But I'm a Lesbian
Two lesbians with mics review WLW movies, obsess over celeb crushes, and spiral into iconic side convos. The show blends queer lifestyle, pop culture, LGBTQ history, and chaotic conversations that feel like hanging out with unhinged friends. Subscribe for hot takes, gay besties, and their version of 'f, marry kill' - Munch, Merge, Murder!
Episodes
S3 Ep18: Getting the Ick & Jesus Camps- S3E18- The Miseducation of Cameron Post
🎙️ But I’m a LesbianTwo lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.Hey friends! We are bringing up all your worst youth group memories on this episode of the pod! We are talking about conversion camps, religious trauma, and getting the ick from boys. This movie is set in the early 90s, and is quite sad and serious, but we are still bringing the giggles as always! Also, learn all about the origin of ou
S3 Ep17: Baptism Envy & More Sapphic Nuns- S3E17- Novitiate
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Angie's out this week, so give a warm welcome to our guest co-host, Juanita (Katlynn's wifey and our pod's Creative Director Extraordinaire)! We are recapping Novitiate, a 2018 film about sapphic nuns set in the US in the 1960s and starring Margaret Qualley and Melissa Leo! We are talking funny church stories, learning about Catholic
S3 Ep16: Roller Rinks, Cults, & Hot Lesbos- S3E16- Stone Cold Fox
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Get ready for some super hot action with us while we review 2025's Stone Cold Fox! This is the campy early 80s lesbian film of your dreams! It features hot women, martial arts, throwing stars, a lot of cocaine, and roller rinks! Join us as we discuss the serious themes and the silly jokes in this instant classic! Stick around for our
S3 Ep15: Vulnerability, Vampires, and Cake- S3E15- Princess Cyd
🎙️ But I’m a LesbianTwo lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.Settle in with your favorite coffee drink, we're getting vulnerable and cozy with Princess Cyd! This film is refreshingly intimate,the perfect mix of sweet and serious, and we discuss it all! We’re talking teenage hormones, auntie/niece relationships, and what makes us the happiest in life. Stay tuned after the second break for a super
S3 Ep14: Compulsory Heterosexuality & Screen Names- S3E14- Girls Like Girls
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we are heading to 2006 with Hayley Kiyoko's film, Girls Like Girls! We discuss all the teen drama, examine how AOL Instant Messenger was the most important form of communication, and more! We are talking early aughts nostalgia and first heartbreak, but make it goofy. Don't miss out on hearing our favorite things on our Cur
S3 Ep13: Lesbian Elders & Unexpected Friendships- S3E13- Cloudburst
🎙️ But I’m a LesbianTwo lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.Join us on a roadtrip to Canada with two senior lesbians and their young cowboy friend as we review 2013's Cloudburst! We are talking about the struggles of aging, how fun it is to say "cunt", and staying true to yourself no matter what! Don't miss this one! It's a tearjerker but also a kneeslapper, y'all!📲 New episodes weekly. See you
S3 Ep12: Baseball, Crying, & Sporty Ladies- S3E12- A League of Their Own
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Take us out to the ball game (but only if it's women playing)! Join us on the bleachers as we discuss the not exactly queer 1992 film, A League of Their Own! Although there is nothing explicitly lesbian in this movie, we are dissecting all the subtext, and how we would have made it gayer! We also dive into the real history of the All
S3: Lez Hang Out Feed Swap- Love Lies Bleeding Lez-ssentials
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. 📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don't miss our next episode about the queer-coded classic, A League of Their Own (1992)! This film is available on Pluto and Netflix!This is an extra special week, because we are doing a feed swap with one of our favorite podcasts, Lez Hang Out! Check out their podcast and follow if you do
S3 Ep11: Lesbian Nuns & Religious Psychosis- S3E11- Benedetta
🎙️ But I’m a LesbianTwo lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week, we are talking about one of Katlynn's favorite topics, lesbian nuns! We are discussing the 2021 French film, Benedetta! This film is based on a real Italian nun, and it is quite scandalous. Don't miss our review of all the sex, all the violence, and a lot of boobies! We've also got a pretty wild What's Up With the Heteros se
S3 Ep10: Hidden Gayness & Antique Strap Ons- S3E10- Tipping the Velvet Parts 2-3
