Starting Over : Life 2.0 With God
This podcast offers guidance for those facing life's challenges such as divorce, job loss, or heartbreak, and seeking a fresh start. Host Tom Clairmont draws from personal experiences, biblical truths, and practical wisdom to help listeners rebuild with hope and purpose. Each episode explores honest conversations about starting over, featuring relatable stories and lessons from others who have navigated similar transitions. The show emphasizes leaning on faith to move forward and embrace second chances.
Episodes
55: What Happens When You Build Your Life Around Avoidance
Episode SummaryWe all avoid things. A hard conversation. Looking honestly at our finances. Dealing with a relationship problem. Admitting we need help. Sometimes we even avoid opportunities because we're afraid of failing, succeeding, or simply stepping outside what feels comfortable.In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard have a very practical conversation about why we do this and what
54: The Decisions That Quietly Shape Your Life Over Time
Episode SummaryIt's easy to believe our lives are shaped by the big moments. A divorce. Losing a job. Retirement. A financial setback. But when you look back, it's often the small decisions made day after day that quietly determine where life takes you.In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard explore how the everyday choices we make gradually become habits, habits become character, a
53: When Life Gets Quiet But Your Mind Doesn’t
Episode SummaryLife has a way of slowing down when we least expect it. Retirement, an empty house, unemployment, divorce, or simply a new season of life can leave us with something we haven't had in years: time. But instead of feeling peaceful, many of us discover that when life gets quiet, our minds get louder. Old regrets surface. Questions about the future creep in. We replay conversations,
52: When You Haven't Been Down This Path Before
Episode SummaryHave you ever found yourself standing at a place in life where you simply don't know what to do next? Maybe a relationship ended, your finances changed, your health took a turn, retirement arrived, or life no longer looks the way you thought it would. In this episode,Tom explores the powerful story of Joshua Chapter 3 and Israel's crossing of the Jordan River. More than a st
51. What to Do When You Don’t Trust Yourself Anymore
Have you ever looked back at your life and thought, "How did I not see that coming?"Maybe it was a relationship that ended badly. A financial decision you regret. A job you stayed in too long. Or maybe it's not one decision at all, but a series of choices that left you questioning your own judgment.After enough disappointments, something begins to happen. You stop trusting yourself. Yo
50. When You’re Doing Everything Right But Nothing Is Working
What do you do when you're making better decisions, trying to follow God, and putting in the effort, but the results you expected still aren't showing up?Episode SummaryHave you ever felt like you're doing all the right things, making better choices, praying for wisdom, working hard, and trying to honor God, yet nothing seems to be improving? In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Ber
49: Starting Over in Your 50's or 60's
What do you do when life changes in your 50s or 60s and everything you thought was stable suddenly isn’t?In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard unpack what it really means to start over later in life, not just externally with finances, career, or relationships, but internally with mindset, expectations, and faith. This conversation explores how God works through unexpected transitions, hel
48: When You Feel Like You’ve Wasted Too Much Time
Have you ever looked back and felt like too much of your life was spent in the wrong places, with the wrong priorities, or in seasons that didn’t seem to move you forward?In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk about regret, lost time, painful delays, and how God can still use the years that feel wasted to build wisdom, purpose, and a stronger future.What You’ll HearWhy regret can dist
47: How to Let Go of Control Without Losing Direction
What do you do when you feel like everything depends on you holding it all together?In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard tackle the tension many men face when life feels uncertain and out of control. When relationships shift, finances tighten, and direction becomes unclear, the instinct is often to push harder, take control, and try to manage every ou
46: When You’re Tired of Starting Over Again and Again
What do you do when it feels like life keeps knocking you back to the beginning?In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk honestly about the deep exhaustion that comes from having to start over more than once. Not just the kind of tired that sleep fixes, but the kind that settles into your spirit and makes you wonder how many more times you can do thi
45: When You Feel Left Behind In Life
Have you ever looked around and quietly wondered why it feels like everyone else is moving forward while you’re standing still?In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk honestly about the pain of feeling left behind in life. Whether it’s relationships, career progress, finances, healing, or purpose, this conversation speaks to that quiet ache that sho
44: Why Do I Need God to Start Over?
