Hotter Than Ever
This podcast explores why people fear change and how the second half of life can be happier, sexier, and more fulfilling. Through interviews and irreverent advice, it covers topics like career, aging, sex, and body image for those in middle age. The show encourages listeners to laugh, break rules, and stop caring what others think. It aims to help people embrace change and feel confident in their own skin.
Episodes
What It Takes to Feel Hotter Than Ever
What is the one pivotal change that would make your life feel hotter than ever?As we arrive at episode 135 of Hotter Than Ever, we’re inviting you into an intimate and powerful reflection, marking both the close of 2025 and a new chapter for the show. As our beloved host, Erin, sets out to build her new venture, Broad Collective, the podcast is taking a break for now.In this episode, Erin reflects
Starting Your Own Business(es) with Sarah Gallagher Trombley
We talk a lot on Hotter Than Ever about midlife reinvention and the courage it takes to listen to your intuition, even when the outside world tells you to play it safe. Starting this podcast was a powerful turning point for Erin, but one of the best parts of reinvention? It doesn’t stop at just one chapter. In this episode, Erin steps into her next evolution with the launch of her new business, Th
Ancient Sexual Wisdom with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown
For so many women, sexuality and intimacy feel like the missing piece in living a fully embodied life, especially as we age. Our culture rarely teaches us how to move past the superficial and toward deeper pleasure, healing, and connection. In this episode, longtime teachers and practitioners of tantric and somatic healing, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown, join us to demystify tantra, explore its
Radical Self Love and the Power of Sisterhood with Natty Frasca
Culture tells women over 40 that midlife is a time of decline: hot flashes, lost libido, and fading from relevance. But what if midlife is actually your portal to power, pleasure, and self-ownership? In this episode, we’re joined by Natty Frasca, a feminist coach, rebel rouser, and the founder of The Feminine Rebellion, to set fire to the script of people-pleasing and perfection and offer a toolki
Regenopause and Sex Magic: Crone Wisdom with Melissa Louise
“Your birthright is pleasure.”What if everything you’ve been taught about aging, sexuality, and womanhood is not only outdated, but completely wrong? Joining us to challenge all of it is Melissa Louise, a pleasure advocate and erotic blueprint coach whose perspective on midlife, menopause (or as she calls it, “regenopause”), patriarchy, and sex magic will have you rethinking every cultural script
Crushing Your Couple Goals with Rono + Sierra
Ever wonder what it takes to create not just lasting love, but a partnership that feels intentional, exciting, and alive, even years in? Join us as we sit down with Rono and Sierra, lifelong friends turned business partners turned romantic couple, to peel back the curtain on what it means to make your relationship your true North Star.Rono and Sierra are the founders of Eden World, a vibrant commu
What if Wonder Woman Was 66? with Susan Guidi
What does reinvention really look like when life keeps throwing curveballs? For Susan Guidi, it’s a story packed with twists, pivots, and badass comebacks. An ultrasound pioneer, mother of three, grandmother of seven, improv performer, stand-up comedian, and award-winning bodybuilder, Susan’s life is a masterclass in resilience and reinvention. At 66, she wrote and performed her own one-woman show
How To Have an Amazing Marriage with Gabriela Embon
What does it really take to create a love that feels both grounded and expansive? A relationship where two whole people choose to grow together?In this week’s episode, we sit down with relationship coach and author Gabriela Embon to explore how to build a thriving partnership that balances individuality and intimacy. Drawing from her own journey and her book “Becoming a Power Couple: Four Pillars
Cultivating a Life Packed with Pleasure with Dr. Diane Mueller
“We have this capacity to create our love life, our pleasure life in any way we want.”What if pleasure wasn’t something to chase, but something to come home to? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Diane Mueller, sexual wellness expert, naturopathic doctor, and founder of MyLibidoDoc.com, to explore how women can rewrite their pleasure stories, let go of shame, and rediscover connection in midlif
Dating after Divorce is Hilarious with Julie Golden
