Love and Orgasms
A podcast by erotic writer Robertta Bobbie, sharing her daily feelings and thoughts about love, intimacy, and personal experiences.
Episodes
MONEY is very important for women!
You’d be surprised how early I learned that asking for money can be your biggest asset… and how I stole hundreds without anyone noticing. From as young as 8, I learned that confidence isn’t begging, it’s asserting your worth. Whether you’re saving, investing, or negotiating, money is a mindset, and what you believe you deserve shapes your life.
Masculinity in the bedroom - From a woman's perspective
This episode explores what women really want from men in the bedroom by redefining masculinity beyond stereotypes like dominance and physical strength. It highlights the power of emotional safety, confidence, playfulness, communication, empathy, and vulnerability in creating deeper intimacy and a more fulfilling sex life. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, you’ll learn
Marriage and babies in 2026
I delve into the complex emotions and societal pressures surrounding marriage and parenthood. I challenge traditional norms, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and intentional decision-making. By exploring financial stability, personal growth, and cultural expectations, the episode encourages listeners to reflect on their true desires and motivations. It offers practical tools for approa
Oversharing - sex, grief, career, marriage and a baby, money... LET'S TALK!
Feeling overwhelmed or forging your own path?Drop a 💭 if you’ve ever felt like your mind is racing butyour body needs a break — I’ve been there. I’ve realized that rest and mentalhealth go hand in hand, yet society rarely values emotional downtime —especially for women.This year, I’ve been through a lot: from hormonal lows, grief over loved ones,to fighting societal expectations on productivity an
Unlearning my terrible 'first-born daughter' traits
Being first born child comes with a lot of weight that has left me having to unlearn all my terrible traits, what are some of the annoying ways you act that you feel the need to improve?
My boyfriend was a conman
Have you ever been conned in this Nairobi? They are bringing it into relationships now, stay vigilant!https://loveandorgasms.com/the-broke-politician-a-story-about-ovulation-horniness/
I almost got married! - The 4th Proposal
Sometimes I think I want to get married; but when it starts actualizing, I get so afraid. Here's a story about the last time someone proposed to me...
Love and Orgasms 2025 Wrapped - the good, the bad and the sexy.
The year is over and it's time to think about how it has been so far. Are you happy with the person you've become this year?
Getting over a breakup (a guide for non-dummies)
A lot of the advice online about how to get over a breakup revolves around suppressing emotions, looking tougher and doing fitness stuff... but, what if this doesn't work because you do all these and healthier coping mechanisms already? Let's talk about it.
Introduction to BIRTH CONTROL
How did you settle for the method of contraception that you are currently using? Are you even using any? Do you even know about contraceptives? Let's learn together!
Navigating friendships in adulthood
The price for community is sacrifice - How are you making sure you maintain great relationships while growing through life?
How I use my femininity to get everything I want.
What does being feminine mean to you? Did you know that being your authentic self is a superpower? Here's how I use my power to receive everything I need.
Emotion VS Logic ; choose your fighter
Often, we downplay the crucial role that holding space for emotion in our daily lives plays, it is essential to purpose to balance both in a healthy way for a more fulfilling life. You deserve to feel freely!
Becoming and Unbecoming - Halfway through 29
Here's a life update on being 29 years old!
My period makes me go crazy! What is PMDD?
Have you ever heard of PMS and PreMenstrual Dysphoric Discorder? Have a listen, maybe you'll find an explanation here. https://youtu.be/YDx8xt9M18E?si=kD5siVw6NRR6SORQ
Intimacy in relationships
There are different ways to express intimacy in different relationships besides physical. Emotional, Spiritual and Mental - let's explore. https://youtu.be/eOW9Awmg3xo?si=mOjg4XffwwxqlVjB
Pushing 30 - Anxiety?
I turned 29 and felt relief. It feels different up here. Was turning 30 scary for you?
Sexual safety and Aftercare
Have you ever thought about what makes you feel safe before, during and after sex?sex in long term relationships: https://youtu.be/AjMrcozIQNA?si=Q3QBqhbkwfNMQI8jAftercare: https://loveandorgasms.com/where-is-the-aftercare/
The boyfriend who keeps borrowing money
It's the start of a new relationship and the man keeps borrowing money. Are you staying or leaving?