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Join us for our recap of parts 2 and 3 of Tipping the Velvet! We are catching up on Nan's epic adventures in London, learning about fancy lesbian ladies and their "boys", talking about old school straps, and more! Don't miss the finale of this miniseries, it's full of drama and laughs!📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don'
S3 Ep9: Lesbian Oysters & Extreme Fan Girl Behavior- S3E9- Tipping the Velvet Part 1
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week is the start of a two part episode block on the trilogy, Tipping the Velvet! We are talking sapphic "mermaids", oldtimey hats, lesbian drama, and more! Join us as we start the epic journey into the world of Nan King nee Astley! This episode features a fan favorite segment, "Dear Dykes"!📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tu
S3 Ep8: Kentucky Fried Drama & Mean Baristas- S3E8- Boy Meets Girl
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. What happens when a hopeless romantic, her best friend, and a beautiful southern socialite get caught in one very complicated love triangle? This week, we’re diving into Boy Meets Girl, the 2014 indie rom-com that broke new ground by putting a transgender woman at the center of her own love story. Join us as we discuss the messy rela
S3 Ep7: Bible Humpers & Lesbian Field Service- S3E7- You Can Live Forever
🎙️ But I’m a LesbianTwo lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This episode is an education in religion, Canada, and baby lesbians (educational af, but still funny, of course). Join us as we review 2022's You Can Live Forever and dissect the baptism kink, religious trauma, and what we do when someone knocks on our door! Laugh and cry with us, this is an emotional one! Don't miss our Current Obsess
S3 Ep6: It's Getting Hot (and gay) In Here- S3E6- Heatwave
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Things get steamy and kinda weird as we dive into Heatwave, the 2022 sapphic thriller packed with romance, drama, potential pyromania, and plenty of twists. Join us as we break down the chemistry, the drama, and whether this lesbian film is worth adding to your watchlist. Don't miss our "What's Up With The Heteros?" segment for a wil
S3 Ep5: Face-sitting, Foggy Beaches, & Fossils- S3E5- Ammonite
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re reviewing Ammonite, the acclaimed lesbian romance starring Kate Winslet and Saoirse Ronan! We talk through the plot, the performances, the chemistry, the stunning cinematography, and of course… the face-sitting. Join us for a super fun review of a very serious movie! 🌊👅📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next
S3 Ep4: Riot Grrrl & Lesbian Accents- S3E4- All Over Me
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re diving into the 1997 sapphic coming-of-age film All Over Me. We’re talking riot grrrl, hate crimes, messy friendships, and the iconic presence of Leisha Hailey. Is it a love story, a friendship story, or just an afterschool special about why you shouldn't do drugs and be homophobic? We’re breaking it all down. 🌈🎸📲 New
S3 Ep3: Gay Eye Contact & the Death Penalty- S3E3- My Days of Mercy
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. My Days of Mercy brought the drama, the politics, and the “wait… are we enemies or are we flirting?” energy. Today, we are getting into the 2017 film starring Elliot Page and Kate Mara, unpacking the complicated romance between Mercy and Lucy, the ethics of love across opposing beliefs, and more!This movie has it all: forbidden love,
S3 Ep2: F***Boy Lesbians & Reusing Adult Toys- S3E2- Below Her Mouth
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re diving into Below Her Mouth, the steamy sapphic film that had lesbians talking, debating, and replaying scenes for years. We break down the chemistry (?), the acting, the cheating, and whether the sex scenes. Was it groundbreaking queer representation or just regular old porn? Tune in as we share
S3 Ep1: Toxic Mascs & Apartheid- S3E1- World Unseen
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Season 3 is here, and we’re kicking things off with the beautiful and extremely emotional movie,The World Unseen. We talk about forbidden sapphic romance, lesbian eye contact, and all the reasons this film has us in our feelings.Plus, our TikTok mutual Rhi (@rhi_ann_on) joins us to share the wild tale of her real-life WLW horror stor
S3: Season 3 Teaser
Get a preview of the new upcoming season. Season 3 starts Tuesday, June 9. So we’ll see you next Tuesday.
