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Life As We See It Podcast with with Zuki

Life As We See It Podcast with with Zuki

LifeAsWeSeeItwithAA 147 Episodes Aug 18, 2026

A podcast hosted by a Nigerian woman living in America, sharing personal stories about life as an immigrant, faith, love, relationships, and social interactions. The host discusses her own life struggles and journey of redemption, aiming to inspire listeners to be their best selves. Content focuses on hope and positivity in a world full of negativity.

Episodes

How i became a doctor in the US (in under 4 years) w/ Dr Toyosi
How i became a doctor in the US (in under 4 years) w/ Dr Toyosi Aug 18, 2026 00:49:38 In this episode Dr Toyosi shares how she became a medical doctor in the US in under 4 years. Dr Toyosi relocated to the US from Nigeria in 2022 and lives in Oregon with her husband and 2 lovely kids. She completed pre-med and medical school in Nigeria and always had the dream of moving to America to practice medicine. Upon graduating from medical school, she started working at a private practice a
The reality of living alone abroad in your 40s
The reality of living alone abroad in your 40s Aug 11, 2026 00:18:29 In this episode, i talked about the reality of living alone abroad in your 40s as a single woman. Living in a foreign country as an immigrant without family or close community of friends can be an isolating and very lonely experience, I talked about the highs and lows of living alone in America as a single woman with no husband or kids. Loneliness hits differently when you live abroad because it o
My wife almost left me. How I helped save our 20 year happy marriage w/ Pesa Shayo
My wife almost left me. How I helped save our 20 year happy marriage w/ Pesa Shayo Aug 4, 2026 00:39:54 In this episode, i interviewed Pesa Shayo, who shared the mindset that almost cost him his marriage but now, he is happily married for over 20 years. Pesa is a relationship expert and co founder of live your best marriage. He is Kenyan, married to an American woman Whitney, they have 4 beautiful daughters and are thriving in their marriage. He shared the challenges he encountered being in an inter
Why i stopped seeking mentors as a grown woman
Why i stopped seeking mentors as a grown woman Jul 28, 2026 00:18:34 In this episode i shared how trusting mentors messed with me. While having a mentor is fantastic, falling into the hand of a bad one will greatly slow you down and potentially short-circuit your destiny. I hear so many people push the narrative of mentorship and how everyone needs a mentor to succeed in life. That hasn't been my own personal experience as the mentors i've had in the past have rath
I've worked 22 years & feel like I have nothing to show for it
I've worked 22 years & feel like I have nothing to show for it Jul 21, 2026 00:16:18 On this personal episode, i share how I've worked for 22 years & yet feel like I have nothing to show for it. I basically reflected on my last 22 years work history. I talked about the financial obligations, surviving & comparisons that seem to drown out my efforts in building meaningful wealth over the years. I find myself playing the comparison game to other people on social media (L
I live in my head 80% of the time
I live in my head 80% of the time Jul 14, 2026 00:09:42 I live in my head 80% of the time. On this episode i shared a silent struggle i face quite often which is living in my head and overthinking everything. I realized that i see myself much better than people treat me sometimes which sucks. I constantly replay conversations in my head, overanalyze every situation and refuse to step out of my comfort zone to take risks. I realized that living in my he
Cheating spouses, polygamy, paternity tests and dealing with exes
Cheating spouses, polygamy, paternity tests and dealing with exes Jul 7, 2026 00:27:55 On this episode, we talked about cheating spouses, polygamy, paternity tests and dealing with exes. Enuma and I basically discussed a range of topics related to marriage and relationships. We reacted to men who cheat on their wives and yet demand loyalty from them, such men even insist their side chicks to stay faithful to them which is ridiculous. We talked about polygamy and why African men are
The problem with many African marriages in the diaspora plus How I met my Nigerian Prince
The problem with many African marriages in the diaspora plus How I met my Nigerian Prince Jun 30, 2026 00:32:06 We discussed the problems with African (Nigerian) marriages in the diaspora after relocation. Marriage is very complex and African marriages are twice as hard because of the patriarchal culture in which African (Nigerian) men were brought up in. Some Nigerian men get into marriage with the primal understanding that their wives are beneath them and are always there to serve them. However, when they
"I went on a date with a scammer"- my horrible dating experience with an America
"I went on a date with a scammer"- my horrible dating experience with an America Jun 23, 2026 00:48:55 On this episode, my friend Enuma narrates how she went on a date with a scammer . Enuma shared about her dating/relationship experience as an black immigrant woman in America and shared her date from hell experience (dating experience Storytime). She matched with a guy online (the first African American man she's matched with)and they went on their first date to a breakfast place. She said he
Young African immigrants narrate their experiences living with Americans
Young African immigrants narrate their experiences living with Americans Jun 16, 2026 00:46:09 In this episode, I'm joined by my 2 nieces to have a conversation about why African immigrants find relating with Americans confusing. They share their experiences about living in America as new immigrants from Africa (Nigeria). We compared how communicating and relating with Americans is different from how we interact with eachother (fellow Africans). Cultural differences seem to play a huge role
What it's like living in America today vs 15 years ago
What it's like living in America today vs 15 years ago Jun 9, 2026 00:12:19 I moved to America 15 yrs ago and on this episode, i talked about the reality of living in the USA today in 2011 vs today (2026). A lot has changed in 15 years, from economic situation to the political landscape, life in America especially for immigrants is significantly different. I talked about how America has lost its charm for immigrants due to all the recent immigration laws, many are choosin
Americans moving to Africa realizing they've been lied to (the TRUTH is...)
Americans moving to Africa realizing they've been lied to (the TRUTH is...) Jun 2, 2026 00:21:55 In this episode i talked about Americans moving to Africa realizing they've been lied to about the reality of life in Africa. Americans can sometimes come off as very entitled and high maintenance. They expect to enjoy the same comfort they are used to in America and when they don't get it, they get very disappointed. Some Americans move to Africa hoping to enjoy a slower pace of life however the

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