How to become a better speaker
Here's some of the steps I take towards improving my speaking skills. EnjoyFollow: loveandorgasms.comBook me here: Appointy
End of year fatigue - Thank you 2024
It's been a great year and I'm grateful to you for being part of it. Thank you for the love and loyalty. Enjoy your holidays and see you next year!
He's very much into you! - How to keep a man
Have you thought about what traits you'd look out for in a romantic partner? Here's what I think...
Fixing my relationship with my parents
Here's how I fixed my relationship with my parents. Is this something you are willing to try?
I've been having sex - Girl math
It's important that I'm honest with myself so that I can grow. here's what I've been up to...
He's just not that into you
I know he's told you he likes you, but do you really feel it?
Healing your inner child- Forgiving yourself
Most times we don't realize how grave the responsibility to heal self is. I hope this episode prompts you to forgive yourself!
Financial Trauma - How it affects sex and life
Having discussions around money improves your quality of life, it's time to heal that trauma!
Sex in exchange for opportunities - What is grooming?
How old were you when you realized that you've been taken advantage of sexually before? Grooming is not always violent, sometimes it shows up disguised as 'love and care'. It is always important to remember that sexual relationships should be consensual and comfortable!
Condom sex or raw sex ?
This is the episode where I remind you to use condoms. I know raw sex feels better, but are you ready to deal with the consequences of not implementing better precaution?
Consent - Your body can reject the wrong partner
Did you know that your body knows if you feel safe sexually, and can reject the wrong partner?
STOP KILLING WOMEN - A dummy's guide to END FEMICIDE
Every day, women are murdered and abused by men; for being women. It's time to END FEMICIDE!
Emotional and financial desperation - dating while broke(n)
I've noticed a huge difference between the kind of people I used to surround myself with when I was insecure and desperate vs now. Even my dating life has changed!
Becoming A CEO - https://youtu.be/xk8yq_jix6s?si=iriW64XCuG-caafp
broke boys don't deserve no p$ssy - https://loveandorgasms.com/broke-boys-dont-deserve-no-pssy/
Finding the male G spot, finding the clit too.
Is the male G spot really in the anus? Where is the clit? In this episode, I explain what orgasms are, how to achieve and enhance them.
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Building a secure attachment style - the art of letting go
https://youtu.be/prWjjObh-W4?si=BNbtN6vVYazXtFY1
learn more about attcahment styles and how they affect our relationships as adults.
My body is changing + breaking up with the 'great' guy
I feel like I just hit a second puberty, and it is changing my life, let's talk about it!
Should I join Onlyfans?
Here’s what I think about starting an Onlyfans account…https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms
Squirting and sex toys
Here’s what you need to know about squirting 👋🏾
Sexually Transmitted Infections
Have you been screened ? Do you know about STIs?
Let’s talk PORN
Do you remember how you were first introduced to porn? How has it impacted your life ? Let’s talk about it ☺️
Foreplay
What does foreplay mean to you ? Is it important at all ???
A chat with my mother - Surviving cancer
Nothing shakes your whole world like seeing your mother go through sickness. It changes something in you. I had a chat with my mom about her emotions during this period and got to hear from her for the first time while recording this. I’d love for you to learn from her today ❤️ Family Tv interview: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6BykwdoNZn/?igsh=czg3ZGM5Ym0wd290
Where do you meet amazing lovers?
There was a lot of questions about where I meet ‘amazing’ lovers and here’s an explanation in detail of how I do it 👌🏾 read more on loveandorgasms.com , follow https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie to book me for a session on intimacy and relationships
Love bombing and gaslighting
Have you ever been love bombed or gaslit before ? Here’s how I got smarter at catching it ! Book me: https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie https://loveandorgasms.com https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms
Kinks and Fetishes
What is the difference between a kink and a fetish ? https://loveandorgasms.com/tie-me-up-and-fck-me/ Book me here : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie
Mourning my old self + no sex for me
Did anyone ever mention the grief that comes with elevating your life ? I think I’m mourning the person I used to be . Follow: loveandorgasms.com / https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms
Dating me - Cheating for revenge
Dating for me has always been so scary because of my traumas around relationships ( that I’m working on) but I have to ask , have you ever cheated for revenge?