S2 Ep24: Lady Boxing & One-Sided Beef- S2E24- Christy
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Season 2 is ending and we’re going out with a bang. This week we’re talking Christy, sharing all our thoughts, reactions, and lesbian chaos along the way. Plus, for our finale, we’re putting ourselves to the test with a This or That segment full of lesbian movie dilemmas. Come celebrate the end of the season with us and prepare for q
S2 Ep23: Gay Hot vs. Straight Hot?!- S2E23- Girltrash: All Night Long
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re singing along with Girltrash: All Night Long. We’re talking band drama, messy flirting, lesbian tension at maximum levels, and the very important question: is this movie camp perfection or did it fully miss the mark? Grab your snacks and come hang out with us while we relive one very long (and very gay) night.📲 New ep
S2 Ep22: Robbin’ Banks But Make It Gay- S2E22- Set It Off
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about Set It Off: friendship, desperation, bank robberies, and one of the hottest casts of the ‘90s. We get into the ridiculousness, the loyalty, the heartbreak, and why this movie still absolutely goes off til this day. Grab your getaway driver and join us for a very gay conversation about a certified classic
S2 Ep21: 90s Lesbians & Essential Road Trip Snacks- S2E21- Boys on the Side
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Road trip, accidental murder, and chosen family chaos. This week we’re talking about Boys on the Side, where three women hit the road and find love, loss, and a whole lot of emotional damage along the way. We get into the questionable choices, the lesbianism, the AIDS epidemic,, and our admiration of Mary Louise Parker’s acting skill
S2 Ep20: Homophobic Moms & The Truth About Lesbians- S2E20- The Truth About Jane
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we are talking about gay role models, chosen family, and 1999 TV movie starring Stockard Channing and RuPaul: The Truth About Jane. Here are some key plot points: Secret girlfriend, small town, closed-minded parents.It’s sad, dramatic, and very early-2000s, but tbh some parts still hit a little too close to home.📲 New episo
S2 Ep19: Are We Visible Yet?!- S2E19- Foxfire
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.Lesbian Visibility Week and we’re celebrating the only way we know how: by revisiting the chaos, rage, and girl gang energy of Foxfire and sitting down with literal icon and creator of Curve Magazine, Franco Stevens.We get into the messy legacy of Foxfire, what it means to be seen (or not seen) as a lesbian in media, and why we still
S2 Ep18: Trapping a Lesbian With a Pregnancy?!- S2E18- Chutney Popcorn
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.In this episode, we’re talking about Chutney Popcorn, a messy and heartfelt story about family, queerness, and a very questionable pregnancy plan. Directed by (and starring) Nisha Ganatra, this independent film gives us complicated sibling dynamics, cultural pressure, and decisions that are a bit… questionable.📲 New episodes weekly. S
S2 Ep17: Sapphic Killer Teens & Creepy Boarders- S2E17- Heavenly Creatures
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re talking Heavenly Creatures, the ultimate “this friendship is getting a little too intense” story. Directed by Peter Jackson and starring Kate Winslet and pod fave Melanie Lynksey, it’s all fantasy, obsession, and very questionable (and murderous) decisions.We get into toxic WLW dynamics, delusion
S2 Ep16: Favorite Teachers & Toxic Family Dynamics- S2E16- Pariah
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re talking Pariah, a 2011 coming-of-age story that will absolutely sit with you long after the credits roll. We talk about Alike’s journey navigating identity, family, and first love, and why this film feels so real to us as former closeted high schoolers.We get into all the standout moments, the emo
S2 Ep15: Twin Flames & A Pastor's Gay Wife
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.In this episode, we’re talking about Elena Undone,the film that gave us one of the longest kisses in cinema and a lot of facts about Twin Flames. We unpack Elena’s journey from picture-perfect churchy wife to questioning everything, Peyton’s effortless femme top energy, and the surprise curveball no one anticipated.In addition, we wil
S2 Ep14: The Heartbreaking Lore of Page 28- S2E14- Portrait of a Lady On Fire
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week we’re talking about Portrait of a Lady on Fire, the slow-burn lesbian masterpiece where the looks are long, the tension is unbearable, and apparently everyone in the 1700s was extremely hot and very gay. Katlynn is joined by guest cohost (our awesome producer and sound mixer, Victoria) to talk longing stares, iconic moments,