“Reinvent yourself.”“Take control of your life.”“Design the future you want.”“Build the life you deserve.”A lot of people believe starting over is mainly about working harder, planning better, and rebuilding life through personal determination. But in this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard challenge that mindset with a much deeper question: do we really understand how involved God already is
43: Waiting On God or Taking Action? How To Know The Difference
One of the hardest parts of starting over is knowing what to do next. Do you wait on God and trust His timing, or do you step out and take action in faith?In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk honestly about that tension many believers face during uncertain seasons. Whether you’re dealing with career change, financial rebuilding, relationship questions, or fear about the future, this
42: What To Do When You Don't Recognize Yourself
Have you ever looked at your life and thought, I don’t even recognize myself anymore?Sometimes that feeling comes after a painful season. Divorce, loss, betrayal, or a major life disruption can leave you feeling like the person you used to be no longer exists.But sometimes the opposite happens.You grow. You heal. You gain clarity and courage you didn’t have before. You start setting boundaries and
41: What If I’m Still Angry at God?
Feel like walking away from God?Don't think you can take it anymore?Anger toward God is one of the most uncomfortable emotions believers carry, and often one of the least talked about. In this episode,Tom Clairmont opens an honest conversation about what happens when faith feels strained, prayers feel heavy, and something between you and God just feels off. Rather than avoiding the tension, th
40: When Your Faith Is Hanging By A Thread
There are seasons when faith doesn’t feel strong, confident, or steady. It feels thin. Worn. Barely hanging on. In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard speak directly to listeners who still believe in God but feel exhausted, confused, or spiritually worn down. Drawing from personal experience and an honest conversation with Paul Berard, Tom reminds us that faith isn’t always loud or certain
39: What Used To Work Doesn't Anymore
Have you ever reached a point where you’re doing everything you know to do, but nothing seems to move forward anymore? You’re trying harder, being responsible, doing what worked before—and it’s just not working. In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talks honestly about that unsettling place where effort no longer produces results. Drawing from his own experience of starting over after di
38: Trusting God When Nothing Make Sense
Trusting God is easy when life is working. It gets much harder when pain lingers, prayers go unanswered, and nothing seems to move forward. In this episode, Tom Clairmont speaks honestly to the quiet questions many people carry during seasons of loss, disappointment, and confusion.Drawing from personal experience and Scripture, Tom creates space for real faith—faith that does not deny pain, rush h
37: Forgiving When You Still Feel Hurt
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREForgiveness often sounds right in theory but feels impossible in real life—especially when the pain runs deep. In this episode, Tom Clairmont speaks honestly about the internal struggle that comes when forgiveness feels unfair, premature, or emotionally out of reach. This conversation is not about pretending the hurt didn’t happen or rushing
36: Why Staying the Same Feels Safer Than Moving Forward
In this episode, Tom Clairmont and guest Paul Berard explore one of the most subtle struggles people face during major life transitions: the urge to recreate the past instead of stepping into something new. When life feels unstable, familiar patterns, relationships, and routines can feel safer, even if they were unhealthy or limiting.Tom and Paul unpack how nostalgia, fear, and a desire for contro
35: Finding Joy Again
After loss, betrayal, or a major life transition, enjoying life again can feel almost impossible. In this episode, Tom and Paul talk honestly about what joy really looks like after everything has fallen apart. This is not about forcing happiness or pretending the pain never happened. It’s about discovering how God gently restores joy through healing, worship, mindset renewal, and learning to live
34: Learning to Trust God Again After Everything Changed
This episode wraps up the 6-phase journey outlined in Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, bringing us into one of the most important—but often most difficult—steps: trusting God with the future.If you've been through loss, betrayal, or massive life changes, trusting again—yourself, others, and especially God—can feel like walking on shaky ground. But in this episode, we talk about how trust isn
33: Taking the Next Step When You Still Feel Stuck
Starting Over Phase 5: Moving ForwardIf you’ve been walking through pain, confusion, and the hard work of healing, you’ve likely reached a new crossroad—one that whispers, “It’s time to move forward.” But what does that even mean when you’re still tired, unsure, and carrying scars from the past? In this episode, Tom breaks down what forward movement really looks like after devastation. Not a leap.