“There’s a freedom in not auditioning for your life anymore.”What happens when you’re no longer living by someone else’s playbook and finally start telling your own story? This week on Hotter Than Ever, we sit down with Julie Golden, reality TV producer, screenwriter, stand-up comedian, and creator of The Big D, a heart-forward and hilarious dating show for divorced singles.Julie opens up about he
Rethinking Relationship Rules with Ally Iseman
Have you missed us? We’re thrilled that Hotter Than Ever is back after an unplanned summer hiatus. Not only did Erin sell her house and move, but she’s also in the midst of launching a new business while solo parenting—no big deal. We’re returning with a bang and more real talk than ever, as Erin gets radically honest about navigating massive life transitions in midlife: letting go of old definiti
How To Have a Truly Intimate Relationship with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell
“Having a fantastic relationship is a learnable skill.”So many of us crave deeper connection, more spark, and a sense of feeling not just content, but truly alive, decades into love and relationships. But what if your desire has dulled, your partnership feels stuck on autopilot, or you’re no longer even sure what you want, let alone how to ask for it? Enter Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, “The Intimacy D
The Surprising Thing Your Teen Actually Needs From You with Megan Saxelby
“Adolescence isn’t the end of your close relationship with your child, it’s the beginning of the best one you’ve ever had.”For so many parents, the teenage years loom like a storm cloud, fraught with anxiety, conflict, and the fear of losing connection. But what if everything you think you know about adolescence is dead wrong? What if it’s not a time to dread or simply get through, but an invitati
Matchmaking Secrets from LGBTQ Dating Guru Dr. Frankie
Dating in today’s world can feel confusing, lonely, and (thanks to the apps) a lot like a part-time job with no benefits. But what if finding a connection isn’t about chasing elusive chemistry, endlessly scrolling, or pretending to be someone you’re not? Enter Dr. Frankie Bashan: a clinical psychologist, longtime connector, and pioneering LGBTQIA+ matchmaker whose mission is to help every person f
How To Co-Parent So You Don't F*ck Up Your Kids with Christina McGhee
Divorce is often treated as the end of the story, but what happens after the separation, when the real work of navigating co-parenting begins? In this episode, we sit down with Christina McGee, renowned divorce parenting expert and author of Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids. With over 20 years of experience supporting families through change, Chri
Diving Deep Into Intimacy and Desire with Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman
“ We don't choose what turns us on… but we get to play with it.”Too often, women move into adulthood (and even marriage) without a real roadmap for understanding their own desires, let alone the conversations that bring intimacy to life. In this episode, we’re exploring how putting yourself at the center of your erotic life can transform not just your sex life, but your confidence, creativity, and
Telling The Truth of Women's Lives with Jessica Zucker
“You are not alone.”We hear this phrase often—but truly feeling less alone is something else entirely. Real connection begins when we share our stories, speak our truths, and let ourselves be seen. Few people champion this idea more powerfully than today’s guest, Dr. Jessica Zucker. Jessica is a psychologist specializing in reproductive and maternal mental health, and is the author of “I Had a Mis
Joyful Dating with Feminist Dating Coach Lily Womble
“ You can't say the wrong thing to the right person.”Modern dating can feel like a chaotic mess—swiping fatigue, societal pressures, and outdated patriarchal norms make it seem more like a minefield than a path to love. But what if dating could actually be joyful, empowering, and aligned with your values? Enter Lily Womble, a feminist dating coach, author, speaker, and founder of Date Brazen, whic
Planning Ahead for Being an Empty Nester with Jodi Silverman
"Our intuition does speak to us—it screams at us, if we really let it listen."For many women, motherhood is the most rewarding, purpose-driven, and all-consuming role we take on. But what happens when the kids grow up and fly the nest? How do you figure out what’s next for you? Turns out, this chapter is bursting with potential for reinvention and self-discovery—but it often starts with the daunti
Are You Overfunctioning In Love? with Dr. Ashley Southard
Do you ever feel like you're doing all the emotional heavy lifting in your relationship? Constantly managing your partner’s feelings, smoothing over conflicts, and wondering why you're always the one trying to "fix" things? You might be over-functioning—taking on more than your fair share of responsibility and emotional labor.In this episode, Erin sits down with psychotherapist Dr. Ashley Southard