Two Rachels, Spitting & Tops/Bottoms- REPLAY- Disobedience
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.No new episode this week due to technical difficulties, but we would never leave you hanging! We are putting this replay of one of your fave episodes, our deep dive into Disobedience! It’s a movie with a lot of drama, two beautiful, famous Rachels, and one very famous sex scene!We cover forbidden love, religious trauma, community drama
S2 Ep13: A Surgeon & A Ballerina Walk Into a Gay Bar- S2E13- Saving Face
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week we’re talking about Saving Face! This is a queer rom-com that gave us surprise age-gap relationships, secret girlfriends, and a geriatric pregnancy! We get into Wil’s double life, Vivian’s swoon-worthy confidence, and the layered pressure of family, tradition, and cultural expectations. Don’t miss our “Literary Lesbians” segm
S2 Ep12: California Lore & Accidental Murder- S2E12- Addicted to Fresno
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re heading to one of the most disliked cities in California for a chaotic sister spiral in Addicted to Fresno.Starring Natasha Lyonne, Judy Greer, and Aubrey Plaza, this dark comedy gives us messy codependency, accidental crime, and some aggressively questionable choices. We’re talking sibling dynamics, motel employee dra
S2 Ep11: Sparkles, Lap Dances, & Queer Subtext-S2E11- Showgirls
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re strutting into the glitter-drenched chaos of Showgirls.We’re talking the rise of Nomi Malone, the rhinestones, the drama, the NC-17 rating, and how this infamous flop became a queer cult classic. Is it bad? Is it good? Is it so bad that’s it’s good? We will unpack it all, and hone in on all the gayest parts.📲 New episo
S2 Ep10: Daddy Issues & Sad Gay Girl Vibes- S2E10- Carmen & Lola
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking Carmen y Lola, a tender yet rebellious lesbian love story you definitely need to see. We get into young love, breaking generational rules, and what it means to choose yourself when your entire community says you can’t. There’s yearning, there’s street art, and there’s a healthy dose of religious trauma.We chat
S2 Ep9: A Beautiful & Tragic Lesbian Icon- S2E9- Gia
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re diving into Gia (1998): the lesbian biopic about the tragic life of an 80s supermodel. We talk Gia Carangi, queer desire, fame, addiction, and the AIDS crisis. We break down our key takeaways from the film (yes, we’re crying), gush over our favorite supermodels past and present, and bring back everyone’s favorite segm
S2 Ep8: A Lesbian Bee Charmer & Implied Cannibalism- S2E8- Fried Green Tomatoes
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Grab a plate at the Whistle Stop Café because we’re diving into Fried Green Tomatoes. Murder rumors, lifelong “friendships,” and enough lesbian subtext to power a small town. It’s tender, it’s tragic, and absolutely a WLW love story! Bring tissues. And maybe snacks.Additionally, we are talking about our favorite foods (spoiler: we hav
S2 Ep7: Leading With Curiosity & Lesbianism- S2E7- I Can’t Think Straight
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re talking about I Can’t Think Straight (2008), a peak early 2000s-era lesbian romance full of longing stares, rich people, poetry, and extremely intense eye contact. We are dishing on forbidden love, cultural expectations, undeniable chemistry, and more. Messy? Yes. Iconic? Also yes. A true sapphic rite of passage. We ar
S2 Ep6: Secret Hookups & Awkward Adult Film Rentals- S2E6-Imagine Me & You
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re talking about the 2005 rom-com Imagine Me & You. From the flower shop/straight wedding “meet-cute” to the slow realization that something feels different, this movie has become a longtime favorite for a lot of queer viewers. We chat about the awkward moments, the quiet tension, and the choices the characters have
S2 Ep5: Scissoring, Stretching, & Seeing Red-S2E5-Love Lies Bleeding
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Love Lies Bleeding is not your average sapphic romance, and honestly? Thank goodness! This week, we’re breaking down the murder, the muscles, and the bad decisions that make this film such a wild (yet fun) ride!We get into the twisted love story at the center, the extremely hot actors, and the way desire spirals into something dangero
S2 Ep4: A Nashville Lesbian New Year’s Eve- S2E4- I Hate New Year's
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Pop the champagne (or apple cider) because this week we’re talking Tello’s I Hate New Year’s, the sapphic rom-com for anyone who’s ever side-eyed a countdown clock. In this episode, we talk about why New Year’s is actually so fun, even if it can be a little cheesy. This movie is a little silly, a little predictable, and a lot sweet.Hi
