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Parenting Beyond Meltdowns | Neurodivergent, ADHD, ODD, PDA, Defiant, Build Connection, Emotional Regulation, Dysregulated

Parenting Beyond Meltdowns | Neurodivergent, ADHD, ODD, PDA, Defiant, Build Connection, Emotional Regulation, Dysregulated

Amanda Calfee - Christian Life Coach, Mama of Strong-willed & Neurodivergent Kiddos 55 Episodes Oct 8, 2026

This podcast helps Christian moms who feel overwhelmed by their neurodivergent children's meltdowns and challenging behaviors. The host, Amanda Calfee, shares strategies for emotional regulation, reconnection, and building confidence without guilt. She addresses the unique struggles of parenting kids with ADHD, ODD, PDA, and other conditions, offering a faith-based perspective. Listeners learn to show up with peace and presence, moving away from control and toward connection.

Episodes

65 | Struggling With Emotional Regulation? Why You Keep Falling Into Old Parenting Patterns
65 | Struggling With Emotional Regulation? Why You Keep Falling Into Old Parenting Patterns Oct 8, 2026 751   Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide!   Have you ever walked away from your child's meltdown wondering why you reacted that way when you knew what you wanted to do differently? Feel frustrated because you've read the parenting books, listened to the podcasts, and learned about emotional regulation, but still find yourself yelling? Wonder if you'll ever be a
64 | Don’t Know What to Do Next? Parenting a Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child When You’re Afraid of Getting It Wrong
64 | Don’t Know What to Do Next? Parenting a Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child When You’re Afraid of Getting It Wrong Oct 1, 2026 955 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Have you ever felt like if you could just find the right answer, everything with your child might finally be okay? Do you find yourself researching late at night, wondering if there’s something you haven’t tried yet? Are you afraid of making the wrong decision for your strong-willed or neurodivergent child? What if peace d
63 | Why Calming Down Isn’t Always the Goal: Emotional Regulation With a Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child
63 | Why Calming Down Isn’t Always the Goal: Emotional Regulation With a Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child Sep 24, 2026 799 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Do you ever do all the “right” things to regulate your emotions and still feel angry? Have you ever prayed, journaled, taken a breath, tried to process what you’re feeling...and wondered why you still don’t feel calm? What if emotional regulation isn’t always about making the emotion go away? Why Calming Down Isn’t Always
62 | Feeling Disconnected After Meltdowns? What Building Connection With Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child Really Looks Like
62 | Feeling Disconnected After Meltdowns? What Building Connection With Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child Really Looks Like Sep 17, 2026 1116 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide!   Feeling disconnected from your child after a meltdown or hard moment? Do you ever lose your cool and immediately think, “I should know better by now”? Have you ever wondered if the yelling, slammed doors, or dysregulated moments mean you and your child aren’t as connected as you thought? What if building connection isn’t
61 | Is Fear Driving Your Parenting? Emotional Regulation When You Worry About Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child’s Future
61 | Is Fear Driving Your Parenting? Emotional Regulation When You Worry About Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child’s Future Sep 10, 2026 1086 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Do you ever notice yourself worrying about what your child’s behavior today could mean for their future? Do you find yourself trying harder to correct, warn, or control because you’re afraid of where their choices might lead? What if some of the pressure you feel in parenting isn’t coming from what’s happening right now, b
60 | When Everyone Sees a Defiant Child: Seeing Who Your Strong-willed or Neurodivergent Child Really Is
60 | When Everyone Sees a Defiant Child: Seeing Who Your Strong-willed or Neurodivergent Child Really Is Sep 3, 2026 950 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! When your child is labeled defiant, difficult, or disrespectful, do you wish people could see the child you know underneath the behavior? Have you ever thought, “If they could just understand my child, they would see there is so much more going on here”? And mama, when the meltdowns and challenging behavior keep coming, do
59 | The #1 Reason Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child’s Meltdowns Feel Like Proof You’re a Bad Mom
59 | The #1 Reason Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child’s Meltdowns Feel Like Proof You’re a Bad Mom Aug 27, 2026 1329 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide!   Do your strong-willed or neurodivergent child’s meltdowns ever feel like proof that you’re doing something wrong? When your child becomes dysregulated or defiant, do you immediately wonder, “If I were a better mom, would they still act this way?” Have you ever noticed how quickly your child’s hardest moments can become a
58 | Back-to-School Behavior: Defiant or Dysregulated? What Your Child Is Really Trying to Tell You
58 | Back-to-School Behavior: Defiant or Dysregulated? What Your Child Is Really Trying to Tell You Aug 20, 2026 766 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide!   Have you ever gotten a call or message from school about your child’s behavior and immediately wondered what everyone must think? Does your strong-willed or neurodivergent child hold it together all day only to completely fall apart when they get home? Have you ever wondered if what looks defiant might actually be dysreg
57 | Back-to-School Meltdowns? 3 Rhythms That Help You Stay Regulated All Year
57 | Back-to-School Meltdowns? 3 Rhythms That Help You Stay Regulated All Year Aug 13, 2026 506 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide!   Are you already dreading the back-to-school meltdowns? Wondering how you'll stay calm when mornings feel rushed and overwhelming? Wish your home felt more peaceful—even if your strong-willed or neurodivergent child struggles with transitions? What if preparing for school started with preparing your own heart? In this epi
56 | Parenting Beyond Meltdowns: One Year Later | The Practice of Becoming
56 | Parenting Beyond Meltdowns: One Year Later | The Practice of Becoming Aug 6, 2026 708 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Are you wondering if all those small moments of choosing peace are really making a difference? Have you ever looked back and realized you've changed…without noticing it while it was happening? Do you long for a more peaceful, connected relationship with your strong-willed or neurodivergent child? What if the Father has bee
55 | Before Summer Ends: 4 Keys to Building Connection with Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child
55 | Before Summer Ends: 4 Keys to Building Connection with Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child Jul 30, 2026 898 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Do you feel like summer slipped by without the connection you hoped to build with your child? Are you putting pressure on yourself to squeeze in one more trip, one more memory, or one more "perfect" day before summer ends? Wonder how you can finish this season feeling more connected to your strong-willed or neurodivergent
54 | When Your Child’s Meltdown Triggers You: Emotional Regulation for Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Kids
54 | When Your Child’s Meltdown Triggers You: Emotional Regulation for Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Kids Jul 23, 2026 916 Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Have you ever found yourself stuck in the same cycle — your child melts down, you react, and afterward you think, “Why did I do that again?” If so, this episode will speak straight to your heart. We’re diving into a powerful concept called the Hero, Victim, and Villain lens and how it can completely change the way you app

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