrayal syndrome today. Listen in as we discuss how to heal from betrayal in your relationship and experience f
Divorce Tips: Dealing with the Housing Market
Tune in today to learn my take on the pros and cons of the hot real estate market right now, and how to deal with that while getting divorced.
Karen McMahon: Raising Teens and Young Adults Post Divorce
Divorce and Relationship Coach, Karen McMahon, joins me today to discuss the hardest parts of co-parenting, tips to help your kids through divorce, and how to deal with a high conflict ex. Listen in to learn how you can build a strong and lasting foundation for parenting teens and young adults. Karen McMahon is a Certified Relationship and Divorce Coach, Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. Karen le
Divorce Tips: Why I Wrote No One Dies from Divorce
My name is Jill Coil, and I know a thing or two about divorce. I have been a divorce attorney for the past 14 years and am licensed to practice law in Texas and Utah. I own the domestic litigation firm Coillaw and have grown it in the past 7 years to be a multimillion-dollar law firm and one of the largest family law firms in the State of Utah. I have also written the Amazon bestselling book “No
Dr. Susan Thompson: The Divorce Diet: How to Avoid Turning to Food to Cope
The stress of divorce can trigger a wide range of emotional responses, including eating disorders. Today, I’m joined by Dr. Susan Thompson, President of the Institute for Sustainable Weight Loss and the founder of the worldwide Bright Line Eating Movement, to discuss the psychology behind how and why we eat the way we do. Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D. is an Adjunct Associate Professor of Brain and
Divorce Tips: Emergency Orders
In this mini-episode, I’m discussing a few different types of emergency orders. What issues qualify as an emergency, and tips on how to proceed. If you are in an emergency or feeling threatened, please call the cops and seek protection.
Michael Wise: Reconciling Religion, Fear, and Divorce
[TRIGGER WARNING: Mentions of self harm and suicide.] If you or a loved one need support, call the 24/7 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). This week I’m joined by my friend and paralegal, Michael Wise, who shares his raw and real story of divorce, and how he worked through fear, guilt, and shame to reclaim his life. It may not kill you, but in the thick of it, divorce ca
Divorce Tips: Depositions in Divorce
Summary: Today we’re talking about depositions in divorce: what is it, why is it needed, and who is a part of them? Although they tend to be pricey, depositions can be a powerful tool in the discovery process and important pieces to building a case, especially in high conflict/assets situations. Listen in to learn more about this process and to determine if it’s right for you. The deposition is a
Luke Shaw: Nick Cannon: 8 kids, 5 Moms
I’m diving into the legal details we know about Nick Cannon’s family life, as he recently announced his current girlfriend is pregnant with his eighth child! Join me and my fellow family law attorney, Luke Shaw, as we discuss potential outcomes for Nick, and what we can learn from celebrity paternity issues.
Divorce Tips: My Ex Wants to Move Out of the State, What Happens to the Kids?
Relocation cases are not easy and often involve high emotions and conflict. While it may not be unusual for one parent to want to move out of state after the divorce is finalized, it won’t be as easy as taking the kids with you if it interferes with the other parent’s court ordered custody time. Listen in as I discuss specifically what actions you can take when, and how to navigate these circumsta
Jan & Jillian Yuhas: All Things Co-Parenting
Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but it’s extremely important that you and your ex find ways to co-parent respectfully and effectively. Today, I’m joined by sisters, mediators, and co-parenting coaches, Jan and Jillian Yuhas. Today we’re discussing tools to become a better co-parent, divorced or not, so that your child(ren) is given the best life possible. Jan Yuhas and Jillian Yuhas, MA, MFT, CPC
Divorce Tips: Child Custody Evaluations
A custody evaluation is an extremely important part of a divorce case involving children. Without a custody evaluation, the part of the trial involving custody could spiral into a he-said, she-said situation in which everyone—especially the children—suffer. While this may be titled differently in each state, it still serves the same purpose of providing the court with unbiased information to make
Lesa Koski: 5 Step Coaching Process and How to Use it in Mediation
There is no perfect way to divorce but there is a better way. Attorney Lesa Koski joins today with her 5 steps to get you to a better mindset for a successful mediation session. Tune in as we discuss the realm of possibilities on how to do divorce differently and better. After 18 years of Elder Law and Family Law, Lesa Koski brings extensive experience to the complex area of Mediation. In truth,
Divorce Tips: Parenting Plans: What If My Ex Isn’t Following It?
Today we’re talking about what to do if your ex is not following the parenting plan and/or denying you time. These legal road maps detail how parents plan to communicate or co parent with each other after the divorce. If you’re being denied parent time or having to deal with an ex who is not following the plan, listen in to learn what I share with my clients and steps you can take to enforce the d
Nicea DeGering: Life After Divorce
“It takes two years and then you’ll be great,” is what Nicea DeGering was told after her divorce. Divorce can be horrible, but it can also be amazing. It all depends on how you set your expectations and perspective. Today’s guest, Nicea DeGering, shares her journey to self-discovery and tips on how to move forward with life after divorce. I met my guest today when I joined her ABC4 show, Good Thin
Divorce Tips: Child Therapy
In this episode, I’m answering all your questions about child therapy: When should you put your kids in therapy? Should all kids go to therapy during parental divorce? Do you need your spouse’s permission to put your child in therapy? How should you choose a therapist? And others.I get a lot of questions from parents about therapy for their children: When it’s ok, should all kids whose parents are
Celebrity Divorce Bonanza : What Not to Do in a Divorce!
Jill is joined by her CoilLaw associates, Luke Shaw and Corttany Brooks, to discuss the latest updates in celebrity divorces! So much has developed in these celeb divorces (especially on social media) and we're here to discuss what NOT to do in a divorce.
Divorce Tips: What Is a Bifurcation, and Am I Eligible for One?
Because some states have regulations about how long you have to wait before being granted a divorce after filing, many couples try to get a bifurcation first. Bifurcation means you are legally divorced and can get remarried, but your issues are still pending, like child custody and asset division. Listen in as I explain when it’s viable, and when you should just work toward divorce.Bifurcation mea