S2 Ep3: A Scandalous '50s Holiday Love Affair- S2E3- Carol
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on the pod, we’re wrapping ourselves in the soft lighting and emotional devastation of Carol, the love story that launched a thousand longing stares and sapphic age-gap fantasies. We talk Cate Blanchett’s impeccable portrayal of a fancy, dominant older woman, Rooney Mara’s baby gay awakening, and the incredibly unfair expect
S2 Ep2: Guardian Angels and Religious Trauma Galore- S2E2- A New York Christmas Wedding
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re heading to the Big Apple for a very queer holiday detour with A New York Christmas Wedding!We break down this sapphic Christmas romance full of missed chances, divine interference, and the classic question: what if you’d chosen her? From emotional time jumps to homophobic priests to very gay regret, we talk about what
S2 Ep1: Sleepwalking and a Closeted Lesbian Christmas- S2E1- Happiest Season
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re launching Season 2 with a controversial WLW holiday movie: The Happiest Season! This movie gave us iconic (and scandalous) outfits, messy family dynamics, and Dan Levy delivering truth bombs like it’s his full-time job.We’re talking all the chaos, the drama, and sooo many hot lesbians. Plus: our official stance on tha
S2: Season 2 Teaser!- S2E0
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S1 Ep24: A Lesbian Thanksgiving with Special Guest, Marita Prodger!- S1E24- Lez Bomb
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re giving thanks, giving lesbian (as always), and giving Ultimatum-level drama! Marita Prodger from The Ultimatum: Queer Love is on the pod! For our Thanksgiving week season finale, we’re reviewing the chaotic, coming-out-at-the-dinner-table film: Lez Bomb. We unpack holiday queer panic, our favorite Thanksgiving traditio
S1 Ep23: Two Rachels, Spitting & Tops/Bottoms-S1E23-Disobedience
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re diving into Disobedience! It’s a movie with a lot of drama, two beautiful, famous Rachels, and one very famous sex scene!We cover forbidden love, religious trauma, community drama worthy of its own group chat, and everything in between!Don’t miss our “WLW History” segment on lesbian identities/lab
S1 Ep22: 1940s Poly Queers & German Noses- S1E22- Aimee & Jaguar
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we're traveling back to 1940s Berlin to discuss the incredibly sad and gay film, Aimee & Jaguar. This episode is gonna get political, so brace yourself. We also unpack the interesting decisions made by the main characters, share our frustrations with their relationship, and (as always) dish on the sapphic drama. Plus, l
S1 Ep21: Fight Club, But Make It Girly Pop!- S1E21- Bottoms
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. What do you get when you mix lesbians, teenage angst, and a literal fight club? Bottoms! We’re diving into the campy chaos of 2023’s sapphic cult hit and debating whether it’s feminist brilliance or just a hilarious fever dream. Spoiler: it might be both. We also talk about our experiences with fighting in school, and a “What’s Up Wit
S1 Ep20: Witch Trials and Not Being a Man-Hater- S1E20- Fear Street Part Three: 1666
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. The Fear Street saga comes full circle in Part Three: 1666! This week, Angelina and her girlfriend Yamie are taking us straight to the heart of Shadyside’s witchy, sapphic origins. From forbidden love to Puritan panic, they unpack how Sarah Fier went from queer girl in love to the legend everyone feared. Expect talk of curses, witchcr
S1 Ep19: 70s Summer Camp Slasher and Air Sign Dominance- S1E19- Fear Street Part Two: 1978
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week we’re heading to Camp Nightwing for Fear Street Part Two: 1978. Katlynn and special guest host, Victoria, break down the film’s slasher nostalgia, excessive hetero sex scenes, and outhouse trauma. Pack your bug spray and your emotional baggage… it’s gonna be a bloody good time. Also, hear us talk about Seth Rogen, Halloween
S1 Ep18: A/S/L? Old School Chat Rooms and WLW Horror Vibes- S1E18-Fear Street Part One: 1994
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Welcome to Shadyside, babes! For the first stop in our Fear Street trilogy, Katlynn and special guest host, Creative Director, Juanita, dive into Fear Street Part One: 1994, where lesbian love literally defies death. Expect chaotic theories, queer horror appreciation, and a passionate debate about who we would munch, merge, or murder.