32: Finding Hope After Too Many Disappointments
When life has knocked the wind out of you—through divorce, loss, addiction, or just long seasons of pain—hope can feel like a distant memory. But there comes a moment, even after the heartbreak and confusion, when something begins to shift. The fog lifts just enough to see a glimmer of light—and that’s when hope returns.In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk about what it means to tru
31: Why Healing Takes Longer Than You Expected (Part 2)
Starting Over Phase 3: It's Time To HealIn part two of this healing conversation, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard share what it really means to walk out the healing process with God’s presence. Healing isn’t an event—it’s a daily journey of forgiveness, prayer, community, and trust.Together they explore how salvation through Christ changes everything, why peace and wholeness come only from God,
30: Why Healing Takes Longer Than You Expected (Part 1)
In this first part of a two-part series on healing, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard tackle the question of why so many people try to recover from life’s deepest wounds without God—and why it never truly works.From workaholism and relationships to substances and distractions, they explore how temporary fixes can numb the pain but never restore the heart.With Scripture, personal stories, and practical
29: Finding God When You Don’t Feel Like Worshiping (Part 2)
Starting Over Phase 2: It's Time To WorshipCan Worship Really Help?In this follow-up to Part 1, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard dive deeper into the concept of worship—not as a Sunday morning event, but as a daily way of life. As the world feels more unstable, and the culture around us keeps shifting, worship becomes less of a performance and more of a lifeline.This episode explores what it look
28: Finding God When You Don’t Feel Like Worshiping (Part 1)
Can Worship Really Help?When life flips upside down—through divorce, grief, or any major life change—worship is often the last thing on your mind. But in today’s conversation, Tom and guest Paul Berard explore why worship might just need to be your first response.Recorded from Tom’s new home base in Portugal, this episode is filled with personal stories, hard truths, and biblical reminders about h
27: What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Pray Anymore | Starting Over -Prayer Part 2
The First Step of Starting Over: It's Time To PrayCan Prayer Really Help?In this follow-up episode, Tom and Paul dive deeper into the real meaning of prayer during life’s transitional seasons. Going beyond the basics of how or when to pray, they explore what it means to develop a sincere, intimate relationship with God through prayer.Whether you're navigating change, feeling spiritually dr
26: What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Pray Anymore | Starting Over -Prayer Part 1
The First Step of Starting Over: It's Time To Pray (Part 1)Can Prayer Really Help?In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 with God, we dig into the very first step of healing after a major life change: prayer. If you've ever felt like you're stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to go next, prayer isn’t just a last resort—it’s the beginning of rebuilding from the inside out.I’m jo
25: Moving On After Divorce
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREMoving On After DivorceSummaryIn this episode of Life 2.0 with God, we’re talking honestly about what it means to move forward after a divorce. This life transition can shake your identity, your family life, and your faith. But it’s not the end of your story.We’ll explore what it looks like to rebuild with God’s help—rediscovering who you ar
24: Healing After Betrayal When Trust Feels Broken
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREHealing After a Major Betrayal: How to Forgive, Protect Your Heart, and Rebuild with GraceSummary:Betrayal cuts deep—especially when it comes from someone you trusted. In this heartfelt episode, Tom shares from personal experience what it means to walk the long road of healing after a major betrayal. Whether you’ve been hurt by a friend, a s
23: Why Anxiety Hits Hardest During Life Transitions
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREDealing With Anxiety During TransitionSummaryIn today’s episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom and guest Paul Berard unpack the very real struggle of managing anxiety during major life transitions.Whether it’s a sudden loss, an unexpected move, becoming an empty nester, or walking through grief—these moments shake our routines and
22: Is It Safe to Dream Again After Disappointment?
