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Inner Confidence Podcast

Inner Confidence 318 Episodes Jul 20, 2026

The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.

Episodes

Why Dating Still Feels Like Work?
Why Dating Still Feels Like Work? Jul 20, 2026 00:08:29 Have you ever put in real work - actual approaches, actual reps, real results and then wondered if this is just what it looks like forever? Or maybe you've got a solid social circle, you're around attractive women, and you're still going home alone most weekends.If either sounds familiar, there's a conversation we need to have about the 2 phases of this game. Most guys only ever figure out one.In
You're Solving The Wrong Dating Problem
You're Solving The Wrong Dating Problem Jul 13, 2026 00:09:11 Most guys are trying to solve their dating life as an individual problem.Better approaches. Better texts.Better profile. Better conversation.That stuff matters. But there's a ceiling on it that most guys hit and can't explain. Because the guys who actually live the life solved a completely different problem. They built an ecosystem.I just got back from Bogota, Colombia. Five days. Four nights. Fou
Why You Keep Losing to Men You're Better Than
Why You Keep Losing to Men You're Better Than Jul 6, 2026 00:07:04 Six feet. Six figures. Six pack.Only 1% of men in the US actually hit all three at the same time.So either 99% of men are completely undateable or something about this whole conversation is being seriously misunderstood. In this episode I break down what the 666 standard actually reveals, why social media made it louder but didn't create it, what women say they want versus what they actually respo
If You Want Commitment From Her, Stop Doing This Immediately
If You Want Commitment From Her, Stop Doing This Immediately Jun 25, 2026 00:10:40 If you're in a situationship right now, you put yourself there.Not on purpose. Not because you're a bad guy. But somewhere along the way your actions started writing a contract you never meant to sign.In this episode I break down exactly why this keeps happening, the two completely different situations men find themselves in, and what to actually do about each one without losing leverage or l
Why High Value Men Are Quietly Stepping Back From Dating (And What To Do Instead)
Why High Value Men Are Quietly Stepping Back From Dating (And What To Do Instead) Jun 18, 2026 00:07:16 The men who built something. Got in shape. Went to therapy.Did the actual work.They're not complaining on Reddit. They're just quietly stepping back and deciding it's not worth it anymore.And here's the part nobody is talking about, they might be right.Or they might be making the worst mistake of their lives.In this episode I break down the two types of men stepping back from dating and why they a
Women Mock DiCaprio Publicly Then Date Him Anyway. Here's Why
Women Mock DiCaprio Publicly Then Date Him Anyway. Here's Why Jun 10, 2026 00:21:19 Every few months, Leonardo DiCaprio gets photographed with another younger woman and the internet loses its mind.Women call him creepy. Men defend him like he's the last symbol of male freedom. Everyone makes the same jokes. But I don't think anyone is actually talking about Leo.I think they're talking about something much more uncomfortable: attraction, aging, power, freedom, status, validation,
Height Does Matter in Dating - Here's the Part Nobody Tells You
Height Does Matter in Dating - Here's the Part Nobody Tells You Jun 2, 2026 00:17:13 Height matters. And if you're using it as your excuse, that's exactly why you're losing.But here's what nobody talks about: height matters far less outside of dating apps than men think. And apps happen to be the worst possible environment for shorter men to begin with.In this episode, I break down exactly where height gives men a real disadvantage, where it doesn't, and what s
Looksmaxxing Is a Lie - Here's What Actually Attracts Women
Looksmaxxing Is a Lie - Here's What Actually Attracts Women May 27, 2026 00:39:00 Looksmaxxing is a lie.I sat down with Mark Sing, host of the Unapologetic Man Podcast with over 6 million downloads, to break down why men are obsessing over jaw surgery, followers, and aesthetics — when the real game is won entirely on the inside.In this conversation, we cover:→ Why perceived value beats actual looks every time→ How your "disadvantages" can become your biggest advantage→ The real
Stop Taking Dating Advice From Reddit And Watch What Happens
Stop Taking Dating Advice From Reddit And Watch What Happens May 19, 2026 00:18:24 Most men losing in dating aren't losing because of their height, their looks, or their luck. They're losing because of how they think. And Reddit is full of proof.I went through the most upvoted male dating posts on Reddit and broke down exactly what's going wrong in each one and what to do instead.We cover the texting spiral that kills attraction before it starts, why a checklist is j
Wall Street Exec Reveals Why Success Didn't Fix His Dating Life | IC Files ( Ep 317 )
Wall Street Exec Reveals Why Success Didn't Fix His Dating Life | IC Files ( Ep 317 ) May 13, 2026 00:59:26 Most men think money and status are enough. My client thought so too until he found himself divorced, successful on paper, and completely stuck in his dating life.I sat down with one of my clients, a Wall Street veteran, to break down how he went from scarcity to abundance by completely rethinking how he used his resources.We cover why status alone doesn't create attraction, the hunting vs far
Stop Losing Women You Like: Breaking Down the Real Reason Chemistry Dies (Ep 316)
Stop Losing Women You Like: Breaking Down the Real Reason Chemistry Dies (Ep 316) Apr 27, 2026 00:11:51 Links:The Dating Protocol: (link at bottom of the page) https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityTimestamps:00:00 Losing chemistry on a date03:09 Date with a twist of insecurity06:31 Embracing single life journey10:47 Building a high-status social circleConnect w/ Robbie: Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.ti
How To Become Magnetic Without Fake Game (Ep 315)
How To Become Magnetic Without Fake Game (Ep 315) Apr 7, 2026 00:21:07 Links:Book a call:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityTimestamps:00:00 Improving conversational charisma05:19 The problem with fake authenticity08:17 The impact of context and environment11:31 Overcoming fear of approaching15:31 Building social skills through practice18:50 Building confidence through community20:04 Building a high-status social circleConnect w/ Robbie: Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https:/

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