The Spicy Years of Perimenopause with Carin Luna-Ostaseski
“Is it hot or is it just me?”It’s a question many women find themselves asking as they navigate perimenopause and menopause—often without fully understanding what’s happening to their bodies. Despite affecting every woman, perimenopause remains widely misunderstood, rarely discussed, and frequently misdiagnosed. That’s why we’re thrilled to welcome menopause advocate Carin Luna-Ostaseski, founder
People Pleasing and Overachieving with Amy Wilson
"Getting things done": it's a mantra for many, but what happens when it becomes a burden? In this episode, we sit down with author, performer, and self-proclaimed overachiever Amy Wilson to untangle the messy web of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the endless pursuit of "more." Drawing from her eye-opening book, “Happy to Help: Adventures of a People Pleaser,” Amy shares her journey from being
Marriage, Monogamy, Dating + Divorce with Producer Erica
“Is monogamy normal? Is it our default? Is it healthy?”Have you ever had a conversation stop you in your tracks because it hits so close to home? That’s exactly what happened to Erin and producer Erica after our episode with Dr. Joli Hamilton late last year. Dr. Joli’s work to help people open their marriages sparked deep reflections on monogamy, marriage, and long-term relationships—not just for
Looking Back at 2024 and Hell Yes to 2025!
Happy 2025, Hotties! 🍾✨ We made it through 2024, and it's time to reflect on what a transformative year it has been. Did you lean into the intentions you set for yourself? Spark connections that brought joy and meaning? Tune into your intuition and embrace the power of saying no?Join Erin in this deeply personal and introspective solo episode as she uncovers the lessons, challenges, and triumphs o
Your Body Image Has Something Deeper to Tell You with Deb Schachter
“ Body image is an individual sport and it's healed in connection.”If you’re a woman, chances are you’ve had a moment (or many) of negative self-talk about your body. We’ve all been there. But what if the issue wasn’t actually our bodies at all? What if it’s a deeper emotional or psychological distress showing up in how we think and talk about ourselves? Enter Deb Schachter, a therapist, author an
How to Take a Career Break and Avoid Burnout with Laura Nguyen
Have you ever felt the urge to hit pause on your career without walking away entirely? Or maybe you’re ready to quit but wondering how to plan a break that works financially while setting yourself up for what’s next? This week’s guest, Laura Nguyen, knows exactly how to navigate these crossroads. After stepping back from her role as a marketing executive to take a career break, Laura founded Solle
What It Takes to Open Your Marriage with Dr. Joli Hamilton
“Release yourself from the idea that your relationship needs to fit into anybody's box.”Have you ever wondered if you and your partner are truly compatible? Or struggled to express your needs, feeling lost in a sea of unmet expectations? Whether you’re exploring non-monogamy, redefining relationship norms, or simply seeking deeper connections, this episode is for you. Our guest, Dr. Joli Hamilton,
Saying Yes To Inspiration with Daily Show Co-Creator Madeleine Smithberg
“Don't let fear put you out of reach of your dreams.”As the Thanksgiving and holiday season unfolds, it’s natural to focus on gratitude for the good things in life. But what happens when life’s transitions leave you feeling lost, isolated, or stuck in a downward slump? This week’s guest, Madeleine Smithberg, knows all about navigating those emotional valleys. As the co-creator of “The Daily Show”,
Getting Unstuck with Deanna deBara
“A period of stuckness always precedes a period of serious growth.”So many of us find ourselves grappling with the overwhelming feeling of being stuck, especially as we navigate midlife. Weighed down by societal expectations and self-imposed narratives, we can struggle to align our lives with what we truly value and desire. Enter Deanna deBara, writer and host of the “Season of Stuck” podcast, whe
How To Manage Career & Personal Change with Dr. Keri Ohlrich & Kelly Guenther
Is entrepreneurship truly a solo journey, or would you rather start a business with a friend? For Dr. Keri Ohlrich and Kelly Guenther, co-founders of the leadership and HR consultancy the Abbracci Group and co-hosts of “The Breakout” podcast, the answer is clear: collaboration is key. Together, they’re on a mission to help women and entrepreneurs navigate both professional and personal changes, b
Nurturing Your Intimate Relationships with Vanessa & Xander Marin