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREHow Can I Ever Dream Again?SummaryIn this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom sits down with Paul Berard to talk about something that quietly affects so many of us—what to do when life has knocked the wind out of your dreams. After going through major disappointments, failures, or betrayals, dreaming again can feel risky. Even
21: The Loneliness No One Talks About After Loss or Divorce
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERESummaryIn today’s episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, we’re getting real about something many people struggle with but don’t always talk about—loneliness after a breakup or divorce.Tom opens up about his own experience with the silence that follows a relationship ending, how it hit harder than expected, and what helped him move thr
20: How Can I Be Sure of Anything When Everything Changed?
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERESummaryIn this episode of Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God, we dive into the uncomfortable but inevitable topic of uncertainty. Whether you're navigating a life transition, facing a difficult decision, or just wondering what your next step should be, this conversation will speak to the heart of the struggle.Tom and guest Paul Berard expl
19: Learning Patience During Life Transitions
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERESummary:In this episode of Starting Over: Life 2.0 with God, we take an honest look at what it means to practice patience in seasons of transition. Whether you're stepping out of a major life crisis, navigating uncertainty, or waiting for God to open the next door, the in-between can feel confusing and discouraging.Joined by my friend Pa
18: Starting Over Without Alcohol
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERESummary:In this episode of Starting Over Life 2.0 with God, Tom sits down with Kari Schwear, founder of GrayTonic, to unpack the often-overlooked space between social drinking and alcoholism—what she calls “gray area drinking.”Kari shares her personal journey of breaking free from that gray zone, how her faith reignited in the process, and w
17: Dealing with Rejection in Life
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERESummaryRejection is something we all experience, and it’s never easy. Whether it’s a job loss, a failed relationship, or a missed opportunity, rejection can leave us feeling stuck and questioning our worth.But what if rejection isn’t an end—what if it’s God’s way of redirecting us toward something better? In this episode, we’ll explore how t
16: Rebuilding Trust When It’s Been Shattered
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREStarting Over: How to Rebuild Trust—In Others and YourselfSummary: In this episode of Life 2.0 with God, Tom is joined by his good friend Paul Berard to talk about one of the hardest parts of starting over: learning how to trust again. After betrayal, broken relationships, or disappointing situations, trusting others—and even trusting yourse
15: Why Did God Let This Happen?
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREStarting Over: Why Did God Let It Happen?Have you ever wondered why certain things, relationships, or opportunities seem to slip away—especially when you thought they were meant to be? It can feel frustrating, confusing, and even painful. But what if God’s removals are actually His redirections?In this episode, we’ll explore how God’s plan i
14: Why the Past Is Harder to Leave Than You Expected
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREEpisode Summary: Breaking Free from the PastWe all have things in our past that try to hold us back—mistakes, failures, painful relationships, or even words spoken over us. It can feel like carrying around a heavy suitcase that we just can’t seem to put down. But here’s the truth: Your past doesn’t define you.In this episode, we’ll talk abou
13: The Emotional Rollercoaster of Starting Over
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREStarting Over With Emotional Ups and DownsEpisode Summary: Starting over comes with emotional highs and lows—one moment you feel excited about a fresh start, and the next, you’re overwhelmed with doubt and uncertainty. Sound familiar? The good news is that this rollercoaster is completely normal. Learning how to navigate it with faith, self-
12: Starting Over After a Career Setback You Didn’t Expect
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREWhy You Should ListenA career setback can feel like a punch to the gut—whether it’s losing a job, missing out on a promotion, or realizing that your current path isn’t where you belong. It’s not just about the paycheck; it’s about identity, security, and confidence. In this episode, Tom Clairmont shares his personal experiences with unexpect