S1 Ep17: Animal Facts and Straights Playing Gay- S1E17- Honey Don't
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week we’re diving into Honey Don’t!, the latest “lesbian” flick that promised sapphic viewers a crime story with hot lesbian sex scenes and chaotic vibes (but did it deliver?). Join us as we break down the film’s highs (Aubrey Plaza and anal beads?), cringey lows, and whether casting choices actually help or hurt queer stories.📲 N
S1 Ep16: Lesbian Bars and Phallic Obsessions?!- S1E16-Drive-away Dolls
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. We’re hitting the road with Drive-Away Dolls, a “lesbian romp” that’s less Thelma & Louise and more “let’s make a movie making fun of lesbians and also somehow market it to them?” From cartoon villains and celeb cameos (cue Miley and Pedro) to a plotline that can’t find the ignition, we ask the important question: did the makers a
S1 Ep15: Lady Parts, Poetry, and a 90s WLW Film- S1E15-Go Fish
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.On this episode, we’re diving into Go Fish, the black-and-white lesbian indie film that proved you don’t need a budget when you’ve got hot queer women and a dream. Expect heated debates about dating rules, spoken-word poetry interludes, and more sapphic longing than an entire Lilith Fair lineup. Also, hear us talk about our favorite (a
S1 Ep14: Hot Y2K Lesbian Spies and Goth Clubs- S1E14- D.E.B.S.
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week we’re cracking open the top-secret case file of D.E.B.S., the only spy movie brave enough to replace Cold War tension with young, hot lesbians. We discuss the questionable spy tech (paper maps?), the mandatory plaid schoolgirl uniforms (even though they are in college), and why Lucy Diamond deserves both a criminal empire and
S1 Ep13: First Celeb Crushes and Left-Handed Queer Domination- S1E13- Monster
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Strap in, lezzies! This week we’re diving into Monster, the 2003 film where Charlize Theron gives ‘90s trailer park hot vibes, Christina Ricci serves soft butch fashion inspo, and lesbian yearning takes a detour straight into true crime chaos. We discuss the doomed sapphic romance, the retro skating rink scenes, and the way this movie
S1 Ep12: Is She Gay, Or Just a Horse Girl- S1E12- Calamity Jane
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.Yeehaw, gays! We’re riding into Calamity Jane (1953), where Doris Day kicks down saloon doors, gives “pick me” energy, and also ends up in the world’s gayest roommate situation. We’ll unpack why Calam’s “friendship” with Katie has more sexual tension than her entire hetero subplot, debate whether her fringed jackets and pants count as
S1 Ep11: Happy Endings & Old-Timey Cowgirl Romance- S1E11- Desert Hearts
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week we saddle up for Desert Hearts (1985), the lesbian classic set in 1959. This film features an uptight, east coast professor who heads to Reno for a quickie divorce and accidentally finds herself in a cowboy hat, riding horses, and riding a hot, younger woman. We’re talking desert metaphors, kissing in the rain, awkward fights
S1 Ep10: Conversion Therapy But Make It Camp- S1E10- But I’m a Cheerleader
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. Break out the pom poms and the repressed gay feelings, y’all! This week we’re basket-tossing our way into But I’m a Cheerleader, the campy, pastel fever dream that inspired so many y2k queers to come out and live their best lives! We unpack Natasha Lyonne’s confused cheerleader energy, Clea DuVall’s brooding lesbian gaze, and why this
S1 Ep9: A Film Within a Film & Video Store Nostalgia- S1E9- The Watermelon Woman
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes. This week, we’re diving into The Watermelon Woman, the first feature film directed by a Black lesbian (Cheryl Dunye, talk about superstar status). Join us as we discuss the intersection of race, gender, and sexuality (in as fun of a way as possible)! We go over the movie's DIY filmmaking realness, as well the chaotic lesbian archivist