“Sex isn't really worth having without vulnerability.”Sexuality and intimacy can be sensitive topics, especially in long-term relationships. But what if these conversations could be transformed into pathways to deeper connection and more fulfilling, mutually satisfying sex? In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome our first couple(!) to Hotter Than Ever: Vanessa and Xander Marin. Vanessa, a lice
Producing Your Best Life: Movies and Motherhood with Feigco's Laura Fischer
If you’ve ever wondered why stories of women in midlife are so rare in movies and TV, you’re not alone. In a landscape where male-centered narratives often take center stage, Laura Fischer (Co-President of director Paul Feig’s feature film company Feigco) stands out as a force for change. In partnership with the iconic comedy director, Laura champions films anchored by funny women (think Kristen
Straight Talk About Libido Over 40 with Dr. Maureen Slattery
Ever wondered why some women experience low libido and what can be done about it? Or what orgasms look and feel like for different women? These questions often go unanswered, but Dr. Maureen Slattery—a board-certified OBGYN specializing in sex and menopause—is here to change that. A leading advocate for women’s sexual health, Dr. Slattery joins us in this episode to share her mission of empowering
How Do you Measure your Value?
"I think our value and our values get all kinds of conflated and mixed up."We often hear about self-love and its pivotal role in creating a joyful life. But defining self-love is subjective and multifaceted. It involves caring, self-respect, boundaries, and counteracting our harsh inner critic. Today, Erin delves beyond self-love to examine the societal and personal metrics we use to gauge our wor
How Astrology Just Might Help You Succeed with AstroTwin Ophira Edut
“Astrology is a tool, not a rule. And when you use it as a tool, it can expand your power, your consciousness, your awareness.”Long-time listeners of Hotter Than Ever know Erin tends to be a skeptic when it comes to anything ‘woo’ (remember the episode “Woo Adjacent”?). So, it might come as a surprise that today’s episode dives deep into astrology. But after hearing from astrologer Ophira Edut, ev
Exploring Non-Monogamy and Getting Kinky with CJ
“How much fun can we have and what is that going to do for us as we age?”In this milestone 100th episode of Hotter Than Ever, we’re celebrating not only the podcast's journey but also the incredible community it has built around redefining midlife for women. To mark this special occasion, we’re thrilled to present an extraordinary conversation with CJ. CJ isn’t just a kink and non-monogamy coach;
What The Golden Girls Teaches Us About Aging Well with Dr. Maria Carpiac
It’s no secret that our culture often presents aging in a negative light, particularly for women, leaving many of us uncertain or even fearful about life beyond 40, 50 or (god forbid), 60. But one iconic sitcom has challenged these stereotypes with humor, heart, and authenticity: The Golden Girls. For Maria Carpiac, a professor of Gerontology at California State University, Long Beach, and an advo
Getting Practical About Money
As “Hotter Than Ever” nears its 100th episode, we’re reflecting on the impact this podcast has had since launching a year and a half ago, and the steps needed to elevate its vision to new heights.Join Erin as she candidly shares the realities of transitioning from a financially stable corporate life to the entrepreneurial hustle. This episode is about peeling back the layers of how Erin is support
Finding Success in Business and Love in Your 40s with Osea's Melissa Palmer
If you’re searching for proof that our most successful chapters can unfold in midlife, look no further than Melissa Palmer, co-founder and CEO of the skincare brand Osea. While Melissa and her mother launched Osea 28 years ago, it wasn’t until year 20 that their business truly skyrocketed. And as her career soared, Melissa also found the most significant relationship of her life, showing us that m
Men, Divorce, Anger and Designing Our Ideal Lives with Producer Erica
“I’m in a phase of my life where I want to f*cking shine. I do not want to shrink.”Sometimes we just need to admit we’re mad. While society may not always make space for women's anger, when we reflect on the challenges we face today, it can be hard not to feel it. Why do women still carry the heaviest load of care in relationships? Why are we still criticized for our ambition and judged for main
How to Light Your Brain Up with Pleasure with Dr. Nan Wise
“We need to understand that pleasure is not a luxury—it’s a necessity for sending good signals back to the brain.”When Dr. Nan Wise had a panic attack at just 21 years old, it sparked her lifelong fascination with the brain. Today, as a seasoned behavioral neuroscientist and sex therapist, Dr. Nan is at the forefront of research exploring the deep connection between sex, pleasure, and brain health