11: It Wasn't Supposed To Be This Way
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERESummary: Have you ever looked at your life and thought, It wasn’t supposed to be this way? Maybe you had a vision for your future—your relationships, career, or faith—but things have taken a completely different turn. When life doesn’t go according to plan, it’s easy to feel frustrated, stuck, or even hopeless.In this episode, Tom Clairmont
10: The Money Crisis
Starting Over: The Money CrisisEpisode Summary:Why You Should ListenFinancial struggles can feel overwhelming, isolating, and even shameful. Whether it’s due to job loss, unexpected expenses, divorce, or past financial mistakes, money troubles have a way of shaking our confidence and sense of security. But you’re not alone. In this episode, Tom Clairmont shares his personal journey of rebuilding f
9: Finding Purpose When You Feel Directionless
Have you ever felt like your sense of purpose has slipped away? Maybe it happened after retirement, when the kids left home, or after a painful loss. Suddenly, the identity and direction you once had feel uncertain, and you're left wondering, What now?In this episode, Tom Clairmont shares his personal journey of losing and rediscovering purpose after a major life transition. Through real-life
8: Starting Over With Nothing and No Clear Plan
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREIn this deeply personal episode, Tom Clairmont dives into the challenges of starting over when life feels like it’s fallen apart. Drawing from his own experiences of hitting rock bottom—facing financial struggles, emotional setbacks, and a complete loss of direction—Tom shares the lessons he learned about rebuilding with faith, resilience, a
7: When It Feels Like God is Silent
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREIn this deeply reflective episode, we tackle one of the most challenging aspects of faith: those seasons when it feels like God is silent. If you’ve ever prayed, cried, or begged for clarity, only to feel met with silence, you’re not alone. Through personal stories, biblical insights, and a meaningful discussion with guest Paul Berard, we’ll
6: Finding Courage When Fear Won’t Let Go of You
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREIn this empowering episode of Life 2.0 with God, host, Tom Clairmont tackles the universal experience of fear—whether it’s fear of failure, rejection, the unknown, or even success. Sharing personal stories and biblical insights, he reminds listeners that courage isn’t about being fearless; it’s about choosing to move forward despite the fear
5: Who Am I Now? Finding Your New Identity
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREIn this insightful episode of Starting Over: Life 2.0 with God, Tom addresses the difficult yet essential journey of rediscovering your identity after experiencing a significant life change. Whether it's divorce, the loss of a loved one, retirement, or an empty nest, major transitions often leave us questioning, "Who am I now?"To
4: Learning to Live With Grief After Loss Without Rushing Healing
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREIn this episode of Life 2.0 with God, Tom explores the challenging journey of navigating grief after loss. Whether it stems from the death of a loved one, divorce, or another significant separation, grief profoundly impacts our emotions, relationships, and daily lives.Tom discusses the five stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depressi
3: Letting Go of the Life You Thought You’d Have
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREIn this heartfelt episode of Life 2.0 with God, Tom dives into the emotional process of letting go of the past and dreams that didn’t come to pass. He discusses how life's unexpected turns—whether through divorce, loss, or career setbacks—can leave us mourning the future we once envisioned.Drawing from personal experience and biblical wi
2: When Life Feels Like It’s Falling Apart
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HEREIn this episode, we explore the overwhelming moments when life feels like it’s falling apart. Whether you’re facing the loss of a relationship, a sudden career change, or an unfulfilled dream, it can feel like the foundation of your life is crumbling.Drawing from my personal journey and timeless biblical truths, I’ll walk you through underst
Trailer | Welcome to the Life 2-0 With God Podcast
Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon-HEREStarting Over | Life 2.0 With God, with host Tom ClairmontLet’s be honest—life doesn’t always go as planned, does it? Sometimes, everything feels stable, and then, all of a sudden…your world is turned upside down. A divorce. A job loss. A relationship falling apart. Or maybe, it’s the quiet pain of feeling stuck, like the life you’re living i
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