S1 Ep8: Queer Love & High School PE Trauma- S1E8- The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.This week, we’re talking about The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love- a 90s baby gay classic that’s part Shakespeare, part gas station fever dream. Join us as we break down Randy’s "diesel dyke" vibes, Evie’s Range Rover, and the kind of queer teenage chaos that feels both cringe and adorable. It’s messy, it’s tender, it’s
S1 Ep7: Surprise Love Triangle And Hidden Talents?!- S1E7- The Perfume of Memory
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two mics. Two lesbians. Endless hot takes.This week’s episode focuses on The Perfume of Memory (O Perfume da Memoria), a sapphic film from Brazil. The plot is basically this: a home wrecking free-spirited woman ruins someone’s life by stealing their husband, and then also convinces that person to fall in love with her in one night. We’re talking emotional whiplash, sapphic sed
S1 Ep6: Butch Auntie Appreciation and 1st Period Celebrations! - S1E6- Fancy Dance
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two mics. Two lesbians. Endless hot takes.This week’s episode is all about Fancy Dance — a film that mixes family drama, Indigenous resistance, and the world’s most intense aunt-niece road trip. We unpack themes of justice, survival, and how Lily Gladstone can 100% get it! This film is a reminder that a Tia’s love is stronger than anything (even the law).Join us as we talk a b
S1 Ep5: First Love, Falconry, and Fencing- Oh My! - S1E5- Lost and Delirious
This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re getting chaotic and disoriented at an all-girls boarding school with 2001 sapphic film, Lost and Delirious, a coming-of-age movie that has it all: secret queer love, dramatic Shakespeare quotes, queer-coded poetry, and tragic teen lesbians. We unpack the angst, the repression, and yes, the sword fighting, while asking the big questions: Why is there so much in
S1 Ep4: Coming Out Stories and String Bikini Underwear?! S1E4- Maggie and Annie
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two mics. Two lesbians. Endless hot takes. This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re revisiting the 2002 sapphic softball flick Maggie and Annie—a story of late-in-life lesbian awakening, forbidden team dynamics, and very interesting short haircuts. We break down the queer themes, the awkward tension, and whether this film deserves a second chance or should stay buried in early 20
S1 Ep3: True Love? - Queer Dom Femme Meets Awkward Lesbian Named After Dog Breed- S1E3- San Junipero
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two mics. Two lesbians. Endless hot takes. Heaven Is a Place in 1987!This week we upload our consciousness straight into the sapphic simulation and discuss “San Junipero”, season 3 episode 4 of Black Mirror. We’re talking shoulder pads, queer awakenings, and so many feelings. Would you stay forever in a beachside gay heaven? And most importantly, how much does it cost, and how
S1 Ep2: Vintage Toe-Sucking & AI LadySex- S1E2- Hotel Reverie
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two mics. Two lesbians. Endless hot takes. We’re checking into Black Mirror’s Hotel Reverie, where the love is queer, the tech is cursed, and the existential dread is a little sexy? Join us as we unpack trauma, romance, and whether we would U-Haul into a special AI movieland for a woman we love.P.S. the studio boss IS named Judith. Katlynn was delulu during recording. Follow @
S1 Ep1: Bound- The 90s Film That Made Us All a Little Gayer! S1E1- Bound
🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian Two mics. Two lesbians. Endless hot takes. Our debut episode is finally here! get ready for queer chaos as we review The Wachowskis debut film, Bound! From lingering looks to power tools, we go over all of it! 📲 New episodes weekly! See you next Tuesday! Next week’s episode will center on “Hotel Reverie”, season 7 episode 3 of Black Mirror (available to stream on Netflix)! B
S1: Season 1 Teaser
WLW movies. Gay TV. Hot gossip. Unhinged opinions. Two lesbians with mics and too much to say. Press play, get gay. Episode 1 drops 06/17/2025!Prefer video? Follow us on YouTube: youtu.be/7pv02U9Dah4Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/but-i-m-a-lesbian-podcast--6630396/support.
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