Making Room for Women's Voices in Hollywood with Melissa Silverstein
If you’ve ever paid attention to female representation in Hollywood or the push for more women filmmakers in entertainment, you’ve likely encountered the work of Melissa Silverstein. As the founder of Women and Hollywood, one of the pioneering platforms advocating for gender diversity in the film industry, Melissa has been a driving force in this movement. She also co-founded the Athena Film Festi
After The Rubble: Inventing Your Next Chapter with Producer Erica
“I want you to know what your options are at this point in your life.”In this special episode, we’re breaking from our usual format to bring Hotter Than Ever producer, Erica, out from behind the scenes for a candid conversation with Erin about the podcast's journey and it’s future. Inspired by thoughtful feedback from our hottie listeners and Erin’s reflections during this ‘slow-roll summer,’ we’r
Everything is a Love Problem and Only You Can Solve It with Sheri Salata (Re-Air)
As part of our ‘slow roll summer’ on Hotter Than Ever, we’re revisiting one of our favorite early conversations with Oprah dynasty legend, author, producer and transformation doula Sheri Salata.In this episode, we explore self-love and renegotiating what life looks like after you’ve achieved your wildest dreams (hint: it’s not over!). We unpack what it means to focus on yourself beyond your work,
Inner Beauty and Aging in Hollywood with Makeup Artist Molly R. Stern
In a world where beauty standards are constantly evolving and societal pressures can feel overwhelming, makeup artist Molly R. Stern brings a refreshing perspective to the conversation. With a career spanning over two decades and a client list that includes some of Hollywood's most iconic faces, Molly has witnessed firsthand the struggles women face with self-perception and the impact of the beaut
Getting Good at Handling Change
“The job of life is to get good at change, because it never stops.”Why do so many of us resist change instead of embracing it? For our host Erin, life over the past few years has become almost unrecognizable, but in the best way possible. In this episode, she takes us through her journey of navigating and thriving through these shifts. From battling COVID to a complete lifestyle overhaul, Erin exp
4 Ways That Covid Changed Absolutely Everything with Lori Hamilton
“I'm striving for excellence, but I'm not pretending to be perfect anymore.”The Covid-19 pandemic was a watershed moment of change for everyone, reshaping both personal and professional lives. For our host Erin, it catalyzed her divorce and sparked a career pivot that led to the birth of “Hotter Than Ever”. But what major trends emerged post-pandemic that are now influencing how we navigate our ne
Juggling Creative Careers and Motherhood with comedian Ophira Eisenberg
Navigating modern life as a working mother and a creative professional is no small feat. In this episode, we dig deep into comedian and Mom Ophira Eisenberg's journey through comedy, storytelling, and podcasting. Ophira, a multi-talented comic, storyteller, and host of the podcast "Parenting is a Joke," shares her captivating story with humor, and recounts the diverse roles she has embraced to car
Your Authenticity is Your Secret Weapon with Kim Rittberg
“Every single person is special, but most of us are too afraid to show up in the world and let them see how special we are.”In a world that often values polished presentations and corporate facades, finding and maintaining authenticity in professional and personal settings can feel like a daunting task. Yet, it's precisely this authenticity and vulnerability that can create genuine connections and
How To Attract Epic Love with Lilli Bewley
"It's in vulnerability and self-love that we find our true strength."If you've been tuning into Hotter Than Ever, you know that while our host Erin offers plenty of dating advice, especially for those re-entering the scene after a marriage, her aim isn’t necessarily to find love herself. But regardless of whether you're skeptical about love or seeking it with all your heart, you'll enjoy this conv
Advertising for Women Over 40, Made By Women Over 40! with Katie Keating
Despite the fact that women make 85% of household buying decisions, the majority of women over 40 report feeling largely overlooked by the advertising industry. Even more striking, 82% of women in a recent survey felt cooler, stronger, and sexier than they ever expected at this age—so why aren’t advertisers targeting them? Enter Katie Keating, the founder and Co-Chief Creative Officer of Fancy LLC
Advice: How Do I Juggle Dating Several Guys at the Same Time?
