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Inner Confidence Podcast

Inner Confidence Podcast

Inner Confidence 318 Episodes Oct 13, 2026

The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.

Episodes

If You Freeze Before Approaching Women, Watch This ( Ep 338 )
If You Freeze Before Approaching Women, Watch This ( Ep 338 ) Oct 13, 2026 00:07:54 Ever seen a woman you wanted to talk to, felt your whole body lock up, and watched her walk away while you came up with reasons it wasn't the right moment? This episode is about why that happens and the only thing that actually fixes it.Most guys want to stop being nervous first and then go approach. That order has never worked for anybody. The nerves last until you're comfortable, and the
Why Dating Apps Don't Work Anymore In 2026 ( And What Replaced Them ) w/ Scot McKay ( Ep 337 )
Why Dating Apps Don't Work Anymore In 2026 ( And What Replaced Them ) w/ Scot McKay ( Ep 337 ) Oct 6, 2026 01:01:20 If the apps have cost you confidence rather than dates, this one explains why.Scott McKay has coached men since 2005 and met his wife on Match.com twenty years ago, back when online dating actually worked. He's not anti-app , his point is that the feedback the apps gave you was never real data about you.Here's what happened. Around 2011, the correct advice was to swipe on everyone and sort
The 5 Books Every Man Should Read Before Any Dating Advice ( Ep 336 )
The 5 Books Every Man Should Read Before Any Dating Advice ( Ep 336 ) Sep 30, 2026 00:10:02 Have you ever read a dating book, felt fired up for a week, then noticed nothing actually changed? Or you've got a shelf full of self-help books and the same results you had three years ago.One of the guys in my community asked for an updated five-book list, so here are the five I'd hand a guy today — and why the order matters more than the list.He put it best: when he first met me, he was
eHarmony Couldn't Find Him a Match. He's Now Coached Men for 20 Years. w/ JT Tran ( Ep 335 )
eHarmony Couldn't Find Him a Match. He's Now Coached Men for 20 Years. w/ JT Tran ( Ep 335 ) Sep 23, 2026 00:54:20 Have you ever felt like there's one thing about you that you can't change, your height, your race, your face, your age and that it's the reason none of this is working?My guest is JT Tran, the Asian Playboy. Former aerospace engineer, 5'4", and coaching men for over 20 years. When he moved to LA, eHarmony refunded his membership because they couldn't find him a single matc
Stop Avoiding Female Friends ( Ep 334 )
Stop Avoiding Female Friends ( Ep 334 ) Sep 15, 2026 00:09:20 Most dating advice tells you to keep female friends at arm's length. Don't get too close, don't be too available, don't become her emotional support guy.Some of that is real, the friend zone exists. But that advice conflates two completely different things: orbiting a girl you're attracted to while doing her emotional labor, and actually having real female friends who are part
My $15M Client Wanted His Legs Broken for an Extra 2 Inches w/ Dean Raymond ( Ep 333 )
My $15M Client Wanted His Legs Broken for an Extra 2 Inches w/ Dean Raymond ( Ep 333 ) Sep 8, 2026 01:19:47 I've got a client worth over $15 million who was seriously looking into leg lengthening surgery over one OnlyFans girl. My guest Dean Raymond's take: that's just a belief and once a guy holds a belief like that, his brain filters out every piece of evidence that says otherwise.Dean is 45, from a small village in the south of England, and was pushing 265 pounds at his heaviest. Natural
Why Being Helpful Gets You Friend-Zoned ( Ep 332 )
Why Being Helpful Gets You Friend-Zoned ( Ep 332 ) Sep 1, 2026 00:08:51 Most guys who keep getting friend zoned think the problem is they're too nice. It's not. The problem is they're running the wrong business model - they're brokers.A broker makes himself useful, available, and helpful. He says yes to everything. And the moment she doesn't need what he's offering, he's gone. I break down the three forms of brokering that kill attraction,
Why Dating Advice Is Making You Worse With Women w/ @JoeDucard ( Ep 331 )
Why Dating Advice Is Making You Worse With Women w/ @JoeDucard ( Ep 331 ) Aug 25, 2026 01:14:42 "Red pill cuck cope."That's the phrase my guest dropped halfway through this conversation and I haven't stopped thinking about it since.A girl doesn't write you back and you go looking for the reason why. And the reason you land on is always something you can't change. She only dates guys over six feet. There's no good women left in this city.It feels like analysis. W
There's One Specific Reason Your Dating Life Isn't Working ( Ep 330 )
There's One Specific Reason Your Dating Life Isn't Working ( Ep 330 ) Aug 18, 2026 00:12:26 Most men are playing their dating lives like a lottery. They buy a ticket, they wait. And if it doesn't hit, they tell themselves the game is rigged.Smart men play it like poker. And the difference between those two things is the difference between a guy who's been stuck for years and a guy who's actually improving his results every single month.In this episode I break down the 4 conce
Doing Nothing About Your Dating Life Isn't Free
Doing Nothing About Your Dating Life Isn't Free Aug 10, 2026 00:08:37 Every man is paying for his dating life right now. Most of them just don't know it.I hear this constantly from guys on the fence about investing real time and energy into getting good with women. "I can't afford it." "I don't know if it's worth it."I get the hesitation. But doing nothing isn't free. It just means you're paying a different way and you mig
If You Have Ever Run Out Of Things To Say, Watch This
If You Have Ever Run Out Of Things To Say, Watch This Aug 3, 2026 00:09:22 Have you ever been in a conversation with a girl you like, things were going okay, and then you just ran out of things to say? The words dried up and you're standing there in the mental panic spiral trying to come up with anything to keep it going.Meanwhile some other guy has an endless supply of stories and jokes and he's effortless with it. And you're thinking, how does he just have
She's Not Busy. You Already Know That.
She's Not Busy. You Already Know That. Jul 27, 2026 00:06:14 She was texting you every day, making plans, laughing at everything you sent. And then, nothing. One word replies. Something shifted and you have no idea what it was. Here's the problem. Almost everything men do at this exact moment makes every possible version of this situation worse. There are really only 2 reasons this actually happens, and one of them nobody wants to say out loud. In this

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