Premature Ejaculation and Micro Penis
Does size/ time matter ??? https://loveandorgasms.com
Taking care of your vagina
Do you remember who taught you how to take care of your vagina ? Here’s a lesson ! For bookings reach me here : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie
I lost my job + preparing myself for love
Nobody prepared me for the grief I would feel after the loss of a job, especially while going through other worse stuff. I am intentionally trying to build myself from love and prepare myself for it ! Bookings : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie , loveandorgasms.com Art by : Okal Lucy
The Mating Game - being aware that sex has to be intentional
I was chatting with my brother and he made me think about how almost all human interaction has the lingering presumption of SEX . What do you think ? Read more : loveandorgasms.com
What is Masturbation?
How much do you know about masturbation? Book me here: https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie Read more : https://loveandorgasms.com
They always come back - can you choose better tho ?
Are you able to spot the things that make you uncomfortable when you hang around people ??? Spot the red flags with me , make bookings on : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie . Read more : https://loveandorgasms.com
How does casual sex benefit women ?
What does FWB even mean ? Catch me on #daybreak every Tuesday on Citizen Tv and on loveandorgasms.com
The Truth about Growth and Healing
Growing and healing are the hardest but most rewarding things I’ve had to do for myself! The consequences however, are extremely rewarding ! Let me know about your journey too? Art Courtesy: ONCA Gallery. Follow me on https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms
Let’s get VULNERABLE
Emotional unavailability only attracts the same. Are you ready to be vulnerable enough to allow yourself to receive the love that you deserve? Attachment styles - https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/episodes/Attachment-Styles-and-TMI-e1cqi13
Situationships, One night stands and Friends with Benefits
My experiences with casual sex have taught me that it doesn’t benefit me in any way , I prefer safer ways of expressing myself sexually. I’d love to hear your opinions as well on loveandorgasms.com . Please follow https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms
Becoming the woman of my dreams : Confidence & Sexual Liberation
The confidence I have now was built over years - here’s how I achieved it. Don’t forget to check loveandorgasms.com out 😍 https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/episodes/25-important-lessons-Ive-learned--in-25-years-er7jal https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms
When he says he’s ‘EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE’
I cannot relate with people that are emotionally unavailable in the way that I would like to and so I thought to share one of my experiences on how I navigated this. Have you ever been with such a person? Read more on loveandorgasms.com Follow my OnlyFans here : https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms
Moving out and Settling in : Healing my mother wounds
I talk about the journey of discovering my self worth and staying confident while going through the loneliness of missing a present mother figure. Please don’t forget to check out the #daybreak show on Citizen Tv every Tuesday morning as well as the loveandorgasms.com blog! Subscribe to my OnlyFans https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms and halla at @nairobibookclub for all sorts of books 😍
Attachment Styles and TMI ☕️🐸
Do you know what your attachment style is? Have a listen and let me know where you think you fit! Also, don’t forget to check out loveandorgasms.com , Subscribe to https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms 💋
Masculine Energy vs Feminine Energy: The kind of men I’m into
Do you know about masculine and feminine energy? Here’s what I think In relation to the kind of guys I’m generally into. Follow me everywhere @roberttabobbie / @loveandorgasms loveandorgasms.com Here’s my OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms . Feel free to leave your feedback!
Another update: Single again? Another job? A new ‘baby’ ? Bullied on Twitter?
Here’s an episode before I talk about some real issues! I know what you’re thinking, I missed y’all too!! Subscribe to my OnlyFans https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms Blog : loveandorgasms.com and follow me @roberttabobbie 💋💋
Life updates: New boyfriend? New job?