“Are you being compulsive and chasing that dopamine hit of likes and matches like you're one of Pavlov's dogs?” Dating apps can be exhilarating, especially when exploring new connections for the first time after leaving a marriage. But what if swiping has left you with so many matches that managing them feels overwhelming? In this episode, Erin responds to a listener’s dilemma of balancing multipl
Why We Need Adult Sex Ed with Dr. Kelly Casperson
For many women who’ve never had an orgasm, it’s easy to feel like there’s something wrong or that they’re broken, a sentiment shared by many of Dr. Kelly Casperson’s patients. However, as urologist and star podcaster Dr. Casperson explains in our latest episode, the issue isn’t with women—it’s our lack of good sex education. This lack hinders women’s ability to experience pleasure, which is why ov
Advice: Should I Give This Guy a Second Chance?
Getting your needs met is hot. What’s not hot is when your emotional or physical needs (or both!) are neglected. One listener is grappling with this issue, questioning whether to give a man a second chance after a real first date fail, especially as she navigates dating after a sexless marriage.In this episode, Erin is drawing from her own experiences and shares the importance of prioritizing our
How to Feel Less Exhaustion and More Joy with Victoria Albina
“It's only when we come into the body that we can start to see our thoughts.”In the age of the internet and social media, we're constantly bombarded with pseudoscientific wellness trends that promise quick fixes for every aspect of our mental well-being. Beneath the noise, there exists a grounded, science-based, and holistic approach to wellness, exemplified by Victoria Albina. Victoria is a famil
How I Learned to Flirt
Are you a natural flirt, or do you consider yourself clueless when it comes to flirting or recognizing when you’re being flirted with? Our host Erin has experienced the entire spectrum, from being oblivious to flirting—both as a single and married woman—to embracing it as a powerful form of self-expression and connection post-divorce. In this episode, Erin shares how flirting has transformed the l
Choosing Mediation over Divorce When You Know It's Over with Paulette Rigo
Half of marriages these days end in divorce, but did you know that 73% of divorces are initiated by women? In today’s episode we’re joined by Paulette Rigo, a credentialed private mediator and certified divorce coach, whose mission is to help couples avoid court and navigate their divorces more amicably. Paulette endured a grueling divorce litigation process that spanned nearly 10 years. Now, she
'The Idea of You' is Midlife Rom Com Candy
“Thank God for representations of real sex on screen.”A 40-year-old woman and an unbelievably hot 24-year-old man get together for an unexpected, steamy romance? Sign us up! It’s no wonder why everyone has been asking Erin what she thinks of the new movie “The Idea of You”, released earlier this year. In this episode, Erin breaks down the film and shares her thoughts on why this story, and the rep
How To Have Hot Sex for Life with Susan Bratton
It’s no secret that many women don’t enjoy having sex. But the problem isn’t the women: it’s the sex we’re shown in the media and porn, which is dominated by patriarchal ideas and largely ignores women's pleasure. Amidst this dearth of sexual satisfaction for women emerges Susan Bratton, an intimacy expert and advocate for lifelong intimacy and passion. Susan has helped countless clients and reade
Vulnerability Is So Hard!
“I am willing to take on the uncomfortable feelings that it takes to be vulnerable. Are you?”When you’ve been raised as a fiercely independent Gen X-er and have been hurt by men in relationships (who hasn’t?), everything tells you not to be vulnerable. But in reflecting on her personal journey post-divorce, Erin shares how her efforts to become more emotionally open have transformed her relationsh
You're Not Too F***ing Old! with Jen Marples
“You're worthy of the life that you can envision for yourself.” When Jen Marples found herself unable to muster the energy to get out of bed, it was a stark wake-up call. A true go-getter, she had carved out a stellar career in marketing and PR, even launching her own thriving business, all while married with three children. Yet, amidst all of the success and achievements, she realized she had neg
My 52 Year Old Body
“My health, my well being was the catalyst for all of the radical reinvention that I am talking about here on this podcast.” What is your relationship like with your body? Feeling disconnected from our bodies is a common experience, and in today's digital age, it's often exacerbated by the constant barrage of fitness fads and wellness trends flooding our feeds. But as we navigate midlife, ignoring
Are You Wired to Love a Narcissist? with Michelle Roberts PhD
Have you ever found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist? Or maybe you were raised by one? Whatever the relationship might be, there’s a chance that it’s left a neurological impact on that is going untreated. In today’s episode, we’re joined by Michelle Roberts, investigative journalist turned psychotherapist, who specializes in narcissism. Michelle’s work helps to unravel the mysteries be
Surviving Singles Events IRL
“I want you to take action towards what you fantasize about.”On Hotter Than Ever, we've delved deep into the world of online dating, including strategies for crafting the perfect profile and navigating the digital landscape of romance. But what about the lost art of meeting people the old-fashioned way–in real life? In this episode, Erin shares her experience stepping outside of her comfort zone a
Lonely At Work? How to Build Community and Connection with Ann Shoket
“Loneliness is the thing that's keeping women from rising and I don't want to see that anymore.” As part of her research for The Li.st, Ann Shoket uncovered a staggering statistic: 80% of women in white collar careers are lonely because of their jobs. As heartbreaking as that is, it didn’t surprise Ann, who as the former editor of Seventeen and CosmoGIRL magazines, is no stranger to the loneliness
Advice: How Do I Make Time for a Sexual Awakening As A Single Mom?
“You can be a good mom who is available to your kids and who is also experiencing a sexual becoming.”Starting your sexual awakening journey in midlife can sometimes feel like threading through a maze of practicalities, particularly if you're juggling kids and career. Luckily, Erin is here to take the reins, drawing from her firsthand experience, to guide us through. From treating her romantic lif
Sexual Coming of Age in the 90s with Tracy Clark-Flory
Tracy Clark-Flory’s sexual exploration began at the age of 12, when she ventured into AOL chat rooms, seeking to discover what men wanted sexually. In her memoir, "Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire," Tracy details her personal sexual coming of age through the maze hyper-sexualized media, where she grappled with the conflicting messages dictating her sexual identity. It wasn
Advice: What Do I Do If I Can't Get Divorced For Logistical Reasons?
Sometimes women get stuck in a marriage that is no longer working, but they’re unable to break free due to logistical constraints. Add a skyrocketing libido and an irresistible crush into the mix, and today’s caller has got herself one h*ll of a scenario. Fear not, because in this episode, we dive into the art of juggling desire and commitment when divorce isn't an immediate option.Join Erin as s
How to Really Feel Your Feelings and Heal From Grief with Meghan Riordan Jarvis
"Unresolved, unprocessed grief really lays a heavy tattoo inside your system."With more than two decades as a seasoned psychotherapist, Meghan Riordan Jarvis found herself unexpectedly thrust into the throes of her own grief upon the sudden loss of her mother. Through this profound personal journey, Meghan gained an intimate understanding of the very trauma and PTSD she had long treated in her pat
Advice: Dating Again After a Bad Breakup - What Do I Need to Share About It?
“Share information about your breakup with the new people in your life whenever it feels right”Breakups are universally painful, regardless of the circumstances. And after a long-term relationship, it can be daunting to dip your toes back into the dating pool. In today’s episode, we’re tackling a listener's question about reentering the dating scene after a challenging breakup. With a decade-long
How To Buy Essentially Nothing with Elizabeth Chai
“You don't find fulfillment in material things”You've heard the advice to "buy less" or "consume mindfully," but have you ever considered going cold turkey on buying altogether? As she chronicles in her book, "How to Buy Essentially Nothing for a Year,” Elizabeth Chai, a graphic designer by trade, did just that. For the past five years, Liz has refrained from purchasing anything non-essential, and
Advice: Help! I'm SO Distracted By Sexy Apps (But I Love It)!