Here’s a couple life updates since the last episode!! The guest today is Violet on https://loveandorgasms.com/birthday-sex-2020/ , show her some love 💋 https://twitter.com/violet_njoki?s=21
25 important lessons I’ve learned, in 25 years 🥳
It’s my birthday!! Well, not today because my birthday is on the 29th of Feb, which we don’t have this year 😞😆 I thought it would be cool to share some of the lessons I’ve learned overtime, that have shaped who I’m becoming, think of them as affirmations 😉. Sobukwe’s m-changa: https://secure.changa.co.ke/myweb/share/44548
World’s toughest prison: https://youtu.be/ACfKHjUmg_o Emma swa: https://ins
He used to beat me up because I’d catch him cheating 😅
It feels like it’s the right time for me to share my abuse story. I’ve since healed and can make jokes about it, and this to me screams GROWTH. Contact me here: https://loveandorgasms.com/contact-us/ and don’t forget to use #loveandorgasms
The first time I had sex 😅
Thought I’d give you guys a story time on the first time I had sex. Wish I could get to hear your stories too?? Plus an update on how I’ve been doing 😁 , enjoy!!
The boys get candid: mental health and sex
Had my brothers hop on and we got to talk about mental health and how it affects their sex life and other relationships; how to be vulnerable in relationships as well. Follow Peto @petohinthemix https://instagram.com/petohinthemix?igshid=1ai4czqwkof4x and Wabuti https://instagram.com/_buty77_?igshid=v7rc9vc7uxsk
Body changes , foreplay + how life has been kicking me in the butt
Sobukwe Nonkwe, - Renowned Director, Photographer and actor, also my brother, hopped on this week’s show to have a candid conversation about sex and other things 🤪, follow him here to check his work out ; https://instagram.com/sobukwenonkwe?igshid=8e2xzc0ce6ys , follow https://instagram.com/vibestore_ke?igshid=1p29bnz2o90vs for sexy lingerie!!
The red flags 🚩🚩 : getting over an ex ting + I kinda tried out the bdsm kit and joined OnlyFans 😬
It’s always a vibe when I have any sort of conversation with Shiro!! You can find her here : Kenyan plug podcast : https://anchor.fm/kenyanplugexperience
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Don’t forget to check out The Garden of Eden show on Dstv channel 268 ever
Knowing when to leave , + the sex got boring ...
I stayed after consistent disrespect but I’m glad I’ve learned through it - I know and deserve better!! Here’s my first story time! Being real now podcast by Shazmeen Bank : https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/discussing-all-things-life-love-relationships-shazmeen/id1529178022#episodeGuid=Buzzsprout-5657482 Thrive through this forum : https://instagram.com/thrivethroughthis?igshid=v4otjfrlnu19
Let’s talk about GREEN FLAGS ✅✅
We hardly ever talk about the good stuff anymore when it comes to exclusive relationships and I think my friend Cherrie Cherustui stays teaching me a lot from her own experiences!! I love love so much!! I hope you get to learn a few things like I have!! 😘 candle from @Kandy_candles on IG 😍
Hating on the other woman 🤷🏾♀️
I’ve been put in awkward situations where I always found myself angry over shit that had nothing to do with me, well here’s what I think about ‘ the other woman’ ☺️
What you need to know about Anal sex 😏
Here’s what you need to know before you try anal sex out , my friend Sam hopped on with some knowledge!! Get your sex toys here : https://instagram.com/vibestore_ke?igshid=my7we3fqqch3 and different flavour water-based lube here : https://instagram.com/teleza.ke?igshid=15sl52arbf27h
‘’ Not all men... ‘’
I’ve been so outraged by the rape and abuse incidents on my timeline as well as how victims are handled, I think we don’t have enough information . Here are my thoughts on rape with my bro @wabuti
How I deal with anxiety ❤️ 1
Just a little background info on how I figured out what I was going through as well as how I manage it . Hopefully you guys could also share your stories and hacks ❤️
Anxiety took over today 😞
I woke up extremely overwhelmed, hopefully this episode shows you that you’re not alone and we can beat this ❤️ sending you love.
Do we really ever fall out of love?
My thoughts are that, Love is beyond destruction. Love is so pure and true that for as long as it exists, it goes on and on. What do you guys think?
Love and Orgasms???
Hey guys!! I’m really excited to be on here! This is just a little intro so we can all be on the same page , definitely welcoming new subscribers and the OG readers of the loveandorgasms.com blog!! I love you guys and I hope we get to learn more together as well as share our experiences boldly 🥰 Enjoy!!
Welcome to The Love and Orgasms Podcast 🥰
I think it’s time we had candid discussions!!
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