“It really changes our lives when we give ourselves permission to have all the pleasure we deserve.”Are using dating apps the modern-day equivalent of juggling a part-time job? For one of our listeners, the allure of Pure, a sexting app, has sparked both a whirlwind of fun and distraction that begs the question: How long will it last? Join Erin on this episode as she delves into the tantalizing wo
Dishing About Domestic Labor with Eve Rodsky
“How can I be the breadwinner and also the one who knows the name of my child's dentist?”When Eve Rodsky received a text from her husband that read, “I'm surprised you didn't get blueberries”, it sparked a revelation. It wasn't just about the fruit; it was about the deeper imbalance in their household dynamics. Fast forward over a decade, and Eve has emerged as a leading voice in reshaping the gen
Rethinking Modern Motherhood & Reclaiming Our Bodies with Amanda Montei
Amanda Montei's fascination with understanding motherhood started long before she became a parent herself. However, it wasn't until she embarked on her PhD journey while welcoming her first child that she began to approach motherhood through a scholarly lens. In her illuminating book, "Touched Out: Motherhood, Misogyny, Consent, and Control," Amanda dissects the nuanced layers of societal expectat
Advice: How Do I Approach Sex After 33 Years With My Ex-Husband? With Dr. Juliana Hauser
Nothing gets us more excited than witnessing one of our listeners burst back onto the dating scene after a long marriage. Yet, as thrilling as this new chapter may be, it can also come riddled with uncertainties. How can I ensure my safety while exploring new sexual partners? How can I feel confident in my body as an older woman? Join us as we welcome back marriage and family therapist, and sex ed
Being a Doctor on Skid Row with Dr. Susan Partovi, Renegade MD
Since she was a girl, Dr. Susan Partovi felt the pull toward a career in medicine. But it wasn't until a transformative journey to Tijuana, Mexico that her calling took on a deeper meaning, igniting a lifelong commitment to championing the health of marginalized communities. Now, after decades of serving people experiencing homelessness on the streets of Skid Row in Los Angeles, Susan stands as a
Advice: How Do I Talk About My Sexual Needs? With Dr. Juliana Hauser
“There's so much bravery in saying ‘my sex life matters’”Imagine this: you've just broken free from a decade-long relationship that didn't quite fit, and then you find someone new, someone exciting, and the text messages start heating up. But as you settle into the relationship, you realize your partner isn't quite on the same page when it comes to acting on those steamy promises. How do you navig
A Comedian's Psychedelic Awakening with Negin Farsad
“Mushrooms are for getting over your horseshit so you can move on with life.”Like most comedians, Negin Farsad was a self-described skeptic, especially when it came to the trendy world of "magic mushrooms" and psychedelic retreats sweeping the wellness scene. But when a writing assignment led her to participate in a psilocybin retreat, she found herself on a transformative path she never expected.
Advice: Mushrooms for Anxiety and Menopause? With Tracey Tee
Have you ever wondered about the therapeutic potential of psilocybin or "magic mushrooms" for treating anxiety or menopause? Or perhaps you've heard of people swapping out alcohol for shrooms? In today's advice episode, we're thrilled to welcome back Tracey Tee, the founder of "Moms on Mushrooms" (M.O.M), to tackle our latest listener inquiry. Tracey sheds light on why women are turning to microdo
Chasing Physical Pain and Discovering Tenderness with Margo Steines
“Your identity and your life is lived through your body”In a time where many of us find ourselves disconnected from our bodies, Margo Steines relentlessly chased physical pain. As she recalls in her gripping memoir “Brutalities: A Love Story”, Margo pursued extreme experiences—drugs, sexual violence, and abusive relationships—as avenues to escape psychological discomfort and to feel alive.Througho
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